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We live in a global village. We don’t have to live in the same neighborhood to know about the life of another person living in another neighborhood on another continent.
Enter the world of technology & the internet. A world where you see beautiful pictures and videos of couples and individuals... Depending on the current state of your marriage, subconsciously you may find yourself comparing your spouse or marriage to another person’s spouse or marriage.
Then, the "Comparison Trap"...Comparisonitis sets in...
"If only my spouse were like this person or that person's spouse..."
In this episode (part 2 of this episode series), you will discover how to stop comparisonitis from hurting your relationship with your spouse so you can enjoy a more connected marriage.
We pray this episode blesses you.
Alright, tune in and let's dig in:)
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Hi friend!
We live in a global village. We don’t have to live in the same neighborhood to know about the life of another person living in another neighborhood on another continent.
Enter the world of technology & the internet. A world where you see beautiful pictures and videos of couples and individuals... Depending on the current state of your marriage, subconsciously you may find yourself comparing your spouse or marriage to another person’s spouse or marriage or even your parents (mum or dad).
Then, the "Comparison Trap"...Comparisonitis sets in...
"If only my spouse were like this person or that person's spouse..."
In this episode, you will discover what comparisonitis entails and why you should stop engaging in comparisonitis, including its possible effects on your marriage.
We pray this episode blesses you.
Alright, tune in and let's dig in:)
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We often hear that it takes two committed individuals to make a marriage work but what if we told you that it takes one courageous spouse willing to make the move towards progress to begin this process. Being a courageous spouse means choosing to partner with God and making courageous moves needed for a more loving & connected marriage…even if your spouse is not currently on board!
As individuals who have had to be courageous spouses at different points during our marital journey, we have seen positive results in our marriage as it continues to grow stronger over time. So, if your desire is to have a more connected marriage and you’re wondering how to move forward or make progress in your marriage even if your spouse is not currently showing up on their end, then, this episode is for you. In this episode, you will discover 3 reasons why you should not wait for your spouse to get on board before working on your marriage…or investing in your marriage and steps you can begin to take towards building the strong and connected marriage you truly desire.
We pray this blesses you:)
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In the early years of marriage, engaging in meaningful conversations with our spouses boosts connection and draws us closer to each other. Over the years, these conversations can begin to fade, especially when most of our communication become centered around the running of the household, activities the kids have to attend and other functional aspects of the relationship. For a deeper connection and intimacy in marriage, it is important to continue to engage in meaningful conversations as a couple, that is, conversations that go deeper. Maybe you truly desire to have deep and meaningful conversations with your spouse but it seems like you're miles apart when you talk or communicate with each other. If you can relate to this, you’re not alone. This is why in this episode, we will be addressing 5 possible reasons why your spouse may be avoiding having meaningful conversations with you and what to do about them.
So, get ready..set...tune in to listen to find out more!
We pray this episode blesses you:)
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Do you love your wife but you’re feeling frustrated about your married sex life? Or perhaps when it comes to sex, it seems to be a major source of conflict in your marriage? You wish to experience more physical connection with your spouse and increase sexual intimacy in your marriage so you can feel closer to your wife but it seems like most times, you hit a roadblock in this area. If this sounds familiar, you are not alone. In this episode, come prepared to discover 4 possible reasons why this may be happening and the steps you can begin to take…as you make progress towards building the more connected marriage you truly desire.
We pray this episode blesses you.
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Summer is here and people are camping, getting away to exotic places, traveling and so on. Maybe you've discovered that going on a couples getaway is not one of your plans this summer but you also want to strengthen the bond and connection in your marriage. Guess what! You don't necessarily need to get away to achieve the deeper connection and intimacy you truly desire in your marriage. This is why we will be sharing 3 simple and powerful ways to grow closer as a couple this summer...without waiting for a romantic couples getaway.
Ready to feel more connected to your spouse & enjoy more quality time together while enjoying some summer fun as a couple?
Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!
We pray this episode blesses you.
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As spouses and individuals, we want to feel seen in our marriages. When it seems like our spouses are not paying attention to us the way we desire, or feel like we’re being taken for granted, disconnection and loneliness could begin to build up in marriage. The reality is that you may be doing things together and running a household but you feel this disconnect between you and your spouse. If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. We find that it is so easy for couples to fall into this lifestyle especially while living abroad with increasing demands and responsibilities in their lives. If your desire is to feel more connected to your spouse, in this episode we will be sharing 5 practical tips on how to get your spouse to pay more attention to you without starting an argument so you can feel seen in your marriage and start moving towards the goal of achieving a deeper connection in your relationship.
We pray this episode blesses you.
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Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof?
Frustrated by the misunderstandings or growing tension in your marriage?
Do you long to feel heard and understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse?
Or maybe you simply miss feeling close, connected, and like you’re on the same team.
If you can relate, you’re not alone.
You can deeply love your spouse and still find yourselves caught in recurring conflict, misunderstandings, difficult conversations, or growing emotional distance. Add careers, parenting, responsibilities, major life transitions, and the pressures of everyday life, and staying connected can become harder than you imagined.
Welcome to Reconnected Marriage.
I’m David Haastrup, husband to my blessed and beautiful wife, Ebun, dad of three, co-author of A Couple’s First Ten Years, Christian Marriage Coach, and Conflict De-escalation Strategist.
Ebun and I have been married for more than 16 years, and we know what it’s like to feel disconnected while navigating work, parenting, relocation, and unexpected life challenges. We also know what it’s like to deepen our connection and intimacy over the years.
Through our marriage, my experience navigating conflict in high-pressure healthcare environments, and my work with couples, I’ve learned something important:
The argument you’re having isn’t always the real issue.
Sometimes, something deeper is happening beneath the words: unspoken expectations, emotional triggers, different perspectives, unresolved hurt, or patterns you may not even realize you’ve fallen into.
On Reconnected Marriage, I share practical tools, biblical wisdom, and real-life lessons to help you understand what’s happening beneath conflict, respond differently when things get difficult, and restore connection.
We’ll explore:
At the heart of the conversations we’ll have is this:
You don’t have to wait for your spouse to change before taking your next courageous step. You cannot control your spouse, but you can choose how you show up—and when one person chooses a new response, it can begin to change the way you relate to each other.
Maybe you’ve quietly thought:
“We love each other. So why do we keep ending up here?”
“I want us to understand each other better.”
“I want us to feel close again.”
If that’s where you are, join me as we explore practical, faith-rooted ways to deepen your connection, experience more peace and unity at home, and begin moving toward a stronger, more connected marriage.
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[Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].