In this episode we speak with Samuel Eddy - an executive coach with Parents At Work who works with men to support them transition to parenthood alongside a thrive career so that they can better manage work and family responsibilities. In addition to his experience as a counsellor Sam has led and coached teams in some of the largest organisations in the UK and Australia. He has a wealth of corporate experience and has a passion for wellbeing so really understands the demands and pressures placed on men today.
Some of the topics Sam and I cover in this podcast include:
• Facing fears as you start your caring journey as a man
• Dropping expectations and the ‘Superman’ syndrome
• Confidence in caring – as a man
• Taking the lead to claim your values and honour your personal needs – both in the workplace and at home
Samuel says he’s pleased to see men are starting to get more involved on a practical level with caring.
“Men are starting to get their head around that they have the opportunity to care, there has been that real mindset shift”
In the podcast, Samuel discusses the main challenges he sees in men who are taking time to care, mainly “the fear of doing something different, and the fear of what people will think” which are still entrenched in people’s minds.
The typical image for men, as it is for women, is “what will happen to my career?”, says Samuel.
Samuel also talks about the huge benefits for men in talking to a coach about figuring out the practicalities of taking on a caring role. “It’s around confidence, to help them make the decisions they really want and figure out what’s important to them.”
The podcast talks about where men can find support, and practical examples of how men can make their caring role a sustainable reality for them.