The Power of Yet
What happens when we add one small word to the stories we tell ourselves?
I haven't achieved my goal…yet.
I haven't learned how to manage this…yet.
I haven't found where I belong…yet.
I haven't met my person…yet.
In this episode of PTSD and Beyond, Dr. Deb explores how the word yet can interrupt finality and create space for hope, possibility, and what comes next.
Drawing from the work of psychologists C. R. Snyder, Carol Dweck, and George Bonanno, we explore the research behind hope, growth mindset, resilience, and flexibility—and what these ideas can mean for trauma recovery. Hope isn't about pretending everything will work out exactly as planned. Sometimes it's simply recognizing that where we are today doesn't have to determine where we'll be tomorrow.
We also explore the stories we continue to carry from our past. Trauma, loss, disappointment, and experiences that didn't turn out the way we hoped are chapters in our lives—but they don't have to become the whole book. We can stop rereading old chapters and expecting them to end differently while making room for pages that haven't been written yet.
In this episode, we explore:
How “yet” changes the language of possibilityThe difference between hope and toxic positivitySnyder's Hope Theory and the role of agency and pathwaysGrowth mindset and the power of “not yet”Resilience, flexibility, and different paths through trauma recoveryHow absolute language like “never” and “always” can turn today's experience into tomorrow's predictionPractical ways to begin noticing and shifting our own languageWhy moving beyond doesn't mean forgetting what happenedMaking room for the parts of our story that are still unwrittenTrauma gets chapters. It doesn't automatically get the whole book.
There are people we haven't met, places we haven't been, things we haven't discovered, and versions of ourselves we haven't encountered.
Our story is still being written.
And some of the best pages of our lives may not have been lived…
If you or someone you know is struggling, support is available. In the U.S., you can call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. It is available 24/7 and free and confidential.
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