Summary:

This Labor Day on the Play Big Queen Podcast, Kate Bailey is not talking about barbecues or mattress sales. She is talking about you... the woman carrying the hidden, unpaid, and unacknowledged labor that keeps everything running. Especially if you are neurodivergent or living with an invisible disability or mental health challenge, you know the exhaustion of over-functioning, masking, and giving more than anyone sees.

In this episode, you’ll uncover the six forms of invisible labor you may be holding: emotional, cognitive, workplace, masking, advocacy, and care. You’ll learn how to run a Labor Audit to finally name the work that is draining you, and how to set boundaries that return energy, time, and brilliance back to you.

This is not about doing more. It’s about reclaiming your sovereignty, your creativity, and your leadership. Labor Day began with workers saying enough is enough and now it’s your turn.

You will learn how to conduct a Labor Audit to notice, name, and value the work you carry, and how to set boundaries that reclaim energy, brilliance, and sovereignty. With somatic practices and embodied reminders woven throughout, this episode is both an education and an activation. Listen to get the reset you need to stop over-giving, start reclaiming, and step into leadership with clarity and power.

Keywords: Labor Day 2025, invisible labor, unpaid labor, emotional labor, neurodivergent women, women with invisible disabilities, ADHD women, advocacy fatigue, masking labor, over-functioning, boundaries for women, Play Big Queen Podcast, Kate Bailey, sovereignty, women’s leadership, embodied leadership, empowerment coaching

Takeaways:

✔️ Labor Day was born from struggle and worker resistance, not leisure, and its history matters today

✔️ Invisible labor includes emotional labor, cognitive labor, workplace over-functioning, masking, advocacy fatigue, and care labor

✔️ Neurodivergent women often carry more due to systemic pressure to mask, over-give, and self-advocate for access

✔️ A Labor Audit helps you categorize tasks into what you will Stop, Share, and Sustain

✔️ Boundaries are not rejection. They are reclamation of energy, creativity, and sovereignty

✔️ Every no to invisible labor is a yes to your brilliance and embodied leadership

If you’re ready to reclaim your energy and brilliance, book your Private Coaching Session with Kate:

👉 xxxkatebailey.com/private-coaching-sessions


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©2025 Kate Bailey LLC | All rights reserved.


#LaborDay2025 #LaborDayReset #InvisibleLabor #UnpaidLabor #NeurodivergentWomen #WomenWithInvisibleDisabilities #EmotionalLabor #MaskingLabor #AdvocacyFatigue #BoundariesMatter #EmbodiedLeadership #SovereignWomen #PlayBigQueenPodcast #KateBailey #NeurodivergentLeadership #WomenWhoLead #StopOverFunctioning #ReclaimYourEnergy #ADHDWomen #EmpoweredBoundaries

Summary:

In this educational episode of the Play Big Queen Podcast, Kate Bailey breaks down the Creative Selling Process step by step showing entrepreneurs, coaches, and creators how to sell without scripts, shame, or self-sacrifice.

Drawing from both classic business foundations and her lived experience as a neurodivergent entrepreneur, Kate redefines what it means to sell authentically in today’s social media-driven world. She reveals why so many scrappy, ad hoc entrepreneurs struggle with sales, how masking and mimicking affect selling styles, and what it takes to build conscious, embodied sales foundations.

From prospecting and pre-approach to handling objections, closing, and following up, Kate gives you a full roadmap you can use to transform selling into an act of art, storytelling, and sovereignty. Plus, she explores how AI is reshaping sales, from prospecting tools to automated follow-ups and why your embodied presence will always be the ultimate differentiator.

This episode is part training, part activation, and a must-listen for anyone wanting to stop spiraling, stop hiding, and start selling in a way that feels aligned, sustainable, and powerful.

Keywords: creative selling, sales process, selling on social media, authentic selling, embodied business, neurodivergent entrepreneur, ADHD women, invisible disability, masking in business, mimicking in sales, selling without scripts, handling objections, closing sales, follow-up in sales, AI in sales, AI and social media marketing, embodiment and business

Takeaways:

✔️  Most entrepreneurs are already “selling” online, but without conscious sales foundations, it feels like hustle instead of strategy

✔️  Creative selling transforms sales into storytelling, artistry, and resonance, not pressure or performance

✔️  The 7 steps of creative selling (prospecting, pre-approach, approach, sales presentation, handling objections, close, and follow-up) apply beautifully to organic social media marketing

✔️  Around 80% of sales happen after the 5th follow-up consistency and rapport matter more than one perfect pitch

✔️  Objections are not rejections, they’re curiosity that can be met with empathy and embodiment

✔️  AI can assist with prospecting, presentations, and follow-ups, but it can never replace your embodied presence and lived story

If you’re ready to sell in a way that feels aligned, embodied, and powerful, book your Private Coaching Session with Kate:

👉 xxxkatebailey.com/private-coaching-sessions

🔗 Connect with Kate

✅ Follow on Facebook and Instagram @playbigqueen

🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube

🤍 Learn more → xxxkatebailey.com

©2025 Kate Bailey LLC | All rights reserved.

