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Reconnected Marriage | Better Communication, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Intimacy, Managing Expectations
By David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coach & Conflict De-escalation StrategistSociety & CultureReligion & SpiritualityChristianityRelationships
Reconnected Marriage | Better Communication, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Intimacy, Managing Expectations episodes
- EP 148 \\ 5 More Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What To Do Instead!)
Hi friend!
**This is the continuation of Episode 139 \\ 5 Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What to Do Instead!)**When we get married, we may come across marriage advice from well-meaning individuals. This can either benefit your marriage or bring about issues in your relationship. Even though not all marriage advice is harmful, however, there are some you should ignore to avoid disconnection in your relationship. This is why in this episode, you will discover 5 more pieces of marriage advice you should do away with this year and what to do instead!Ready to learn more?Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!To listen to the first part of this series, click below:EP 139 \\ 5 Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What to Do Instead!).............................................................................................................📩 Become an Insider: Receive weekly podcast updates, marital tips, early access to special offers & giveaways right in your inbox...https://rmpinsider.ck.page
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-Email:[email protected]13 min - EP 147 \\ Prayers Are Not Enough To Save Your Marriage. Here's WhyHi friend!Have you been praying for your spouse to change for many years? You’ve fasted, held vigils, and prayed fervently
and despite all your prayers there has been no change. And you’re wondering, “Is God going to change my spouse?” In this episode, you will discover why prayers are not enough to save your marriage.
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-Email:[email protected]12 min - EP 146 \\ Angry With Spouse? Ask Yourself These 5 Questions Before Responding
Hi friend!
Are you in a place in your marriage where you’re feeling deeply upset with your spouse? Are you feeling so angry with your spouse about something he/she did and you’re just trying to figure out a way around it so you do not escalate the situation?
If this sounds familiar, tune in to listen to this episode as we explore 5 questions to ask yourself before you respond or proceed to act on that next thought (Hint: The 5 questions can be found in the five-letter pneumonic, P.R.E.F.R).
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-Email:[email protected]14 min - EP 145 \\ Feeling Unappreciated In Your Marriage? Here Are 3 Tips To Try
Hi friend!
Are you in a season in your marriage when you're not feeling appreciated in your relationship? If you are currently thinking: “I feel unappreciated in my marriage” and you’re wondering what to do, you’re not alone. In this episode, I will share some possible reasons why this may be happening and some actions you can take or tips to try that could bring about positive results in your marriage.
Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy or psychological advice. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance.
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-Email:[email protected]14 min - EP 144 \\ L.O.V.E In Action: Loving Your Spouse Courageously In Marriage (Part 2)
Hi friend!
*This is Part 2 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to love courageously in marriage...even if you're not feeling loved.
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-Email:[email protected]18 min - EP 143 \\ L.O.V.E In Action: Loving Your Spouse Courageously In Marriage (Part 1)
Hi friend!
*This is Part 1 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to love courageously in marriage...even if you're not feeling loved.
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-Email:[email protected]16 min - EP 142 \\This Five-Letter Word Can Save Your Marriage!
Hi friend!
Are you in a tough season in your marriage where it seems like you are struggling to get through to your spouse? Do you desire to reconnect with your spouse? In this episode, you will discover one five-letter word that has benefited our marriage in amazing ways. For example, it has helped prevent conflicts from escalating & unnecessary conflicts from taking place and as a result, we enjoy a stronger connection in marriage. So, if your desire is to go from surviving to thriving in marriage, then, get ready to learn more about this five-letter word - one that can save your marriage!
Curious to find out? Then, tune in to listen to find out more!
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-Email:[email protected]13 min - EP 141 \\ One Thing That Could Be Causing An Increase In Conflict In Your Marriage (& How To Deal With It)
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Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings & fights in your marriage? Have you ever thought about what could be causing this increase in conflict in your marriage? We get it. Marriage can feel so tough when there is so much conflict and disconnection present. And there are different reasons why this sometimes show up in marriages. In this episode, you will discover one thing that could be the culprit and how to deal with it.
Curious to know more?
Then tune in to listen to find out more!
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-Email:[email protected]12 min - EP 140 \\ Feel Like Giving Up On Your Marriage? Here Are 5 Tips To Try
Hi friend!
Are you on the verge of giving up on your marriage? Have you been facing difficult challenges that are weighing you down? Does it seem like you are growing farther apart from each other with every passing day?
If this is where you are right now, you are not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 5 tips to try so you can start working towards building the strong & connected marriage you so desire.
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-Email:[email protected]12 min - EP 139 \\ 5 Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What To Do Instead!)
Hi friend!
When we get married, we may come across marriage advice from well-meaning individuals. This can either benefit your marriage or bring about issues in your relationship. Even though not all marriage advice is harmful, however, there are some you should ignore to avoid disconnection in your relationship. This is why in this episode, you will discover 5 pieces of marriage advice you should do away with this year and what to do instead!Ready to learn more?Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!.............................................................................................................📩 Become an Insider: Receive weekly podcast updates, marital tips, early access to special offers & giveaways right in your inbox...https://rmpinsider.ck.page
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About Reconnected Marriage | Better Communication, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Intimacy, Managing Expectations
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Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof?
Frustrated by the misunderstandings or growing tension in your marriage?
Do you long to feel heard and understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse?
Or maybe you simply miss feeling close, connected, and like you’re on the same team.
If you can relate, you’re not alone.
You can deeply love your spouse and still find yourselves caught in recurring conflict, misunderstandings, difficult conversations, or growing emotional distance. Add careers, parenting, responsibilities, major life transitions, and the pressures of everyday life, and staying connected can become harder than you imagined.
Welcome to Reconnected Marriage.
I’m David Haastrup, husband to my blessed and beautiful wife, Ebun, dad of three, co-author of A Couple’s First Ten Years, Christian Marriage Coach, and Conflict De-escalation Strategist.
Ebun and I have been married for more than 16 years, and we know what it’s like to feel disconnected while navigating work, parenting, relocation, and unexpected life challenges. We also know what it’s like to deepen our connection and intimacy over the years.
Through our marriage, my experience navigating conflict in high-pressure healthcare environments, and my work with couples, I’ve learned something important:
The argument you’re having isn’t always the real issue.
Sometimes, something deeper is happening beneath the words: unspoken expectations, emotional triggers, different perspectives, unresolved hurt, or patterns you may not even realize you’ve fallen into.
On Reconnected Marriage, I share practical tools, biblical wisdom, and real-life lessons to help you understand what’s happening beneath conflict, respond differently when things get difficult, and restore connection.
We’ll explore:
At the heart of the conversations we’ll have is this:
You don’t have to wait for your spouse to change before taking your next courageous step. You cannot control your spouse, but you can choose how you show up—and when one person chooses a new response, it can begin to change the way you relate to each other.
Maybe you’ve quietly thought:
“We love each other. So why do we keep ending up here?”
“I want us to understand each other better.”
“I want us to feel close again.”
If that’s where you are, join me as we explore practical, faith-rooted ways to deepen your connection, experience more peace and unity at home, and begin moving toward a stronger, more connected marriage.
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[Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].