In this episode, our host sits down with Nimi Lolu to explore her inspiring journey from a conventional engineering career to becoming a successful content creator. They delve into the transformative challenges and triumphs she encountered along the way, with a particular focus on mental health, identity, and cultural representation.

Cultural Roots and Identity:

Nimi’s reflections on her Kenyan heritage and her life in America after moving from Nigeria at age eight.

The cultural and identity struggles she faced, and how these shaped her perspective.

Corporate Disillusionment:

Experiences of feeling undervalued as a woman in traditional corporate environments.

The decision to leave engineering in pursuit of a more fulfilling career in content creation.

Finding Fulfillment Online:

Contrast between online acceptance and past experiences of bullying.

The role of self-confidence and personal expression, particularly through fashion and beauty, in finding personal happiness.

Mental Health and Relationships:

Nimi’s advocacy for mental health awareness and the importance of therapy.

The positive influence of a supportive partner in overcoming depression and content creation challenges.

Resilience in Content Creation:

The impact of her candid video on privilege and comparison, and its resonance with viewers.

Challenges faced by black women in gaining visibility and success.

Importance of persistence, authenticity, and reassessment of strategies.

Mindful Consumption and Personal Values:

Promotion of the initiative “use what you have at home,” emphasizing mindful consumption.

Aligning product promotions with personal values for authenticity.

Nature and Spirituality:

The restorative benefits of connecting with nature and engaging in outdoor activities.

The practice of spiritual fasting, especially during significant times like Easter.

Takeaway Messages:

Prioritize personal happiness and self-confidence over societal expectations.

Value emotional understanding and address mental health issues through therapy.

Embrace authenticity and resilience in all pursuits.

Practice mindful consumption and stay true to personal values.

Connect with nature for mental and spiritual rejuvenation.

Call to Action:

Reflect on your own career and personal journey. Are there areas where you feel undervalued or unfulfilled?

Consider the importance of mental health and seek support if needed.

Engage with nature and find small ways to connect with the outdoors.

Explore mindful consumption habits and make a conscious effort to use what you have at home.

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Follow Nimi on her social media platforms for more insights and inspiration on fashion, beauty, and personal growth.

Tune in to hear more about Nimilolu’s incredible journey and the valuable lessons she shares from her experiences.

In this engaging podcast episode, we explore the challenges of starting anew and the importance of embracing imperfection in creative projects. Our host shares personal struggles with consistency, self-doubt, and the pressure of comparing to others, leading to feelings of discouragement and a break from creating content. By reflecting on an artist who stopped making music, the discussion highlights the need for self-discovery and strategic thinking in a capitalist society, urging listeners to stay true to themselves. We also discuss the impact of past relationships on self-esteem and personal growth, stressing the importance of not comparing oneself to others. Inspired by JT’s success, the host advocates for perseverance and authenticity in creative endeavors, even when facing depression and societal judgment. Furthermore, a Kenyan American guest addresses political issues in Kenya, criticizing President Ruto’s proposed bill that could increase poverty by raising taxes on essential goods. The episode praises Gen Z and millennials for protesting against the bill and examines the unfairness of leaders suppressing the populace for personal gain. This segment also highlights the positive connection between older and younger generations in the movement for change, expressing pride in being part of this struggle. Key Topics Covered:

Overcoming self-doubt and inconsistency in creative projects

Embracing imperfection and staying true to oneself

The impact of past relationships on self-esteem Inspiration from JT’s success and the importance of perseverance

Political issues in Kenya and the proposed tax increase on essential goods

The role of Gen Z and millennials in social activism

Solidarity between generations in the fight for change

Join us as we delve into these powerful themes and encourage you to keep striving despite imperfections

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We’re joined by the multi-talented Kevonna Rose, who shares her insightful journey through the complexities of modern dating, personal growth, the essence of authenticity, and the challenges faced by artists in today’s digital world. Here’s a glimpse into the profound discussions that take place:

Modern Dating and Social Media’s Impact

Kevana opens up about how social media has reshaped dating behaviors across generations, offering a unique perspective on the search for genuine connections in the digital era.

The Pursuit of Self-Awareness and Individuality

The conversation takes a deep dive into the journey of self-discovery, emphasizing the importance of staying true to oneself amidst the noise of societal expectations.

Overcoming Life’s Hurdles

Kevana shares her personal battles with depression, the intricacies of motherhood and music, her experiences with divorce, a diagnosis of multiple sclerosis, and the pressures of work, offering listeners a beacon of hope and resilience.

Mental Health and the Healing Power of Music

Post-pandemic mental health struggles and the therapeutic role of songwriting are discussed, highlighting how Kevana uses her music to navigate feelings of detachment and sadness.

Love, Relationships, and Personal Growth

The significance of growth within relationships and the cautious approach to understanding a partner before committing deeply are explored, providing listeners with insights into maintaining healthy and supportive relationships.

