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Izzy speaks with Sage, a board-certified sexologist, embodiment coach, intimacy guide, and certified cuddlist, about Felt, the afterglow film that portrays intimacy through attentive touch rather than performance or a required sexual outcome. They explore nervous-system pacing, consent, eye gazing, sensory curiosity, and why connection before and after sex matters.

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Join the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy.  

This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. 

If you want to:
🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way

🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics

🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set

👥 Gain confidence in your people skills

💼 Do more meaningful work

🔄 Change your mindset


Roll up your sleeves and prepare for:
✅  5 weeks of intensive learning experience

✅  making meaningful connections

✅  1-on-1 coaching sessions

✅  Guest talks by industry experts

✅  Ongoing support after the workshop

Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

In this episode, Marga Berlinski shares her 15-year journey from a primary school teacher to an intimacy and tantra coach. She discusses the importance of playfulness, connection, and responsible sexuality in relationships, as well as her insights on Tantra Speed Dating - an event that she organises in Amsterdam, and the impact of digital media on intimacy.

Chapters

00:00 introduction
00:02 connection and vulnerability
01:52 from teaching to intimacy work
03:59 key beliefs about beauty and self-expression
06:10 the power of playfulness in relationships
07:58 handling stories and inner critics
12:01 impact of digital media
14:08 tantra speed dating: approach and practice
16:02 masculine and feminine energy
18:00 challenges of modern dating
20:05 building trust and navigating conflict
37:25 eye gazing as a tool for authentic connection
38:55 the role of vulnerability in deepening relationships
41:00 sharing real things and building trust
43:37 tips for dating and showing up authentically
44:48 the importance of being present
48:25 what is orgasmic meditation and its benefits
01:01:01 climax, state of orgasm and flow
01:03:20 rewriting the sexual script for more fulfilling sex
01:04:44 applying curiosity and playfulness to all areas of life
01:05:39 how sex and intimacy change with age
01:06:16 the impact of physiological changes and acceptance
01:08:10 embracing aging and changing bodies in sexuality
01:10:21 overcoming shame and language barriers in sex
01:13:30 the importance of curiosity and self-exploration
01:14:14 final thoughts on compassion and self-love

Support the show

Join the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy.  

This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. 

If you want to:
🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way

🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics

🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set

👥 Gain confidence in your people skills

💼 Do more meaningful work

🔄 Change your mindset


Roll up your sleeves and prepare for:
✅  5 weeks of intensive learning experience

✅  making meaningful connections

✅  1-on-1 coaching sessions

✅  Guest talks by industry experts

✅  Ongoing support after the workshop

Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

In this episode, David J. Ley, a clinical psychologist and expert in sexuality and relationships, shares insights on the psychology of sex, the impact of pornography, and how societal beliefs shape our views on intimacy. He discusses the role of shame, ethics in porn production, and how to develop a healthier relationship with sexuality.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction and guest background
07:27 Artificial divide between sexuality and morality
09:17 Cultural and familial attitudes towards sex
11:02 Approaching resistance to discussing sex
14:21 The impact of religious and moral beliefs on sexuality
16:43 Guilt and shame around masturbation
22:18 Health benefits of masturbation and myths
26:47 Taboos and their role in sexual excitement
31:50 Pornography and sexual preferences
36:57 Ethical considerations in porn production
43:10 Pornography's influence on sexual behavior
50:53 Porn as a learning tool and its limitations
54:42 The role of pornography for LGBTQ communities
55:36 Shame, guilt, and sexual dysfunction
01:00:18 How to develop a healthy relationship with pornography
01:02:25 Closing thoughts and future engagement

Support the show

Join the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy.  

This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. 

If you want to:
🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way

🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics

🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set

👥 Gain confidence in your people skills

💼 Do more meaningful work

🔄 Change your mindset


Roll up your sleeves and prepare for:
✅  5 weeks of intensive learning experience

✅  making meaningful connections

✅  1-on-1 coaching sessions

✅  Guest talks by industry experts

✅  Ongoing support after the workshop

Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are infections that are spread through sexual contact, including vaginal, anal, and oral sex. They can be caused by bacteria, viruses, or parasites and may not always have visible symptoms.

It's important to practice safe sex by using condoms and getting regular STI testing, as many STIs can be treated and cured if detected early. If left untreated, STIs can lead to serious health problems and can even be life-threatening.

While getting tested may be difficult and pricey, it's important to understand the spectrum and keep yourself safe. 

Additionally, if you are an adult content creator, performer or sex worker, taking a risk and not getting a test puts not only your health at risk but also your job. 

In this podcast episode I had the privilege of conversing with Stacy and Andras, both of whom represent STI testing clinics. Stacy Feemster, a nurse practitioner at Talent Testing Service in the USA, and Andras Vegh, who manages a Talent Testing Service clinic in Budapest.

