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Kell W Farshéa is an intersex nobinary trans femme dominant sadist.

They have been an BDSMer for 40 years.

In 1992 they founded the SM activist group Countdown on Spanner (1992-97) and the annual SMPride March (1992-2003).

For 5 years they wrote a regular column for the pan-european tri-lingual SM-Fetish magazine Projet X.

They have been sober for 36 years.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: auntie_kell

Recon: MxPervert

X (Twitter) @Auntie_Kell

Bluesky: @auntie-kell.bsky.social

Recorded on 24th June 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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Beau has been in the kink and fetish community for over 5 years;

coming from a background where group environments felt scary or threatening, his journey into the community had been transformational.

This has coincided with a reduction in drinking, and predominantly sober kink and fetish nights out.

This, paired with being able to navigate new social groups, finding ways to feel safe, has given him a collective community he never thought he would experience.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

X (Twitter) @PupBeauBoop

Recorded on 18th June 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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Some info about Chris - 35+ years sober leatherman and pup/handler; prostate cancer survivor and 2nd runner-up for Mr Fetish World 2025.

His MFW project is a kink-inclusive healthcare program to show that we as fetishists and kinksters can have major health issues and still lead a fulfilling kink life.

It is his hope to develop resources that we can use to educate and work with our healthcare providers when we have kink & fetish related health issues and injuries.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @leatherfafner

Bluesky: @leatherfafner.bsky.social

YouTube: @leatherfafner

Email: [email protected]

Facebook Group:

www.facebook.com/groups/kihalliance

Recorded on 5th June 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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Meet Max, some call him boy and/or puppy, He was born in Ukraine and was adopted by his wonderful Swedish parents when he was almost 3 years old, which meant he moved to Sweden.

He finished high school in 2016, then got his first apartment and started his job that same year, working with dogs (the animal kind).

He started his kink journey when he was around 16 and now has a daddy/partner in the US.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @leather_max2026

Recorded on 13th May 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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BLUFOfficer is a kinkster who has been part of the kink scene since 2013.

His main gear preferences are uniform and leather and is always recognisable by the khaki uniform and riding boots at events.

He is also autistic, having been diagnosed with Autism when he was young and in recent years, he has been determined to show that you can be both autistic and have a good time on the kink scene.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @blufofficer

Recorded on 2nd May 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/4R84bhhq0dA

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For nearly a decade, Moshiel has commanded stages across the leather and drag worlds—entertaining, emceeing, and fundraising.

A proud Sober Leatherman, he has also made his mark Off-Broadway as a writer and producer of the political spoof Five.

He founded Punch, an inclusive fisting space, and played a key role in opening SoCal Leather to all by removing its gender honorific.

Whether dazzling in drag as Lady SinAGaga or earning a spot in the IML Class of 46’s Top 20 as Mr. SoCal Leather 2023, one thing’s for sure — when Moshiel takes the stage, you’re in for a damn good time.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @ohmoshedidnt

Recorded on 1st May 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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LTJ Reads is a leatherman, who was the first Mr. Austin Eagle in 2024 and part of IML Class 46.

He is a writer/model/teacher who absolutely hates throwing shade in the LGBTQIA+ community.

LTJ is a muscle stud who emphasizes good mental health and the use of brain power.

He is most notable for his show, Throwing Light, which is an interview series that sheds light on tough topics and new ways of thinking.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @ltjishere

Recorded on 29th April 2025 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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From the Emmy award winning season of RuPaul‘s drag race season 15 Selena S titties has been hustling ever since her season, while also becoming the first drag queen to ever step foot into the American big Brother house.

She has traveled the world, released an EP called homegirl and is now launched her own podcast called the Homegirl Hotline.

She just celebrated 13 years of sobriety and is a pillar in the southern California sober community and is so very grateful for the life.

She lives today as a result of their sobriety.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @estitties

Youtube: @SalinaEsTitties

X (Twitter): @SalinaEstitties

Bluesky: @estitties.bsky.social

Recorded on 28th November 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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Rock (Stage name) has been sober for a year and three quarters - new year's 2023 was the rock bottom and started attending NA meetings.

The same time Rock started his porn career, and Rock Biggs was born.

The two are interlinked intimately and he probably wouldn't be here today if he didn't meet the people he did through porn, including his sponsor. Isolation, shame, and anxiety had to be kicked to the side to embrace the kinks he's always felt but never acted on.

The euphoria from newly discovered sober fisting helped during the dark days of cravings and the community that comes with being a hoe on the internet kept him connected to others who had a lot more sober time and we're role models in sobriety.

Fast forward a year and a bit and he's married to Phil, lives on a farm in the Peak District and just started his PhD, all would never have been possible 2 years ago.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @rock_biggs

X (Twitter): @RockBiggs

Bluesky: @rockbiggs.com

Recorded on 5th December 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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Mark (LeatherAlphaSkin) London born and bred kinkster previous pup and pack owner.

Lived in London till 2012 went out and did lots of London and European kink scenes. Been sober from chemsex since 2013.

Now living in Scotland and regularly attend kink events and like to help new kinksters understand their way through kink and also advocate of safe play after the death of his first husband from solo play.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @leatheralphaskin

Bluesky: @leatheralphaskin.bsky.social

X (Twitter): @LeatherAlphaSkn

Recon: LeatherAlphaSkin

Recorded on 30th November 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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