Reinventure Me

Reinventure Me

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  • 007 Why you should be a lifelong apprentice

    Apprentices have been around a long time. But we often discard the habit of thinking like an apprentice after we’ve gained some footing in the workplace. It shouldn’t be that way, especially if you’re contemplating your next great beginning.

     

    In this episode of the Reinventure Me podcast Leary and Armin discuss four reasons why you should practice the art of being a lifelong apprentice:

    1. To expand your network of people who can help you run your race.
    2. To foster greater clarity about your pursuit and to help you think more creatively.
    3. To avoid costly errors by learning from the mistakes and successes of others.
    4. To increase self-discovery by giving another permission to speak into your life.
    5. These benefits come only when we intentionally consider and pursue mentoring relationships. It’s not easy, but extremely valuable as our Inspire Me quote reminds us:

      “Better than a thousand days of diligent study is one day with a great teacher.” — Japanese proverb

      The Challenge Me segment suggests the following exercise: take some time to reflectively consider and write down your answers to these questions:

      • Why do you want a mentor? Gaining clarity about your motivation keeps you committed to the apprenticeship process.
      • What three areas in your life do you want to submit to mentors? Pressing yourself to consider more than one area where a mentor may help is a great exercise to expand your thinking about your possibilities.
      • Who might be a mentor? Listing as many possible people you know that are a little farther along in an area can open our eyes to the opportunities that are already around us. Keep in mind that your aspirations may be best served by more than one mentor.
      • Our next episode will discuss how to find and get great mentors. If you have a specific idea or topic that you’d like us to cover, please let us know.

        Give us your feedback on this episode by commenting below or leave a voice mail for us on our home page

        Resources mentioned or related to this podcast that may be helpful to you:

        • Why you should be a more intentional apprentice, Leary Gates, blog post on this topic
        • The Dream Intensive workshop, March 14-15 (Denver)
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        • 006 How to be a better beginner

          We’ve all been beginners. But in our haste to develop competency, do we give much thought to how to become a better beginner?

           

          This episode of the Reinventure Me podcast explores what it takes to become a better beginner. Every transition is about a new beginning. And, yet, even if you’re not in the midst of a transition, there’s good reason to practice becoming a better beginner. Leary Gates and Armin Assadi have a lively discussion about beginnings, the famed 10,000 hour rule and what’s missing from that and five things you can do to become a better beginner.

          The show starts with an Inspire Me quote from Eugene F. Ware:

          “All glory comes form daring to begin.”

          And suggest five simple things you can do to become a better beginner:

          1. Read & read widely to soak up different perspectives from a variety of fields and thinkers.
          2. Attend classes, workshops, conferences to meet people.
          3. Start something you’ve never done before, even something small, to keep your curiosity sharp.
          4. Teach something to others as the most effective way to stretch and learn.
          5. Join or form a group around an area of interest.
          6. Leary and Armin personally accepted the Challenge Me challenge: to start something they’ve never done in the next four weeks. They share that in this episode and will be tracking their progress as they go. Will you do the same? What new thing could you start in the next four weeks?

            In the Resource Me segment, Leary and Armin offer six questions you can ask yourself before you take up something and explain why these are important to consider:

            • Does it help you get closer to being the person you want to be?
            • What do you hope to gain from it?
            • What’s at risk if you fail and is that acceptable to you?
            • How much time will you devote to it?
            • What are you willing to give up to start it?
            • What does your starting it cost others and it is acceptable to them?
            • Give us your feedback on this episode by commenting below or leave a voice mail for us on our home page

              Resources mentioned or related to this podcast that may be helpful to you:

              • How to Read a Book, Moritmer J. Adler, The classic resource on how to read a variety of literature.
              • Five ways to be a better beginner, Leary Gates, blog post on this topic
              • The Dream Intensive workshop, February 21-22 (Minneapolis), March 14-15 (Denver)
              • Our next episode will be about being a more intentional apprentice. If you have a specific idea or topic that you’d like us to cover, please let us know.

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              • 005 How change affects identity

                https://reinventure.me/wp-content/uploads/The average adult will make 7-11 job changes over the course of their career. Many of those may involve significant career changes as well. That’s a lot of change. And it affects the way we think about ourselves.