Aspiring to Inspire

Kevana’s determination to succeed in the music industry without sacrificing her aspirations, aiming to be a positive role model for her children, is both inspiring and motivational.

The 5-Song EP: A Journey Through Music

The creation of a 5-song EP in just six months is discussed as a medium for stress management, tackling hidden depression among high-functioning individuals, and the benefits of therapy and counseling.

Music as a Reflection of Life

Tracks like “Autopilot” and “Alchemy” from the EP are dissected, revealing themes of transformation, peace through faith, and the strength found in adversity.

Spirituality and Inner Peace

Kevana shares her spiritual journey, underscoring the role of gratitude, maintaining a positive outlook, and fulfilling commitments as pillars for achieving inner peace.

Looking Forward

The episode wraps up with excitement for the future, including Kevana’s upcoming performance at the Brooklyn Art House and the release of a new song titled “Saturdays,” symbolizing her relentless commitment to her art, personal development, and supporting others on their journey.

Join us as Kevana Rose weaves a story of struggle, growth, and triumph, providing listeners with valuable lessons on navigating the challenges of life with grace and authenticity.

In this conversation, Pennie and Hugh Massie discuss the role of money and wealth management in people's lives. Hugh shares his journey from being an accountant to becoming a behavioral solutions architect. They explore the mindset and beliefs of wealthy individuals and how they think differently about money. They also discuss the importance of defining success beyond financial wealth and the impact of wealth on children. Hugh emphasizes the need to understand one's money personality and the three dimensions of money: currency, behavior, and beliefs. They conclude by highlighting the illusion of money and material possessions and the importance of finding fulfillment beyond financial success. The conversation explores the themes of finding happiness beyond material wealth, making better choices for a different life, talking about money freely and easily, continuing the journey to financial growth, and finding peace of mind.

Takeaways

Money is not the sole determinant of success and fulfillment in life.

Understanding one's money personality and beliefs is crucial for financial well-being.

Wealthy individuals think differently about money and focus on human contribution and purpose.

The mindset and beliefs around money can impact mental health and overall well-being.

Defining success based on personal values and goals is more important than financial wealth.

The impact of wealth on children should be carefully managed to avoid entitlement and lack of purpose.

Material possessions and wealth do not guarantee happiness and fulfillment. Material wealth does not guarantee happiness; it is important to find fulfillment in experiences and relationships.

Making better choices involves setting clear goals, being open to change, and investing in personal growth.

Talking about money can be challenging, but it is important to have open and honest conversations with friends and family to avoid misunderstandings and resentment.

Continuing the journey to financial growth requires staying focused on personal goals, being flexible, and surrounding oneself with supportive and like-minded individuals.

Finding peace of mind involves taking time for self-reflection, practicing mindfulness, and maintaining a positive outlook on the future.

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This episode, featuring insights from black millennial therapists: Audra Lee & Kaiya Fine. We delve into the intertwining themes of forgiveness and boundaries. Below are the key takeaways from this enlightening discussion:

Holistic Therapy: The conversation opens with a discussion on the holistic approach to therapy, considering race and gender as crucial factors. This perspective is central to the episode, acknowledging the unique challenges faced by individuals when dealing with mental health.

Forgiveness and Boundaries: We explore the intricacies of forgiveness, especially in the context of personal boundaries. The episode breaks down how societal expectations can often complicate the establishment and maintenance of these boundaries within relationships.

Self-Compassion and Accountability: The therapists highlight the need for self-compassion in the journey towards forgiveness, and how allowing space for accountability can be transformative.

Parental Wounds: An in-depth analysis of how parental wounds can affect one’s ability to forgive and love themselves is presented. This section resonates with many listeners who carry the weight of their past.

Communication and Compromise: Healthy relationships are put under the microscope, emphasizing the importance of communication and compromise, as well as the act of setting boundaries as a sign of self-respect and mutual understanding.

Manipulative Behaviors: The episode doesn’t shy away from discussing the darker aspects of relationships, including gaslighting, narcissism, and love bombing. The therapists share their expertise on recognizing these patterns and the importance of enforcing boundaries to protect one’s mental health.

Empowerment in Therapy: A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to the role of client empowerment during therapy sessions. The importance of open communication between therapist and client is stressed, highlighting how this fosters a sense of agency in clients.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding the complex dance between forgiveness and setting boundaries, and how these elements play a crucial role in our mental health and relationships. Join Dead The Silence, Pennie Anassi, and our esteemed therapists for a thought-provoking session that promises to enlighten, empower, and encourage listeners to prioritize their mental wellbeing.

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Introduction:

Meet Stephanie, an ex-lawyer whose career path took an unconventional turn from the courtroom to the creative world of YouTube.

Stephanie’s Journey:

Stephanie opens up about her transition from entertainment and tech law to becoming a content creator.

She dives into her personal struggle of not fitting into a single professional box due to her diverse interests.

