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Reconnected Marriage | Better Communication, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Intimacy, Managing Expectations
By David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coach & Conflict De-escalation StrategistSociety & CultureReligion & SpiritualityChristianityRelationships
Reconnected Marriage | Better Communication, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Intimacy, Managing Expectations episodes
- EP 98 \\ Want to Improve Your Connection With Your Wife? Embrace these 3 Leadership Types
Hi friend!
If you’re a husband who desires to enjoy a deeper connection with his wife while also honouring God in your marriage, then this episode is for you. In this episode, I will be talking about leadership in the home, a debated topic in these modern times. Get ready to discover 3 types of leadership to embrace as a husband to improve the connection with your wife in marriage.
Curious to find out?Alright then, tune in to listen to find out more!.............................................................................................................For questions/inquiries/coaching:Email: [email protected]The Happy Married Family Online Shop:https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/15 min - EP 97 \\ Married Men & Women Raising A Family Abroad! We Want To Hear From YouHi friend!We want to hear from you (email: [email protected] ). If you are a Christian man or woman who is married and has been raising a family abroad for years, or have just relocated to a new country or province with your family, we would love to get on a quick 10-15 mins zoom call over the next few days to learn more about your experience and needs so we can better serve you on your marital journey. We want to learn more about your worries, concerns and wishes as it relates to your marriage. This will help us create more content that resonates with men and women just like you!The information you share will be kept confidential and if you prefer you can remain anonymous. If you’re interested in participating, please send a quick email to [email protected]or text "PARTICIPATE" to 647.818.2020 on WhatsApp.We look forward to hearing from you.As a thank you for your time, there are 3 opportunities for you.Want to learn more?Tune in to listen to find out more!.............................................................................................................For questions/inquiries/coaching:Email: [email protected]The Happy Married Family Online Shop:https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/5 min
- EP 96 \\ Here is one FIVE-LETTER word that can save your marriage!
Hi friend!
Are you in a tough season in your marriage where it seems like you are struggling to get through to your spouse? Do you desire to reconnect with your spouse?
In this episode, you will discover one five-letter word that has benefited our marriage in amazing ways. For example, it has helped prevent conflicts from escalating & unnecessary conflicts from taking place and as a result, we enjoy a stronger connection in marriage.
So, if you desire to go from surviving to thriving in marriage, then, get ready to learn more about this five-letter word - one that can save your marriage!
.............................................................................................................For questions/inquiries/coaching:Email: [email protected]The Happy Married Family Online Shop:https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/14 min - EP 95 \\ I am feeling unappreciated in my marriage. HELP!
Hi friend!
Are you in a season in your marriage when you're not feeling appreciated in your relationship? If you are currently thinking: “I feel unappreciated in my marriage” and you’re wondering what to do, you’re not alone. In this episode, I will share some possible reasons why this may be happening and some actions you can take or tips to try that could bring about positive results in your marriage.
Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy or psychological advice. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance.
.............................................................................................................For questions/inquiries/coaching:Email: [email protected]Join Lead Coach David at the Courageous Life Conference: March 15-17, 2024.Pls click the link below for more detailshttps://www.facebook.com/share/p/1ZajFfvg4XzNszzP/?mibextid=WC7FNeThe Happy Married Family Online Shop:https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/14 min - EP 94 \\ 4 Ways To Earn Respect From Your Wife Without Demanding ItHi Friend!When I talk to men, most of the time, a common concern in marriage is usually along the lines of “my wife does not give me the respect that I deserve.” If this sounds like you, and you’ve been wondering, "How can I gain respect from my wife?" or silently asking the question “How can I get my wife to respect me?”, in this episode, you will discover 4 ways to earn respect from your wife without demanding it. Yes, demanding respect is a no-no. These actionable ways will not only improve your marriage in the long run, they will make you a better “you” and a more attractive spouse. Hint: they all start with the letter L.Tip: Don’t focus on earning respect from your wife. Focus on practicing these 4 things.Want to know more? Alright, then tune in to listen to this episode and don’t forget to share with your friends so together, we can build stronger and more connected marriages we truly love!Links mentioned in this episode:Take the 5 love language quiz here:https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-languageIt’s Not About The Nail video:https://youtu.be/-4EDhdAHrOg?feature=sharedCourageous Life Conference: March 15-17, 2024.Pls click the link below for more detailshttps://www.facebook.com/share/p/1ZajFfvg4XzNszzP/?mibextid=WC7FNe.............................................................................................................For questions/inquiries/coaching:Email: [email protected]The Happy Married Family Online Shop:https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/18 min
- EP 93 \\ 3 Communication Hacks for a Stronger Connection in MarriageHi friend!Let’s talk about communication in marriage! We often hear that communication is important in marriage. How important is it to improve your communication skills in marriage?Well, here is one thing we can tell you: When we got better at communicating with each other as a couple, our bond grew stronger and our marriage improved. So, if you desire to strengthen your connection in marriage, then tune in to listen to this episode to discover 3 communication hacks you can begin to practice for a stronger connection in marriage..............................................................................................................For questions/inquiries/coaching:Email: [email protected]The Happy Married Family Online Shop:https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/10 min
- EP 92 \\ How to build connection, communicate with & provide clarity for your child today with Nellie Harden
Hi friend!
