pour me a glass

we truly are a little too in love with euphoria, but who could forget that iconic scene in season 2 episode 2 of kat. surrounded by instagram models and influencers, who scream at her telling her she’s beautiful and to just love herself, kat, like many of us, just want them to shut up. using this scene as a jumping off point, this week, feli and annabelle have a conversation about the rampant toxic positivity that exists in social media today. from influencers with seemingly rehearsed lines to pinterest boards filled with motivational but empty words, why do we have to love ourselves all the time? the answer is you don’t, despite what your instagram feed may scream at you.

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who would’ve thought that we are already half way through season 2! welcome to episode 30,  a truly chaotic ama with wonderful questions asked by all of you. strap in besties, we talk friendship break ups, our picks for binge-worthy shows and so much more. we love you and this ama is only the first of many.

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on a more serious note this week, feli and annabelle dive into all things privilege. a conversation that is hard to have but beyond necessary. we talk about all the privileges we are lucky enough to have and some others we can only see from afar. from citizenship privilege, to pretty privilege, join us on this chaotic but vulnerable episode while we explore our own consciousness.

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a tiktok audio trended recently, saying that the hardest lesson 20 somethings have to learn is that they are not special. but as our incredible guest this week uncovered, most 20 somethings don’t wish to be special, but simply to be good enough. this week, feli and annabelle are beyond honored to be joined by rainesford stauffer, author extraordinaire, who penned one of our favourite books, an ordinary age. we talk burn out culture, the privilege of having ambitions to chase after, and how capitalism has actively forced many of us in an unescapable cycle of low self worth. take a second to soak in all that you have accomplished, you are doing great. 

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with the festivities of the new year freshly passed, fomo is sure to be apart some of our celebrations. feeling left out is inevitable as we navigate our days, but how we respond to that feeling is entirely up to you. this week, feli and annabelle take on the emotions no one wants to recognize, we talk bruised egos when we feel left out, social media toxicity in fueling fomo and our constant fear of being left behind.

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ah your 20s, the supposed golden age that literally everyone tells you to cherish. but a la olivia rodrigo in brutal, if someone tells us one more time to enjoy our youth, we will cry. your 20s can arguably the most mis-marketed decade, every show and movie sells the hustle and dreams, and unrealistic apartments in nyc on a writer’s salary. this week, feli and annabelle dive into the harder side of 20s that we don’t talk about enough, the breaking of your regulated life as you leave school, jobs you may not enjoy, and the impending doom of losing your youth. slow down for a sec, you don’t always need to have your five year plan ready.

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we are turning the tables a bit this week, and giving you an ep based entirely on your amazingly funny submissions on dating red flags. join feli and annabelle, who are ~ somewhat ~ qualified to talk about this, as we sift through all the tea from sneaky links to gaslighting. bestie, grab a drink, and we hope you have just as much fun listening to this as we did recording it.

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too often, we sit in classrooms and meetings wondering if we belonged, or if we have done enough to prove our spot. we put on fronts to ensure that we have no weaknesses and churn out work at an unbelievable pace to "secure" our place in our worlds. but, we often forget that we are capable, and we do in fact belong. this week, feli and annabelle tackle all things imposter syndrome, having very much so felt the effects of it. we talk personal experiences, the mask we put on, and the burn out caused by the pressure to overperform. you deserve the world, really.