Our discussion is around topics such as STI testing standards, an in-depth discussion about most of the infections that people should get tested for, confusion around Ureaplasma test and strategies employed by Talent Testing to avoid results falsification. 

The episode is packed with essential information, particularly important for those involved in the sex industry or individuals engaging in unprotected sex with multiple partners. 

If you enjoy this episode, share it with your friends or on social media, and don’t forget to tag @redcheeksnoshame 💛

Support the show

Join the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy.  

This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. 

If you want to:
🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way

🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics

🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set

👥 Gain confidence in your people skills

💼 Do more meaningful work

🔄 Change your mindset


Roll up your sleeves and prepare for:
✅  5 weeks of intensive learning experience

✅  making meaningful connections

✅  1-on-1 coaching sessions

✅  Guest talks by industry experts

✅  Ongoing support after the workshop

Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Maggie MacDonalds is a researcher who looks into the fascinating world of pornographic platforms and their cultural impact. With a graduate specialisation in Sexual Diversity Studies, Maggie’s work examines how technology, labour, governance, and cultural production intersect in the porn industry. She serves on the advisory board of PornHub and is a proud member of the Free Speech Coalition where she advocates for the protection of sex workers and advocates for the freedom of sexual expression. Tune in to hear her perspectives on the ever-evolving landscape of adult entertainment.

In this episode, our discussion centred around digital platforms and their significant impact on the pornographic landscape, particularly focusing on major companies such as PornHub. Maggie shed light on the 2020 PornHub controversy, the underlying motives of anti-pornography movements, and the spread of illegal sexual content on other digital platforms such as Facebook.

If you enjoy it, share it with your friends or on social media, and don’t forget to tag @redcheeksnoshame

Support the show

Join the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy.  

This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. 

If you want to:
🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way

🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics

🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set

👥 Gain confidence in your people skills

💼 Do more meaningful work

🔄 Change your mindset


Roll up your sleeves and prepare for:
✅  5 weeks of intensive learning experience

✅  making meaningful connections

✅  1-on-1 coaching sessions

✅  Guest talks by industry experts

✅  Ongoing support after the workshop

Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Meet Athena Gayle, also known as The Sex Copywriter.

Athena writes about sex and exclusively collaborates with sextech, sexual wellness, and sexual pleasure brands. She caters her email marketing to everyone within the space, from e-comm to solopreneurs. Athena's portfolio includes collaborations with various startups, coaches, therapists, and adult toy companies.

Athena is passionate about partnering with brands aiming to build a strong community with their audience. She firmly believes that if everyone prioritized daily orgasms, the world would be a happier place.

In a recent episode, Athena talked about her most vulnerable moments, dropped some jaw-dropping tips for perfecting your blowjob game, and spilled a few secrets to crafting newsletters that are so sexy, they practically write themselves.

Support the show

Join the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy.  

This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. 

If you want to:
🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way

🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics

🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set

👥 Gain confidence in your people skills

💼 Do more meaningful work

🔄 Change your mindset


Roll up your sleeves and prepare for:
✅  5 weeks of intensive learning experience

✅  making meaningful connections

✅  1-on-1 coaching sessions

✅  Guest talks by industry experts

✅  Ongoing support after the workshop

Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Dive into an unfiltered and entertaining conversation with Lola Jean - the sex educator, fetish wrestler, and record world holder of volume squirting, who also happens to be the head mistress of 7 Days Of Domination. 

I stumbled upon Lola's sex-ed video about pegging on afterglow. The film was fun, engaging and without frills. At this moment I knew I had to snag her for a podcast chat. 

In this episode, we dive into it all, no agenda, just real talk. Lola shares details on navigating desires, respecting boundaries, and how to navigate through consensual breath-play. This one's about finding your limits, keeping it real, and having a damn good time. Tune in for a no-frills conversation that's as insightful as it is entertaining.

Episode navigation:
00:01:14 - Lola Jean's journey into sex education
00:04:17 - Squirting: control, challenges, and misconceptions
00:09:57 - Exploring reasons for intimacy
00:11:25 - Intention in self-pleasure
00:21:44 - Sex education without frills
00:23:27 - Power dynamics and communication in relationships
00:25:00 - Individuality in professional and personal life
00:27:30 - Challenges in communication
01:15:12 - Psychology in BDSM practices
01:16:13 - BDSM and personal preferences
01:19:51 - Domination and subspace
01:33:13 - Learning about BDSM by exploration
01:40:35 - Lola Jean's educational projects and contact info

Support the show

Join the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy.  

This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. 

