Reclaiming MUM

I'm running a free From Overwhelmed to Clear workshop for mums on Thursday 15th October, and if you've been feeling like you've got 97 tabs open in your brain lately, you're very welcome to join me. Sign up for free here.

But today's episode is actually about something slightly different…

Who are you now you're a mum?

Because motherhood can change so much more than your daily routine. It can change your priorities, your relationships, your confidence, your career, your sense of freedom, and your identity.

And sometimes you can find yourself thinking, Where did I go?

In this episode, I'm chatting about what happens when motherhood becomes such a huge part of your life, why you can feel incredibly grateful for your children and still feel lost, and why I really don't like the idea that we should somehow "bounce back" to who we were before.

We talk about grieving parts of your old life, the different seasons of motherhood, and what it actually means to "find yourself" again. Because maybe the answer isn't going backwards and trying to become the woman you were before children. Maybe it's getting to know the woman you are now.

If you've been wondering is this it for me? or feeling like you want a bit more space for yourself alongside being a mum, this one's for you.

And if you're feeling overwhelmed at the moment, come and join me for From Overwhelmed to Clear, my free lunchtime workshop for mums on Thursday 15th October, 12–1pm. We'll be looking at what's really behind that feeling of overwhelm, not just adding another list of things to your already very full plate.

In this final episode of Season 7 of Reclaiming MUM, we're taking a moment to pause, reflect, and bring together the powerful themes we've explored throughout the season.

From mindset shifts and letting go of perfection, to creating space for yourself within the juggle of motherhood, this episode is your reminder that you don't have to do it all to be doing enough.

If you've been feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure of what you truly want in this season of life, this conversation will help you reconnect with what matters most.

Inside this episode, we explore:

• The biggest mindset shifts for mums who feel stretched and stuck
• Why clarity is the missing piece for so many mothers
• How to start building confidence in your decisions (without guilt or overthinking)
• A simple reminder that you are allowed to prioritise yourself too

I also share an exciting personal update about the evolution of my work and my shift to becoming a Clarity and Confidence Coach for Mums, supporting you to feel more grounded, more certain, and more you again.

✨ If you're ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start moving forward with clarity and confidence, I'd love to support you. You can book a free chat with me here.

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Ready to finally make time for yourself again? Let's chat about where you are, what you need, and how my Thrive in 90 sessions can help you create lasting change. Book a free call. If you're a busy mum who feels like there's never a moment for yourself, this episode is for you.

You're constantly giving, doing, thinking about everyone else, and by the end of the day, there's nothing left for you. Not because you don't care about yourself, but because you genuinely don't know how to fit it in.

In this episode, we're diving into the powerful mindset shifts that will help you stop waiting for more time and start creating it in a way that actually works in your real life.

You don't need a complete life overhaul, just a new way of seeing your time, your energy, and your needs.

Inside this episode, you'll learn:

• Why "I don't have time" might not be the full story

• How to create small pockets of time (even in the busiest days)

• The truth about mum guilt and how to move through it

• Why taking time for yourself is not selfish, but essential

• How to stop waiting for the "perfect moment" and start now

If you've been feeling overwhelmed, stretched too thin, or like you've lost yourself a little in motherhood, this will feel like a deep exhale. And if you're ready to go deeper, this is exactly what we do inside my Thrive in 90 sessions.

Together, we'll untangle the mental load, shift the patterns that are keeping you stuck, and create a realistic plan that gives you more time, energy, and space for you, without guilt.

✨ Don't wait for things to calm down. Let's create that space now. Take advantage of my birthday offer of £40 off these sessions, making them £135 instead of £175. Book your free chat with me here.

If you'd like a little extra support in this season of motherhood, you're warmly invited to book a free 30-minute Breakthrough Call with me. It's a gentle, no-pressure space where we can explore what support might look like for you and what could help you move forward in a way that feels sustainable and aligned with your life right now.

Turning 40 has a way of making you pause and reflect.

In this episode, I'm sharing some honest thoughts about ageing, expectations, and the pressure many of us feel to have life completely figured out by now.

When I was younger, I imagined that by 40 I would have everything mapped out, the perfect career, a balance between work and family, and a clear sense of who I was. But the truth is, life rarely unfolds exactly the way we imagine it.

As a mum of four, I've realised that growing older isn't about having all the answers. It's about learning to embrace the messy, beautiful journey of becoming.

In this episode, I talk about: • What I thought life would look like at 40 • The myth that everyone else has it all figured out • The unexpected lessons that come with getting older • Why not having a perfect plan can actually be freeing • How motherhood changes your relationship with time, identity, and growth

If you've ever looked at your life and wondered, "Shouldn't I have this figured out by now?" this conversation is for you.

Because the truth is, none of us has it all figured out. And maybe we're not meant to.

This is a gentle, honest reflection on ageing, motherhood, identity, and learning to trust your own path.

Links mentioned in this episode:

• Jemma's website

• Jemma's Instagram

• Join Jemma's email list for updates

If you'd like extra support in this current season of motherhood, you can book a free 30-minute Breakthrough Call to explore what might work for you in a way that feels gentle and sustainable.

Spring is finally here, and with it comes the gentle invitation for fresh energy, new beginnings, and growth. But if you're a busy mum juggling the school run, work, family life, and the invisible load of it all, it can sometimes feel like that fresh start is happening everywhere except inside your own life.

In this episode, I'm talking about how we can welcome the energy of spring in a way that actually feels nourishing and realistic for mums.

We'll explore: • Why spring is the perfect time to reset your energy • Letting go of habits and expectations that no longer serve you • Planting small "seeds" for the life you want to create • Simple ways to feel lighter, calmer, and more connected this season

This isn't about reinventing your whole life or adding more to your to-do list. It's about small, gentle shifts that help you reconnect with yourself alongside motherhood.

If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like you've lost a little bit of yourself in the busyness of mum life, this episode will leave you feeling lighter and inspired for the season ahead.

And if this conversation resonates with you and you'd love some support reconnecting with yourself and creating a life that feels energising and fulfilling again, you're always welcome to reach out about working with me.

Because you deserve a spring season that nourishes you, too.

Links mentioned in this episode:

• Jemma's website

• Jemma's Instagram

• Join Jemma's email list for updates

If you'd like extra support in this current season of motherhood, you can book a free 30-minute Breakthrough Call to explore what might work for you in a way that feels gentle and sustainable.

Ever felt mum guilt when life gets busy and something has to give? In this honest and relatable episode, I'm sharing what happened when I didn't publish a podcast episode during half term, and how my past self would have spiralled with guilt, shame, and "I'm falling behind" thoughts.

As a mum of four, I know how quickly school holidays, childcare, and family life can throw even the best plans off track. But instead of beating myself up, I chose something different: self-compassion.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why mum guilt is often tied to productivity

• The pressure ambitious mums feel to "do it all"

• How to let go of guilt when business, career, or creative plans slip

• Why modelling self-compassion matters for our children

• What this experience taught me about balance, boundaries, and real success

If you're an ambitious mum who feels torn between building your dreams and being present with your children, this episode will remind you that you are not failing, you are human.

This is your permission slip to release perfectionism, embrace flexibility, and redefine what success looks like in motherhood and business.

If this resonated, share it with another mum who needs to hear that she is enough, even when life gets messy.

Links mentioned in this episode:

• Jemma's website

• Jemma's Instagram

• Join Jemma's email list for updates

In this episode, I'm joined by Kim Palmer, CEO of the Clementine App, for an honest and thought-provoking conversation about motherhood, mental health, and why self-care alone isn't enough.

We explore how maternal wellbeing has become overly individualised, placing the responsibility on mums to cope better, do more, and "look after themselves", while systemic support continues to fall short. From the lack of accessible maternal mental health resources in the UK, to soaring childcare costs and limited paternity leave, we unpack the wider societal pressures that shape a mother's daily reality.

Kim shares her perspective on the role digital tools like Clementine can play in supporting mums, without replacing the need for properly funded services, cultural change, and collective care. Together, we ask bigger questions about who is really responsible for supporting mothers, and what it would look like if society treated maternal wellbeing as essential infrastructure, not a luxury.

