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Reconnected Marriage | Better Communication, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Intimacy, Managing Expectations
By David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coach & Conflict De-escalation StrategistSociety & CultureReligion & SpiritualityChristianityRelationships
Reconnected Marriage | Better Communication, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Intimacy, Managing Expectations episodes
- EP 138 \\ Frustrated About The Frequent Misunderstandings In Your Marriage? Here Are Some Hacks To TryHi friend!Are you feeling frustrated about the frequent misunderstandings in your marriage? Do you wish you could understand each other better so you can feel more connected as an intimate couple? If any of these sounds familiar, you're not alone.In this episode, you will discover 3 possible reasons for the increased misunderstandings in your marriage and some hacks to try so you can stop these misunderstandings from causing a strain in your marriage.Ready to learn more?Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!.............................................................................................................
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-Email:[email protected]12 min - EP 137 \\ 5 Simple Ways To Invest In Your Marriage in 2025
Hi friend!
Happy New Year!!!
A new year has begun...this presents us with an opportunity to reflect, think about what we really want our marriages to look like, and set some goals in the new year (if we haven't done so already). If your desire is to enjoy a stronger and more connected marriage in the new year, this is an episode you don't want to miss. In this episode, you will discover 5 simple ways to invest in your marriage in 2025.
Ready to find out?
Alright then, tune in to listen to find out more!
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-Email:[email protected]15 min - EP 136 \\ A Message of Hope, Joy, Peace & Love For Your MarriageHi friend!Here is a message of hope, joy, peace and love for your marriage.We pray this episode blesses you:).............................................................................................................
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-Email:[email protected]15 min - EP 135 \\ Strengthen Your Marriage By Adding THIS KEY INGREDIENT...Even If You're Raising A Family With Limited Time!Hi friend!In this episode, you will discover ONE key ingredient you can add to your marriage for a stronger marriage this year and beyond…even if you are raising a family and don’t have a lot of time.This ingredient is ONE thing that has contributed to helping us achieve this level of growth in our marriage…even as parents of three living in North America who are living far away from family.And we want to share this with you because of how important it is especially as we raise our families in this 21st century, in a world where so many things are begging for our attention these days.Want to know more?Tune in to find out more!We pray this episode blesses you:).............................................................................................................
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-Email:[email protected]13 min - EP 134 \\ 3 Essential Areas of Growth For A Stronger And Happier MarriageHi friend!Want a stronger and happier marriage? Embrace growth. In this episode, you will discover 3 essential key growth areas for a stronger and happier marriage. These key areas of growth have influenced our marital goals and contributed to the level of success we have experienced in marriage.Want to find out more?Ready…Set…Tune in to find out more!.............................................................................................................
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-Email:[email protected]20 min - EP 133 \\ Frustrated about the conflicts in your marriage? Here are 3 virtues you need
Hi friend!
In today’s episode, we delve into 3 virtues that you need in your marriage to keep the peace. Many of us do well with the first two, but the last one is where we fall short. What are these virtues and how do you go about attaining them?
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-Email:[email protected]14 min - EP 132 \\ Here's ONE Habit That Can Transform Your Life And Marriage!Hi friend!As we get closer to the end of the year, you may have spent some time reflecting on how the year has been so far. Maybe, you’ve had some wonderful experiences over the past months and maybe you’ve had challenging or even painful experiences. No matter what you discover, there is one thing I find that could help while facing challenging times. I am referring to a habit that can transform your life in different ways…including your marriage.Want to know more?Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!Links mentioned in this episode:-Giving thanks can make you happier by Havard Health Publishing bloghttps://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happierAdditional resources you may be interested in:A Devotional by Youversion on GratitudeYouVersion plan 'How to Be Grateful for Your Life'. Check it out here:https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/22405-The Word for Today by Bob and Debby Gasshttps://vision.org.au/the-word-for-today/associated-blog/the-word-for-today-devotional-content/gratitude/.............................................................................................................
