On the episode this week: Nate and Aaron update on the video portion of the podcast. And Aaron gives up plaid for a shirt with a story.

Nate and Aaron talk to Jay Stringer. Jay joins the 4 timers club, the current most frequent guest! Jay wrote a new book entitled: Desire: The Longings Inside Us and the New Science of How we Love, Heal, and Grow. Jay’s new book is a road map to understand identity and create a life you don’t want to escape from! He shares the five desires we all need to be healthy, with lots of useful tips. Other topics discussed include female muscle worship, image management, interpretation, self-sabotage, and how “story” is not intimacy and connection.

Links:

Desire: The Longings Inside Us and the New Science of How we Love, Heal, and Grow

NEW Samson Community App (Apple store)

NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)

June 5-7, 2026 Italian/International Samson Retreat

Oct 23-25, 2026 U.S. Samson Summit

Send mail to:

Pirate Monk Podcast/Samson House

PO BOX 1656

Columbia, TN 38402

If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to [email protected].

The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.

For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.

The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

 

App Store

Samson Community App - App Store

Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community.

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016

 

 

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Samson Society - Apps on Google Play

Brotherhood & recovery hub

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On the episode this week: Nate had a no pants meeting and Aaron pimps the new app. Also, you can come to new comer meetings, again.

Nate and Aaron talk to Mike Vaughn. Mike is a counselor and works for Bethesda Workshops. Bethesda is a non profit in Nashville, TN that has intensives for sex, porn, and betrayal trauma. They are also working on a workshops for teens, both online and in person. Mike is sharing his knowledge and experience to help us understand highly sensitive people (HSP). It is estimated that over 20% of the world population are high sensing. Mike uses the acrostic DOES(S) to define HSP and how to support yourself or others. HSP is a temperament, not something to be corrected or healed. Mike also reminds us that the way to recover is to do the thing which you are most afraid to do, which is being connected to others in community.

Links:

Highly Sensitive Person Test

Bethesda  Workshops

High Sensing

NEW Samson Community App (Apple store)

NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)

June 5-7, 2026 Italian/International Samson Retreat

Oct 23-25, 2026 U.S. Samson Summit

Send mail to:

Pirate Monk Podcast/Samson House

PO BOX 1656

Columbia, TN 38402

If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to [email protected].

The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.

For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.

The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

 

hsperson.com

Are You Highly Sensitive? – The Highly Sensitive Person

Take this test and find out if you're a Highly Sensitive Person.

 

Bethesda Workshops

Home - Bethesda Workshops

Bethesda Workshops is a Christian based sex and pornography addiction treatment organization that has helped hundreds adults and teens overcome their struggles.

Aug 8th, 2023

https://bethesdaworkshops.org/

 

 

App Store

Samson Community App - App Store

Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community.

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016

 

 

play.google.com

Samson Society - Apps on Google Play

Brotherhood & recovery hub

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mightybell.samsonsociety&pcampaignid=web_share

On the episode this week: Nate and Aaron give updates on the new video podcast on YouTube, Instagram, and the new Samson website. Nate and Aaron talk to Tim Stein. Tim is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in sex addiction, partner betrayal, and trauma treatment. Tim is a resident of Santa Rosa, California who is also a recovering sex addict himself. He is also a podcaster and author of the book: Finding the Way Through: A Workbook for Sex and Pornography Addiction. Tim’s book helps both the addict and their partner understand one another from day one through years of healing and sobriety. He helps couples have vulnerability and intimacy to support one another by being a safe person. Tim also suggests that the addict and the betrayed investigate their own stories as they pursue healing together, or separately.

 

Links:

Book: Finding the Way Through: A Workbook for Sex and Pornography Addiction.

Willow Tree

AFAR - American Foundation for Addiction ResearchNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)

NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)

June 5-7, 2026 Italian/International Samson Retreat

Oct 23-25, 2026 U.S. Samson Summit

 

Send mail to:

Pirate Monk Podcast/Samson House

PO BOX 1656

Columbia, TN 38402 If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to [email protected].The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

 

Sex Addiction Recovery - Willow Tree Counseling - Santa Rosa

Sex Addiction Recovery - Willow Tree Counseling - Sonoma, Marin, Napa County California

https://willowtreesantarosa.com/

 

 

American Foundation for Addiction Research

American Foundation for Addiction Research -

Addiction is the single greatest public health crisis facing our country. We are losing a whole generation to addiction…illegal and prescription drugs, alcohol, porn, sex, gambling and the internet.

https://addictionresearch.com/

 

 

App Store

Samson Community App - App Store

Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community.