This episode is for mums who feel exhausted, stretched thin, and quietly asking, "Why does this feel so hard, even when I'm doing everything 'right'?"

Links mentioned in this episode:

• Clementine App
• Clementine App on Instagram
• Jemma's website

• Jemma's Instagram

• Join Jemma's email list for updates

✨ If you'd like extra support in this current season of motherhood, you can book a free 30-minute Breakthrough Call to explore what might work for you in a way that feels gentle and sustainable.

Are you feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to be the "perfect mum"? In this week's episode, we're breaking down the unrealistic expectations placed on mums and giving you permission to let them go.

From the belief that you must enjoy every moment, keep a spotlessly clean home, or put yourself last to be a good mum, this episode challenges the narratives that quietly fuel guilt, burnout, and self-doubt in motherhood.

I share honest reflections as a mum of four and empowerment coach, along with practical mindset shifts to help you stop comparing, trust your instincts, and create a motherhood journey that actually works for you and your family.

You'll learn how to:

• Let go of societal pressure and "perfect mum" culture

• Stop feeling guilty for not enjoying every moment of motherhood

• Redefine success, balance, and self-care as a mum

• Parent with more confidence, calm, and self-trust

If you're an overwhelmed mum craving more ease, clarity, and fulfilment, without losing yourself, this episode will remind you that you are already doing enough.

Links mentioned in this episode:

• Jemma's website

• Jemma's Instagram

• Join Jemma's email list for updates

✨ If you'd like extra support in this current season of motherhood, you can book a free 30-minute Breakthrough Call to explore what might work for you in a way that feels gentle and sustainable.

If you're a mum who feels like there is never any time left for you, this episode is for you.

In this episode of Reclaiming Mum, I'm sharing how I make time for myself as a self-employed mum of four while solo parenting, without waking up at 5am, following rigid routines, or pushing myself harder.

I talk honestly about why "just wake up earlier" doesn't work for overwhelmed mums, the hidden cost of always putting yourself last, and how reclaiming time is less about adding more to your day and more about letting go of what's draining you.

This episode is for mums who feel exhausted, overstimulated, and stretched thin, and who want to stop surviving and start feeling like themselves again, even in a very full season of life.

In this episode, you'll hear about:

• Why overwhelmed mums struggle to find time for themselves

• The myth of needing more hours in the day

• How to reclaim time without guilt, hustle, or burnout

• Why small pockets of time matter more than perfect routines

• How to stop the quiet self-abandonment so many mums live in

If you've ever thought, "I don't have time for myself," this episode will help you reframe that belief with compassion and realism. Links mentioned in this episode:

• Gentle Morning Self-Care For Busy Overwhelmed Mums
• Jemma's website

• Jemma's Instagram

• Join Jemma's email list for updates

✨ If you'd like extra support in this current season of motherhood, you can book a free 30-minute Breakthrough Call to explore what might work for you in a way that feels gentle and sustainable.

Over the last few years of motherhood, I've experienced what it's like to be constantly on edge, overstimulated, and drained. There have been moments of frustration, overwhelm, and feeling completely disconnected from myself. But I've also learned ways to recognise these patterns, give my nervous system the space it needs, and create small but powerful shifts that help me feel calmer and more present.

In this episode, I share my own experiences as a mum of four, and why overstimulation isn't a sign you're failing; it's your nervous system telling you it's time for a break. I also share practical strategies to manage overwhelm without needing to completely change your life.

Tune in to learn:

• What overstimulation actually feels like and why so many mums experience it

• Why feeling snappy, zoned out, or "touched out" is not a failing

• The small, practical shifts that can calm your nervous system and reduce overwhelm

• Why "just be calmer" doesn't work and what really does

• How to create moments of relief without needing huge life changes

Check out the blog post that accompanies this episode for more tips and reflections.

Links mentioned in this episode:

• Jemma's website

• Jemma's Instagram

• Join Jemma's email list for updates

✨ If you'd like extra support navigating overwhelm as a mum, you can book a free 30-minute Breakthrough Call to explore what might work for you in a way that feels gentle and sustainable.