#CreativeSelling #AuthenticSales #SocialMediaMarketing #SalesProcess #EntrepreneurLife #NeurodivergentEntrepreneur #ADHDWomenInBusiness #InvisibleDisabilityAdvocacy #EmbodiedBusiness #SellingWithSoul #PlayBigQueen #WomenWhoLead #CoachingBusinessTips #AIandBusiness #AlignedSelling

Summary:

In this unique episode of the Play Big Queen Podcast, Kate loses her voice, but the show goes on. Using AI voices and assistive technology, she explores the power, limitations, and inequities of text-to-speech readers and synthetic voices. From Ava to Darius to Zephyr to Sol, Kate shares her lived experience as an AuDHD woman navigating education, business, and daily life with the help of technology. This episode dives into the emotional reality of relying on assistive communication, the innovations shaping inclusive AI, and why our world still privileges “fast, fluent, neurotypical speech” over countless other ways of expressing brilliance. Kate reminds us: technology can bridge the gap, but it doesn’t erase inequity. True inclusion means honoring every voice — robotic, natural, slow, fast, spoken, or typed — as valid, worthy, and powerful.

Keywords: assistive technology, AI voices, artificial intelligence, machine learning, technology, digital transformation, text-to-speech, neurodivergent communication, disability inclusion, ADHD learning, ADHD women, disability accommodations, dyslexia, accessibility, speech readers, Kurzweil 3000, inclusive technology

Takeaways:

✔️ Losing your voice doesn’t mean losing your ability to communicate

✔️ Assistive technologies like Kurzweil 3000 are lifelines, not luxuries

✔️ Synthetic voices can support independence, but also highlight inequity

✔️ Neurodivergent readers often face longer processing times and higher barriers to access

✔️ AI innovations are making speech tech more natural, expressive, and inclusive

✔️ True brilliance isn’t measured by fluency or tone, but by persistence, creativity, and self-trust

💬 Community Question:

How do you feel when you listen to a synthetic or AI voice? Does it change your sense of connection, and what do you think that means for inclusion?

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About Kate
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©2025 Kate Bailey LLC | All rights reserved.

Summary:

When the world is on fire, showing up for your business can feel impossible… maybe even selfish. The news cycle is overwhelming, the weight of injustice is crushing, and the last thing you want to do is promote your work online.

But here’s the truth: this is exactly when your voice, your leadership, and your offers matter most.

In this episode, Play Big Queen Kate Bailey, speaks to entrepreneurs, leaders, and creatives, especially those who are neurodivergent, disabled, or living with invisible disabilities, who feel torn between honoring the state of the world and showing up for their work. She makes the case that building your business during hard times isn’t “business as usual”… it’s business as resistance.

Keywords: business as resistance, selling during hard times, neurodivergent entrepreneur, disabled entrepreneur, ethical marketing, women in business, Play Big Queen podcast, authentic leadership, values driven business

Takeaways:

✔️ Why global crises can make selling feel uncomfortable, and how to move through that resistance without bypassing what’s happening in the world.

✔️ The unique challenges neurodivergent and disabled entrepreneurs face when the energy and capacity demands are already high.

✔️How to reframe your work as a tool for liberation, not just income.

✔️ Practical and emotional ways to position your business as a resource, inspiration, and place of community when the world feels heavy.

✔️ Why showing up consistently challenges the systems that benefit from your silence.

If you’ve been feeling stuck about whether to promote your business online right now, this conversation will give you permission and a plan to keep creating, speaking, and leading.

Listen in and remember: every time you choose to show up for your business and your voice, you’re building more than a brand. You’re building a revolution.

💬 Community Questions:

In a world that feels overwhelming and uncertain, how do you keep showing up for your business and your voice?

What’s one small act of resistance you’re proud of right now?

Share in the comments on Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you listen.