                 

                This episode of the Reinventure Me podcast is about identity and work…and change. What you do matters to God. Yet what you do is not entirely who you are; neither is it something we should ignore. Instead, your show hosts Leary Gates and Armin Assadi discuss how identity—work and being—is a creative endeavor; one that requires continual discovery.

                The show kicks off with an Inspire Me quote from Thomas Merton:

                “If you want to identify me, ask me not where I live, or what I like to eat, or how I comb my hair, but ask me what I think I am living for, in detail, and ask me what I think is keeping me from living fully the thing I want to live for. Between these two answers you can determine the identity of any person. The better answer he has, the more of a person he is.”

                And concludes with the ABCs of identity discovery from the Challenge Me segment:

                A – Ask the questions Merton suggests: What am I living for? What is keeping me from it?

                B – Believe your most important identity and expression comes from being a child of God (1 John 3:1)
                C – Cultivate multiple identities (roles) to improve health and vitality.

                Give us your feedback on this episode by commenting below or leave a voice mail for us on our home page

                Resources mentioned or related to this podcast that may be helpful to you:

                • The Gift of Being Yourself, Dr. David G. Benner, Read Leary’s review here.
                • How do you describe the new you?, Leary Gates, blog post on the challenge of putting on a new hat
                • The Dream Intensive workshop, February 21-22 (Minneapolis), March 14-15 (Denver)
                • Our next episode will be about being a better beginner. If you have a specific idea or topic that you’d like us to cover, please let us know.

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                • 004 How your mindset affects your next great beginning

                  Are you comfortable with yourself as a “work in progress?” Or do you have high expectations and get frustrated when new tasks don’t come easily? Maybe you even call yourself names in the process?

                  The way we view our capabilities—whether they’re fixed or malleable—can play a critical role in how well we unleash our next great beginning.

                   

                  This episode of the Reinventure Me podcast is dedicated to an important resource to have in your arsenal. Your show hosts Leary Gates and Armin Assadi take a look at the book Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck and discuss the two types of mindset.

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                  The “fixed mindset” believes that you have fixed or innate traits and makes you more concerned with how you’ll be judged by others. A “growth mindset,” on the other hand, is focused on improving. They view failure as less of an indictment of capability as much as inexperience.

                  Leary shares a personal story when he suddenly discovered that his fixed mindset thinking had taken him down a career path not ideally suited to his interests. The good news is that everyone can overcome fixed mindset thinking and Leary and Armin use that illustration to discuss the three reasons why our mindset is important to consider in transitions and the three indicators that we might have a fixed mindset.

                  In the Challenge Me segment of the show, Leary offers three steps to transform fixed thinking into growth thinking and shares a recent example from his own life in applying these steps.

                  We’d love to hear your fixed mindset stories. Please let us know by commenting below or leave a voice mail for us on our home page. 

                  Resources mentioned or related to this podcast that may be helpful to you:

                  • Recommended Reading: “Mindset” by Carol Dweck, Leary’s review of Dr. Dweck’s book
                  • The Dream Intensive workshop, February 21-22 (Minneapolis), March 14-15 (Denver)
                  • Our next episode will be a discussion about how new beginnings affect our identity so if you have a specific comment around that topic that you’d like us to cover, please let us know.

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                  • 003 The job cleanse: 5 strategies for detoxifying from your former employer

                    What’s the worst job you’ve ever had? How did it affect you? Even good jobs might leave us in need of a little repair.

                    In this episode of the Reinventure Me podcast, your show hosts Leary Gates and Armin Assadi discuss what makes a job toxic and five strategies you can take to detoxify:

                    1. Stop asking the “Why?” question; and why that actually adds more toxins to our thinking
                    2. Practice truth telling especially when coming out of dysfunctional situations
                    3. Engage your community to intentionally help you move forward.
                    4. Rediscover your purpose through reflection, prayer and experimentation.
                    5. Own your own stuff by taking responsibility for your actions and future.
                    6. The Inspire Me segment quote was from Mike Mason (Practicing the Presence of People, Waterbrook Press, 1999):

                      “The goal of Christian spirituality is not to feel good but to fight well.”

