Ever feel like your kids walk straight past overflowing laundry baskets, open doors, or lights blazing—and simply don’t see it? You’re not imagining things. In this episode, Justin and Kylie share the hilarious (and slightly painful!) truth about raising kids who swear they’re “contributing”… while the adults quietly carry the load.

This feel-good Friday wrap-up dives into family meetings, chore systems that actually work, and the emotional load parents carry as we crawl toward the end of the year. It’s honest, relatable, and packed with practical ideas to help your kids step up—no nagging required.

KEY POINTS

• Why teens truly believe they’re contributing (and why parents disagree).
• The difference between helping when asked and true initiative.
• How a simple four-station chore system brought calm back to the household.
• The real reason parents burn out at the end of the year.
• Why “don’t give up” might be the most important parenting rule of all.
• How family meetings create clarity, connection, and accountability—even with adult kids.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Contribution is about initiative—eyes open, notice, and act.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• Family meeting questions: What’s going well? What’s not? What do we want to focus on?
• eSafety Commissioner updates on minimum age for social media platforms
• Happy Families resources at happyfamilies.com.au

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

1. Hold a quick family meeting—15 minutes max—with the three guiding questions.
2. Introduce clusters instead of chores (laundry, floors, kitchen, bathrooms).
3. Give kids longer rotations (weekly or monthly) to build mastery and responsibility.
4. Reframe contribution as noticing—not waiting.
5. Stay consistent: gentle reminders aren’t failure; they’re part of the process.

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Kids are begging for e-scooters and e-bikes this Christmas—but the rise in catastrophic injuries tells a very different story. In this episode, Dr Justin Coulson breaks down the shocking stats, the hidden dangers, and the conversations every parent must have before saying yes. This is the episode every parent needs to hear before heading to the checkout.

KEY POINTS

• Emergency departments are seeing a surge in serious e-scooter injuries—many life-threatening.
• Speed, illegal modifications, and lack of helmets are driving the spike.
• Developmentally, most kids and young teens are not ready for the risks.
• Laws vary widely across Australia and haven’t caught up to the tech.
• Pros vs cons: independence vs genuinely dangerous speeds and environments.
• What parents can do: age limits, non-negotiable rules, and real-world consequences.
  
  

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Right now we’re running a massive, uncontrolled experiment on our kids’ safety.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• Local state road rules for e-bikes and e-scooters
• Happy Families resources at happyfamilies.com.au

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

1. Delay the purchase—ideally until at least age 16.
2. Start small: ensure your child can safely handle a standard bike/scooter first.
3. Set iron-clad rules: helmets, no doubling, no night riding, no road riding, no phone use.
4. Inspect regularly for illegal modifications or unsafe setups.
5. Have the big conversation: talk openly about risks, responsibility, and real-world consequences.

Use meaningful, consistent consequences when rules are broken.

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Are we turning ordinary childhood struggles into “disorders”? In this gripping conversation with child psychiatrist Dr Sami Timimi, we unpack the rise of ADHD, autism, anxiety — and the cultural story that’s quietly reshaping how parents see their kids. If you’ve ever wondered whether your child actually needs a diagnosis or just needs more connection, this episode will hit home.

Dr Timimi challenges the medicalisation of childhood, explains how labels can limit hope, and offers four powerful principles for supporting kids without pathologising them. This one will stay with you.

KEY POINTS

• Why “normal” is a moving target — and why that matters for parents.
• How subjective definitions in mental health fuel overdiagnosis.
• The risks of labels: internalised identity, lowered expectations, and unnecessary interventions.
• Four parent principles:
1. Don’t try too hard — avoid the trap of hunting for problems.
2. Don’t fear emotions — distress is part of growing up.
3. Prioritise relationship over behaviour control.
4. Beware concept creep — when clinical words invade everyday parenting.
• What’s driving the explosion in ADHD, autism, and neurodiversity narratives.
• Why today’s kids may be the most pathologised generation in history.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“When distress is medicalised, it steals our hope.” — Dr Sami Timimi

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• Searching for Normal by Dr Sami Timimi
• Insane Medicine by Dr Sami Timimi
• Happy Families resources: happyfamilies.com.au

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

1. Pause before pursuing a label — ask what your child might be expressing, not what disorder they “fit.”
2. Create more emotional space — sit with their feelings instead of fixing them.
3. Strengthen connection rituals — closeness buffers distress.
4. Use everyday language — avoid clinical terms for normal childhood behaviours.
5. Look at the environment first — school, stress, sleep, and relationships often explain what diagnoses can’t.

