Silence feels safe… until it starts to disconnect you.

In this episode of the Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formally known as: Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples) , we dive into the truth about the conversations most couples avoid and how those silences slowly create distance, resentment, and disconnection in love, sex, and everyday intimacy.

They share personal stories and practical tools to help you find your voice again  and learn how to bring truth, presence, and safety back into your relationship.

• Why silence feels safer than truth and how it slowly kills intimacy in long-term relationships
• How cultural conditioning teaches us to avoid conflict and why that conditioning keeps us from real connection
• What are the three foundations of conscious communication and how to rebuild them together
• For women: how reclaiming your voice through body-led truth opens a deeper level of intimacy and desire
• For men: why presence and not fixing is the most powerful way to create safety and connection
• How to start the hard conversations without blowing things up and how vulnerability becomes the path to reconnection

The truth doesn’t destroy love — it deepens it.
When you speak what’s real, connection returns.

Our Group Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect in our retreats:

• A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again
• Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion
• Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group
• Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions
• The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the difference

If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it.

Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship.

Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms).

👉 Say YES to more...reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats
👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this or a private retreat is the right fit https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

👉 Sign - up to our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to infuse Tantra into your Relationship here

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Let’s be honest… Tantra gets glamorized.
People think it’s about rituals, candles, and hours-long sex, but in real life, Tantra isn’t about performance. It’s about presence.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we get real about what sacred sex actually looks like in long-term love... the raw, embodied, everyday version that deepens intimacy long after the honeymoon phase fades.

• Why Tantra isn’t something you do — it’s a way of being
• How presence, breath, and awareness change everything in intimacy
• What sacred sexuality looks like in real life beyond the fantasy
• How to bring it into the small moments of daily connection
• How Tantra becomes a living practice, one that transforms your sex life, your communication, and your relationship as a whole
• For women: How reclaiming your erotic aliveness starts with safety, breath, and letting go of performance
• For men: Why true masculine power is about presence, not performance. How to hold space for depth, emotion, and pleasure

Sacred sex isn’t something to chase.
It’s something you learn to live, breath by breath, touch by touch, and truth by truth.

If you’re ready to experience what this feels like in your own relationship, we’d love to explore that with you.

OUR NEXT GROUP RETREAT IS FEBRUARY 12 - 15 AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN!

How long has it been since sex felt playful, safe, and free?
You don’t have to wait.

Here’s what you can expect:

• Practices that help you reconnect to your erotic aliveness
• A safe, non-judgmental space where nothing is “too much”
• Permission to explore intimacy in your own timing and your own way
• Private moments where you can bring everything you’re learning into your sex life

This is about more than better sex… It’s about remembering how alive your love can feel.

We’re keeping this retreat small - just 5 couples - so you’ll want to register early to get your choice of room (GeoDomes or cottage).

👉 Say yes to intimacy without shame - reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

You love each other. But somewhere between the chaos of life and the comfort of routine… something’s missing.

She’s craving more. More depth, more presence, and more intimacy. He thinks everything’s fine.

That space in between? That’s the pleasure gap.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open a real, raw conversation about how to close the gap: emotionally, energetically, and sexually, so you can rediscover a connection that actually feels alive.

• What the “pleasure gap” actually is and why it’s not just about sex, but about emotional and nervous-system disconnection
• Why do so many women lose their desire, and how can safety, presence, and effective communication reignite it
• What is the truth about men and misunderstanding
• What is the importance of having the courage to speak what’s unsaid, and how can honesty rebuild trust and intimacy fast
• What are simple, powerful ways couples can reconnect, even after years of disconnection or resentment

The pleasure gap isn’t something to fix; it’s something to feel through, together.
When safety and presence return, desire naturally rises again.

Our Group Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect:
• A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again
• Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion
• Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group
• Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions
• The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the difference

If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it.

Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship.

Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms).

👉 Reserve your retreat spot here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Midlife doesn’t mean the end of passion...it’s an invitation to rediscover yourself, your body, and your relationship in a whole new way.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open an honest conversation about what really happens when bodies, hormones, and desires begin to shift and how to navigate those changes together with compassion, curiosity, and connection.