If you want to:
🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way

🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics

🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set

👥 Gain confidence in your people skills

💼 Do more meaningful work

🔄 Change your mindset


Roll up your sleeves and prepare for:
✅  5 weeks of intensive learning experience

✅  making meaningful connections

✅  1-on-1 coaching sessions

✅  Guest talks by industry experts

✅  Ongoing support after the workshop

Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Ola Miedzynska is a sex technology and adult tech entrepreneur, business consultant, sex tech hackathon advisor, sex work advocate and feminist. Ola’s career has centered around the technology industry for over a decade, from early-stage startup development to corporate consulting. From augmented reality to wearables, she worked with over 180 global sex tech brands. 
She is a founder and CEO of Sxtech EU - the only global sex tech platform and annual conference dedicated to the innovation of technology inside the sex tech and adult tech industry.  Ola actively supports technological transformation in building a global ecosystem around two bridging industries - sex tech and adult tech. As co-founder of Eroeblla.com she advocates for sex workers' rights by bridging the gap between sex technology and destigmatization of sex work.

Time codes:
00:33 Growing up under the Iron Curtain 
01:22 Reflecting on the societal shifts in Poland post 1990s and how they affected communication about intimacy
08:44 Formative personal experiences 
15:14 Sexual identity exploration 
22:26 Entering the world of sex tech and adult industry
34:57 Erobella's mission and safety measures
01:22 Future of sex tech and impact on traditional sex work

Support the show

Join the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy.  

This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. 

If you want to:
🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way

🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics

🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set

👥 Gain confidence in your people skills

💼 Do more meaningful work

🔄 Change your mindset


Roll up your sleeves and prepare for:
✅  5 weeks of intensive learning experience

✅  making meaningful connections

✅  1-on-1 coaching sessions

✅  Guest talks by industry experts

✅  Ongoing support after the workshop

Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Trained as a sex educator, psychologist, and certified clinical sexologist, Camille Bataillon brings rich expertise to the realm of sexual wellness. In 2019, in the heart of Brussels, she co-founded a centre dedicated to this cause. By 2021, she expanded her reach and started working as a sexologist on the first teleconsultation platform dedicated to women's sexual well-being. Apart from her hands-on therapeutic work, Camille has penned a book about sexuality after childbirth, offering her readers invaluable insights, which she also shared on this podcast episode. Working with individuals and couples worldwide, her mission is clear: to foster understanding and deepen the joy in their intimate lives.

Camille Bataillon’s website & podcast

Support the show

Join the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy.  

This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. 

If you want to:
🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way

🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics

🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set

👥 Gain confidence in your people skills

💼 Do more meaningful work

🔄 Change your mindset


Roll up your sleeves and prepare for:
✅  5 weeks of intensive learning experience

✅  making meaningful connections

✅  1-on-1 coaching sessions

✅  Guest talks by industry experts

✅  Ongoing support after the workshop

Apply on RedCheeks Academy.

Intro:

In this episode, I spoke with Maria Bettina, a former competitive rower who became an adult media entrepreneur. She founded Freyja, a platform that combined adult content and sex education.
Maria shared with me her journey and the challenges she encountered along the way. Because she ran XXX company, she faced various difficulties, including having her bank account closed, and struggled with marketing her site due to social media restrictions. But every limitation breeds creativity, and so Maria came up with a funny way to captivate the audience and promote her content across the platforms. Also … she turns her favourite social media insults into statements on mugs.
Maria addressed the lack of proper content moderation, not only within adult platforms but across social media in general. And we dived into how Freyja has implemented effective moderation practices.
Moreover, Maria emphasises the significance of sex education and porn literacy. And we spoke about who bears responsibility for creating a safer and more inclusive industry for both insiders and consumers.

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Episode Navigation:

00:01:00 Watching porn 

00:05:30 Social media banns and influencers marketing 

00:20:50 Harmful regulations

00:26:16 Starting a site with adult content 

00:32:00 Overcoming issues with banking 

00:36:10 Ethical porn and verification system 

00:46:30 Licensing content vs content being uploaded 

00:50:20 Age verification 

00:57:30 Values 

00:59:20 Student-teacher porn

01:13:30 Reporting content

Links:

Freya Education 

Maria's Substack 

Support the show

Join the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy.  

This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. 

If you want to:
🎬 Learn how to produce intimate scenes in an ethical way

🗣️ Improve communication skills about complex topics

🎭 Practice troubleshooting real-life situations on the set

👥 Gain confidence in your people skills

💼 Do more meaningful work

🔄 Change your mindset


Roll up your sleeves and prepare for:
✅  5 weeks of intensive learning experience

✅  making meaningful connections

✅  1-on-1 coaching sessions

✅  Guest talks by industry experts

✅  Ongoing support after the workshop

Apply on RedCheeks Academy.