Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples

Here’s a link to some meditations: https://shelby-leigh.com/regulation-and-confidence-for-facilitators

Here is the free Grounding & Balancing Practice Kim Mentioned on the podcast - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6091f3920c791ef19c21c8ef

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Shelby Lee is an Embodied Trauma Leadership Coach - supporting coaches, therapists, facilitators of many kinds and healthcare workers to offer compassionate, embodied and trauma informed care to the humans they support. Through regulating our own nervous systems and tapping into ease, we can work with ease, purpose and clarity.

Shelby lives in Bend, Oregon with her awesome dog Luna and spend their days adventuring in nature and supporting humans who are fired up about trauma informed care.

Get more from Shelby here…

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ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

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In this episode Lee and Kim discuss…

• The systemic harm caused by female anatomy not even being full recognised in the medical books till the late 90’s
• The shame that is created by the “don’t name it, don’t talk about it” conditioning we have been immersed in
• #1 Desire Killer and how it holds us back
• Embarrassment, vulnerability and fear of being judged
• The good girl double-bind and how we get stuck between “I’m a prude” and “I’m a Wh.re” and the confusion that creates in our bodies and our pleasure
• The mental real-estate this creates that stops us from being who we really are
• How to identify shame in your day-to-day actions
• Recognizing your trauma responses that occur when you feel shame
• Sexual assault and how that feeds into our shame around our sexuality
• Where and how to start dismantling the shame that we hold and how to integrate the pieces within yourself in a way that feels safe

Dr. Lee C. Cordell is an expert anti-shame coach, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and CEO and founder of the Institute for Trauma and Psychological Safety. Lee uses her 15+ years of experience in healthcare, psychology, and education to help her empower people in the development of safe, healthy, and shame-free personal and professional lives.

Website & Lee’s current offerings : institutefortrauma.com https://linktr.ee/leecordell

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ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

In this episode Kim shares about…

• The trauma disconnection we experience from being disconnected from our sensuality
• The solution to hiding, people pleasing, being too much or not enough
• What you can do to alleviate stress, depression, burnout, exhaustion and FEEL better in your day-to-day
• How shame and body hatred can be healed for once and for all…and it doesn’t include losing weight
• Increasing confidence, releasing shame and feeling AMAZING in your day-to-day using a sacred pleasure practice
• Making the life we desire our reality…no rose-coloured glasses here…our true reality
• Sacred Pleasure & Sacred Sensuality what it is, what it can look like
• How pleasure IS a practice just like working out
• What to do if you don’t feel anything or feel numb right now
• What to do if you really are curious about sensuality work and reconnecting to your body, but it also FREAKS YOU OUT at the same time

AND My New Sacred Pleasure Membership!!

Only $44/month till May 13th as my Early Bird Founding Rate…then it goes up to $64/month.

Early Bird rate gets locked in forever…or until you cancel.

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Get all the details here - https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/

If you’d like the free Sacred Pleasure Playshop, register here and I’ll send you the replay - https://view.flodesk.com/pages/625230b957d9b15fd00f82bb

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ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

In this episode we discuss…

• Embodied healing that can be done IN relationships
• The interplay of communication with our bodies, ourselves, our needs, our desires and all of our relationships
• The tools that we need for excellent intimacy, connection and communication
• Conscious communication
• How our inner child can take over and ‘drive the bus’ in our lives and in our relationsips
• Stress, emotions and outbursts and how it works in your brain
• How to get our brain to stay online and ground even when stressful events in relationship arrive
• Power struggles in relationships and the challenges that brings
• The dysfunctional ‘Dance’ we do in relationships because of our ‘stances’
• 5 Losing Strategies couples fall into subconsciously to protect themselves
• 5 Winning Strategies to move from the Adaptive Child to the Wise Adult
• Why you may have found traditional therapy not helping and how embodiment coaching is different
• Creating a space of safety in your relationships and in your body and open the lines of communication, intimacy and connection

Complimentary Couples Clarity Calls

• With Harmony - https://harmonyscottcoaching.as.me/couples
• With Kim - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/couples-clarity-call

After burning out from 25 years as a successful entrepreneur & president of her own international jewelry company, Harmony was called to her own healing journey from childhood sexual trauma and a life of unfulfilling love relationships. On that path she discovered her passion to support others create the life, love & intimacy they desire!