• Why your body isn’t broken but evolving
• How slowing down transforms intimacy from performance-based sex to presence, touch, and connection that actually feels nourishing
• What is the role of shame and silence in disconnecting couples and how naming what’s real helps desire return
• How redefining intimacy beyond “orgasm goals” discovering devotion, play, and energy that ripple through every part of your relationship
• Why midlife isn’t a crisis but it’s a rising
• How to reclaim sensuality and emotional safety in this new chapter

Your body is wiser now. Your love can be deeper, softer, and more passionate than ever ... if you slow down and let it lead

SPOTS ARE NOW OPEN FOR OUR FEBRUARY 12 - 15 GROUP COUPLES RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING

Here’s what you can expect:
• Guided practices to help you meet your triggers with compassion
• Tools to rewire old patterns and stay grounded in the moment
• A supportive, non-judgmental environment where healing happens naturally
• Private time together to integrate and reconnect after each session

👉 Say yes to breaking old patterns - reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

P.S. We still have a lot of other dates open, you can check out our website to reserve spots. 

About us: 
Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

If you’ve ever seen Couples Retreat, you probably laughed and maybe thought, “Please tell me real retreats aren’t like that.”
You’re not alone. Hollywood’s version of “healing” is filled with forced sharing, public breakdowns, and humiliation disguised as therapy.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share the truth about what real couples retreats are like and why they’re nothing like the movie.

• Why Hollywood’s version of couples retreats creates more fear than healing, and how that misconception stops couples from getting real help.
• What is the truth about tantra and what it actually is (and isn’t)
• What is the importance of consent
• Why waiting until your relationship is “on the rocks” makes healing harder and how coming sooner can transform everything.
• What real retreats feel like ...how depth, laughter, sensuality, and play in a space where transformation happens through safety, not shame, looks like

You don’t have to wait for a crisis to reconnect. Real retreats aren’t about breaking you down...they’re about helping you remember the truth of who you are, together.

REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR FEBRUARY 12-15 GROUP COUPLES RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING.

Here’s what you can expect:
• Daily practices to help you reconnect beyond the day-to-day
• Space to set down stress and rediscover each other as lovers
• Guidance from us and the support of a like-minded group
• Private moments where intimacy can naturally rekindle

We keep this retreat intentionally small. It is just 5 couples, so there’s space for genuine connection.

👉 Say yes to becoming lovers again and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and or if you feel like a private couples retreat is more for you and your partner
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

P.S. If this date does not work for you, you can check out the other dates on our website so you can be a part of our retreats that will give you the same chance to reignite what’s been waiting underneath.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

You know that feeling when a simple conversation spirals into the same fight you’ve had a hundred times before.
It’s not about the dishes or the money. It’s about safety, disconnection, and your nervous system trying to protect you.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open up about how to recognize when your nervous systems are running the show and how to repair and reconnect when it happens.

• What is the real reason behind recurring fights, and why it’s rarely about what you think
• How the nervous system drives reactivity, defensiveness, and shutdown in moments of conflict
• What is the hidden cost of unresolved arguments, and how do  they quietly erode intimacy and trust
• How does the shift from blame to curiosity look like, and how does that one change transform conflict into connection
• What are the practical tools for regulation and repair so you can anchor yourself and your partner in safety
• Why retreats work when nothing else has and how new environments accelerate healing and intimacy

If you’re ready to stop fighting the same fight and start feeling safe, seen, and connected again, this episode is your roadmap back to love.

REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP COUPLE RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING.

Here’s what you’ll experience:

• Sacred intimacy rituals that blend healing and pleasure
• Practices that make sex less about performance and more about play
• Space to take everything back into your room… and let it get hot in your own way
• The safety of a group container where shame dissolves and passion expands

This isn’t about adding “spice.” It’s about remembering how good it feels to choose each other… body, heart, and soul.

Only 5 couples. Rooms are filling first-come, first-served (GeoDomes or cottage).

👉 Say yes to passion that lasts - reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Stress takes over. And without even noticing, intimacy fades, sex feels functional, and play disappears.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we unpack why pleasure and play aren’t indulgences and why they’re the medicine your relationship needs to thrive.

