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John (Ginger Bear John) is a 45 year old married Leatherman in Southern California. Heavily involved in the kink community, in the role of a submissive, for many years clean and sober for almost 13 years. John is an accountant. Also an aspiring bodybuilder with his first content scheduled for Fall, 2025. Spare time is volunteering as treasuer/CFO for a nonprofit specializing in the treatment of drug and alcohol addiction in the LGBTQ community.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @ginger_bear_john

Bluesky: @gingerbearjohn.bsky.social

Grinder/Scruff/Asspig: Ginger Bear

Recorded on 23rd November 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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Cyrus (he/him) is one happy and proud leatherman. Born and raised in Calcutta, India. He currently lives near Frankfurt for the last 6.5 years and works in tech.

He is a dom/top (mostly) kinky fetishist with an aficionado for leathers, rubber, and skinhead gear. He discovered his fetish at the age of 12 while watching MotoGP! Bondage, biker leathers and GOM are his kryptonite.

Outside fetish life, he enjoys lifting heavy metal circles, boxing, travelling, photography and geeking out about Pokémon and MTG.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @gear.siriuscyrus

Bluesky: @siriuscyrus.bsky.social

Telegram: @SiriusCyrus

Recorded on 14th November 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/OgX0J7_h-Sw

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- Hans West:

Kink Aware Coach and open-minded Partner-Relationship Coach, Integrative Addiction Services for over 25 years.

Both offline, and online services: information, training and therapy.

Generally a nice person but allergic to BS.

And.. Adalberto and me have now created over 50 online and several in-person KinkyTalks(.nl) since 2020.

Quote: "Have you ever ever seen anyone... shame anybody out of an addiction? Shame is killing!!!"

www.KinkAwareCoach.com

- Adalberto Rubbadam:

Adalberto is an engaged kinkster based in Amsterdam. He started exploring his kinky interests in the leather scene more than fifteen years ago, after moving to The Netherlands. In the last years, he has been particularly active in the rubber scene, nationally and internationally. He held the titles of Mr Rubber Netherlands 2019 and Mr International Rubber 2020-2021 (MIR23).

He has been a driving force in establishing rubber social events in Amsterdam and Rotterdam to create safe spaces for rubbermen and rubber-curious people to meet and to grow the community. He worked actively on the visibility of the Dutch Rubbermen: in 2019, he led for the first time a group of rubbermen at several Pride walks, from Amsterdam to Zwolle. He strengthened and established new contacts between many rubber clubs worldwide, and currently he volunteers on the Dutch Rubbermen core team.

Adalberto is a ballroom enthusiast (PoseFX anyone?), and likes to play with gender stereotypes. Talking body positivity and emancipation, Adalberto has supported the NoMoreC project for HepC prevention (do check: www.nomorec.nl for some very easy tips!).

During the COVID-19 pandemic, he played a pivotal role to organise fun online rubber pub quiz events in collaboration with many rubber clubs worldwide, keeping social togetherness in times of physical distancing.

In May 2020, he started the online Kinky Talks together with his now good friend Hans West: a safe space for lighthearted but serious talks for kinksters looking to spice up their kinky life, to learn new things and share experiences. With invited experts, community leaders and yourself! From the community, for the community.

My motto: keep shining!

- Some history - From our kinkytalks.nl website:

Adalberto and Hans are both – each in their own way – kinksters and we met at the end of 2019 at café Prik in Amsterdam, around the idea to launch a Miss Rubber Netherlands title. We got to talk about how things that can be so hot and juicy sometimes turn so nasty because of a lack of knowledge. And we both felt that we needed to do something about that (within limits). Soon the pandemic hit, and online meetings became a daily routine.

That’s how the Kinky Talks were born: online talks without convictions, clever, together… because the bubble knows more and we can all help each other to get things… erhmm NOT so straight #kink ;-)

Currently every 2 months on Zoom. Register for our newsletter on www.kinkytalks.nl and follow us on IG @kinkytalksnl to stay up to date with our upcoming talks.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @kinkytalksnl

Homepage: kinkytalks.nl

Instagram: @mir23_rubbadamnl

Instagram: @hansrjwest

Homepage: KinkAwareCoach.com

Recorded on 5th November 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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Meet Barney, AKA The Muckle Stoater, a fetish artist, pornographer and all-round clown porn advocate based in London!

For years he thought he was the weirdest person in the world for having a clown fetish. Now he get to express himself as a kink performer and escort, available to hire for all kinds of adult events.