Challenges of Content Creation:

Discover the realities behind Stephanie’s content creation process, including the hurdles of live streaming and finding the right niche.

Learn about Stephanie’s philosophy on prioritizing long-term fulfillment over immediate success.

Defying Expectations:

Stephanie reflects on the tough decision to leave her legal career, challenging societal norms and expectations.

She shares insights into the particular pressures young black women face regarding educational and career choices in law.

Practical Advice:

Stephanie emphasizes the importance of gaining real-world experience before pursuing advanced education, especially for those uncertain about their career direction.

Mental Health and Transition:

Hear how therapy played a critical role in Stephanie’s career transition.

Stephanie contrasts her negative experiences with abusive bosses with her positive internships in the legal sector.

Content Preferences:

Stephanie discusses her preference for long-form content and how it enables a thorough exploration of ideas.

She critiques the negative aspects of short-form content platforms like TikTok, which can foster a culture of judgment.

Educational Responsibility:

Stephanie talks about using her platform to educate her audience responsibly, focusing on factual information.

Personal Reflections:

Stephanie shares poignant reflections on the disillusionment with the American dream, illustrated by her father’s experiences as a truck driver.

The discussion touches on the physical and mental health implications of such demanding careers.

Health Tips:

Stephanie mentions the use of ashwagandha as a helpful supplement for managing stress and anxiety.

Conclusion:

Join Stephanie as she navigates the complexities of her dual identity as a legal expert and a pop culture commentator on her “Wine and Chill” YouTube channel.

In this episode, I offer my reflections and thoughts that I will go into the new year with. I invite my audience to live the BS in 2023 and embrace 2024 with open arms.

Here are the show highlights:

Solo Reflections: I discuss the show’s format that weaves between solo episodes and guest features. I bring up the insightful discussion with Lama on “The Psychology Of An Ex” from the previous episode, illustrating the show’s depth and diversity (CHECK IT OUT, if you haven’t already!)

With a spontaneous spirit, I approach this episode without a script. I believe in the power of authentic engagement, setting the stage for an unfiltered conversation with my listeners.

Kenyan Adventures: I update you all on my transformative month-and-a-half-long trip to Kenya. I talk about the rejuvenation that I’m feeling, highlighting how travel can offer a fresh perspective and a reset for the mind and soul.

A Fresh Mindset for 2024: Shifting away from dwelling on the past, I am embracing personal growth, self-reflection, and accountability. I invites my listeners to do the same with 7 thoughts that will help us have the best 2024! join her in this mindset shift as they step into the new year.

New Frequencies and Celebrations: The episode isn’t just about self-improvement; it’s also about joy and connections. I share my experience attending a wedding in Kenya, symbolizing the new relationships and experiences that feed into my new sense of renewal and optimism.

Looking Ahead: I set the tone for the future episodes of the podcast, I promise more honest discussions, unique perspectives from guests, and personal stories that resonate with the core theme of embracing change and finding joy in new beginnings.

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Relationships, break ups, and ex’s can teach you so much about yourself. Close relationships are like a mirror and if you are haling and evolving you know that each break up leads to a break through.

On this episode I am joined by Lama from the infamous Views Of An Ex Podcast. Therapy can come in many forms, even in the form of listening in to someones story about an ex relationship that went south and changed their life forever. We get to know the host behind Views Of An EX and discuss the lessons learned from his show.

We also discuss:

The main causes for breakups

The Pour Minds Podcast

Comparing Yourself In Your 30’s

Being A Jack of All Trades/Multi-hyphenate

Identifying red flags

The No Contact Rule

Healing After A Break Up

Crazy Relationship Stories

Open Relationships

Waiting Until Marriage

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I'm just venting TBH, the past 2 weeks haven't been the best but we are already feeling better! I also talk gratefulness, Cardi B on Genocide, & other randomness!

OUR DISCUSSION AIMS TO EXPLORE THE MULTIFACETED ASPECTS OF SELF-WORTH AND SELF-ESTEEM OUTSIDE THE CONTEXT OF ONE'S CAREER. WE WILL DELVE INTO WHO WE ARE OUTSIDE OF WHAT WE DO. HOW CAN WE ENSURE THAT WE ARE HOLISTIC INDIVIDUALS WHO LOVE OURSELVES AND OTHERS REGARDLESS OF OUR PRODUCTIVITY AND JOB TITLES? WHAT PRACTICES CAN HELP US GROW IN OTHER AREAS OUTSIDE THE WORKSPACE, AND HOW CAN WE REMAIN HAPPY AND PROUD OF OURSELVES EVEN IN SEASONS WHERE WE ARE NOT OUTWARDLY "WINNING"?

Moderators: Pennie Anassi (@penniepeace) & Prerna Manchanda (@prernamanch)

Panelists: Jaconna Jacobs, Julius Stukes Jr, Anthony Duncan, & Liz Beecroft

Light bites & drinks will be provided. Drink Responsibly.

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