In order to make good decisions in your life, you need as much information as possible. Because of that, you need people in your corner that are going to be honest and tell you both the costs and benefits of what you were going to do.
And with larger decisions in your life, you need to find people that are going to tell you the truth and be in your corner.
Unfortunately, few people in this world like to tell you the truth and the pros and cons of major #decisions.
Each person is incentivized to only tell half truths.
However, I will always try to be a person that will be honest with you. I will tell you all that I actually know.
If I don’t know some thing, I’ll try to let you know that I don’t know it.
This allows you to make more appropriate decisions, and also builds a trusting relationship as you know that I would not do anything that I would not say.
In the long run, I think being as honest as possible helps to make decisions and build trust.
It is why I speak openly about the pros and cons of #PhD research, doing things that are #innovative, and everything else that happened to my life.