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Ever feel like happiness is a puzzle with pieces scattered in a thousand different directions? That's where Janelle and Eddie come in, piecing together the happiness puzzle with insights from Dr. Laurie Santos' renowned Yale course. Our latest episode is a deeply personal journey into the essence of joy, as we discuss why so many people don't feel as fulfilled as they expect, and why the thrill of excitement might just be a misleading guidepost on the road to true contentment.

As we traverse the landscape of well-being, we tackle the tough question of whether happiness is shaped more by circumstance or perception. Sharing stories of personal growth and examining the pitfalls of chasing novelty, we reveal how a deeper appreciation of our own experiences, combined with special moments of wonder, can enhance our lives. Happiness isn't just about what happens to us, it's about how we frame our narrative, and this episode is all about rewriting that story for a richer, more contented life.

Culture, they say, is the lens through which we see the world, and it's no different when it comes to happiness. In an intimate segment, we reflect on the diverse cultural narratives that shape our pursuit of joy, from my own experiences in a duty-first Asian household to the communal values that overshadow personal bliss in many parts of the world. We also explore the interconnectedness of physical well-being and emotional happiness, examining how the simple act of feeling good can cast a broad glow on our overall state of mind. Don't miss this exploration into what happiness could, and perhaps should, mean for you.

(00:00) Exploring Happiness and Self-Discovery

Challenges of maintaining energy for podcast, happiness vs. excitement, and shifting focus for lasting happiness.

(08:12) The Role of Circumstances in Happiness

Chasing novelty can lead to dissatisfaction, but finding contentment in the present and planning special events can enhance happiness.

(13:06) Finding Happiness in Challenging Circumstances

Attitude, upbringing, and education can shape happiness more than external achievements, as discussed in the complex relationship between happiness, circumstances, and attitude.

(21:23) Cultural Perspectives on Happiness

Culture, upbringing, and societal roles can shape one's pursuit of happiness, while physical well-being also plays a significant role.

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Listen in as we explore the art of healthy debate and the necessity of understanding different perspectives in our latest conversation. Kicking things off with a lighthearted chat about our favorite fashion finds, we quickly transition to the meatier topic of how to agree to disagree, particularly in the heat of a polarized political climate. We stress the importance of open-mindedness and the enrichment that comes from considering alternate viewpoints. As the presidential election looms, we remind listeners that engaging in respectful discourse is not only essential for a functioning democracy but also for personal growth, regardless of where one stands politically.

In this episode, we also dive into the power of dialogue and intellectual honesty, sharing insights from listening to Tucker Carlson and watching Candice Owens on 'Club Random'. These experiences underline the lost learning opportunities when we too quickly label and dismiss others, rather than approaching their perspectives with curiosity. From debating taboo topics like religion and politics without damaging friendships to confronting societal taboos around death and grief, we dissect how our upbringing influences our beliefs and the importance of exposing our children to a variety of viewpoints for better critical thinking.

Wrapping up our discussion, we tackle the challenges of navigating difficult conversations and the role emotional intelligence plays in conflict resolution. By sharing personal anecdotes and examining triggers like political symbols, we illustrate how to communicate openly and with respect. This episode is a testament to the value of patience, empathy, and the art of apology in fostering understanding over division. So join us, bring your perspectives, and let's connect through meaningful conversations that may just change the way we see the world.

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The journey of self-improvement is paved with the bricks of thoughtful goal setting, and we're laying out the blueprint for you. We share the impact of looking back to leap forward, setting meaningful objectives, and the importance of involving your partner in your fitness resolutions. From dissecting the fine art of balancing career ambitions with personal relationships to the practicalities of scheduling life's milestones, this episode is a treasure trove of insights on creating a life that resonates with your deepest desires.

And as a symbol of our shared commitment to growth, we're rolling out a bracelet giveaway that's set to make your 2024 intentions shine. Be one of the first five listeners to review us on Apple Podcasts and send us your chosen word for the year, and you'll receive a handcrafted bracelet, a daily reminder of your aspirations. So sync up with us, and let's ride this wave of personal transformation together.

