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Can a children's book change a life? In this inspiring episode, author Sasha Saidman reveals how stories about adoption, differences, and self-acceptance meet kids exactly where they are—sparking empathy, imagination, and confidence. From celebrating adoptive families to embracing learning differences like dyslexia, Sasha’s books empower young readers to see their unique stories reflected on every page.

🎧 Listen now and discover why her books belong on every child's shelf!

Join us as we welcome cherished children's author Sasha Saidman, who opens up about the heartfelt inspiration behind her impactful children's book, "First Day, an adoption story." Sasha's inclusive approach avoids specific details, allowing every family to see their unique adoption journey reflected in her narrative. With personal stories woven throughout, Sasha gives us a glimpse into the special moments that define chosen families, making this episode a must-listen for anyone touched by adoption.

Sasha dives into the intricacies of open adoption, recounting tender stories that highlight the selflessness of birth parents and the deep connections formed through openness. We share intimate experiences about the ongoing supportive relationships that can provide adoptees with a sense of belonging and security. The conversation does not shy away from the emotional complexities of adoption, addressing everything from DNA tests and unanswered questions to the beauty of creating a safe environment for children to explore their identities.

In a heartfelt exploration of family dynamics, we discuss the emotional journey of reconnecting with biological relatives and how each adoption story is unique. From navigating the expectations of biological ties to understanding the richness of extended family networks, we emphasize the diverse experiences of adoptees and their families. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, we celebrate the profound bonds formed through love and chosen family, underscoring the specialness of adopted children and the shared experiences of adoptive families.

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Victoria Ellen's extraordinary journey from terror to triumph is the heart of this episode. Eight months pregnant and seeking refuge from an abusive marriage, Victoria's tale is a powerful testament to courage and resilience. Supported by her father, she reflects on the fear of the unknown and the importance of having a support system during such critical times. Her story unfolds with raw honesty, highlighting the bravery required to escape and the inadequacies of legal protections like civil orders in truly safeguarding victims.

We also shine a spotlight on the systemic failures within child abuse investigations through the experiences of a determined mother and her children. Despite valid claims, the justice system's inertia and manipulation tactics employed by an abusive father left them vulnerable. Our conversation uncovers the frustrating gaps within the justice process that leave families feeling powerless, while also highlighting the relentless pursuit of justice by those who refuse to be silenced. The narrative serves as a call for urgent reform, underscoring the critical need for a more effective and empathetic response from authorities.

As Victoria and other voices share their paths to healing, the episode becomes a beacon of hope, demonstrating the transformative power of resilience. We explore the profound impact of personal stories, from overcoming skin cancer to finding love and grace in unexpected places. Symbols like the number 17 and the sighting of a bald eagle become emblems of victory and hope, illustrating the spirit of empowerment in the face of adversity. These stories collectively emphasize that sharing and supporting one another can inspire change and foster strength in those who listen.

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What if the person who vowed to love and protect you was the very one orchestrating your pain? Join us on Real Talk with Tina and Ann as Ann sits down with Victoria Ellen, the courageous author of "Painting in the Rain: A True Story of Trickery and Triumph." Victoria shares her chilling journey of surviving domestic abuse at the hands of her former husband, Daryl—a charming facade that masked a controlling and dark nature. Together, we unravel the complex web of deception often hiding behind religious facades and the societal misconceptions that enable it.

Victoria's story is a poignant reminder of the insidious nature of narcissistic grooming and manipulation. We explore how her ex-husband's sociopathic tendencies were adeptly cloaked under the guise of charm and religiosity, creating an environment ripe for control and emotional turmoil. As Victoria recounts her own susceptibility to Daryl's influence, our discussion highlights the critical importance of recognizing red flags and the subtle, often overlooked signs of an abuser who conceals their true intentions.

Through Victoria's testimony, we are inspired by her resilience and strength in escaping such a toxic environment. We delve into the intricacies of mental and emotional control, the pain of realizing abuse extends to one's child, and the crucial role of supportive friends in breaking free from the cycle of abuse. This episode is a powerful testament to the endurance of the human spirit in the face of adversity and the urgent need for awareness and support for victims of abuse.

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Ever wondered why some behaviors are mistaken for attention-seeking when they're really cries for connection? Join us on a heartfelt exploration of the thin line between these two often-confused concepts. Real Talk with Tina and Ann uncovers the hidden motivations behind seemingly disruptive actions, emphasizing the importance of understanding and fulfilling the innate human need for connection. By sharing intimate stories and professional insights, we shed light on how past traumas can manifest in harmful ways and offer practical strategies to foster healthier relationships with those seeking genuine emotional bonds.

Throughout this episode, we dive deep into the challenges and joys of parenting, particularly when raising children with unique needs. We highlight the crucial role of making children feel valued and understood. Listen in as we explore tailored learning approaches and the significance of nurturing environments, sharing how these elements contribute to children's thriving and secure attachments.

As we journey through the complex terrain of childhood trauma and loss, we share a poignant personal story of grappling with grief and maintaining normalcy amidst chaos. This narrative reminds us of the importance of recognizing the hidden struggles children may face and the necessity of adult attentiveness to these silent cries for help. Finally, we explore the courage it takes to seek assistance on the healing journey, reinforced by inspiring quotes from figures like Mariska Hargitay, Robert Kiyosaki and Barack Obama. Together, we reassure you that there is no set timeline for healing and that seeking help is a powerful step towards personal growth and resilience.

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Mental health is vital, especially amid the chaos of current events. This episode weaves personal stories with insights on finding balance, kindness, and the importance of prioritizing peace at home over the noise outside.

