Reconcilable Differences

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  • 17: Don’t Touch the Banana

    After a discussion about The Game, which Merlin has finally watched all the way through, the boys tackle the topic of jobs. They discuss what they did or didn't learn from them, and how their younger work lives shaped their future employment choices.

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      This week, John critiques Merlin's online editing skills, which leads to a discussion of coding conventions. Merlin, in turn, critiques John's propensity to murder a joke by telling it in weird bullets.

      Next up, we learn that Merlin has (finally) watched The Game all the way through, which leads to a spoiler-heavy dive into this terrific 1997 David Fincher film. (Note: Please listen for the spoiler horn, then skip from 00:16:21 through 00:40:47 if you haven't watched the movie yet.)

      Finally, the boys tackle the topic of jobs. First jobs, early jobs, what they did or didn't learn from them, and how their younger work lives shaped their later future employment choices.

      (Episode recorded December 15, 2015)

      Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Tears in rain monologue - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia The Monkey Hose Experiment The Game (1997) - IMDb The shot from the end of the movie (SPOILERS) Charles Martinet - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Daniel Schorr - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Mandee | Careers Minimum Wage Rates, 1955–present Larry Miller quotes Southaven County Park The Game (1997) - Quotes - IMDb

      "I got this key out of a mouth of this... wooden clown."

      The Pot Roast Principle | Psychology Today The Simpsons - Moe's Killer Whale - YouTube James Rebhorn - IMDb

      THAT guy.

      Mark Boone Junior - IMDb Yazoo - Don't Go (1982) - YouTube The dog's name was Maggie Film locations for The Game (1997)
      2 hr 13 min
    • 16: Ancient Bird

      John probes Merlin about why exactly he’s so interested in remembering and recording his whackadoodle dreams. We learn, for example, that Permiso delivers 3 to 5 surprises per day.

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        This week, John and Merlin start out by exploring the challenges of sleep and AppleTV.

        Finally, Merlin interrogates John about why he dislikes and avoids scary movies.

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        Merlin Mann and Max Temkin watch season 13 of Top Chef.

        Lucid dream - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Gabriel García Márquez - Wikiquote Synecdoche, New York (2008) - IMDb I Remember You - Adventure Time Wiki - Wikia Simon & Marcy - Adventure Time Wiki - Wikia Football (episode) - Adventure Time Wiki - Wikia Jodorowsky's Dune - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia THE HOLY MOUNTAIN (1973) Trailer for Alejandro Jodorowsky's mystical hallucinatory journey - YouTube Adriano Celetano - Prisencolinensinainciusol - YouTube EasyApple # 238: I humanized control center (with Federico Viticci) | EasyPodcast The Babadook - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Poltergeist (1982) - IMDb Dead Alive (1992) - IMDb Episode #188 – Unfriended The Flop House Tetsuo: The Iron Man - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia 5by5 | Back to Work #1: Alligator in the Bathroom Seven (1995 film) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia The Cabin in the Woods (2012) - IMDb The Invaders (The Twilight Zone) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Beyond the Door (1974 film) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia "Beyond the Door" - Trailer - YouTube Magic 1978 Movie Trailer - YouTube Fargo (TV series) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia The Leftovers (TV series) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia The Incomparable | Most Poetic Sledgehammer (Episode 248) Serial position effect - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
        2 hr 7 min
      • 15: Emotional Swimsuit Season

        This week, your hosts cover TV buying decisions, the legacy of Star Wars, thoughts on holidays, and how to not end up raising Dudley Dursley.

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          Yorkshire dialect - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Monty Python - Four Yorkshiremen - Youtube The Four Yorkshiremen Sketch - Youtube The John Siracusa Paper Doll - David Galletly - Art, Illustration & Design Accidental Tech Podcast: 145: Lasers and Pew-Pew and Space Aliens Reconcilable Differences - David Galletly - Art, Illustration & Design Hypercritical: John Siracusa - David Galletly - Art, Illustration & Design Over the Garden Wall (miniseries) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia The Making of Star Wars: The Definitive Story Behind the Original Film: Amazon.com The Making of Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back: Amazon.com The Making of Star Wars: Return of the Jedi: Amazon.com Dudley Dursley - Harry Potter Wiki - Wikia
          1 hr 54 min
        • 14: Children's Shoes

          This time out, John and Merlin start with a consideration of parenting advice and (surprise) the Star Wars prequels.

          Then, the wardrobe is opened for a discussion of clothing. What your hosts choose to wear and why...

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            Merlin encourages listeners to give John a virtual makeover.

            Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Three Ring Binder Tickets, San Francisco | Eventbrite How to eat out with kids in SF without driving other diners crazy - SFGate Reviews & Age Ratings - Best Movies, Books, Apps, Games for Kids Dying ‘Star Wars’ Fan Gets to See ‘The Force Awakens’ Early Todd Vaziri (@tvaziri) | Twitter References to Star Wars (Franchise) | The Incomparable Merlin’s Awkward Hair Odyssey | Flickr - Photo Sharing! Harry & Hermione | kung fu grippe Ultimate Fakebook - Far Far Away - YouTube

            George Lucas, is the Force with us?

            Will it save us from heartbreak in 1998?

            1 hr 53 min
          • 13: The Mickey Suit

            This episode, John and Merlin have a spirited debate on netspeak and emoji talk (🤕👹😭), then address the Wonderful World of Disney (World), including what makes it great and what keeps it relevant.

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            • The Freelancer’s Guide to Escaping Taxes, by Andrew Carroll
            • Links and Show Notes Radio Zork - The Flop House Wiki - Wikia SubEthaEdit - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Sketchnotes

              'Presentation Cartoons'

              43f Podcast: John Gruber & Merlin Mann's Blogging Panel at SxSW | 43 Folders The Omen (1976) - IMDb Supergirl (TV Series 2015– ) - IMDb 30 Rock (TV Series 2006–2013) - IMDb Ramone in Carbonite What is a MagicBand? | Walt Disney World Resort Disney's $1 Billion Bet on a Magical Wristband | WIRED Free to Be... You and Me - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia 5by5 | The Talk Show #57: The Banana Window

              On this special episode recorded while Dan was still on paternity leave, John is joined by guest host Merlin Mann. Merlin and John discuss Vegas, Disney, Pixar and more!

              Disney Theme Park Tickets | Orlando, Florida | Walt Disney World Resort Reconcilable Differences #13: The Mickey Suit - Relay FM
              2 hr 37 min
            • 12: Hobbit Tendencies

              The centerpiece of the episode is a lot of talk about travel, focused on the myriad reasons your hosts find it so terribly difficult. Observations on helplessness, motion sickness, money, and the titular "Hobbit tendencies" emerge.

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                This week kicks off with some further discussion of salad and the video game, Destiny, and then proceeds into some talk about the current TV season and the state of late-night programming.

                Things conclude with a meditation on introversion: what it means to have it (or decide that you have it), and what constitutes the super-wide spectrum between social anxieties and the more garden-variety aversion to, say, wearing pants.

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                2 hr 40 min
              • 11: Frog Board Room

                John ruefully updates us on the stressful state of renovations to his house—and how his quest for quality collides with whatever passes for quote-unquote craftsmanship today.

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                  This week, the boys return for Season Two.

                  Things kick off with a clandestine follow-up discussion of evolution based on an unreleased episode of a different podcast. Don't ask.

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                  1 hr 33 min
                • 10: That Darn Cat

                  The boys settle into a detailed exploration of "Merlin's world of music." From AM radio (through a pillow speaker) to abortive accordion and trombone lessons to impersonating Pete Townsend through the Bacon Ray years.

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                    This final episode of Season 1 kicks off with some fascinating FU on Clever Hans and proceeds into a listener question about John's feelings about "faith."

                    Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Clever Hans - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith: Anne Lamott - Amazon.com Intelligence Squared Intelligence Squared Podcast on iTunes Light My Fire - The Doors - YouTube Whiplash (2014) - IMDb Come Dancing - The Kinks - YouTube D.V.C. - Encyclopaedia Metallum: The Metal Archives Fauvism - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

                    Fauvism is the style of les Fauves (French for "the wild beasts"), a loose group of early twentieth-century Modern artists whose works emphasized painterly qualities and strong color over the representational or realistic values retained by Impressionism.

                    Merlin's World of Music - Apple Music Playlist Sacred Harp - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

                    Sacred Harp singing is a tradition of sacred choral music that originated in the American South of the United States. The name is derived from The Sacred Harp, a ubiquitous and historically important tunebook printed in shape notes.

                    D.V.C. (Darth Vader's Church) - Descendant Upheaval - YouTube Happy Birthday ruled public domain as judge throws out copyright claim | The Guardian
                    2 hr 58 min
                  • 9: Late Bloomer

                    This week's main topic focuses on the many aspects of being a "late bloomer." From secondary sex characteristics and serial social prickliness through figuring out how to be in a family and studying the anthropology of the opposite sex.

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                      In this penultimate episode, John and Merlin start with a discussion of salad and some followup on Destiny (John can't even believe he forgot Xur).

                      Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Where is Xur? Cuphead - in Don't Deal with the Devil Jonathan Coulton Performs "The Future Soon" - YouTube The Incomparable | Obscure References and Sadness (Episode 98) Erikson's stages of psychosocial development - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Jonathan Coulton - Skullcrusher Mountain - YouTube
                      2 hr 11 min
                    • 8: Devouring Essence

                      John educates Merlin about the first-person shooter game, "Destiny." Merlin feels overwhelmed, while John says we're only seeing the tip of the iceberg.

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                        This time around, John and Merlin talk about time-shifted media releases, corporate speak, and Dave the Marketing guy.

                        For the main topic, John educates Merlin about the first-person shooter game, "Destiny." Merlin feels overwhelmed, while John says we're only seeing the tip of the iceberg.

                        Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Bill Nighy - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Car Talk - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

                        Car Talk is a Peabody Award–winning radio talk show broadcast weekly on NPR stations and elsewhere. Its subjects were automobiles and automotive repair, discussed often in a humorous way. It was hosted by brothers Tom and Ray Magliozzi, known also as "Click and Clack, the Tappet Brothers".

                        Robot or Not? - a podcast from The Incomparable

                        John Siracusa educates Jason Snell about what is, and what is not, a robot.

                        Unsuck It

                        What terrible business jargon do you need unsucked?

                        Merlin Mann at SXSW 2008 - Worst Website Ever - YouTube

                        During Andy Baio’s ‘Worst Website Ever’ competition, Merlin Mann was one of eight contestants proposing ideas-so-crazy-they-might-just-work to venture capitalist David Hornik. I recorded a video of Merlin’s winning proposal.

                        Killer application - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

                        In marketing terminology, a killer application (commonly shortened to killer app) is any computer program that is so necessary or desirable that it proves the core value of some larger technology, such as computer hardware, gaming console, software, a programming language, software platform, or an operating system.

                        Thought leader - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Mr. Show - "Pre-Taped Call-In Show - YouTube Hypercritical: Better Pasta Destiny (video game) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Hypercritical #64 - John's first discussion of the skill barrier to enjoying video games Hypercritical #65 - More on the skill barrier to enjoying video games Felwinter is Coming… - YouTube Brief moments of semi-competency in Iron Banner - YouTube Up in the Air: Meet the Man Who Flies Around the World for Free | Rolling Stone
                        2 hr 24 min

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