Links & Resources:

About Kate
Work With Kate

✨ Want support playing big and creating a life a business on your terms?
Visit xxxkatebailey.com and scroll down to join the Play Big Queen email community.

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©2025 Kate Bailey LLC | All rights reserved.

Summary:

In this essential episode of the Play Big Queen Podcast, Kate Bailey explores how speech and communication challenges show up for neurodivergent folks, including those with ADHD, autism, traumatic brain injury (TBI), and stroke recovery. She shares her personal experiences with language loss, speech processing, and cognitive overload, while dismantling harmful stereotypes that equate quick speech with intelligence. You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of how to create more inclusive spaces, advocate for your needs, and reclaim your rhythm.

Keywords: neurodivergent communication, ADHD speech, stroke recovery, internalized ableism, speech processing, auditory processing, trauma-informed leadership, neurodiversity in business, comprehension vs. expression, inclusive communication

Takeaways:

✔️ Comprehension and expression are separate processes in the brain.

✔️ Neurodivergent communication is often misunderstood in leadership and social spaces.

✔️ Slower response time is not a lack of intelligence.

✔️ The disability community is not a fixed club, you can join at any time.

✔️ Inclusive leadership means honoring diverse rhythms, not just fast-talking ones.

✔️ It’s time to redesign the table, not just offer a seat.

✨ Want to build a business that works with your brain, not against it?
Visit xxxkatebailey.com and scroll down to join the Play Big Queen email community.

✅ Follow on Facebook and Instagram @playbigqueen

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©2025 Kate Bailey LLC | All rights reserved.


💬 What part of this episode shifted how you think about your own communication style?

 
#NeurodivergentVoices #PlayBigQueen #ADHDLeadership #SpeechJustice #DisabilityInclusion #NeurodiverseBusiness #TBIRecovery #InclusiveCommunication #AuditoryProcessing #InternalizedAbleism

Episode Summary:

In this electrifying episode of the Play Big Queen podcast, Kate Bailey unpacks the nervous system foundation of money work especially for neurodivergent and highly sensitive folks. Fresh off the live Hot Erotic Messy Money intensive, Kate dives into why wealth isn’t built through spreadsheets and shame but through safety, embodiment, and emotional regulation.

You’ll hear how trauma, ADHD, autism, and other forms of neurodivergence impact your money relationship and why “just budget better” advice doesn’t cut it. This episode explores how your body’s responses—fight, flight, freeze, fawn—can keep you stuck, and how rituals, pleasure, and nervous system safety can open the door to a more spacious, resourced relationship with money.

Keywords: money shame, somatic money, ADHD and money, neurodivergent budgeting, financial trauma, nervous system regulation, trauma-informed money healing, embodied money, money and sensory processing, prioritization and ADHD, financial self-trust

Takeaways:


✔️ Wealth doesn’t start with logic, it starts with a body that feels safe.

✔️ Neurodivergent folks often struggle with prioritization and money overwhelm due to how their brains process urgency and emotion.

✔️ Shame isn’t just mental, it’s embedded in the nervous system.

✔️ Money rituals, pause buttons, and sensory-friendly systems are powerful tools.

✔️ You’re not broken. Your body has just adapted to survive.

✔️ Safety, pleasure, and structure—not hustle and shame—are what shift your money relationship.

Mentioned Episodes:
🎧 Episode 20: From Addiction to Alignment

✨ Want to feel more regulated, turned on, and resourced with money? Ask yourself today: “What is one small sacred thing I can do to make money feel safer in my body?”

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©2025 Kate Bailey LLC | All rights reserved.

#NeurodivergentMoney #SomaticMoney #MoneyMonday #FinancialHealing #NervousSystemRegulation #ADHDAndMoney #EmbodiedWealth #TraumaInformedFinance #MoneyAndTheBody #FinancialSelfTrust #HotEroticMessyMoney

Episode Summary:

In this raw and revelatory solo episode, Kate Bailey peels back the layers on journaling, not as a morning routine or productivity hack but as a sacred act of unmasking and reconnection. She shares how an unexpected home writing retreat turned into the catalyst for massive changes in her business offerings, and how journaling helped her hear the voice of her own truth again. You’ll learn how to use journaling to reconnect with your desires, drop the mask of performance, and give voice to your most hidden parts. Plus, Kate announces the bittersweet closing of the Play Big Queens Accountability Program and shares what’s next for her brand, including sneak previews into new offers in the works for 2026 including Body of Werk, her new somatic portal designed to give more taboo-named programs more commercial appeal, and how the Whore Crawl is now available as an evergreen course at whorecrawl.com

Keywords: neurodivergent women, ADHD, autism, journaling prompts, self-acceptance, unmasking, invisible disabilities, sacred journaling, embodiment, neurodiversity, Hot Erotic Messy Money, Play Big Queen, self-led course, emotional regulation, women in business, Kate Bailey podcast, how to journal, therapeutic journaling, autism in women

Takeaways:


✔️ Journaling isn’t about discipline, it's a rebellion against perfectionism and performance.