• The impact of the news on mental health
• Humor and light-heartedness in navigating tough narratives 
• Personal anecdotes showcasing the importance of family and memories
• The essential feeling of safety at home amidst chaos
• Emphasizing kindness and empathy over division
• Tips for finding balance in everyday life

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 Join Denise Bard and Ann as we unravel the complexity of what truly lies beneath behaviors labeled as attention-seeking, especially in children dealing with trauma. Trauma and loss can profoundly impact a child’s need for connection. We aim to shift perspectives, advocating for empathy and understanding from adults and educators towards children unfairly labeled as “bad.”

Our conversation extends beyond childhood, exploring how unaddressed needs can manifest into adulthood, often leading to more significant issues, as seen in our work with women in jail. We examine how the absence of connection in formative years can derail lives and emphasize the pivotal role as adults play by simply asking if someone is okay. Through personal stories and professional encounters, we aim to foster a compassionate society that prioritizes genuine connection over superficial labels. Tune in to understand how meaningful connections can change lives and join us next week as we continue this vital discussion.

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Kari Baker joins us for a heartfelt conversation that reveals the hidden layers of parenting children with invisible neurological differences. From wrestling with the emotional intricacies of isolation and uncertainties to navigating the special education system, we promise you'll walk away with practical tools and a refreshed perspective. Kari's insights are not just theoretical; they're born from experience, making her guidance on IEP meetings and parental rights invaluable. Together, we explore how nurturing passions can illuminate new paths for children, forging fulfilling life journeys.

Parenting is a journey with both challenges and joys, especially when guiding children through social hurdles. With stories that resonate deeply, we explore teaching self-advocacy to empower children in difficult moments. From handling tantrums with a strategic "poker face" to navigating the minefield of peer interactions and bullying, we find that communication is the key. Kari's poignant narratives remind us of the courage and perseverance required, ensuring that our children not only survive but thrive in their unique environments.

Embracing the journey of parenting a child with autism, we reflect on the evolution of community support and the significance of finding purpose amid challenges. We discuss the pride in children's growth, the beauty of autism, and the power of unique pathways. Kari shares touching stories that highlight the positive impacts children with special needs can have on the world and emphasizes the importance of focusing on their strengths. This episode is a testament to the resilience and love that defines families navigating similar paths, offering encouragement and a sense of shared journey to all who listen.

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Join us for an inspiring and heartfelt exploration into the world of parenting children with neurological differences. Our guest, Kari Baker, shares her courageous journey from a thriving career in financial services to her new path as an advocate for invisible neurological differences. Through candid anecdotes, Kari reveals how her son Brady’s diagnosis of autism and ADHD reshaped her family’s life and led her to establish Kind Families, a community aiming to support parents navigating similar challenges. Together with Ann, who’s raising three adopted children with various neurological differences, we uncover the significance of embracing life's unpredictable turns and celebrating the unique gifts of each child.

 We discuss the impact of faith, joy, and a personalized approach to nurturing each child's strengths, all while navigating the day-to-day realities of special needs education and social interactions.

Our episode also shines a light on the resilience required when parenting a child with neurological differences. Kari and Ann share their experiences with educational choices, bullying, and fostering self-advocacy in social settings. From homeschooling decisions to recognizing unhealthy friendships, we focus on balancing protection with empowerment. As we address these challenges, Kari aims to inspire and provide solace to families who are walking a similar path, reinforcing the importance of adaptation and embracing change to meet the evolving needs of children with invisible differences.

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What if you could transform your life not by setting daunting goals, but by embracing subtle, sustainable habits? This week on Real Talk with Tina and Anne, we promise to guide you through the journey of personal growth and self-care, inspired by James Clear's "Atomic Habits." We share personal stories, especially those that resonate with mothers who often put others first, highlighting the profound effect addiction can have on families. Discover the importance of recognizing your own needs and practicing self-kindness amidst life's challenges.

Ever wonder how dealing with difficult people can teach you more about yourself than you realize? We dive into the notion of self-reflection and the art of setting boundaries. Learn why maintaining your true character in the face of adversity is essential, and how to turn potentially negative interactions into opportunities for personal growth. Through our anecdotes, we highlight the power of choice, encouraging you to live intentionally and authentically, while being mindful of the voices that truly matter.

Join us as we explore the transformative power of rest and the courage it takes to ask for help. Delve into the challenges of managing emotions and the importance of forgiveness, even when apologies are not forthcoming. Our conversation touches on the joy of lifelong learning and curiosity, from crafting to language acquisition, and how these pursuits can enrich our personalities and relationships. Listen in to learn how prioritizing rest and seeking support are powerful steps toward growth and self-improvement.

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Holidays can be a complex tapestry of emotions, where joy and sorrow often weave together, creating a season that's as challenging as it is beautiful. Picture this: you're working at a Battered Women's Shelter during the holiday rush, finding moments of happiness amid heartbreak. Our episode peels back the layers on these poignant experiences, sharing personal stories that highlight the power of kindness and the bittersweet nature of altering traditions due to illness or loss. We embrace the beauty of making new memories, even when the past holds a tender grip on our hearts.

Ever had a kid turn a classic Christmas song into something hilarious? We kick off with such a story before venturing into the shadows cast by Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). As the days grow shorter, millions find themselves grappling with winter blues. We bring light—quite literally—into this dialogue, discussing how therapy, staying active, and new traditions can illuminate our mental landscapes. Sharing our own encounters with SAD, we offer insights into how light and connection can brighten the darkest days.

Looking at the holidays through the eyes of children, we explore the disruption of school closures and the challenges they face without their usual support systems. With a personal tale of a child navigating trust issues at school, we underscore the importance of open communication and a nurturing environment. As we anticipate an exciting Christmas trip to New York, we remember those who might need a little extra support, urging our listeners to engage in community outreach. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that together, we can craft a season of compassion and positive impact.

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