Waiting for the other shoe to drop? Feeling on edge around there only be challenges in your relationship and nothing good to focus on? 

Let's talk all about it. What can you do to start training your brain to find the wins, even when challenges are present? (especially when challenges are present) What gets in the way of letting things be good when they are genuinely good in a dynamic? 

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You know that feeling when you are ABSOLUTELY certain that what is happening in your relationship is unfair and you are determined to make it fair and ensure that justice is reached and you are willing to defend yourself to the ends of the Earth to make it all happen?! Well, that is what we are talking on, friends.

And not just that, but the weirdness that comes when there is actually nothing to do about an unfair situation and how something being unfair does not automatically mean that something is wrong or bad (we know, hot take). 

All this and a sandwich shop analogy to show why acceptance in tough situations is key!

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"I want to feel secure in my relationship." A goal that we hear all the time from clients so let's break it down - what are the components of a truly secure attachment in relationships? 

If you are interested in learning more around what we go over today, we mention the work of Emotionally Focused Therapy, founded by Dr. Sue Johnson. 

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This is something we speak to from different angles across all the topics we go over on the podcast, so why not just be super direct and talk about what exactly is a healthy relationship? We are going to the basics with this one!

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Whether this is completing the past with a relationship long gone, or completing the past in a current relationship around an ongoing issue, your ability to liberate yourself from the charge of those experiences will make a huge difference for your relational wellbeing. 

What does it even mean or feel like when we say completing the past? We go over different examples and how you can tell when something is not complete, as well as how to be in that uncomfortable space in a partnership where you feel complete about something but they don't. 

It's tough work, but meaningful, as always. 

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Look, there are plenty of pros to the advancements in technology, especially when it comes to communication. AND it is also important to recognize where these advancements are actually making it difficult for us to connect with others and with ourselves in a very human way. 

We go over the common challenges that intimate relationships run up against as the world gets more tech-centric, as well as some of the pitfalls that can happen when AI is too heavily relied on. 

What are you facing in your relationships when it comes to the role that these different advancements play? How are you intentionally staying connected to your own humanity and to the humanity of others in your life? 

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What is the long game? How does discernment come into play? And exactly how much patience do you actually need to say that you successfully attempted to play the long game?

We go over the ins and the outs with these questions and more from what we have experienced ourselves, and from what we have learned with clients in this realm!

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Boundaries will inevitably come up in your self-development/personal growth work. It is a buzz word that often draws people into this realm of exploration, but how do we use boundaries for the purpose of expanding our personal growth?

A fine question that we go into today and use examples from our own lives, and from the sessions we have with clients as they navigate relational challenges. 

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Intuition. A gut feeling. Inner knowing. Whatever the word, whatever the phrase, let's talk about getting connected to that (often) soft voice within yourself and how that relates to any and all relationships.

There is a lot of noise in the world from external sources and it can be so difficult to know what action to take or what choice to make. And then, maybe you do have some clarity around what your intuition is telling you, but then you run up against the barriers of taking action in that direction for a variety of reasons.

We are exploring the ins and outs of being led by your intuition in this very loud world, as well as what happens when listening to that inner voice has you actually feel restricted instead of free. 

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Okay, first off, what the heck is shadow work? We go over it in the episode, but overall, this is the work that involves diving deeper into what is beneath the surface for us in the land of the subconscious. Assumptions, preconceived notions, beliefs, and stories that often run the show in our relationships.

When we are able to bring awareness to these challenges, we have the opportunity to address them with partners in a way that creates transformation for all involved. We are going into the depths of what we have seen in queer relationships in this realm, and what is possible when you are willing to face the things that we have pushed into the darkness. 

P.S. Wanting to sharpen your skills in the art of difficult conversations and conflict? Be sure to sign up for "How To Have Difficult Conversations", which is the course that E and Ro Moed of @unapolygetically created to help you do just that. The 7 week coaching course starts May 4, 2025 and it is a great opportunity to get coaching around what you are actually experiencing in your relationships! Find out more info here and register soon since spots are limited!

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