Praxis Podcast with Rhett Smith

Praxis Podcast with Rhett Smith

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  • Are You Living a Good Story? How Comfort, Anxiety and the American Dream Can Keep Us From Living a Compelling Life -- with Author, Storyteller, and Communications Pastor, Scott McClellan

    In the Summer of 2008 I was sitting in my inlaw's home office working on their computer. My wife, 1 year old daughter and I had just moved from Los Angeles to Dallas to live a more compelling story, but we knew very few people except for some family we had in the DFW area. So there I was online looking for some way to connect with people in Dallas. At the time I was pretty involved in the online intersection of faith and technology, and so it was with great interest that I saw that a brand new conference was taking place in Dallas a couple of weeks after our move. The conference was the ECHO Conference, and it was there that I met so many great people...many who have come to be some of my closest friends today. One of those great people was Scott McClellan, who at the time was a part of the organization who was putting on the conference. To this day, I look back at that conference as really helping me get connected in a new city.

    The ECHO Conference may no longer exist, but my relationships from them exist. And Scott has been one of my close friends who I have learned a great deal from. Scott is currently the Communications Pastor at Irving Bible Church in Irving, TX. Scott and his wife Annie have been a part of this church community for about 14 years, and have been instrumental in the leadership of the Tapestry Adoption and Foster Care Ministry at the church. Over the last 9 to 10 years I have been really interested in the concept of story as a framework for living a compelling life, and Scott is someone who has taught me a lot about this concept. I have not only learned from him through our many conversations, but he and his wife have modeled this concept in their personal lives through their adoption process and the participation in the lives of those around them who seek out their wisdom in the area of adoption. Scott chronicles much of this journey in his book, Tell Me a Story: Finding God (and Ourselves) Through Narrative.

    In this episode we explore:

    • the concept of story and how it can be a framework for your life.
    • the influence of Donald Miller's work in our lives.
    • what makes for a compelling life story.
    • the struggle to live a compelling story and how comfort, anxiety, and the American dream can often keep us stuck.
    • how discontent and anxiety can be a great catalyst for growth in our lives.
    • Scott and Annie's story of adoption.
    • etcetra
    • Please listen and subscribe to my podcast in the following places, and then leave a comment letting me know what you liked about the show, or what guest you would like to hear from. Thank you so much for your support.

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      Resources and Links Mentioned in the Episode

      Website

      Twitter

      Donald Miller

      Donald Miller's sermon Story at Mars Hill in Michigan

      A Million Miles in a Thousand Years

      Blood Water Mission and Jena Lee Nardella

      Tapestry

      Tell Me a Story: Finding God (and Ourselves) Through Narrative

      1 hr 35 min
    • Exploring the Way that Technology Shapes Us, Our Relationships, and Our Faith -- with Author, Technologist and Theologian, John Dyer

      I first met John Dyer online somewhere in the summer of 2008. I was engaged online quite a bit at the intersection of faith and technology. I am definitely not an expert in technology, but there was a period of about 4-5 years where I spent a lot of time at social media and technology conferences, workshops, meetups, etc. And during that time I spoke quite a bit on how technology shapes our relationships. But it was when I met John in person in the Fall of 2008 and we started hanging out, that I really began to understand truly how technology shapes us.

      Some of John's work that really shaped me early on you can find in his presentation Technology is not Neutral: How Bible Technology Shapes our Faith. This presentation is a good introduction into John's thoughts on technology. And these thoughts powerfully shaped how I understood the role of technology in my life, especially understanding that it is not neutral, but is always shaping us in some way. The question is, how is the technology we are using shape us? If this is a question that you are curious about, I recommend you read John's book, From the Garden to the City: The Redeeming and Corrupting Power of Technology.

