Reconcilable Differences

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  • 267: Crumbs and Soldiers
    Subtitle: We called them latex invitations.

    John reports back with his Billy Joel Results.

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      John reports back with his Billy Joel Results.

      (Recorded on Tuesday, August 5, 2025)

      Credits
      • Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
      • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
      • Music: Merlin Mann
      • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
      • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. The Living Daylights (1987) Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom (1984) “Slicing the Pie” in Destiny - YouTube “Slicing the Pie” with diagrams - YouTube Direct MP3 link to the member version of Reconcilable Differences #266

        Free to everyone! This is the full member version of episode 266, which includes the normal episode followed by the members-only aftershow (and no ads, of course). If you like what you hear, you can become a member at https://relay.fm/rd/join

        Lisp code examples “Lisp has all the visual appeal of oatmeal with fingernail clippings mixed in.” — Larry Wall, July 21, 1994 in comp.lang.lisp Billy Joel: And So It Goes - HBO Billy Joel: Turn the Lights Back On - YouTube
        1 hr 31 min
      • 266: The Misspeaking Community
        Subtitle: The folder is called “Pepperoni.”

        How does John generate all that cool chapter art?

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          Things kick off with John sharing some breaking news about The Flop House, plus it's clear that Merlin's Britishisms are becoming numerous, invasive, and a little un-American.

          Next up, Merlin wonders how John generated all that cool chapter art for a recent ATP special. (Hint: some of it was automated; some of it was not.)

          And, finally, Merlin decides to apply Theory of Mind to predict why John hasn't watched the Billy Joel special yet. Subsequently, John is pitched on why this program probably represents essential viewing for him and his people.

          In this month’s member bonus segment, John has book-adjacent questions about Merlin's Wisdom Project.

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          (Recorded Tuesday, July 22, 2025)

          Credits
          • Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
          • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
          • Music: Merlin Mann
          • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
          • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Flop House Mini 132: Stu Brings Down the Hammer

            This is the Flop House mini episode where Stuart Wellington fulfills John’s request to explain the Warhammer 40,000 episode of the Secret Level animation anthology series on Amazon Prime Video.

            Secret Level episode 5: Warhammer 40,000: And They Shall Know No Fear - Wikipedia Secret Level episode 5: Warhammer 40,000: And They Shall Know No Fear - Amazon Prime Video "Faff" in the Oxford English Dictionary Substage

            The Mac app for using an LLM to take actions in the Finder.

            ATP Tier List: Pizza Toppings ATP Member Specials Billy Joel: And So It Goes - HBO HBO’s Big Beautiful Billy Joel Documentary Delivers Maximum Piano Man Per Minute - GQ.com Hicksville, New York - Wikipedia Hicksville, New York - Google Maps The Gilded Age (TV series) - Wikipedia Billy Joel - Live in London (March 13, 1978) - YouTube Lorraine Bracco - Wikipedia wisdom.limo

            The fun URL for Merlin’s Wisdom Project.

            Merlin’s Wisdom Project on GitHub Inspirado for Merlin’s Wisdom Project The Art of Pants Reconcilable Differences #3: Helena Sell - Relay
            1 hr 27 min
          • 265: Stop Collapsing Everything

            On the complexities and constraints of pursuing the right answer.

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              Credits
              • Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
              • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
              • Music: Merlin Mann
              • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
              • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. R.E.M. - Collapse into Now Stephen Hackett: Ten Years Indie Lighter Darker: The ILM Podcast Merlin’s post about ChatGPT and “ctx” The Gell-Mann amnesia effect - Wikipedia Like Stories of Old: When Two Filmmakers Make the Same Movie - YouTube Like Stories of Old: The Inner Chronicle of What We Are – Werner Herzog Documentary - YouTube Come and See (1985) We Were the Lucky Ones (2024) Merlin’s “Some Next-Level Shit” movie list
                1 hr 52 min
              • 264: Alphabetical Shadow
                Subtitle:  That's why it's hard to be Janice.

                Merlin presents some Microwave Results and John shares his most recent Graduation Results.

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                  Things kick off with some document disagreements and a surprisingly long discussion of HTML.