✨ Why pleasure is not a luxury and how it’s foundational for intimacy, vitality, and connection

✨ How play keeps polarity alive and brings back curiosity, teasing, and magnetism

✨ How erotic energy goes beyond the bedroom and how it fuels joy, presence, and aliveness in everyday life

✨ What are the practical ways to choose pleasure daily, from small rituals to intentional touch

✨ Why retreats provide the fastest “erotic reset” and how stepping out of autopilot into new practices that reignite passion

If your relationship feels flat or overly serious, this episode is your invitation to reclaim play, pleasure, and erotic aliveness together.

OUR NEXT GROUP RETREAT IS NOVEMBER 20–24 AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN!

Here’s what you can expect:
🌹 Practices that help you reconnect to your erotic aliveness
🌹 A safe, non-judgmental space where nothing is “too much”
🌹 Permission to explore intimacy in your own timing and your own way
🌹 Private moments where you can bring everything you’re learning into your sex life

👉 Say yes to your erotic aliveness and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book an Exploration Call to feel into whether this is your next yes
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

PS: November is filling. February is open. But the spark you crave? That starts the moment you say yes.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

You love each other, share a life together, maybe even still laugh sometimes… but if you’re honest, the spark is gone. Intimacy feels flat, and you’re more like roommates than lovers.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why the “roommate phase” happens, what it really costs, and how to shift back into passion, play, and deep intimacy.

• How couples silently slip into the roommate phase without even realising it
• What are the subtle and obvious signs you’re stuck in comfortable-but-disconnected energy
• What is the hidden emotional toll of staying in roommate mode, and why does it impact more than your sex life
• How to break the cycle with daily practices that reawaken play and polarity
• Why retreats create the reset you can’t get in your everyday environment

If you’ve been feeling the ache of disconnection, it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It’s an invitation to reset, to choose love again, and to step into deeper intimacy.

REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING.

Here’s what you’ll experience:
• Sacred intimacy rituals that blend healing and pleasure
• Practices that make sex less about performance and more about play
• Space to take everything back into your room… and let it get hot in your own way
• The safety of a group container where shame dissolves and passion expands

👉 Say yes to passion that lasts and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

If sex feels disconnected, mechanical, or just not happening, then the real block might not be desire… it might be safety.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why emotional safety is the foundation of intimacy and how it creates the conditions for passion, polarity, and lasting connection.

• What emotional safety really means and why “not fighting” isn’t enough
• How polarity and turn-on are fuelled by safety in both masculine and feminine energy
• What is the hidden cost of ignoring safety, and how does it erode intimacy over time
• What are some simple, daily practices that build safety, trust, and connection
• Why safety is the foundation of better sex and not just more sex.

If you’re craving sex that feels alive, nourishing, and deeply connected, this episode is your reminder: it all starts with safety.

OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT IS A FULL TANTRA EXPERIENCE AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN

Here’s what you’ll experience:
• Practices that bring your body into safety so pleasure can expand
• Tools to rewire old patterns of shame, disconnection, or performance
• Sacred intimacy rituals that turn sex into something nourishing and electric
• Private time to take everything you’ve learned into your own bed

👉 Say yes to your aliveness and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this feels right for you
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

Because when safety is present, passion naturally follows.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 
Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Every couple knows the ache of mismatched desire — when one of you is longing for more intimacy, while the other feels pulled back or pressured.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how to reframe desire mismatch from a source of conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection, presence, and intimacy.

• Why mismatched desires don’t mean your relationship is broken and how to see them as an invitation.
• Why honouring the cycles reduces shame.
• How stress or safety influences your ability to feel aroused.
• What is the hidden emotional toll of rejection and pressure when a desire mismatch goes unspoken
• Why intimacy takes practice and the simple daily rituals that reconnect you outside and inside the bedroom.

Desire mismatch isn’t the end. It can be the doorway into more truth, more trust, and more erotic aliveness.

Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect November 20–24:
• A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again
• Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion
• Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group
• Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions
• The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the difference

If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it.

Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship.

Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms).

👉 Reserve your retreat spot here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/bookgroupretreat
👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit. https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

Because your love story deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

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