• Website: https://www.harmonyscottcoaching.com
• IG: https://www.instagram.com/theharmonyscott/
• Private FB Group ‘Sensual Soul Community’: https://www.facebook.com/groups/harmonyscottcoaching/

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ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

In this episode Kellie and Kim discuss…

• Midlife transitions and menopause and how it is all connected
• How to identify when you are in midlife and/or peri-menopause/menopause…and it's probably earlier than you think
• The emotional and spiritual side of peri-menopause that doesn’t get talked about 
• How to avoid a difficult menopause and midlife transition 
• S€x & Stress Hormones explained…including how they show up emotional outburst and burnout
• How your body is calling you to reclaim your emotions
• How every single month you are getting a little feminine leadership course
• The big identity shift that comes with midlife
• HRT and when it can be helpful
• The identity shift that is your sacred journey
• You s€xuality is NOT over…it's just the beginning

Kellie Stirling works with women supporting them to transition through the complex terrains of motherhood, midlife and menopause and in making their unique contribution to the world.

You can follow Kellie here...

• Website - https://www.kelliestirling.com/
• FB group is 'The Heroines Journey" - https://www.facebook.com/groups/915288172607522
• Instagram @kelliestirling - https://www.instagram.com/kelliestirling/

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ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

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ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

In this episode Eva and Kim discuss…

• Identifying shame in body, in relationship and with desires
• Self-judgement and negative self-talk
• Discerning shame vs guilt
• Using embodiment to shift the frame from negative to neutral
• The power of articulating your desires
• Using your desires as a way of life

Surrender and trusting that you canEva Blake is a sex, love, and leadership coach who shows you how to master your sex life, create and sustain passionate partnerships, and boldly transform your world. She facilitates the erotic, emotional, and embodiment skill-building you need to generate the intimacy, ecstasy, and success you desire (and are worthy of) in sex, love, and life. 

You can follow and get more of Eva here…

https://instagram.com/desireevablake

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ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Sophia Le Page is a Feminine Embodiment & Leadership Coach. More than a decade ago, after a messy divorce, Sophia broke free from her Good Girl programming & began leading herself from a space of desire. She traveled with Shamans, sat with Gurus & study the Esoteric & Tantric Arts. She now lives in Bali with her second husband & has dedicated the past 4 years to helping women reconnect with their sensuality & ignite their magnetism. 

Follow Sophia here:

• Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sophia_le_page/
• Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/amrita.sophia.lp
• Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/rebelqueendom
• Website - https://sophialepage.com/

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ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

If you are frustrated, experience waves of depression, feel like you don’t belong, feel like you are not enough or that something is wrong with you, and you want to learn how to cultivate epic trust in yourself, experience deep self-love, confidence and feel unshakable, this episode is for you.

Cart has closed for the Own your O program, however Kim is offering free private one-on-one calls this month to anyone who would like to experience what it is like to work with her and be supported.

She offers everything she listed in Own your O also in her private one-on-one coaching and she currently has a couple of spots open.

You can book one of these complimentary calls with her here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/private-own-your-o-call

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ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

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Tere and Kim discuss…

• The curse…or is it not?
• What bad cramps, heavy cycles, hormonal migraines and other symptoms are telling you
• The Birth Control Pill Band-Aid
• Hormone imbalances and disruption
• How to embrace your feminine flow and your cyclical nature…even if your uterus has been removed or you have moved into menopause
• How your cycles can be a marker of your health
• Menopause doesn’t have to mean you are all “dry” down there
• Why you still want to get to know your body and cycles in peri-menopause and menopause
• The power of dearmoring by yourself or with a partner
• Living in alignment of what your body wants and needs and by doing so, how you can get your sexy back
• How to track your body and cycle for fertility OR as hormone free birth control!
• The key things you can look at to bring your body back into balance
• Pheromones and how they play a part in our partner selection
• The disservice that the birth control pill caused to the feminine and trusting our bodies
• And a LOT more

Tere’s work meets at the intersection of Science and Spirit, empowering others to reclaim their reproductive sovereignty and embodiment of their deep, natural feminine. Tere, her husband and their three children live on an organic farm in upstate NY, where they serve their community with a diverse array of culinary and medicinal herbs, vegetables and flowers.

On IG: @cyclealchemist

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ABOUT US:

Kimberly & Roberto Phoenix are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kimberly is a teacher, speaker, bestselling author, and professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra Coach, bringing years of trauma-informed experience to the podcast mic.

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night "date night" Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They're here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership... not the filtered, social media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Ready to go deeper? Here's where to find us.

Website - www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Facebook - www.facebook.com/kimberly.phoenix.coffin

Instagram - www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats