All of us project the uncertainty we face in different ways. Doing the #academic game is very uncertain, and we learn how to process that information.
Some of us learn to #internalize this uncertainty, and become more doubtful and #insecure. (This is me)
However, some of us learn that we can try to control the environment and become more #anxious. These people tend to be viewed as very #controlling of their environment.
The key thing to remember is that both of these are coming from dealing with the challenges of the academic system. they come from the uncertainty that we face.
Take a step back and realize that the challenge is not necessarily you individually, but it’s the #system that you’re dealing with.
Consequently, I think we need to learn how to be more #empathetic with how we deal and project our uncertainties. This is not to say to be overtaken by controlling person, but to learn to deal with yourself within this environment.
learn how to be #patient and #kind as best as you possibly can. I know that this is difficult to do it, and it requires a lifetime of learning. However, you will become much more able to tackle much larger problems in your life.