                  Next up, Merlin presents some Microwave Results and John shares his most recent Graduation Results.

                  In this month’s member bonus episode, your hosts discuss the 1981 German submarine epic, Das Boot.

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                  (Recorded Tuesday, June 24, 2025)

                  Credits
                  • Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
                  • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
                  • Music: Merlin Mann
                  • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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                    This is the episode where we talk about the people who row boats across oceans.

                    Reconcilable Differences #232: Ham Means One

                    This is the episode where we talk about Waffle House’s Pull Drop Mark Order Calling Method.

                    Das Boot (1981) Das Boot: Behind the Scenes Blade Runner (1982) Legend (1985) Time Bandits (1981) Dragonslayer (1981) Excalibur (1981) The Godfather Part II (1974) Once Upon a Time in America (1984) Cabaret (1972) The Deer Hunter (1978)
                    1 hr 38 min
                  • 263: A Ragnarok of the Mind

                    John's Prom Results and Merlin's Camping Results.

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                    • Links and Show Notes: Credits
                      • Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
                      • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
                      • Music: Merlin Mann
                      • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
                      • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Lisa’s First Word (The Simpsons, season 4, episode 10) - Wikipedia “The Nice Price” stickers @katieonviolin tells Merlin about The Apparatus™ in 2024 Hypercritical #42: The Wrong Guy The Plumber Problem Hors d'oeuvre - Wikipedia Titan submersible - Wikipedia
                        1 hr 24 min
                      • 262: Everybody’s Got a Tunnel

                        On goals and accomplishments.

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                          After some great Follow-Up on "Allentown" and The Apparatus, your hosts talk about goals and accomplishments.

                          In this month’s member bonus episode, John talks about playing Marathon (again).

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                          (Recorded Tuesday, May 27, 2025)

                          Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. The history of Billy Joel's Allentown - Hidden History, by Lenny Flank @nieltorda's even more impressive apparatus The Apparatus over the years Seb labels the parts of The Apparatus Bob Dively explains The Apparatus Ian of Earth explains the rusty braces on The Apparatus A Bell Is a Cup - Wikipedia

                          "A Bell Is a Cup.…Until It Is Struck"

                          The Waterworks card game (1972) Sirens (2025 TV series) The Cast of US #17: Convergence

                          John's guest appearance on The Cast of Us podcast to discuss the finale of season 2 of The Last of Us TV show on HBO.

                          Making a Mess: a History of Megalopolis

                          From the Be Kind Rewind YouTube channel,

                          Bono: Stories of Surrender (Book) Apple Original Films celebrates the world premiere of “Bono: Stories of Surrender” at the Cannes Film Festival Marathon (1994 video game) Marathon (2025(?) video game) Marathon reveal teaser - YouTube Marathon cinematic - YouTube Marathon gameplay - YouTube
                          1 hr 41 min
                        • 261: Apparatus Tycoon

                          Your hosts finally discuss The Apparatus.

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                            Things kick off with some Billy Joel talk. Merlin thinks he's hearing double, but John's not so sure. Anyway, be sure to hang that graduation on the wall.

                            In follow-up, John shares a listener's collection of colorful zipper nudges from around the world. Next, Merlin's kid continues to unintentionally learn how to do computer things. The legends and lore of YouTube engagement strategies are considered.

                            This week's main topic is The Apparatus. In which your hosts investigate a fascinating and evolving contraption that appeared in Merlin's neighborhood.

                            Things wrap with some anecdotes about places in Merlin's neighborhood where people have made numbers one and two in gross, anti-social ways.

                            (Recorded on Tuesday, May 13, 2025)

                            Credits
                            • Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
                            • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
                            • Music: Merlin Mann
                            • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
                            • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Billy Joel - "It's Still Rock and Roll to Me" (Glass Houses, 1980) Billy Joel's Allentown vs. Levittown vs. Bethlehem “He thrusts his fists against the posts and still insists he sees the ghosts.” On My Own, as sung by Kaho Shimada

                              The best version of On My Own, according to John. It's from Les Misérables (Highlights from the Complete Symphonic International Cast Recording)

                              Les Misérables (Highlights from the Complete Symphonic International Cast Recording) ATP Top Four: Game Consoles The Apparatus Makeshift AC outlet adapter meme What Roy Wood was capable of. | Everybody's a critic. | Flickr

                              Merlin's kid has a history of forging technological desire paths.