(00:02) Traffic Etiquette and Road Rage

This chapter kicks off the new year with a lively discussion about unexpected events and societal norms, specifically focusing on a recent incident we experienced with a motorcyclist who aggressively closed my car mirror while we were driving in the carpool lane. We question the entitlement of motorcyclists who navigate traffic in ways that other vehicles can't, ponder the fairness of traffic laws that seem to favor them, and consider the broader implications of expecting others to always be aware of your presence. We also touch on the importance of responsible driving and the frustration that arises when someone disregards your space on the road. Join us as we share this personal story and unravel the nuances of road etiquette and safety.

(12:03) Obsession With Music and Crafty Gift-Giving

This chapter kicks off with a rave review of an unexpected piano rendition of Hall & Oates' "Maneater" by the actor who played in "Dear Evan Hansen," leading to an obsession with the song that's taken over our lives and playlists. We also tackle the post-holiday slump and the challenge of packing away decorations, which has been overshadowed by my latest crafting craze. I discuss how my creative spree started with making bracelets and keychains as thoughtful gifts, which quickly turned into a neighborhood-wide endeavor to spread love and joy. Each keychain was personalized to match the neighbor's home color and decor, accompanied by a heartfelt note to ring in the new year with a sense of community and appreciation for our unique neighborhood charm.

(22:18) Reflecting, Setting Goals for Previous Year

This chapter, we reflect on the power of looking back to inform our goals for the new year. I share my personal practice of scrolling through past memories, such as my camera roll, to remember the joys and accomplishments of the year, leading to intentional goal setting for the future. We consider the importance of acknowledging both expected and unexpected achievements, highlighting how reflection can reveal successes we may have overlooked. Additionally, we address the limitations of New Year's resolutions and the preference for setting time-bound goals, emphasizing that while some objectives continue from year to year, it's beneficial to tweak strategies based on past learnings. For instance, I discuss prioritizing fitness and the importance of meal planning to avoid self-sabotage, inspired by insights from a friend's e-book on dieting challenges.

(32:31) Categories, Goals, and Relationships

This chapter focuses on the significance of categorizing life goals and the impact of goal setting on personal growth and relationships. We examine how health, business, and relationships can serve as distinct categories for setting objectives, and the importance of differentiating between them. The conversation also touches on the personal journey of getting in shape, dealing with external perceptions of weight loss, and the need for mental clarity through exercise. Furthermore, we discuss the role of time management and productivity in achieving goals, as well as the necessity of health and vitality as we age. I highlight the need for including one's partner in health and wellness plans and the small adjustments that can be made for continuous improvement. Finally, we stress the value of setting specific goals for nurturing relationships to prevent them from being neglected amidst personal ambitions.

(44:45) Create New Life, Set Goals

This chapter discusses the idea that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to setting and pursuing life goals. We touch on the differences between how individuals prioritize aspects of their lives, with some needing a multitude of categories to feel fulfilled, while others might focus on just a few. I share insights on how sometimes goals need to be parked for a while and that quitting certain objectives can be positive if it aligns with your current priorities, such as family. We emphasize the importance of intentionality in setting goals and how previous years' experiences inform and prepare us for future endeavors. Moreover, we highlight the practical side of planning, recommending that listeners schedule important personal events and commitments well in advance, ensuring they can create a balanced life where business objectives coexist harmoniously with family time and personal health, ultimately leading to a year one can look forward to with anticipation.

(48:11) The Importance of Setting Clear Goals

This chapter focuses on the significance of setting short-term goals to build the habit of achievement, especially at the start of a new year. I emphasize the importance of having a mission to avoid feelings of frustration and to achieve emotional and mental health. We explore the idea that humans are designed for pursuit and that without it, one might project dissatisfaction onto other areas of their life. Additionally, I discuss the power of clarity in setting goals and how it enables the universe to conspire in one's favor. By getting specific about what you want, whether in finances, relationships, or personal health, you create a pathway for action and change. I encourage listeners to visualize their desired outcomes and take proactive steps to realize them, reinforcing the notion that action shapes mindset and propels us towards our goals.

(55:36) Bracelet Giveaway for 2024 Goal Word

This chapter, we talk about the power of setting an intentional word for the upcoming year and the special giveaway to engage our listeners. I invite you to choose a word that embodies your purpose for 2024, write a quick review on Apple Podcasts, and then DM me your choice along with your address. As a token of appreciation, I'll handcraft a bracelet for the first five listeners who respond, infusing it with love and positive energy, with the hope that it might help make your dreams a reality. Remember to share your word and participate for a chance to receive this heartfelt gift, as we all gear up for a fantastic new year.

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As the holiday cheer fills the air, we're jazzed to have London's own Jordan Copeland joining us to unravel the fabric of our daily experiences with her astute reflections. We kick things off with a lively debate on hydrogen water—yes, it's a thing—and the lengths we'll go to for health, despite what our taste buds might think. The merriment continues as we reminisce about the hilarity and joy that structured games brought to a recent holiday party, prompting us to reconsider the underestimated value of organized fun.

Our conversation with Jordan takes an engaging turn as we navigate through the quirky waters of cultural language differences. Ever found yourself befuddled by slang on your travels? We sure did. But it's not all about the laughs; we delve deep into the transformative world of Artistic Development. Here, actors and laymen alike are encouraged to challenge perceptions and articulate emotions, a practice that proves invaluable both on stage and in the complexities of everyday life. And don't get us started on the social media rabbit hole—Jordan’s insights on self-awareness and the dark art of comparison are as enlightening as they are timely.

As we wrap up, the theme of self-discovery remains strong. We reflect on the powerful interplay between pain and growth, the intricacies of relationship boundaries, and our quest for meaningful connections. Jordan's fresh take on character redemption in TV land leads us to ponder our own personal epiphanies and the habits that define us. And for the actors out there, we're talking about finding your unique voice amidst the challenge of self-awareness on stage. So whether you’re praying for good weather in LA or sipping tea in London, this episode is guaranteed to stir the pot and maybe even inspire your next holiday conversation.

(00:05) Push Podcast With Jordan Copeland

Jordan Copeland shares London experiences, debating hydrogen water's taste and enjoying organized fun at a holiday party.

(12:38) Exploring Reflections and Communication Skills

Cultural language differences, self-reflection, and the value of articulating emotions are discussed in this podcast episode.

(16:23) Knowing Yourself, Avoiding Comparison on Social Media

Self-awareness, social media, and otherization are discussed through personal experiences of living abroad and returning home.

(27:54) Navigating Emotional Resilience and Relationship Boundaries

Pain can lead to personal growth, forgiveness and memories build resilience, relationships can hinder or aid development, and meaningful conversation is desired.

(41:46) Reflections on Acting and Self-Identity

Character redemption, personal growth, sunk cost bias, habits, transformative experiences, sacrifices, self-evaluation in TV show "Power" and its spinoff.

(50:26) Find Your Voice in Acting

Challenges of authentic performance, struggle with self-awareness, detrimental role of ego, embracing vulnerability, and taking up space without apology.

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Join us for a spirited chat as we recount our recent holiday gathering filled with joy, challenges, and engaging games. We discuss how we ensured everyone felt included and enjoyed themselves, especially with our unique mix of friends from different circles. Listen in as we share how we turned initial nervousness into a fun and memorable experience for all.

Shift your focus with us to personal growth and development, where we recommend books that can inspire you and ignite a change in your mindset. Hear our views on having a direction in life, attaining financial freedom, and contributing positively to society. We also address the controversy surrounding YouTuber Mr Beast's philanthropic gesture. Our conversation is designed to motivate you to go beyond monetary constraints and actively seek personal growth.

We further extend our discussion to more book recommendations for the new year, focusing on handling difficult conversations, improving communication, and self-reflection. Learn from our discussion on how shifting mindset from scarcity to abundance can significantly improve your life. We also talk about capitalism and its impact on society. Lastly, we touch on various themes like capitalism, addiction, childhood trauma, and forgiveness, which makes for a diverse and thought-provoking conversation. Don't miss out on this exciting episode!

