In this episode of Crina and Kirsten Get to Work, our hosts tackle part two of Performance Improvement Plans (“PIPs”) from the employees perspective. A PIP, to remind listeners, is still the same document—written performance gaps, expectations, timeline, support, consequences—but from the receiver’s side it lands less like a development tool and more like the death knell. There’s that heart-pounding meeting, the polite tone, the printed packet, and suddenly our brains are cycling through shock, shame, anger, and a quick mental calculation of our mortgages. The stories rush in: “This is a setup.” “I had no idea.” “My boss never liked me.” “I’m doomed.”

So first: regulate. When cortisol is driving the bus, our executive function is in the back seat. Breathe. Take notes. Ask for 72 hours to review. We don’t have to debate our entire careers in a single meeting. And don’t sign blindly if you disagree—request time, add written comments, clarify whether you’re signing as “received” rather than “agreed.” At the same time, don’t give anyone ammunition; professionalism is our shield. Get clarity for what is missing in writing: ask for specific examples, request measurable targets, and what “success” looks like at the end of the period. If something feels legally risky—protected leave, discrimination—loop in HR or an employment attorney early. Calm is strategic.

Then comes the paradox: work the plan, even if you’re skeptical. We can translate the PIP into our own micro-goals. Treat it like a project with deliverables, evidence, and weekly metrics. Use check-ins wisely—bring receipts, ask what an “A” looks like, request training or resources, and get specific about the skills you’re expected to build. Meanwhile, manage the nervous system somewhere other than the manager’s office. And we need to consider whether we have the skills, experience and mindset to achieve the goals the employer set for us - and whether we have a chance at convincing our employer that his the case.

And yes, consider a parallel path. Update the résumé. Polish LinkedIn. Network quietly. Doing our best and planning our exit are not mutually exclusive; they’re smart risk management.  A PIP requires action, whether that be bringing our A game or finding something new - in the end, the choice is ours.