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Kids have a magical way of asking the biggest questions at the most unexpected moments. In this episode, we walk you through exactly how to respond when your six-year-old suddenly wants to know how a baby gets into Mum’s tummy—without oversharing, freezing, or fumbling. You’ll learn the calm, clear, developmentally-appropriate way to keep curiosity open, connection strong, and panic levels low.

KEY POINTS

• Why kids ask tricky questions earlier than we expect
• How to give truthful but minimal info that fits their age
• The “glass of water, not a fire hose” rule
• How to delay the conversation gracefully when you need time
• Why your response now decides if they’ll keep coming to you later
• Simple language you can use with a six-year-old
• Teaching kids that these chats belong at home—not the playground

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Answer the question your child is asking—no more, no less.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• Where Do Babies Come From? by Michelle Mitchell
• A Girl’s Guide to Puberty – Michelle Mitchell
• A Guy’s Guide to Puberty – Michelle Mitchell

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

1. Keep answers short, truthful, and developmentally-appropriate.
2. Use correct anatomical terms without going into extra detail.
3. If you’re unprepared, buy time: “That’s a great question—let’s talk with Mum/Dad together.”
4. Set clear boundaries: these conversations happen at home, not with friends.
5. Revisit the topic later as your child grows and becomes ready for more.

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What if the secret to calmer kids, stronger families, and better mental health was free—and we’re the only country ignoring it? In this episode, Justin and Kylie make a bold case for bringing Thanksgiving to Australia… minus the turkey. Discover the neuroscience of gratitude, why it’s a proven buffer against anxiety and depression, and how one simple family ritual can transform your year.

KEY POINTS

• The surprising research: gratitude can reduce mortality by 9% and dramatically improve mental health.
• How gratitude rewires the brain—calming the amygdala and boosting emotional connection.
• Why Australians struggle with vulnerability, ritual, and expressed appreciation.
• How a simple gratitude practice can shift your home from reactive to relational.
• Easy, meaningful ways to host “Australian Thanksgiving” without any fuss.
• The power of modelling gratitude for kids (and why lectures never work).

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“We can’t control what happens to us, but we can control where we place our attention—and gratitude changes everything.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• Harvard gratitude research (2024)
• Neuroscience findings on the ACC, medial prefrontal cortex & amygdala
• Kylie’s gratitude journal practice and gratitude tree idea
• 6 Science-Backed Benefits of Gratitude [Article]
• How Gratitude Can Make Your Family Happier [Podcast Article] 

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

1. Start a family ritual this week—one to three things you’re grateful for.
2. Keep it kid-friendly: a gratitude tree, backyard dessert night, or paddle-pop party.
3. Record your gratitude in a notebook or on your phone to revisit next year.
4. Model vulnerability by sharing something meaningful, not just the generic stuff.
5. Make it small, simple, and doable—the ritual matters more than the menu.

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A huge week in the Coulson household — ADHD dilemmas, graduation milestones, big Roblox safety updates, and a brutally honest conversation about whether homeschooling is finally over. In this episode, we unpack the emotional load of parenting when life feels stretched thin, and why the choices we make for our kids rarely come with simple answers.

KEY POINTS

• ADHD medications, family wellbeing, and the real question behind parental burnout
• Why “child problems” are often “environment problems”
• A major Roblox safety update parents need to know about
• Graduation highs, formal prep… and food poisoning
• A heartfelt mother–daughter conversation about going back to school
• How exploration conversations help kids feel heard (and make decisions they trust)

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

"We’ve got to stop blaming the child — most of the time it’s not a child problem, it’s an environment problem."

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• ADHD episode (“Halloween ADHD Overdiagnosis”)
• Sammy Tamimi’s Searching for Normal and Naughty Boys
• Happy Families Podcast feedback: [email protected]

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

• Pause and ask: Is this really a child issue, or is the environment overstretched?
• Revisit routines — sleep, movement, screens, food — before jumping to quick fixes
• Try an “exploration conversation” with your child when emotions are high
• Stay curious, not certain — especially with big decisions
• Monitor new Roblox age-check and chat-safety changes if gaming is in your home

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Schoolies can feel like a runaway train of risk, pressure, and “everyone else is doing it.” But your teen does have options—ones that are safer, more meaningful, and genuinely unforgettable.

In this episode, Justin and Kylie share powerful ways to reframe the end-of-Year-12 celebration, build intention, and offer your teen experiences they’ll remember for all the right reasons. From once-in-a-lifetime trips to simple, joy-filled adventures closer to home, you’ll get practical, confidence-boosting ideas you can start planning at any age.

