Lee Cockerell was Disney World's Executive Vice President of Operations for over a decade There he oversaw the daily operations and guest experience for all of its theme parks, hotels, and properties.

He is often brought in to an organization looking to improve its customer service. He famously once told a potential client, "If you think of this as an expense and not an investment, don't use me."

In the episode, we reframe the process of recovery as an investment, not an expense.

Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/356   PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:   Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear   Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev   1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching

Steve Chandler from episode 274 wrote this,

“Many people I work with make the mistake of confusing commitment with intention. They think they're the same thing. And by thinking that, by living in that misunderstanding, they lose all the power commitment has.”

Sam Dobschuetz joins this episode to discuss the distinction between intention and commitment.

Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/355   PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:   Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear   Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev   1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching

The whole point of this podcast is not just to change what you’re doing. It’s to change who you are being. For that, we look at repetition and beliefs. 

In this episode we discuss how the our identity is shaped by our habits. And how the identity we choose determines the habits we need to create.

Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/354   PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:   Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear   Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev   1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching

We often say that porn is not the problem, it's the solution. And when we let go of porn we are left with one thing: our needs. But just how do we get our needs met?

On this episode, I share a counterintuitive approach, you can use, to meet almost any need.

Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/353   PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:   Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear   Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev   1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching

Have you ever felt guilty that you have not lived up to your potential? That because of your past something you were destined for will never be achieved.

On this episode, we reframe this mindset with a hopeful alternative where nothing has been lost and even more is to be gained.

Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/352   PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:   Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear   Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev   1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching

This episode is a fast follow-up to PFR 350- Pure Freedom, where we discuss Rich Litvin's "three distinctions around freedom."

In this show, Matt asks some prompting questions to help you get more clarity about your freedom.

Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/351   PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:   Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear   Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev   1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching

In the episode, we are going to focus on the concept of pure freedom.

Master coach, Rich Litvin describes pure freedom as "the freedom to make decisions moment by moment. The freedom to be yourself... a place to come FROM, not a place to get to."

Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/350  

Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/350   PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:   Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear   Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev   1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching

We're back on PFR asking the question, “when are you going to stop living like you're never going to die?” 

Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/349   PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:   Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear   Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com

Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev   1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching

In this episode, we explore the idea of "high bottom" porn use—when your life isn't falling apart, but you're still stuck and it's costing you. We discuss how people in this situation can break through denial and rationalizations to take more action. There is more freedom to be had!

Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/348

  PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

  Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

  Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com

  Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev

  1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching

One of my podcast heroes, Dan Miller, had a goal setting practice which I love. 

“When I set my goals for the new year, I ruthlessly eliminate 15% of the things I’ve been doing to make room for the new things I want to do.” — Dan Miller, 48 Days Podcast

Dan shares how it's important eliminate things you're doing before creating new commitments. In this episode, you'll learn how this goal setting practice is easily adapted to recovery and our big goal of being porn free.

Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/347

  PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:

  Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear

  Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com

  Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev

  1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching