Don't look at the towel on my bed

Healing isn’t about fixing yourself or erasing the past. It’s about learning to live with what happened—gently, honestly, and through relationships. In this episode, I break down what healing actually is, what it isn’t, and why the process takes longer than we want.

Fear is just a hypothesis. The only way to know is to test it—by fucking around and finding out.

In this episode, Wes riffs on why “my life” might just be an ego story, why comfort doesn’t actually make us happier, and how seeing life as one big unfolding plot can change the way we relate to pain, inconvenience, and our own thoughts.

Wdym life isn't about glitter?

I talk about the difference between nothing mattering and nothing mattering that much, then I dissolve gender norms, all in a days work.

It is what it is my boy

Philly Matt on the pod!

No. Fitting in doesn't make you cool, it makes you invisible.

Won't happen again