                      In the Challenge Me segment Leary asked, What’s your dashboard light? That’s your personal indicator that something’s amiss. It may be that you get more easily angered, or quiet, or you lose your sense of humor. Knowing our personal dashboard lights can help us recognize more quickly when we are in a toxic environment.

                      We hope you enjoyed this episode. In our next episode we’ll be discussing why having a growth mindset is vitally important to finding your next great beginning. If you have a question or comment, please leave it below or call in from our home page.

                      Would you also take a moment to tell a friend and to rate us on iTunes?

                      Resources mentioned or related to this podcast that may be helpful to you:

                      • Redneck Mother, Ray Wylie Hubbard (coarse lyrics)
                      • Leaving your old employer? Five tips to detoxify, Leary Gates (background on the five strategies mentioned in this show)
                      • Did you just hit a pothole?, Leary Gates (why asking “why” is not so helpful)
                      • The Dream Intensive workshop, February 21-22 (Minneapolis), March 14-15 (Denver)
                      • 33 min
                      • 002 Is it time to give your job a shove?

                        Is your job driving you nuts? How do you know if that discontentment you’re feeling means it’s time to move on?

                        In this episode of the Reinventure Me podcast, your show hosts Leary Gates and Armin Assadi talk about the two types of discontentment. Unhealthy discontent that asks for more and healthy discontent that seeks different. There is a difference.

                        You know when you have unhealthy discontentment when you feel envy, jealousy or anger. Healthy discontent, on the other hand, is displayed by a loss of energy for your current job. And that’s probably because you’ve out grown it.

                        This episode explores three things we can do to get a handle on our unhealthy discontent:

                        1. Recognize the change we need to make in ourselves before we can see straight to change our environment.
                        2. Ask why the thing we desire is so important to us right now.
                        3. Practice gratitude which sharpens our vision for our future.
                        4. And when we’ve got a dose of healthy discontent, these three strategies can help:

                          1. Name our present situation. It helps us remember we’re not tied to our jobs.
                          2. Acclimate to the transition. Don’t rush to make a change for change sake.
                          3. Experiment. Try on new possibilities for realignment.
                          4. In our Challenge Me segment Leary suggested an exercise to find what roles might make for a better fit. Over the next several weeks, keep a log of the things that energize you as well as those that deplete you. Evaluating where you’re drawn over a period of time will give you a broader perspective of activities that you’re designed to do.

                            Finally, we ended the show asking a question: What’s the worst job you’ve ever had?  Leave a comment below or call in and let us know. Strategies to detoxify from a previous employer is the subject of our next episode.

                            We’d love if you would you take a moment to tell a friend and to rate us on iTunes?

                            Other resources mentioned during this podcast:

                            • Johnny Paycheck, Take this Job and Shove It. (YouTube link)
                            • Leary Gates, Why I gave journaling another try
                            • Leary Gates, Discovering your perfect pitch
                            • The Dream Intensive workshop, February 21-22 (Minneapolis), March 14-15 (Denver)
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                            • 001 The question you should never stop asking

                              There’s one question you should never stop asking: What do I want to be when I grow up?


                              In this debut episode of the Reinventure Me podcast, your show hosts Leary Gates and Armin Assadi talk about why we should never stop asking that question.

                              Get acquainted with Leary and Armin as they laugh about the many transitions that they’ve made over the years and share their vision for this podcast.

                              In the Inspire Me segment of the show you’ll hear why something that’s absent from a verse in the Bible (Ephesians 3:15-16) can encourage you right where you are today.

                              Every episode of Reinventure Me will feature a Challenge Me segment that offers a practical thing you can do to find your next great beginning. This episode’s challenge is a visioning exercise: What will you be in two years? In this episode, Leary provides some suggestions on how to find out.

                              Reinventure Me is about finding your next great beginning, so we’d love to hear from you. Please leave a message for us with any questions or comments you have about this show or about transition in general. Share a story, a tip, a great quote or word of encouragement. We’d love to hear from you and feature your message on our show.

                              Finally, if you enjoyed this episode, would you take a moment to tell a friend and to rate us on iTunes? We’d be so honored.

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