In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the journey from coping with empathy to using it as a gift. She shares her personal experiences with trauma and healing, emphasizing the importance of understanding the burden that empathy can bring. Sandi discusses how to navigate the balance of empathizing without taking on others' pain, the significance of healing through connection, and the necessity of releasing unresolved pain to embrace the true gift of empathy as a reflection of the Father's heart.

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In this episode, Sandi Derby discusses the themes of new beginnings and the importance of forgiveness as we transition into 2025. She emphasizes the layered nature of forgiveness, the necessity of releasing burdens, and the significance of community in our spiritual journeys. Sandi encourages listeners to prepare for the promises of God and to expect abundance in their lives while navigating the complexities of relationships and personal growth.

In this episode, Sandi Derby discusses the significance of new beginnings as we transition from 2024 to 2025. She emphasizes the importance of hope, faith, and the need to release burdens that hinder our growth. Through biblical examples, she illustrates the challenges of stepping into new seasons and the necessity of keeping our focus on Jesus amidst difficulties. Sandi encourages listeners to embrace the journey, process their emotions, and deepen their relationship with God as they prepare for the promises of the coming year.

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the concept of abundance through her personal journey and understanding of Jesus. She reflects on her past experiences, the struggles she faced, and how they shaped her understanding of what it means to live a life of abundance. Sandi emphasizes that true abundance is not merely about material wealth but is deeply rooted in connection with God and others. She encourages listeners to embrace their journeys, face their struggles, and recognize the richness of life that comes from relationships and spiritual growth.

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the complexities of marriage, focusing on the themes of authority, submission, and the misuse of scripture. She shares her personal journey, detailing the struggles she faced in her marriage and the harmful teachings she encountered. Sandi emphasizes the importance of understanding God's heart for marriage, advocating for mutual submission and love rather than authoritarian dynamics. Through biblical insights, she aims to correct misconceptions and encourage healing for those affected by abusive relationships.

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the themes of lifelong learning, the journey of healing, and the complexities of perfectionism. She shares her personal experiences with addiction and recovery, emphasizing the importance of deep connections with God and the Holy Spirit. Sandi delves into the roots of perfectionism, discussing how it can stem from childhood experiences and the need for acceptance. She encourages listeners to embrace their journey of healing and to understand that perfectionism can be a form of bondage that hinders personal growth. In this conversation, Sandi Derby explores the detrimental effects of perfectionism on personal growth and faith. She discusses how perfectionism can lead to self-sabotage, imposter syndrome, and a lack of authenticity. Sandi emphasizes the importance of trusting God and breaking free from the cycle of perfectionism to embrace a more authentic and adventurous life with God. Through prayer and reflection, she encourages listeners to identify their struggles with perfectionism and to seek healing and growth in their journey of faith.

In this episode of Reflections of the Father's Heart, Sandi Derby explores the complexities of trauma bonds, attachment styles, and the importance of enjoying the journey of healing. She emphasizes the need for awareness to lead to compassionate action rather than justification of unhealthy behaviors. Through personal testimony, Sandi illustrates the significance of breaking free from unhealthy bonding patterns and the balance between breakthrough moments and the ongoing process of healing. The episode concludes with a prayer for healing and encouragement to share the message.

In this conversation, Sandi Derby interviews Dana Cole, a registered social worker and certified grief recovery specialist. They explore Dana's professional journey from child protection to private practice, emphasizing the importance of engagement and understanding grief and loss. Dana shares her personal experiences that shaped her career, the impact of unresolved grief on mental health, and the connection between grief and addiction. The discussion highlights the need for empathy in addressing emotional pain and the significance of recognizing various types of loss. In this conversation, Dana Cole and Sandi Derby explore the complexities of trauma, grief, and addiction, emphasizing the importance of understanding underlying issues rather than merely addressing surface behaviors. They discuss the significance of finding the right support, the impact of childhood experiences on adult coping mechanisms, and the necessity of emotional healing. The dialogue encourages listeners to approach their struggles with curiosity and compassion, fostering a deeper understanding of themselves and their behaviors.

In this episode, Sandi Derby explores the concept of trauma bonding, its implications, and how it can be weaponized by the enemy. She discusses the essential nature of bonding in human experience, the different types of trauma bonds, and the detrimental effects of unhealthy attachments. Sandi emphasizes the importance of healing from these bonds and the need for a deep connection with Jesus for true restoration.

In this episode, Sandi Derby continues her conversation with Dominic Wickey, who shares his profound journey of growing up in an Amish community marked by trauma, abuse, and cultural silence. Dominic recounts his experiences of childhood abuse, the shame and anger that followed, and the struggles he faced with identity and belonging. The discussion delves into the cultural practices of shunning within the Amish community, the impact of these practices on victims, and the lack of support for those who suffer in silence. Ultimately, Dominic reflects on his search for authenticity and faith, highlighting the transformative power of forgiveness and the presence of God's hand in his life despite the challenges he faced. In this conversation, Dominic and Sandi explore themes of divine intervention, spiritual battles, and the journey of healing from trauma. They discuss the impact of leaving legalistic systems, the tactics of the enemy, and the importance of understanding the difference between conviction and condemnation. Dominic shares personal experiences of overcoming an orphan spirit and the significance of trusting God amidst pain and challenges. The conversation emphasizes the need for a genuine relationship with God and the transformative power of healing.