Destry Abbott is a true family man first and foremost. He has had an amazing career and some heart wrenching challenges. 

Listen in as he teaches the skill he uses to deal with immense pressure from sponsors (bosses) as well as battle with cancer.

Connect with Destry at the links below:

Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/destryabbott8

Instagram- @destryabbott ,  @da8strong ,  @da8training

DA8 Training Website- https://www.da8training.com/

DA8 Strong Foundation Website- https://www.da8strong.org/

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In this episode I interview Ben Dettamanti who is a funny and hard working dad. He’s living his dream and taking leaps and bounds that most of us are unwilling to risk. Listen in as we discuss how he jumpstarted his career as a full time hunter, how he paid off all his debt and how he manages his time between hunts with the family. 

Ben’s (@shedcrazy) Links:

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shedcrazy/?hl=en

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg1sSeh0DuhHlzEzLWJCn2Q

His Apparel- https://getshedcrazy.com/

Canvas Cutter - https://canvascutter.com/

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“To every man there comes in his lifetime that special moment when he is figuratively tapped on the shoulder and offered a chance to do a very special thing, unique to him and fitted to his talents. What a tragedy if that moment finds him unprepared or unqualified for that which would be his finest hour.” Winston Churchill

In that critical hour that Winston Churchill is talking about what will make the difference between tragedy and triumph? Stay tuned as we explore the answers...

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What does it mean to be “The Provider”?

Is it really just about making the money to get the family what they need?

Should the dad still be the provider in the 21st century when women have careers too?

Has the definition of being a good provider changed with modern society?

This notion of being the provider is riddled with both pitfalls and potential for greatness. Stay tuned as we answer these questions and take a deeper look at what it means to provide for the family.

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This is the story of how my preparation for both daughters turned into an obsessive research project that led me to some amazing discoveries. 

Please join me in this episode as I share the story and findings that led to the creation of PRIMED FATHERHOOD.

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In some ways new years is a great time to set goals and look forward to a new chapter in life BUT  I think we all have experienced the frustration of setting new goals and then falling short of what we want.  

Sometimes I've been so frustrated with the new years thing that I have completely avoided the process of setting new years resolutions.  

Today I want to share The One Thing I have found to be more effective than New Year's resolutions or annual goals but still motivating and helpful in making lasting change in your life. 

"The ONE Thing" by Gary Keller- https://amzn.to/3pC0DAc

Jesse Itzler Speech Video- https://youtu.be/sWZbfxpW1Ak

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“Any problem, big or small, within a family, always seems to start with bad communication.” Emma Thompson

I would say most of our problems in life can be solved or aided by better communication. If not by communication by itself then by knowing how to communicate with the right people at the right time.

“The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” George Bernard Shaw

If you know you suck at communicating you're on the right track and this short Primer Episode will help you a lot. 

If you think you're a good or great communicator you better check yourself against the 7 38 55 rule to be sure. I tend to think I’m a good communicator but this rule has opened my eyes and I now try to measure myself against it to keep moving in the right direction.

Stay tuned to learn this rule and put yourself on the path to being a better family leader and professional by learning this simple but often forgotten part of great communication.

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If you listened to episode 19 you probably got a feeling for how enthusiastic and energetic Andy is as we discussed the power and process of networking. 

In the second part of that interview I was really impressed by the things that he does to stay engaged with the kids and wife. As we talked I realized there are 5 key elements that make up the success that he has in staying engaged with the kids and keeping them out of trouble and on a positive path.

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When I started Rugged Material I was still in college. I got a tip to go to the group called the “Thinkubator” group on a thursday night. It was my first stab at trying to network my own business. I got to the meeting a little late and saw this big group of middle aged guys sitting around a fancy conference table all very engaged in little side conversations with people around them. When I walked into the room with my wife and friend not many people noticed and no one said anything. Then when we found a seat a young looking guy came over to me and shook my hand. He said my name is Andy what’s your’s? What do you do? How can we help? And before I knew it he was introducing me to 3 other guys who had experience manufacturing and selling their own physical products. 

I didn’t know it at the time but when I shook Andy’s hand I became part of a powerful network of thousands of great people. Andy Springer is a dad of 3 young men, husband to a great woman, a successful salesman/ insurance guy, a real estate investor and serial entrepreneur. Andy is a networking Pro with so much experience making connections with people I’m sure you’ll benefit from learning his formula and following his example. 

I am really excited to share part one of my interview with him today as he shares his approach to building a powerful network that benefits not only your career but your family too.

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Everyone has at least one big roadblock that is keeping them from living the way they want to live. It could be you are needing to make more money or you need to get healthier or it could be that you have relationships that are struggling. For most of us it’s usually a combination of some of these.

Thanks for joining me in this Primer Episode. Primed Fatherhood is meant to help dads make weekly progress on things that often slip our minds when we get sucked into the daily grind of work, family, work family.

My primer episodes are shorter than my interviews and are meant to be quick and simple reminders of different things that will help us to be better dads if considered and acted upon. 

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