                              "Dah."

                              1 hr 29 min
                            • 260: The Mandala Effect
                              Subtitle: It's hard to look things up if they don't exist.

                              Merlin is very vulnerable, and John is encouraged to leverage this.

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                              • Links and Show Notes: Credits
                                • Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
                                • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
                                • Music: Merlin Mann
                                • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
                                • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Snopes on “First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win” Merlin’s blog post about his latest ChatGPT success (among other things) Merlin’s blog post about celebrating good things Tiny Glade The Incomparable #208: The Good People Are Dead Already

                                  John talks about The Last of Us video game on The Incomparable.

                                  The Incomparable #536: Sometimes the Drawer Is Empty

                                  John talks about The Last of Us Part II video game on The Incomparable.

                                  The Cast of Us #10: Look for the Light

                                  John talks about the final episode of The Last of Us (TV show) season 1 on The Cast of Us.

                                  1 hr 38 min
                                • 259: Cascade of Interventions
                                  Subtitle: Consider the Banana.

                                  Stop blaming the dog.

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                                    Things kick off with a second episode in which John has to force a context transition, then Merlin commiserates about how bad apps and institutions can be.

                                    In Follow-Up, Merlin introduces both new data and new methodologies to Things It Took Me Too Long to Realize, and John shares yet another instance of erroneously blaming an animal for something bad happening.

                                    Topic one seems like it'll be a topic about how an aging gentleman grooms, but then it ends up being about follicle madness, acceptance, and retaining the sort of friends who'll tell you when your fly is down.

                                    Finally, John has a really good music topic that ends up going into feelings and the sublime subtleties of ardent fandom.

                                    (Recorded on Tuesday, April 15, 2025)

                                    Credits
                                    • Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
                                    • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
                                    • Music: Merlin Mann
                                    • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
                                    • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. The 36-Hour Day: A Family Guide to Caring for People Who Have Alzheimer Disease and Other Dementias Kirk Cameron and Ray Comfort on "The Atheist's Nightmare": a banana Don’t blame the penguin 10 Ways to Tell Someone Their Fly Is Unzipped - Reddit What to Say When Someone’s Fly Is Down Fortress: The London Symphony Orchestra Performs the Music of Sting - Amazon Fortress: The London Symphony Orchestra Performs the Music of Sting - YouTube True Love Waits - Christopher O'Riley Plays Radiohead I Was Born for This (Soundtrack version) I Was Born for This - Live with the Swedish Radio Symphony Orchestra D.H.T.’s cover of Listen To Your Heart - YouTube Threes video game soundtrack - YouTube Doctor Who, The End of Time: Part 2: This song is ending, but the story never ends - YouTube Luka Bloom’s cover of U2’s Bad
                                      1 hr 39 min
                                    • 258: All These Little Things

                                      This week, your hosts talk about ChatGPT's new image generation abilities.

                                      And in this month's member after show, John and Merlin talk about the Netflix show, "Adolescence."

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                                        This week, your hosts talk about ChatGPT's new image generation abilities.

                                        And in this month's member after show, John and Merlin talk about the Netflix show, "Adolescence."

                                        Credits
                                        • Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
                                        • Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
                                        • Music: Merlin Mann
                                        • The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
                                        • Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Never complain, never explain - Wikipedia Introducing 4o Image Generation - OpenAI RetroFab by Itizso

                                          RetroFab is a new online collection of vintage electronic game simulations that can be played in the browser.I am now releasing in to early access the first (of hopefully many) simulations in this collection.

                                          Adolescence 2025 - Netflix Vanity Fair: How One-Shots Keep Evolving - YouTube Jungleland, by Bruce Springsteen Listen to Jungleland Next On “Black Mirror” -The Toast

                                          "what if phones, but too much"

                                          Athena (2022) Motion Sickness, by Phoebe Bridgers Apple Cider Vinegar (TV series) - Wikipedia Bruiser (TV series) - Wikipedia
                                          1 hr 37 min

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