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016

 

 

play.google.com

Samson Society - Apps on Google Play

Brotherhood & recovery hub

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mightybell.samsonsociety&pcampaignid=web_share

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

On the episode this week: Nate is reeling and Aaron is back from DFW and thinking about carrying a bat. Aaron also uses his sports expertise to make comparisons between t-ball and recovery discipline. Nate talks about upcoming video podcasts. Nate and Aaron talk to Nick Stumbo. Nick shares Pure Desire’s ongoing move from Oregon to Nashville, paving the way for In-N-Out Burger to move to Nashville too. JK, these moves aren’t really connected, but both are in process. Nick discusses the updated statistics from a partnered study with Barna Group called Beyond The Porn Phenomenon. Some stats are up, others down, many surprises. Nick also guides us on how to translate the info as well as helpful resources. Links:

Beyond the Porn Phenomenon Study

Pure DesireNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)

NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)

June 5-7, 2026 Italian/International Samson Retreat

Oct 23-25, 2026 U.S. Samson SummitSend mail to:

Pirate Monk Podcast

PO BOX 1656

Columbia, TN 38472If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to [email protected].The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

 

Pure Desire Ministries

Pure Desire Ministries | Freedom & Healing

A safe place to find hope and healing from compulsive sexual behavior. Christ-centered support groups, counseling, and resources for recovery.

https://www.puredesire.org/beyond-porn-phenomenon

 

 

Pure Desire Ministries

Pure Desire Ministries | Freedom & Healing

A safe place to find hope and healing from compulsive sexual behavior. Christ-centered support groups, counseling, and resources for recovery.

https://www.puredesire.org/

 

 

App Store

Samson Community App - App Store

Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community.

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016

 

 

play.google.com

Samson Society - Apps on Google Play

Brotherhood & recovery hub

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mightybell.samsonsociety&pcampaignid=web_share

This week, Nate and Aaron give tips and tricks for using the new app for local meetings and meetups. Aaron shares his distrust of AI blowing smoke up your @$$. Nate shares the slippery slope of AI affirmation and it compares to the Silas asking real tough questions.

Nate and Aaron talk to returning guest Reese Crane. Reese shares updates on Be Broken 2.0, Gateway to Freedom 1.0 and the new 2.0. GTF 2.0 is designed to have a goal of helping men find peace, rest, and joy. Reese also shares about a new couples workshop designed to help each partner understand where the other came from, what their partner is feeling, and grow together intentionally. It also has a heavy focus on support for wives of left in the dust. 

Reese will be speaking at the Samson Italian/International retreat on June 7th, 2026. The link to the venue is: here. The theme will be: “looking at the source of your emotional pain”. The cost for the weekend including all meals and lodging is €220. If you would like to participate, please fill out the form here.

Links:

Be Broken

The Silent Addiction

Reese Crane Email

NEW Samson Community App (Apple store)

NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)

2026 Samson Summit

Send mail to:

Pirate Monk Podcast

PO BOX 1656

Columbia, TN 38472

If you have thoughts or questions and you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to [email protected].  

The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.

For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com.  Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.

The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

On this episode: Aarons voice sounds a little deeper and more radio like. Wait just a minute, that’s Nate and Ken, not Aaron. Ken talks about the t-shirt that Jesus autographed. This week, Nate and Jordan Castill have a talk. Jordan is from College Station, TX. He is a husband, father and C-SAT counselor with a bunch of additional credentials. Jordan shares how he was first exposed to porn at age 10 and became addicted in college. His journey includes gay porn, gymnastics, male cheerleader, Texas football, and unfortunately multiple types of abuse. He helps men in sex addiction, couples counseling, disclosures, group counseling, working in-person and virtual sessions. Listen in as Jordan shares his story, experiences, and victory. Links:

Castille Coaching

Email JordanNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)

NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)

2026 Samson Summit

Send mail to:

Pirate Monk Podcast

PO BOX 1656

Columbia, TN 38472If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to [email protected].The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com. The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

 

Castille Coaching Christian Porn Addiction Counselling

Christian Porn and Sex Addiction Help | Castille Coaching

Explore how you can break free from porn and sex addiction through effective Christian counseling. Book a free consultation today at CastilleCoaching.com.

