“We need to recognise that people cope with trauma in many different ways, so there isn’t a standard pattern of reaction to the stress of traumatic experiences. And when it comes to children, they aren’t always able to express complex feelings in the same direct way that adults can … so it’s really important is that we are looking out for changes in children’s behaviour that can suggest they may be unsettled or distressed.” – Nicole Breeze, UNICEF
In this special podcast, Emma Walsh talks to UNICEF’s Nicole Breeze about the devastating effects of the recent bushfires on the children of Australia, and what we can do to not only help support these children and families, but how to talk to other children who have been witness to these events and may be feeling distressed. Nicole outlines how to spot underlying stress in your children - such as changes in their play, nightmares or trouble sleeping, anxiety about sleeping alone, withdrawal, and problems concentrating at school. She also talks about the different ways parents can support their children in these initial stages of healing - and that it’s okay for children to be more dependent on their parents during this time, while routines are being re-established. It is also important for parents to find out what their children know in case there are any misconceptions that are causing stress that can then be corrected, and when it’s important to actually minimise media viewing.
From the research conducted after Black Saturday in 2009, we understand how fundamentally important it is to concentrate on children's mental health in the recovery process of a natural disaster, and how important it is that they are able to receive support in the medium to long term. This is why UNICEF is teaming up with experienced clinical partners to provide appropriately targeted mental health services and are hoping that parents are able to provide some support for their children, while also making sure they themselves are receiving the help they need.