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• courtneylovegavin.com
• Power of Paradox ep. 143
• Navigating Advocacy As A Perfectionist (Ep. 1 Self-Advocacy Series)
• Sunk Cost Fallacy (Ep. 2  Self-Advocacy  Series)
• Medical Gaslighting + Misdiagnosis (Ep. 3 Self-Advocacy Series)
• How To Let Go Of Perfectionism (Shame Avoidance) ep. 145

00:00-Striving becomes Self-sabotage

04:15-Once Upon A Perfectionist named CLG

6:06-Black and white thinking

10:38-How to stop overthinking

12:22-Embodied Presence Interoception Connection (E.P.I.C. Framework™)

13:20-Shifting from Shame Avoidance to Satisfying Success

14:42-Practice Makes Permanent

15:51-Intrusive Thoughts

17:27-Enjoying your perfectionism instead of enduring

20:43-Fixed Mindset

25:00-How To Feel Good NOW

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