✔️ Neurodivergent women often need a space where they can unmask in private before they can reclaim in public.

✔️ 5 powerful somatic journaling prompts to reconnect with your truth and body.

✔️ Intimacy, clarity, and evolution in your life and business require sacred solitude and raw honesty.

✔️ Behind the scenes of the major shifts are coming to Kate’s offerings, including the end of the Play Big Accountability program and the launch of evergreen offerings like The Whore Crawl and Play Big Foundations.

🎟️ LAST CHANCE to join Hot Erotic Messy Money happening this week Sunday July 27th at 8pm est This is the final time Kate will be running this erotic reclamation experience live $297 at hoteroticmessymoney.com  💸🫦💸

🔗 Follow along for daily doses of brilliance, embodiment, and unapologetic queendom:

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©2025 Kate Bailey LLC | All rights reserved.

#PlayBigQueen #JournalingForHealing #NeurodivergentWomen #ADHDWomen #AutisticAndProud #UnmaskingJourney #SacredJournaling #TheWhoreCrawl #HotEroticMessyMoney #EmbodimentPractice #SelfLedHealing #SomaticWisdom #KateBaileyPodcast #InvisibleDisability #WomenWhoLead

Episode Summary:

Unpack what manifestation really is and why the most popular advice on it sets you up to feel like you’re doing it wrong. If you’ve ever followed a six-step manifestation formula only to end up overwhelmed, out of sync, or wondering what’s wrong with you… this one’s for you.

Kate takes us inside her real-time intuitive process—the way her body responds when she’s about to “get the thing,” from raffle wins to perfect parking spots. She shares why her lived experience as a neurodivergent woman with clair gifts (claircognizance, clairaudience, clairsentience, and clairvoyance) has taught her more about alignment than any manifestation coach ever could. This is not a story about controlling the universe or mastering positive thinking. It’s a reclaiming of how your body already knows, already responds, and already aligns when the moment is right. And it’s a call to reject the over-simplified manifestation advice that doesn’t account for nervous system readiness, timing, trauma, or invisible disability.

Inside, you’ll learn what alignment actually feels like, how to track your own somatic cues, and why Kate believes manifestation is not a method—it’s a moment of energetic congruence. You’ll also get a preview of her sensual, rebellious money workshop Hot Erotic Messy Money and how to know if your body is already a yes.

Keywords: manifestation shame, intuitive gifts, claircognizance, neurodivergent women, ADHD and manifestation, embodied spirituality, Hot Erotic Messy Money, somatic alignment, nervous system-based leadership, energetic portals, feminist business coaching, invisible disabilities, somatic receiving practice

Takeaways:

✔️ Most manifestation advice ignores your body, your nervous system, and your unique intuitive cues
✔️ Alignment isn’t about scripting your dream life—it’s about showing up messy and still landing in the magic
✔️ Your body already knows when you're about to receive—learning to listen is the real work
✔️ Clair gifts (like clairvoyance and clairsentience) can activate when you’re truly aligned
✔️  If manifestation methods have felt off—it’s not you. It’s the method.

✨ Hot Erotic Messy Money is happening Sunday July 27th at 8pm est ! If your body’s whispering yes, now’s the time to listen. You can still save $100 during Early Bird pricing through July 19th at hoteroticmessymoney.com  until July 19th 💸🫦💸

🔗 Follow along for daily doses of brilliance, embodiment, and unapologetic queendom:

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©2025 Kate Bailey LLC | All rights reserved.

#HotEroticMessyMoney #PlayBigQueenPodcast #SomaticManifestation #NeurodivergentLeadership #EmbodiedWealth #WomenWithMoneyPower #ManifestationDebunked #ClairGifts #SomaticMoneyPractice #AlignmentNotHustle #CreativeWealth

Episode Summary:

In this solo episode, Kate Bailey unpacks why so many women feel perpetually exhausted—even after a vacation. Recorded during the week of the Fourth of July—a time when the illusion of freedom feels especially heavy—this conversation explores how capitalism, patriarchy, and colonialism have conditioned us to believe rest is something we have to earn and pleasure is something we must buy.