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-Email:[email protected]9 min - EP 131 \\ 5 Marriage Myths To Stop Believing To Avoid Frustration In Your RelationshipHi friend!Some persons get into marriage with certain expectations and because these expectations do not hold true, they bring about frustrations. This can impact a marriage negatively if not addressed. In this episode, you will discover 5 marriage myths that could hurt the relationship between spouses if these beliefs continue to be embraced.Want to know more? Then, tune in to listen to find out more!.............................................................................................................
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-Email:[email protected]17 min - EP 130 \\ Want to Resolve Conflicts Faster? Be a H.O.T Spouse!
Hi friend!
Have you ever wondered if there was a way to resolve conflicts or disagreements faster when they show up in marriage? If so, this is an episode you do not want to miss. In this episode, you will discover what it means to be a H.O.T Spouse and how this approach can help you as you navigate those tough conversations in marriage during conflict.
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Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you’re struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into an argument or fight?Are you a spouse feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your marriage?Do you wish to truly connect with your spouse so you can enjoy your marriage…even if it has been a while?If any of these sounds familiar, then I have something for you.I am working on building my coaching offer and offering 2 free calls to the first 2 people who email me at [email protected].You would be getting free coaching and I am going to gain some market research. It’s a win-win, first 2 people only, you can email me right now at [email protected]~DavidLead Coach at Happy Married Family
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-Email:[email protected]15 min - EP 129 \\ 3 Possible Reasons Why Misunderstandings Have Increased In Your Marriage (And How To Change That!)
Hi friend!
Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings in your marriage pulling you apart from each other? If so, you're not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 3 possible reasons that could be at play here and what to do to change the narrative in your relationship.
Alright, let's dig in!Interested in coaching? 2 FREE Coaching Calls with Coach David for 2 individuals. For more information, pls read description below:
Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you’re struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into an argument or fight?Are you a spouse feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your marriage?Do you wish to truly connect with your spouse so you can enjoy your marriage…even if it has been a while?If any of these sounds familiar, then I have something for you.I am working on building my coaching offer and offering 2 free calls to the first 2 people who email me at [email protected].You would be getting free coaching and I am going to gain some market research. It’s a win-win, first 2 people only, you can email me right now at [email protected]~DavidLead Coach at Happy Married Family
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About Reconnected Marriage | Better Communication, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Intimacy, Managing Expectations
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Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof?
Frustrated by the misunderstandings or growing tension in your marriage?
Do you long to feel heard and understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse?
Or maybe you simply miss feeling close, connected, and like you’re on the same team.
If you can relate, you’re not alone.
You can deeply love your spouse and still find yourselves caught in recurring conflict, misunderstandings, difficult conversations, or growing emotional distance. Add careers, parenting, responsibilities, major life transitions, and the pressures of everyday life, and staying connected can become harder than you imagined.
Welcome to Reconnected Marriage.
I’m David Haastrup, husband to my blessed and beautiful wife, Ebun, dad of three, co-author of A Couple’s First Ten Years, Christian Marriage Coach, and Conflict De-escalation Strategist.
Ebun and I have been married for more than 16 years, and we know what it’s like to feel disconnected while navigating work, parenting, relocation, and unexpected life challenges. We also know what it’s like to deepen our connection and intimacy over the years.
Through our marriage, my experience navigating conflict in high-pressure healthcare environments, and my work with couples, I’ve learned something important:
The argument you’re having isn’t always the real issue.
Sometimes, something deeper is happening beneath the words: unspoken expectations, emotional triggers, different perspectives, unresolved hurt, or patterns you may not even realize you’ve fallen into.
On Reconnected Marriage, I share practical tools, biblical wisdom, and real-life lessons to help you understand what’s happening beneath conflict, respond differently when things get difficult, and restore connection.
We’ll explore:
At the heart of the conversations we’ll have is this:
You don’t have to wait for your spouse to change before taking your next courageous step. You cannot control your spouse, but you can choose how you show up—and when one person chooses a new response, it can begin to change the way you relate to each other.
Maybe you’ve quietly thought:
“We love each other. So why do we keep ending up here?”
“I want us to understand each other better.”
“I want us to feel close again.”
If that’s where you are, join me as we explore practical, faith-rooted ways to deepen your connection, experience more peace and unity at home, and begin moving toward a stronger, more connected marriage.
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[Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].