summertime sadness is so real as we slowly head into mid august. the weather is still scorching but the end is closer than ever before. summer is the time of spontaneous hangouts but also the source of some serious fomo. this week, feli and annabelle sit down to talk about some of the joys of missing out, and how to take it all in on your own terms.

we love our moms but man have we had a rocky path with them growing up. there’s a complexity in mother and daughter relationship that is hard to dissect, this week feli and annabelle attempt to untangle the web just a bit. we talk about our own relationships with our mothers, and just how much we have grown with them.

babe wake up the newest iteration of the ~hot girl~ trend just dropped. you thought we were done after the hot girl morning routines and hot girl day in the life at work? think again. this time the girlies r putting their full force behind the 5-9 after the 9-5 (haha very clever) this week feli and annabelle dive into all things about these magic four hours that have just gone viral, from capitalistic tendencies to corporate america, we cover some serious ground. ironically though, this is kind of our 5-9, don’t hate us bc we love you

from the dote girlies to taylor swift’s iconic cultural reset bad blood music video, we have been obsessed with girl squads for the longest time. but the implications of these friend groups can be deeper than they seem. this week, feli and annabelle look at the many formats of girl gangs, from highschool cliques to revolve influencers, there is much ground to cover. our instagram @pourmeaglasspod dm's are open for your thoughts! drmers club: get 10% off your order with code pourmeaglasspod501 or at drmersclub.com/discount/pourmeaglasspod join us every thursday for more thoughts you've been ghosting

back by popular demand, we are turning the tables again this week, and giving you an ep based entirely on your amazingly funny submissions on dating and friendship red flags. join feli and annabelle, as they sift through all the tea from fake friends to mommy issues. bestie, grab a drink, and we hope you have just as much fun listening to this as we did recording it.

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no matter where you are in life, burnout seems inevitable. whether you first experienced it amidst your 10 ap classes or 23 credit semesters, it isn’t fun and it tends to overstay it’s welcome by a far margin. drawing from their own recent experiences, feli and annabelle tackle burnout culture this week. from its causes to how we deal, we take this from top to bottom. our instagram @pourmeaglasspod dm's are open for your thoughts! drmers club: get 10% off your order with code pourmeaglasspod501 or at drmersclub.com/discount/pourmeaglasspod join us every thursday for more thoughts you've been ghosting

on june 24th, 2022, the supreme court of the united states ruled on dobbs v. jackson's health organization, directly impacting protections set in place by roe v. wade, protections that concluded that the constitution does not protect the rights to an abortion, protections that did not even last half a century. though we are rarely political on this platform, this hardly is a time to not address a decision that directly impacts so many. this week, feli and annabelle look to understand how roe v wade came to be and implications that are sure to follow after the decision. we give you this week's episode on a heavier note, and on even heavier hearts. 

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almost a year ago today, we did our first iteration of the “that girl” discussion. “that girl” haunted us wherever we went, from extensive self-care routines on tiktok, to slicked back buns and gold hoops on instagram, we quite literally had no escape.  a year later, we still see some similar patterns, but like any trends, we also see some points of evolution. this week, annabelle and feli revisit their most popular episode to date, for another discussion on the inescapable “that girl culture. our instagram @pourmeaglasspod dm's are open for your thoughts! drmers club: get 10% off your order with code pourmeaglasspod501 or at drmersclub.com/discount/pourmeaglasspod join us every thursday for more thoughts you've been ghosting

rejection is hard and is something we don’t talk nearly enough about, usually wanting to hide it for however long possible — don’t worry we liked to sulk alone too. but it is inevitable and at some point we all have to brace ourselves for the shattering impact. this week, feli and annabelle take the lid off of a long sealed topic and talk about being on the receiving end of that dreaded “no”. from romantic, friendships, to professional rejections we cover it all. because most of the time it’s not about the no in the moment, but about how you go on afterwards. our instagram @pourmeaglasspod dm's are open for your thoughts! drmers club: get 10% off your order with code pourmeaglasspod501 or at drmersclub.com/discount/pourmeaglasspod join us every thursday for more thoughts you've been ghosting

yes, we are unashamed to admit that if there is a personality test on the market, we have probably taken it and spent copious amounts of time analyzing our results. but hey, who doesn’t want to know how they function and how they can better connect with those around them (hellooo, we actually care about being effective and empathetic) this week, we are looking at the gregorc mind styles model, where anthony gregorc divided thinking styles into 4 distinct areas. come with feli and annabelle as they find out exactly how they think and how it has played into situations all around them. and hey, take the quiz linked below before you dive in for that ~full immersive experience~

the gregorc thinking styles quiz: https://hollyclark.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/Anthony-Gregorc-4-Mind-Styles.pdf

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