      I have had the privilege over the last 6 years to have a friendship with John, and I've also really enjoyed our time together team teaching/presenting at some church workshops and conferences on the role of technology in our relationships. John is a very thoughtful, intelligent, and humble guy, and as you listen to the podcast you will begin to understand what I mean. In this podcast we talk about:

      • John's journey in understanding the role of technology in our lives and how it shapes us.
      • what technology is and how it is defined (it's not just social media and our computers)
      • how technology shapes us
      • how we can use technology without it using us
      • the implications of technology in our faith journey
      • what are some of the exciting things on the horizon when it comes to innovation in technology
      • what are some of the things in the innovation of technology that we might have caution about
      • ideas about how we can more effectively use technology in a way that isn't harmful to our relationships
      Please listen and subscribe to my podcast in the following places, and then leave a comment letting me know what you liked about the show, or what guest you would like to hear from. Thank you so much for your support.

      iTunes

      Stitcher

      Player FM

      Libsyn

      Resources and Links Mentioned in the Episode

      Amusing Ourselves to Death by Neil Postman

      Technology and the Character of Contemporary Life by Albert Borgmann

      The Medium is the Massage: An Inventory of Effects by Marshall McLuhan

      Wendell Berry

      Best Commentaries

      MediaElements.js

      From the Garden to the City: The Redeeming and Corrupting Power of Technology

      Other Links

      Website:. John Dyer

      Twitter:. John Dyer

      Using Technology Without Technology Using You: Technology in the Kingdom, Society, and Your Life

      Thinking Theologically About Technology and Culture

      1 hr 2 min
    • Exploring the Way that Technology Shapes Us, Our Relationships, and Our Faith -- with Author, Technologist and Theologian, John Dyer

      I first met John Dyer online somewhere in the summer of 2008. I was engaged online quite a bit at the intersection of faith and technology. I am definitely not an expert in technology, but there was a period of about 4-5 years where I spent a lot of time at social media and technology conferences, workshops, meetups, etc. And during that time I spoke quite a bit on how technology shapes our relationships. But it was when I met John in person in the Fall of 2008 and we started hanging out, that I really began to understand truly how technology shapes us.

      Some of John's work that really shaped me early on you can find in his presentation Technology is not Neutral: How Bible Technology Shapes our Faith. This presentation is a good introduction into John's thoughts on technology. And these thoughts powerfully shaped how I understood the role of technology in my life, especially understanding that it is not neutral, but is always shaping us in some way. The question is, how is the technology we are using shape us? If this is a question that you are curious about, I recommend you read John's book, From the Garden to the City: The Redeeming and Corrupting Power of Technology.

      I have had the privilege over the last 6 years to have a friendship with John, and I've also really enjoyed our time together team teaching/presenting at some church workshops and conferences on the role of technology in our relationships. John is a very thoughtful, intelligent, and humble guy, and as you listen to the podcast you will begin to understand what I mean. In this podcast we talk about:

      • John's journey in understanding the role of technology in our lives and how it shapes us.
      • what technology is and how it is defined (it's not just social media and our computers)
      • how technology shapes us
      • how we can use technology without it using us
      • the implications of technology in our faith journey
      • what are some of the exciting things on the horizon when it comes to innovation in technology
      • what are some of the things in the innovation of technology that we might have caution about
      • ideas about how we can more effectively use technology in a way that isn't harmful to our relationships
      • Please listen and subscribe to my podcast in the following places, and then leave a comment letting me know what you liked about the show, or what guest you would like to hear from. Thank you so much for your support.

        iTunes

        Stitcher

        Player FM

        Libsyn

        Resources and Links Mentioned in the Episode

        Amusing Ourselves to Death by Neil Postman

        Technology and the Character of Contemporary Life by Albert Borgmann

        The Medium is the Massage: An Inventory of Effects by Marshall McLuhan

        Wendell Berry

        Best Commentaries

        MediaElements.js

        From the Garden to the City: The Redeeming and Corrupting Power of Technology

         