In honor of Family Day, we will be airing this episode that is centered around family life & parenting especially in our modern world filled with so many distractions - How to build connection, communicate with & provide clarity for your child today.
During this interesting and insightful interview, our Special Guest will be taking us on a journey by sharing her knowledge, experience, and story as it relates to the topic of today.
Our Special Guest is Nellie Harden and we are pleased to have her on the show.Nellie is a wife, mother to 4 teenage daughters, and an author and speaker in the space of Family Life & Leadership. She focuses on helping parents love & lead their teen/tween daughters in a way that teaches them to love & lead themselves while building a strong foundation of worth, esteem & confidence all before they leave home!Her background is in biology and psychology, from humpbacks to humans, and she has invested decades of her life into personal, family, faith and leadership development. Most of all, she believes the best way to change the world is through one living room at a time!So, stay tuned and get ready to be enlightened as we delve into the topic for today.You can connect with Nellie Harden by visiting her website where you will find out more about her resources and programs:https://www.nellieharden.com.............................................................................................................For questions/inquiries/coaching:Email: [email protected]The Happy Married Family Online Shop:https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/41 min - EP 91 \\ How to Love Courageously in Marriage...Even If You're Not Feeling Loved (Part 2)
Hi friend!
*This is Part 2 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to love courageously in marriage...even if you're not feeling loved.
.............................................................................................................For questions/inquiries/coaching:Email: [email protected]The Happy Married Family Online Shop:https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/18 min - EP 90 \\ How To Love Courageously in Marriage...Even If You're Not Feeling Loved (Part 1)
Hi friend!
*This is Part 1 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to love courageously in marriage...even if you're not feeling loved.
.............................................................................................................For questions/inquiries/coaching:Email: [email protected]The Happy Married Family Online Shop:https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/15 min - EP 89 \\ How Intimacy With God Transforms Your Marriage
Hi friend!
It is no news that we believe that God is the Source of marriage. He created marriage and a relationship with Him will have an effect on the way you do marriage. What does it mean to have an intimate relationship with God? How does building intimacy with God transform a marriage? At times we want to go through marriage with our limited view and experience and this just keeps us frustrated. This is why in this episode, you will discover what it means to have an intimate relationship with God and how intimacy with God can transform your marriage.
.............................................................................................................For questions/inquiries/coaching:Email: [email protected]The Happy Married Family Online Shop:https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/20 min
About Reconnected Marriage | Better Communication, Conflict Resolution, Emotional Intimacy, Managing Expectations
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Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof?
Frustrated by the misunderstandings or growing tension in your marriage?
Do you long to feel heard and understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse?
Or maybe you simply miss feeling close, connected, and like you’re on the same team.
If you can relate, you’re not alone.
You can deeply love your spouse and still find yourselves caught in recurring conflict, misunderstandings, difficult conversations, or growing emotional distance. Add careers, parenting, responsibilities, major life transitions, and the pressures of everyday life, and staying connected can become harder than you imagined.
Welcome to Reconnected Marriage.
I’m David Haastrup, husband to my blessed and beautiful wife, Ebun, dad of three, co-author of A Couple’s First Ten Years, Christian Marriage Coach, and Conflict De-escalation Strategist.
Ebun and I have been married for more than 16 years, and we know what it’s like to feel disconnected while navigating work, parenting, relocation, and unexpected life challenges. We also know what it’s like to deepen our connection and intimacy over the years.
Through our marriage, my experience navigating conflict in high-pressure healthcare environments, and my work with couples, I’ve learned something important:
The argument you’re having isn’t always the real issue.
Sometimes, something deeper is happening beneath the words: unspoken expectations, emotional triggers, different perspectives, unresolved hurt, or patterns you may not even realize you’ve fallen into.
On Reconnected Marriage, I share practical tools, biblical wisdom, and real-life lessons to help you understand what’s happening beneath conflict, respond differently when things get difficult, and restore connection.
We’ll explore:
At the heart of the conversations we’ll have is this:
You don’t have to wait for your spouse to change before taking your next courageous step. You cannot control your spouse, but you can choose how you show up—and when one person chooses a new response, it can begin to change the way you relate to each other.
Maybe you’ve quietly thought:
“We love each other. So why do we keep ending up here?”
“I want us to understand each other better.”
“I want us to feel close again.”
If that’s where you are, join me as we explore practical, faith-rooted ways to deepen your connection, experience more peace and unity at home, and begin moving toward a stronger, more connected marriage.
Coaching & Inquiries
➡️ Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to [email protected] to schedule a free 15-minute discovery call!
❓For other questions/inquiries:
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[Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].