over the last few years, commitment has taken so many different forms it makes our heads spin. as it should though, marriage as a social construct seemed inflexible and patriarchal. as we continue explore different forms of partnerships and commitments, we are getting married much later, if at all. platonic partnerships are on the rise, but how do we define so many new forms of commitments? this week, feli and annabelle explore the idea of long term partnerships in its many forms, we talk dating in reality shows, our admiration for platonic partnerships and where we stand with the whole idea of long-term commitments.

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do you also spend too much time making imaginary scenarios in your head? because same. from imagining how highschool would go to making bucket list for that perfect college experience, we are seriously guilty. but what about the wishlists that don’t come true? this week, feli and annabelle go down a bit of a spiral all about expectations and slightly warped realities, we are no where a quarter life crisis yet so let’s just call it a mild identity crisis instead.

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we begin peering in the mirror at our appearances as young girls, seeing ourselves not as whole human beings but as a collection of items we want to change. with the rise of social media, we learn more about changes we can make everyday, no matter the cost. body types become trends, and features become easily manipulated, and the societal standard for acceptance is no longer attainable. this week, feli and annabelle go into the heartbreaking realities of plastic surgery and glow up culture, we talk bella hadid’s recent vogue article, the convoluted glow up culture, and unattainable standards. loving yourself easier said than done in today’s world, but this is the time to start. 

On Bella Hadid, beauty standards and the shame of hiding your ethnicity by Sarah Ayoub on The Age

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from investment plans to 401ks, the world of financial health is vast and stupidly confusing. from spending habits to how to save your money, financial wellness tips seems to be all around us, but why does it not ease our anxiety? this week, feli and annabelle dive into all things money (not advice of course but you wouldn’t want to take that from us anyways), we talk financial anxiety and the extent our spending habits have in our lives. from two very different perspectives of college students v.s recent grads, we get a little vulnerable and talk about all things dollar signs. 

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we hear about 5 and 10 year plans a lot, like truly too much. people seem to have it so together, rattling off their plans like a to do list that is bound to happen rather than an ever shifting future. goal setting is hard, and sometimes we even feel a tiny bit embarrassed to voice certain ambitions out loud. this week, feli and annabelle sit down to talk about long term goals and how we should set them, or should we? is it helpful or has this capitalistic society driven us to the brink of breaking?

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social cleansing has become an increasingly popular term over the past few years. we clutch our phones for dear life everywhere we go, and the thought of not checking instagram for a day seems unmanageable. but who can blame us, after being plugged in so long to this digital world, unplugging seems like a permanent goodbye. this week, feli and annabelle sit down to talk digital minimalism, from screen times to social implications. we cover some serious ground on the bonds we have formed with the digital ecosystem.

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