 

 

App Store

Samson Community App - App Store

Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community.

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016

 

 

play.google.com

Samson Society - Apps on Google Play

Brotherhood & recovery hub

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mightybell.samsonsociety&pcampaignid=web_share

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

On this episode: Nate and Aaron record the last episode (of 2025). Do you mourn and weep for yourself or others on Christmas? Is this Christmas different? Also, Christmas mafia and underground crimes rings.This week, Nate and Aaron interview returning guest Drew Boa. Drew has written a new book entitled: Outgrow Porn: Find Lasting Freedom Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle—A Mans Guide To Healing. Drew is sharing the cure to porn, that also comes with maintenance. Discussion includes disagreement with 12-step thinking and purity culture. Drew suggests looking at maturity instead of purity, helping the inner child grow and heal. Other topics include studying our stories and selves, relationships with parents, and the “C” words.Links:

Drew Boa

Book:

Outgrow Porn: Find Lasting Freedom Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle—A Mans Guide To Healing, by Drew BoaNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)

NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)

2026 Samson Summit

Send mail to:

Pirate Monk Podcast

PO BOX 1656

Columbia, TN 38472

If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to [email protected].The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

 

drewboa.com

Drew Boa - Outgrow Porn

I'm an author and coach helping Christian men find lasting freedom from porn without fighting an exhausting battle.

https://www.drewboa.com/

 

 

App Store

Samson Community App - App Store

Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community.

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016

 

 

play.google.com

Samson Society - Apps on Google Play

Brotherhood & recovery hub

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mightybell.samsonsociety&pcampaignid=web_share

On this episode: Nate and Aaron are like Johnny Carson and Ed McMahon. Nate looks forward to these. Aaron updates on the app.This week, Nate and Aaron interview Josh Bales. Josh is a Chattanooga, TN native living in Orlando, FL. He is a husband, father, musician, priest, therapist and an ADHDer. There is music and other arts. There is discussion probing “how do you play”? Should you do what you love for work? Other topics include: cleaning up behind elephants at the circus, duty, empathy, responsibility, and learning and honoring your art.Links:

Josh Bales

Incarnation OviedoNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)

NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)

2026 Samson Summit

If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to [email protected].The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

 

Josh Bales

Josh Bales Singer-Songwriter, Counselor, Anglican/Episcopal Priest

The official website of Josh Bales: singer-songwriter and recording artist, mental health counselor, and Anglican/Episcopal Priest in Orlando, Florida. 

 

App Store

Samson Community App - App Store

Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community.

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016

 

 

play.google.com

Samson Society - Apps on Google Play

Brotherhood & recovery hub

On this episode: Nate and Aaron are like Johnny Carson and Ed McMahon. Nate looks forward to these. Aaron updates on the app.This week, Nate and Aaron interview Josh Bales. Josh is a Chattanooga, TN native living in Orlando, FL. He is a husband, father, musician, priest, therapist and an ADHDer. There is music and other arts. There is discussion probing “how do you play”? Should you do what you love for work? Other topics include: cleaning up behind elephants at the circus, duty, empathy, responsibility, and learning and honoring your art.Links:

Josh Bales

Incarnation OviedoNEW Samson Community App (Apple store)

NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)

2026 Samson Summit

If you have thoughts or questions and you’d like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to [email protected].The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

 

Josh Bales

Josh Bales Singer-Songwriter, Counselor, Anglican/Episcopal Priest

The official website of Josh Bales: singer-songwriter and recording artist, mental health counselor, and Anglican/Episcopal Priest in Orlando, Florida. 

 

App Store

Samson Community App - App Store

Download Samson Community by Samson House on the App Store. See screenshots, ratings and reviews, user tips, and more games like Samson Community.

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/samson-community/id6749582016

 

 

play.google.com

Samson Society - Apps on Google Play

Brotherhood & recovery hub