KEY POINTS

• Why schoolies culture isn’t a rite of passage your teen needs.
• How intention and values help guide safer, healthier choices.
• Clever alternatives that still feel exciting, independent, and celebratory.
• Trips with parents, extended family, or friend groups that build connection — not chaos.
• Affordable options, big-dream options, and ways to start planning years ahead.
• How to talk to kids about celebrations while honouring freedom and safety.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“High school is done — that is worth celebrating. But celebration doesn’t have to mean chaos. It can be meaningful, memorable, and still full of freedom.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• 5 Essential Conversations to Have With Your Teen Before Schoolies [Article]
• Get Set for Schoolies withPaul Dillon [Podcast Episode] 
• Community & church-run schoolies alternatives
• Family traditions like “Sweet Sixteen Trips”

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

1. Start the conversation early — schoolies ideas form long before Year 12.
2. Ask your teen what they want from an end-of-school celebration (freedom? adventure? connection?).
3. Brainstorm alternatives that align with your family values and your teen’s personality.
4. If planning a bigger trip, start saving as a team — years ahead if possible.
5. Explore friend-group or community-group options to add excitement, safety, and shared memories.
6. Remind your teen that opting out of schoolies isn’t missing out — it can be levelling up.

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If your tween or teen feels stuck, scared of failure, or glued to their screen, this episode will change everything. Education innovator Chris Balme reveals why adolescence is the second great brain-growth window — and why kids today desperately need more real-world challenges, not more protection.

A powerful, hopeful conversation about autonomy, resilience, and helping young people feel big, brave, and capable again.

KEY POINTS

• Why ages 11–16 are a critical “second toddlerhood” of brain growth
• How autonomy builds confidence (and why modern kids get too little)
• The danger of overprotection and structured everything
• What a good challenge looks like vs. a stress-inducing one
• How to help risk-averse teens stretch themselves — without forcing
• Why peers, not parents, are the secret to motivation
• Real examples of challenges that transformed kids

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“When we don’t trust our adolescents, they stop trusting us.” — Chris Balme

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• Challenge Accepted by Chris Balme
• Argonaut: Online advisory program for middle schoolers
• Millennium School + Hakuba International School

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

1. Fuel autonomy: Let your tween choose a meaningful challenge this week.
2. Enlist peers: Hook them in through a friend, not parental pressure.
3. Normalise failure: Remind them adolescence is the best time to mess up safely.
4. Reduce overprotection: Give back small freedoms — walking, biking, exploring.
5. Model vulnerability: Share your own unfinished, imperfect self.

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If your eight-year-old won’t walk into another room without you, this episode will change everything. Justin and Kylie unpack what’s really going on beneath “irrational” childhood fears—and why pushing independence backfires. Instead, you’ll hear the science of secure attachment, relatable stories, and simple steps that make your child braver because you’ve got their back.

KEY POINTS

• Your child’s fear isn’t irrational—it’s real to them.
• Why forcing independence increases fear and dependence.
• Resilience is relational: kids become brave when they feel safe.
• How modelling your own fears helps kids face theirs.
• Four practical, developmentally sound ideas to reduce anxiety and build confidence.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Force creates resistance. The more we push independence, the more our kids cling.”

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

1. Go with them—compassion beats coercion.
2. Skip the praise for doing things alone; it creates pressure.
3. Trust development—he’ll grow into independence naturally.
4. Stay curious—watch for any underlying stressors or changes.

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We watched YouTube Kids for a week — and what we discovered will make you rethink what “family-friendly” really means. From brain-rotting toy ads to troubling messages about body image, Justin and Kylie pull back the curtain on the world’s biggest kids’ platform. They share what’s really happening behind the glossy PR and how parents can protect their children’s developing minds without banning screens altogether.

KEY POINTS:

• Why YouTube Kids isn’t as “safe” as it claims to be
• The shocking example of a video promoting unhealthy body messages to young viewers
• How YouTube’s algorithm traps kids in endless loops of commercialised “slop”
• The staggering amount of time humanity spends watching YouTube — and what that means for our kids
• What intentional viewing looks like (and how to teach it)
• Why ABC Kids is still the gold standard for healthy, enriching screen time

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:

“Every single day, over 114,000 years of content is consumed on YouTube. That’s not just a statistic — that’s a snapshot of our children’s attention.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

• The Sunday Times article by Stephanie Thompson on YouTube Kids
• ABC Kids App (recommended for quality, curated viewing)

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:

1. Sit down and watch what your child is actually watching — even for 10 minutes.
2. Switch from passive viewing to intentional viewing: search for specific, quality content together.
3. Use ABC Kids or pre-approved playlists instead of relying on algorithmic recommendations.
4. Have a conversation about how YouTube makes money — and why that matters.
5. Set screen time limits that prioritise creativity and real-world play.

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