        Other Links

        Website:. John Dyer

        Twitter:. John Dyer

        Using Technology Without Technology Using You: Technology in the Kingdom, Society, and Your Life

        Thinking Theologically About Technology and Culture

        1 hr 2 min
      • Parenting in an Online World, Creating Sacred Spaces, and Navigating Cyberbullying and Pornography Among Youth -- with Youth Cartel Co-Founder, Speaker and Technologist Adam McLane

        I first got to connect with Adam McLane when we were driving through the Dominican Republic, and across the border into Haiti. It was only about a month after the devastating earthquake that hit Haiti, and we were part of a youth ministry team that went down there (though as Adam points out, it was more like a bunch of youth pastors and me -- a therapist). Over the course of those last five years I have had the opportunity to really connect and get to know Adam better, as well as speaking at his initial Youth Cartel in 2012, on the topic of, The Anxiety of Teenagers.But in the last 5 years Adam has become one of the leading experts on youth and technology. In August of 2013, Adam's expertise really gained attention when his blog post, "Why You Should Delete SnapChat" went viral, eventually taking shutting down his blog with all the traffic. But don't mistake Adam for some kind of anti-tech Luddite, rather he is a very thoughtful, thinker on technology and how it shapes our lives. And one of the things I really like about Adam when talking to him about technology, is that he's not one to just lay down rules and put tech tools into action, rather he really encourages the consumer of tech to think about how they use their technology, and how they can create "sacred spaces" and practice sabbaths in their lives.In this episode Adam and I dive deep into the work of Danah Boyd, and more specifically her latest book, It's Complicated: The Social Lives of Networked Teens. It's a great book, and Adam recommends that all parents buy the book, if only to read the first chapter. We also explore bullying and cyberbullying and how what takes place online is most often modeled offline. We also explore the issue of trust between parents and kids, and talk about why Adam doesn't recommend filtering or monitoring devices on computers. One of Adam's concerns that he addresses is that too often parent's turn over their parenting responsibilities to devices, rather than to help their kids think critically about how they engage technology.This was a fun conversation, and ultimately, I think both Adam and I mourned a little bit the loss of a lot of the freedoms that we had as kids (taking off on our bikes and being gone all day; cruising; loitering, etc.), but that kids today don't/can't experience (Danah Boyd's work explores this cultural shift).This episode is for any of you who use technology (which is you if you are reading this). So whether you are a parent, or not, I highly recommend listening and discovering how you can more thoughtfully consume technology in your own life.

        1 hr 13 min
      • Parenting in an Online World, Creating Sacred Spaces, and Navigating Cyberbullying and Pornography Among Youth -- with Youth Cartel Co-Founder, Speaker and Technologist Adam McLane

        I first got to connect with Adam McLane when we were driving through the Dominican Republic, and across the border into Haiti. It was only about a month after the devastating earthquake that hit Haiti, and we were part of a youth ministry team that went down there (though as Adam points out, it was more like a bunch of youth pastors and me -- a therapist). Over the course of those last five years I have had the opportunity to really connect and get to know Adam better, as well as speaking at his initial Youth Cartel in 2012, on the topic of, The Anxiety of Teenagers.

        But in the last 5 years Adam has become one of the leading experts on youth and technology. In August of 2013, Adam's expertise really gained attention when his blog post, "Why You Should Delete SnapChat" went viral, eventually taking shutting down his blog with all the traffic. But don't mistake Adam for some kind of anti-tech Luddite, rather he is a very thoughtful, thinker on technology and how it shapes our lives. And one of the things I really like about Adam when talking to him about technology, is that he's not one to just lay down rules and put tech tools into action, rather he really encourages the consumer of tech to think about how they use their technology, and how they can create "sacred spaces" and practice sabbaths in their lives.

        In this episode Adam and I dive deep into the work of Danah Boyd, and more specifically her latest book, It's Complicated: The Social Lives of Networked Teens. It's a great book, and Adam recommends that all parents buy the book, if only to read the first chapter. We also explore bullying and cyberbullying and how what takes place online is most often modeled offline.

        We also explore the issue of trust between parents and kids, and talk about why Adam doesn't recommend filtering or monitoring devices on computers. One of Adam's concerns that he addresses is that too often parent's turn over their parenting responsibilities to devices, rather than to help their kids think critically about how they engage technology.

        This was a fun conversation, and ultimately, I think both Adam and I mourned a little bit the loss of a lot of the freedoms that we had as kids (taking off on our bikes and being gone all day; cruising; loitering, etc.), but that kids today don't/can't experience (Danah Boyd's work explores this cultural shift).

        This episode is for any of you who use technology (which is you if you are reading this). So whether you are a parent, or not, I highly recommend listening and discovering how you can more thoughtfully consume technology in your own life.

        1 hr 13 min
      • The Journey of Forgiveness

        One of the issues that almost always comes up in my work with clients is the issue of forgiveness. It is the issue that often is not addressed, but the one that is most needed. So a few months ago when a pastor friend of mine asked me to come speak at his church's marriage conference he gave me the freedom to choose what I wanted to talk about. The obvious stuff came to mind instantly, communication....intimacy....sex....etc.

        So I thought about what I wanted to talk about for a few days and finally settled on the topic of forgiveness.Why did I settle on this topic?Because not only is it the one issue that I see in every counseling session (whether forgiveness is taking place or being withheld), but it's something I need to work on more in my own life. So it's not surprising I chose a topic that I most need to grow in.I ended up giving this talk 2x in the course of 8 days. One time at the church marriage conference mentioned above, which took place at Preston Trail church in Frisco, TX. But I also gave the talk to the young adult/young married's group at Highland Park Presbyterian Church in Dallas, TX.It's a topic I loved researching, talking about...and learning more about how much it's needed as an essential discipline in my own life.I ended up doing this podcast by myself (which I plan to do every 4-6 podcasts that I record with guests). So I hope you enjoy.

        1 hr 1 min
      • The Journey of Forgiveness

        One of the issues that almost always comes up in my work with clients is the issue of forgiveness. It is the issue that often is not addressed, but the one that is most needed. So a few months ago when a pastor friend of mine asked me to come speak at his church's marriage conference he gave me the freedom to choose what I wanted to talk about. The obvious stuff came to mind instantly, communication....intimacy....sex....etc.

        So I thought about what I wanted to talk about for a few days and finally settled on the topic of forgiveness.

        Why did I settle on this topic?

        Because not only is it the one issue that I see in every counseling session (whether forgiveness is taking place or being withheld), but it's something I need to work on more in my own life. So it's not surprising I chose a topic that I most need to grow in.

        I ended up giving this talk 2x in the course of 8 days. One time at the church marriage conference mentioned above, which took place at Preston Trail church in Frisco, TX. But I also gave the talk to the young adult/young married's group at Highland Park Presbyterian Church in Dallas, TX.

        It's a topic I loved researching, talking about...and learning more about how much it's needed as an essential discipline in my own life.

        I ended up doing this podcast by myself (which I plan to do every 4-6 podcasts that I record with guests). So I hope you enjoy.

        1 hr 1 min
      • Exploring a Rhythm of Life, Creativity, and Leadership from the Quaker Tradition -- with Theologian, Professor and Writer, Wess Daniels

        As I say in the introduction of this podcast, Wess Daniels is one of the smartest guys that I know. I first met Wess about ten years ago or more when I was a student at Fuller Theological Seminary and pastoring at Bel Air Presbyterian Church. I started hanging out with Wess when he was teaching me some tech hacks in creating my Apple HTML email signature (I know, sounds pretty exciting). But over the years as my friendship with Wess has deepened, I've always been impressed with not only his intellect, and the topics is spans, but his sense of humility.Wess received his Ph.D from Fuller Seminary's School of Intercultural Studies. Wess is especially interested in Quaker renewal and participatory culture. At the time of this interview he was a Quaker pastor at Camas Friends church in Washington....but last week he was named the Director of Friends Center and Quaker Studies at Guilford College.Wess is also the author of A Convergent Model of Renewal: Remixing the Quaker Tradition in a Participatory Culture. Besides publishing this theological work, Wess has also contributed to the Sketchnote Workbook and written about "learning the art of sketchnote preaching."In this podcast we discuss a lot of different things such as:

        --leadership in the Quaker tradition (flattened leadership)

        --what participatory culture looks like

        --developing weekly rhythms of self-care

        --harnessing creativity in our work (i.e. sketchnotes)Please listen and subscribe to my podcast in the following places, and then leave a comment letting me know what you liked about the show, or what guest you would like to hear from. Thank you so much for your support.

        --iTunes

        --Stitcher

        --Player FM

        --Libsyn

        1 hr 5 min
      • Exploring a Rhythm of Life, Creativity, and Leadership from the Quaker Tradition -- with Theologian, Professor and Writer, Wess Daniels

        As I say in the introduction of this podcast, Wess Daniels is one of the smartest guys that I know. I first met Wess about ten years ago or more when I was a student at Fuller Theological Seminary and pastoring at Bel Air Presbyterian Church. I started hanging out with Wess when he was teaching me some tech hacks in creating my Apple HTML email signature (I know, sounds pretty exciting). But over the years as my friendship with Wess has deepened, I've always been impressed with not only his intellect, and the topics is spans, but his sense of humility.

        Wess received his Ph.D from Fuller Seminary's School of Intercultural Studies. Wess is especially interested in Quaker renewal and participatory culture. At the time of this interview he was a Quaker pastor at Camas Friends church in Washington....but last week he was named the Director of Friends Center and Quaker Studies at Guilford College.

        Wess is also the author of A Convergent Model of Renewal: Remixing the Quaker Tradition in a Participatory Culture. Besides publishing this theological work, Wess has also contributed to the Sketchnote Workbook and written about "learning the art of sketchnote preaching."

        In this podcast we discuss a lot of different things such as:

        --leadership in the Quaker tradition (flattened leadership)

        --what participatory culture looks like

        --developing weekly rhythms of self-care

        --harnessing creativity in our work (i.e. sketchnotes)


        Please listen and subscribe to my podcast in the following places, and then leave a comment letting me know what you liked about the show, or what guest you would like to hear from. Thank you so much for your support.

        --iTunes

        --Stitcher

        --Player FM

        --Libsyn

        1 hr 5 min
      • Turning Insight into Change, Striving for Balance, and Living Relationally -- with Innovation 360's Kevin Gilliland and Lauren Barnett

        This was a really fun podcast episode to record. I drove down to Dallas a couple of weeks ago to spend a couple of hours with Innovation 360's Executive Director Kevin Gilliland, and Director of Marketing Lauren Barnett. I first came across the work of Innovation 360 when I met up with Lauren and another colleague over coffee one morning. And in the last 3 years I have been continually impressed not only with Lauren and Kevin, but the whole team at Innovation 360. I love their all encompassing approach to mental health, which involves caring for the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual lives of those they come alongside of.Not only our Kevin and Lauren involved in mental health, but they are avid triathletes. And when I say avid, I mean Lauren is professionally sponsored, and not only won first place in her first , but she has been on the podium ever since. And Kevin competes regularly in triathlons, completing two races. These two are people who strive to take care of themselves physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually, and because of that, not only do they thrive as a person, but their relationships and work thrive as well.In this podcast we had a great time talking about a lot of things, but some of the main conversations center around:--turning insight into change--striving for balance in our lives--the importance of relationships to help us grow--their personal stories of how they got involved in triathlons and how it has helped challenge them to grow--what to do if you find yourself "stuck" in life

        1 hr 21 min

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