(00:01) Party Planning and Icebreaker Games

Janelle and Eddie discuss hosting a successful holiday gathering, including managing different friend groups and providing enjoyable games and prizes.

(12:22) Book Recommendations for Personal Growth

Personal growth, financial stability, and generosity are discussed through book recommendations, quotes, and Mr Beast's offer for cataract surgery.

(22:52) Book Recommendations and Discussions

Nature's difficult conversations, communication techniques, mindset shifts, and capitalism's impact are explored with book recommendations for 2023.

(32:25) Capitalism, Memoirs, and Communication Skills

Capitalism, addiction, childhood trauma, and forgiveness are discussed, along with the influence of social proof in purchasing decisions.

(41:04) Effective Communication and Book Recommendations

Effective communication, parenting, personal and professional development, and creativity are discussed in this chapter's recommended book list.

(49:51) Christmas Gift Giving Ideas

Participants share experiences with white elephant gift exchange and using Venmo for last minute gifts in 2023 Christmas.

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Ever wondered about the true meanings behind the age-old sayings we often use? Join us as we play a fun round of "Never Have I Ever Said," discussing phrases like "early bird catches the worm" and "blood is thicker than water." We share personal experiences and unveil the unexpected interpretations of these familiar words.

We then switch gears and dive into our current interests, sharing recommendations for podcasts and books. I've been fascinated by the All In podcast, and Janelle is currently absorbed in audiobooks, including memoirs of Matthew Perry and 50 Cent. We wrap up by sharing our thoughts on the importance of emotional intelligence and professionalism in various situations. But don't just take our word for it! We also explore the intriguing portrayal of these traits in the popular TV show Yellowstone.

As we delve deeper, we focus on the generational differences in the workforce, specifically Gen Z. Analysing the influence of social media and technology on work ethics, we emphasise the importance of emotional professionalism. We also share insights on how parents can cultivate emotional intelligence in their children. So, gear up for a captivating discussion as we unravel this and much more!

(00:00) Famous Phrases in Never Have I Ever
(05:36) Podcast Recommendations and Memoir Reviews
(19:47) Emotional Intelligence and Yellowstone Analysis
(24:40) Generational Differences in the Workforce
(32:15) Building Emotional Intelligence in Generation Z
(39:13) Teaching Emotional Professionalism and Communication
(46:48) Teaching Assertiveness and Reparenting Children
(51:27) Building Positive Relationships and Managing Stress

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Discover a riveting exploration of parenting like you've never heard before. Be prepared to challenge your beliefs, question your actions, and reconsider your strategies as we navigate the complex world of raising children. We kick things off with a controversial restaurant policy that fines parents for their misbehaving children. We grapple with this contentious issue and the larger implications it holds for children's behavior in public spaces.

As we progress, we delve into some fundamental life skills every parent should impart to their children. We shine a light on financial literacy, cooking, understanding politics, and decision-making. We also highlight the importance of personal hygiene, time management, and cleaning skills, backed by personal anecdotes and practical tips. The journey doesn't end there, so buckle up as we then steer the conversation towards developing mental toughness and resilience in children.

In the grand finale, we place a strong emphasis on teaching children about safety, their rights, laws, workplace etiquette, and navigating the world safely. We underscore the need for basic first aid skills and stress the importance of health advocacy. As we wrap up, we leave you enlightened and equipped to handle the immense responsibility that parenting demands. So, tune in and let's redefine parenting together.

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(0:00:00) - Parenting Responsibility and Restaurant Etiquette
Raising responsible children, mandatory parenting prerequisite, struggles, $50 surcharge for misbehaving children, importance of being a good role model.

(0:08:58) - Parenting and Behaviors in Public Places
Children's behavior in public places, debate on fining parents, teaching appropriate behavior, handling spectrum disorders, and varying opinions from online community.