He is the host of ‘The Big Top’ podcast, where he discuss niche kinks and paraphilias with guests from all corners of the fetish community, as well as the ups and downs on the road to self-acceptance.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @the_muckle_stoater

X (Twitter): @TStoater

Bluesky: @tstoater.bsky.social

X (Twitter): @MSTpresents

"Stuck in the Middle" on the 18th January 2025

All podcast platforms: The Big Top

Email: [email protected]

Recorded on 29th October 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

https://youtu.be/Ao5mn8DVmwU

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Steve B has been sober since May 28th, 2021, and is the host of gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show.

Having isolating during his drinking, he has only begun embracing his interests in leather, fetish, and kink in sobriety- something he believes is necessary for him in order to live a full, happy, and sober life.

He is forever grateful for his sober family, his podcasting community, and kinksters like you!

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @gayapodcast

Instagram: @juststevesrq

All podcast platforms:

gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Recorded on 17th October 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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Meet Mutt (by Nature), he/him, cis-gay/queer guy. He has been clean and sober for over 12 years. He is also a sober fister and do that without poppers, although he should say chem sex was never my thing.

He got sober via AA but haven’t been in a few years now, instead opting for therapy to keep him moving forwards. Therapy also played a part in establishing a sober sex life.

He has lived in Berlin for 4.5 years. He has a fiancé and a handler, so he is also polyamorous. He is British, Lancastrian specifically, but spent most of his adult life in London apart from the years in Berlin.

He has spent the last 7 years or so working in tech which has also given him an environment where he can be a bit more authentically queer, at least in terms of how he appear with a Mohawk and septum ring.

And for those who’ve seen his X (twitter), of course, he has done some amateur porn. He is also a geek and a Trekkie, and now have a huge garden to look after, which keeps him busy.

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Instagram: @muttbynature

X (Twitter): @muttbynature

Picture by @hawtphotox

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Recorded on 16th June 2024 in person, see original video on YouTube:

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JeFF was born and raised in Colorado. He went back to school in 2013 to earn a chemical and biological engineering degree. He works in process development for a biotech pharmaceutical company.

He has been part of the leather and kink community off and on for 17 years. He is Mr. Leather Colorado 2023 and will compete at IML this year.

He is a proud sober leatherman with a passion for kink, fisting, kink education, and being of service to his community. He founder of Mile High Fisters and started a local weekly sober meeting in Denver called Sober Kink.

Facebook: Jeff Brewer

Instagram: @lawstboy77

X (Twitter): @COFistboy

Picture by @baergalerie

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Recorded on 28th June 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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Tyler is a kinkster living on the east coast of Canada. Kink and fetish have always been a part of his life and has evolved over the years, including the decision in 2019 to take a hard look at his use of substances in relation to sex, relationships and his life in general. Outside of kink, he loves to surf and snowboard, hiking, languages and being outside as much as possible.

Instagram: @tytysurf

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Recorded on 9th May 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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Saba aka Princepunk has been sober since 2006. French American, born in France and became an American citizen after a career as a professional dancer and comedian. Was introduced to leather and bdsm over 30 years ago, and lives his kinky life sober and happy.

Photo by @leatherrubber75

Homepage: princepunk.com

Instagram: @princepunkmaster

X (Twitter): @THEPrincePunk

Snapchat: sabaprincepunk

Iron Work Instagram: @ironpunkfactory

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Recorded on 3rd May 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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Ben is born and raised and living in Liverpool. Married to Jon, who is a writer. 

Ben discovered kink and leather at a young age and gradually explore it over many years. He is a dom/top and into a wide variety of kinks. His main fetishes is leather and skin gear.

Ben is also an artist, He exhibits nationallly and internationally on a regular basis. His work encompasses a wide variety of techniques and processes that combine to create complex mixed media images in a distinctive visual language. His work celebrates sexuality and identity taking inspiration from a variety of queer sexual subcultures. See more at benyoudanart.com

He did drink when he was younger but have not had a drink in many years now. He has experienced many kink events completely sober (he has never use drugs either) Large festivals and smaller scale encounters. He finds it much more preferable. It helps him to be focused and completely aware and in the moment and he think it enhances his sexual experience.

He feels very fortunate that he does not need to drink or use drugs to find the confidence to be social or explore his sexual being.

But he completely understand this is a big barrier for a lot of people.

Photo by @jonny_larkin

Instagram: @benyoudanart

X (Twitter): @BenYoudanArt

Homepage: benyoudanart.com

Book Instagram: @unsaf.espace

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Music: Valence - Infinite [NCS Release]

Recorded on 28th April 2024 on Zoom, see original video on YouTube:

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