Kate names the vacation wound: the cycle of overworking, escaping, and returning to the same ache. She shares why no plane ticket can heal the nervous system disconnection these systems create—and why your longing to belong is not a personal failure but a predictable trauma response.

Inside, you’ll learn why masking, burnout, and collective trauma are so rampant among neurodivergent women and why reclaiming your body as a safe home is the foundation of sustainable wealth and pleasure.

This episode includes a grounding somatic reflection to help you reconnect with your body in real time, plus an invitation to join Hot Erotic Messy Money before Super Early Bird pricing ends July 11th.

Keywords: Money shame healing, embodied wealth, neurodivergent entrepreneurship, invisible disabilities, somatic money practice, nervous system regulation, Play Big Queen Podcast, capitalism and burnout, creative money rituals, embodied leadership, women’s wealth coaching

Takeaways:

✔️ Burnout is not a personal failing—it’s a predictable outcome of oppressive systems.
✔️ You cannot heal disconnection by outsourcing rest to a vacation.
✔️ The discomfort of facing your truth will liberate you more than the illusion of escape ever will.
✔️ Somatic practices help your nervous system feel safe enough to hold more abundance without collapse.
✔️ Somatic practices help you rebuild trust in your body and expand your capacity to receive.

✨ Hot Erotic Messy Money doors are OPEN! You can still save $200 and secure your spot at the new website at hoteroticmessymoney.com until July 11th 💸🫦💸

🔗 Follow along for daily doses of brilliance, embodiment, and unapologetic queendom:

✅ Follow on Facebook and Instagram @playbigqueen

🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube

🤍 Learn more → xxxkatebailey.com

©2025 Kate Bailey LLC | All rights reserved.

#HotEroticMessyMoney #NeurodivergentLeadership #EmbodiedWealth #PlayBigQueenPodcast #MoneyShameHealing #SomaticMoneyPractice #WomenWithMoneyPower #VacationWound #CreativeWealth

Episode Summary:

In this unfiltered solo episode, Kate Bailey gets radically honest about what it means to live, lead, and create wealth while being neurodivergent in a body that doesn’t always cooperate.


Recorded after a rupture in sisterhood and during a three-day Liquid Motion certification, this conversation is an intimate look at the discomfort that grows you and the discomfort that shrinks you.
Kate shares her lived experience navigating undiagnosed autoimmune pain, money shame, and the relentless expectations of entrepreneurship, all while learning to meet herself with devotion instead of judgment.


Inside, you’ll learn why so many neurodivergent women are experts at sitting in discomfort and how to discern whether that discomfort is expanding your power or eroding it. Because the reality is you don’t have to twist yourself inside out to make others comfortable. You don’t have to carry the weight of their projections. And you don’t have to pretend you have it all together to deserve wealth, belonging, and pleasure.
This episode includes a grounding somatic practice to help you soften into safety and a nervous system repatterning exercise to stretch your capacity to receive. Kate also shares an invitation into Hot Erotic Messy Money, now open during the Super Early Bird period through July 11th.

Keywords: Money shame healing, embodied wealth, neurodivergent entrepreneurship, invisible disabilities, somatic money practice, Liquid Motion dance, Play Big Queen Podcast, ADHD and money, creative money rituals, embodied leadership, women’s wealth coaching

Takeaways:

✔️ You deserve spaces that respect and celebrate you — not just tolerate you.

✔️ Discomfort is inevitable, but you get to choose whether it grows you or shrinks you.

✔️ Neurodivergent women have a situational confidence born from navigating lifelong discomfort.

✔️ Money shame cannot survive curiosity and devotion.

✔️ Somatic practices help your nervous system feel safe enough to hold more abundance without collapse.

✨ Hot Erotic Messy Money doors are OPEN! You can still save $200 and secure your spot at the new website at hoteroticmessymoney.com until July 11th 💸🫦💸

🔗 Follow along for daily doses of brilliance, embodiment, and unapologetic queendom:

✅ Follow on Facebook and Instagram @playbigqueen

🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube

🤍 Learn more → xxxkatebailey.com

©2025 Kate Bailey LLC | All rights reserved.

#HotEroticMessyMoney #NeurodivergentLeadership #EmbodiedWealth #PlayBigQueenPodcast #MoneyShameHealing #SomaticMoneyPractice #WomenWithMoneyPower #LiquidMotionCertification #CreativeWealth