(0:18:03) - Teach Kids Finance and Cooking Basics
Teaching kids essential life skills: financial literacy, cooking and nutrition, politics and critical thinking, and consequences of actions.

(0:24:29) - Personal Hygiene, Cleaning, and Time Management
Parents teach life skills, like cooking and hygiene, for self-sufficiency. Eating vegetables is crucial for health.

(0:39:00) - Mental Toughness and Health Advocacy
Mental and spiritual toughness are crucial for success and control in life, and we must teach resilience, advocate for women's health, and teach first aid skills.

(0:42:33) - Teaching Kids Safety and Life Skills
Teaching first aid, communication, digital literacy, transportation skills to children for their safety and independence.

(0:48:25) - Teaching Essential Life Skills to Kids
Parents should teach kids about hygiene, budgeting, workplace etiquette, safety and laws, and the value of hard work and professionalism.

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Are you ready to survive the chaos that comes with the holidays and spend a lovely time with your family? 

Get comfortable and pay attention to what Eddie and I have brought for you today, cause this episode has everything you need to know about food, family traditions, fitness, and of course, mindfulness.

When you gathered all your family and friends together in the same room a lot of things can happen and we wanted to dedicate the next hour to help you find the tools and skills that can help you preserve the magic and the joyfulness of the occasion. 

From how to delegate different chores to each family member to learning how to communicate better, we are here to accompany you every step of the way into a successful holiday season.

Tune in and get to know all the tips and ideas to push through a lovely holiday in this new episode of The Push Podcast.

Key points discussed:

• How to make your kids more involved in the holiday’s preparations (11:02)
• How to manage the anxiety and other negative feelings during the holidays (17:21)
• Commit to communicate and understand others in order to maintain the connection (24:23)
• Establish your expectations from the beginning and know what to expect from others (28:59)
• Adding value and meaning to the simplest things (32:49)
• How to talk to your kids about Santa Claus (36:08)
• Do not give up on your fitness during the holidays (41:12)
• Final tips to spend a kick-ass holiday’s with your family (43:21)

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• 10 Things Confident People Don’t Do: https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/287463

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(0:00:01) - Splitting Winnings
Giving spirit, expectations, and winning $100,000 discussed on social media.

(0:08:37) - Discussion on Giving and Receiving Compensation
We discuss windfall, fairness, emotions, and anxiety when making decisions.

(0:17:24) - Matthew Perry's Addiction Battle & Substance Abuse Impact
Matthew Perry's addiction, its effects, and its causes are discussed.

(0:27:04) - Transitioning to Empty Nester Life
Embracing and celebrating changes in parenting roles, creating experiences, shifting from caretaker to advisor, and offering support instead of control.

(0:39:28) - Rediscover Yourself
Rediscovering oneself through hobbies, making oneself the main character, and enjoying the quiet can help increase patience and appreciation for children.

(0:52:30) - Selfless Parenting
Parenting's selflessness, teaching kids to face the world, and instilling values are discussed.

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(0:00:00) - Exploring Love and Support in Relationships
Craig discusses downsizing, the cost of moving, and how to show love to his wife.

(0:06:44) - Misunderstandings Over Free Items
Craig puts up a sign, but a neighbor ignores it; he takes books to a bookstore, but is rejected until he finds a Harley Davidson book.

(0:12:07) - The Complexity of Giving and Relationships
Craig and his wife's evolving relationship is discussed, emphasizing the importance of give and take.

(0:15:29) - Meeting Others' Needs
Husband recognizes and meets wife's needs, understanding essential for relationships.

(0:27:09) - Gift Giving and Understanding Love Languages
Gifting can be difficult; we discuss considering interests, needs, and intent when giving gifts.

(0:33:52) - Love Languages and Communication
Craig emphasizes listening and understanding love languages to nurture relationships.

(0:42:11) - Communication and Love Languages
Communication, honesty, understanding love language, and giving what you want all strengthen relationships.

(0:50:41) - Parenting and Love Advice for 2023
Craig shares his experience of learning his partner's love language to nurture her, and the importance of understanding and expressing needs in a relationship.

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