In this episode Georgie & Engrid unpack this feeling that can arise in a relationship where you feel (often subconsciously) like you have to live up to expectations, play a role - in a sense be "perfect" - in order for the relationship to really work. Usually we aren't aware of these feelings and inadvertently assume a role in order to either prevent people from leaving, or to be revered by someone else. As with most topics on Gal Pals it's nuanced. We hope this convo resonates with you!

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QUESTIONS IN THIS EPISODE:

Do you have people in your life you feel like you can be 100% yourself with? (like the good bad and UGLY)

Did you see healthy conflict modeled growing up?

How did the style of conflict you saw impact how you showed up in relationships?

In a romantic relationship what would happen when you made a big mistake (or the other person did)? (do you tend to withdraw or over engage)

Has that changed at all?

How does it feel in your body when you hurt a friend or partner or someone you love? (what do you do with that feeling)

What does being a perfect friend look like to you?

What happens when you make a mistake in a new(ish) friendship?