I’ll never forget Bruce’s story about his car—check engine light on, a mechanic insisted it needed a $1,500 catalytic converter. Bruce knew better and fixed it by simply tightening the gas cap. That story isn't just about auto repair; it perfectly illustrates why questions a good financial advisor should ask matter. Without probing, you might be sold something you don't need. Competency—not just good intentions—matters.

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It’s not about distrust—it’s about asking the right questions so you're not blindly following advice. And that principle applies fully when choosing a financial advisor, especially when your spouse might need to take over the reins someday.

Why “Questions a Good Financial Advisor Should Ask” Are Essential1. The Big Picture: Comprehensive Financial Planning2. Spouse Financial Preparedness: Including Both of You3. Risk and Protection: Insurance, Deductibles, and Peace of Mind4. Tax Strategy and Social Security Planning5. Legacy Planning: Aligning Values and Wealth Transfer6. Financial Alignment Between SpousesWhy You Need These QuestionsReady to Empower Yourself With Questions a Good Financial Advisor Should Ask?Book A Strategy Call

Why “Questions a Good Financial Advisor Should Ask” Are Essential

Bruce makes a powerful point: finance isn’t limited to investment products. Just like a mechanic or doctor examines the whole system, a skilled advisor should ask questions that uncover your entire financial ecosystem. Without comprehensive inquiry, blind spots linger—insurance gaps, overlooked risks, or hidden fees can derail your legacy.

Are you unknowingly trusting a financial advisor without knowing enough about your overall financial picture? In today’s complex financial world—from taxes and Social Security to estate planning, insurance, and cash flow—a narrow focus on one product is risky.Questions a good financial advisor should ask aren’t optional—they're essential. They give you clarity, align planning with your goals, and ensure your spouse is equipped to manage your shared financial future.

1. The Big Picture: Comprehensive Financial Planning

Bruce sums it up: “You cannot make financial decisions in a vacuum.” Advisors who focus only on investments or insurance miss how those decisions affect cash flow, taxes, estate planning, and more.

Ask:

What are your current net worth and cash flow statements?

How do your investments, insurance, and debts interrelate?

Why it matters:Like a doctor who reviews your medical history before prescribing treatment, a competent advisor will want to see your full financial picture before making recommendations.

2. Spouse Financial Preparedness: Including Both of You

Too often, one spouse is left out of discussions and can feel lost if the other dies.Key questions include:

Who are your trusted advisors (financial, legal, tax)?

Does your spouse know how to access online accounts, passwords, and digital assets?

What’s your “Alternative Income Plan” for the surviving spouse?

How comfortable is your spouse with the household financial framework?

Bruce and Rachel discuss this as part of the LIFE framework:

Liquid assets—money accessible within 15 minutes

Income plan—monthly income goals

Flexible investments—capital that can be reallocated

Estate plan—how wealth transfers to future generations

Both spouses should discuss and agree on how these pieces look today and tomorrow.

3. Risk and Protection: Insurance, Deductibles, and Peace of Mind

Bruce shared his own experience with PNC: they asked about deductible choices and emotional tolerance for risk during the house fire recovery process.Essential questions a good financial advisor should ask include:

What insurance do you have—life, disability, health, auto, home?

Are deductibles appropriate to your cash reserves and risk tolerance?

Are beneficiary designations updated and aligned with estate go...