Self-admitting drunk, slut and unfit mother (according to his best friend) who fell quite literally into fisting, discovered a natural affinity with deep, so got a depth gauge tattooed on his ‘deep arm’ (accurate to 1/32nd of an inch.)

Had way more than his ‘fair share’ of fist cherries and double cherries.

Turned FF vers and, could take EVERYTHING he was give.

Got clean from IV meth, ket & mdma all injected together but had to walk away from chemsex to stay clean, so far… will he go back to ‘clean’ FF?

In terms of recovery, so far so good. Into his 13th year clean - yes, be afraid…

The FFistometer is about to become ‘a recovery teenager’

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

GayRomeo: FFistometer

Recorded on 27th November 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/yHIawwhOCBg

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Chipper is a Brooklyn-based Leatherman, Handler, and kink educator whose recovery journey reshaped every part of his life.

A recovering crystal meth addict with 6 years and 10 months of continuous sobriety (at the time of recording), he began exploring kink privately while still using and later learned to rebuild healthier relationships with the practices he loved.

Sobriety brought him out of the shadows and into community, transforming kink from a private form of gratification into a pathway for connection, advocacy, and education.

Today, his work centers on harm reduction, consent, and creating spaces where queer folk can discover themselves without shame. In kink, as in recovery, he believes connection is the antidote to isolation.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @followchipper

TikTok: @followchipper

Email: [email protected]

Recorded on 25th November 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/xUdMH-IVEOM

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Jason, an interior architect and gallerist based in Sydney, with a career shaped by years of design work across global markets.

His approach blends architectural precision with raw, emotional storytelling, a style influenced by his long-standing connection to fetish culture and the material honesty of leather.

Originally from New Zealand, he relocated to Australia to expand his creative footprint and continue pushing the boundaries of contemporary design.

Away from the studio, you’ll find him on his restored BMW R80 or Ducati Monster 821, chasing that same sense of freedom and focus that fuels his work.

He is driven by integrity, curiosity, and art, less about ego, all about excellence and authenticity.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @lilsharky77

Recorded on 11th November 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/_yHAWq6XPQA

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Sampson Nightly is a sober-curious/adjacent sex worker living in San Francisco, specializing in sex education and helping men work through intimacy issues.

Aside from a vast career in BDSM porn, he also works extensively in queer nightlife as a sex venue owner, gogo, DJ, and bartender, giving him a unique view into the world of queer substance abuse.

After serving on state of Utahs board for HIV prevention, he gained a deep interest in the overlap between queer mental health and its relationship to the world and community around us.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @sampsonnightly

Bluesky: @sampsonnightly.bsky.social & @mndfcuk.bsky.social

JustFor.Fans: @MNDFCUK

X (Twitter): @SampsonNightly

Also check him out on

YouTube: @WattsTheSafeword

Recorded on 23th October 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/Off9LgEwZOY

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Timo Rissanen was Sydney Mr Leather 2024 and represented Sydney at IML 47 in 2025.

Professionally he is a fashion and sustainability scholar and a textile artist.

Timo is a member of Sydney Leather Men Inc., MSC Finland, BLUF and Sydney Frontrunners.

Queer and poly, he has been genderfucking in and out of leather since the 90s.

He has been sober for 13 years.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Bluesky: @timo-of-finland.bsky.social

Recorded on 23th October 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/j28INKtb76w

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Doctor Carlton is a gay GI doctor from San Diego, California who rose to notoriety with his queer sexual health and sex education platform on Instagram and Tik Tok.

When MPOX struck our community, he used that platform to bring awareness and vaccination/ treatment help to tens of thousands of people and was named to the OUT100, Queerty Pride 50, National Association of Leather-International President’s Award and met President Biden at the White House.

He teaches at kink events around the country like Austin Kink, The Rose Bowl and LA Leather getaway.

You can also hear him on his new podcast BUTT HONESTLY.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @doctorcarlton

Bluesky: @doctorcarlton.bsky.social

X (Twitter): @doctor_carlton

Podcast: Butt Honestly (on all podcast platforms)

Instagram: @butthonestlypod

Bluesky: @butthonestlypod.bsky.social

X (Twitter): @butthonestlypod

Recorded on 26th October 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/j28INKtb76w

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Meet Nick, an ex Chemsex addict who is 10 years clean and sober.

The leather scene was part of his life during his using days.

Today when he engage in sober sex, he no longer has the desire for leather and kink.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

If you want to get in contact with Nick,

Contact RealClearFetish! on

Email: [email protected]

or DM us on Instagram

and we will pass it on to him.

Recorded on 7th August 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/nl10zb2pbV0

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Kell W Farshéa is an intersex nobinary trans femme dominant sadist.

They have been an BDSMer for 40 years.

In 1992 they founded the SM activist group Countdown on Spanner (1992-97) and the annual SMPride March (1992-2003).

For 5 years they wrote a regular column for the pan-european tri-lingual SM-Fetish magazine Projet X.

They have been sober for 36 years.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: auntie_kell

Recon: MxPervert

X (Twitter) @Auntie_Kell

Bluesky: @auntie-kell.bsky.social

Recorded on 24th June 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/TqIsjSTduiE

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Beau has been in the kink and fetish community for over 5 years;

coming from a background where group environments felt scary or threatening, his journey into the community had been transformational.

This has coincided with a reduction in drinking, and predominantly sober kink and fetish nights out.

This, paired with being able to navigate new social groups, finding ways to feel safe, has given him a collective community he never thought he would experience.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

X (Twitter) @PupBeauBoop

Recorded on 18th June 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/s9F1MxIZhrg

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Some info about Chris - 35+ years sober leatherman and pup/handler; prostate cancer survivor and 2nd runner-up for Mr Fetish World 2025.

His MFW project is a kink-inclusive healthcare program to show that we as fetishists and kinksters can have major health issues and still lead a fulfilling kink life.

It is his hope to develop resources that we can use to educate and work with our healthcare providers when we have kink & fetish related health issues and injuries.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @leatherfafner

Bluesky: @leatherfafner.bsky.social

YouTube: @leatherfafner

Email: [email protected]

Facebook Group:

www.facebook.com/groups/kihalliance

Recorded on 5th June 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/Ch9R-RRqhcY

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