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Episode 117:
Relationships are Political with Michelle Hy, Polyamorous While Asian

In this episode, I have a thought-provoking conversation with Michelle Hy, a second-generation Asian American and advocate for polyamory within the BIPOC community. 

We discuss the deeply political nature of relationships, how politics impact who and how we love, and the intersectional challenges faced by non-monogamous people of color. 

Michelle shares her personal journey into polyamory, her mission to normalize non-monogamy, and the importance of addressing societal bias and privilege. Highlighted topics include the implications of legal recognition for non-monogamous relationships, community building, and envisioning a future where diverse relationship structures are widely accepted and normalized.

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Michele’s Instagram Post on Relationships are Political

00:00 Introduction to Relationship Diversity

00:15 Welcome to the Podcast

01:17 Introducing Michelle Hy

03:38 Michelle's Journey into Polyamory

08:33 Intersectionality and Non-Monogamy

11:11 Polyamory and Politics

13:31 Challenges and Privileges in Non-Monogamous Relationships

25:38 Community Building and Support

30:37 Conclusion and Future Vision

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Episode 116:
Fear’s Role in Relationship Exploration and Growth

In this episode, I explore the multifaceted nature of fear and its role in personal growth and relationship diversity. 

I discuss how fear can both protect and limit us, offering practical strategies for self-reflection and understanding our relationship with fear. 

I explore the questions: When should you push through the fear and when should you listen to it and pull back?

Fear is a natural and normal emotion, especially when questioning or exploring different relationship structures. We shouldn’t feel bad or broken for feeling fear. It’s important and has many important messages for us. This episode explores these messages and how to decipher what your fear is trying to tell you.

00:00 Introduction to Fear and Relationships

00:17 Welcome to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

02:35 Exploring Fear as a Catalyst for Growth

04:57 Pushing Through Fear for Self-Growth

09:13 Listening to Fear and Setting Boundaries

12:42 Practices to Understand and Manage Fear

20:44 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

22:23 Podcast Outro and Additional Resources

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Episode 115:
Behind the Film, “Open: A Journey Through Love’ with Filmmaker Roderick Stevens II

In this episode of the Relationship Diversity Podcast, I talk with filmmaker Roderick E. Stevens II about his new documentary, 'Open: A Journey Through Love.' The film aims to de-stigmatize ethical non-monogamy and explore its positive impacts on individuals and relationships. Roderick shares his journey into the non-monogamous community, his filmmaking process, and the challenges and rewards of creating the documentary. The conversation delves into various aspects of relationship structures, including swinging, polyamory, and body positivity, while emphasizing the importance of communication and intentionality in relationships.

00:00 Introduction: Challenging Relationship Norms

00:48 Welcome to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

01:50 Introducing Roderick Stevens and His Documentary

03:01 Roderick's Journey into Filmmaking and Non-Monogamy

05:58 The Impact of Non-Monogamy on Relationships

15:41 Creating the Documentary: Inspiration and Process

18:24 Exploring Different Forms of Non-Monogamy

33:02 The Future of Non-Monogamy and Final Thoughts

35:10 Conclusion and How to Watch the Documentary

41:55 Closing Remarks and Additional Resources

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WEBSITE | TWITTER | YOUTUBE | INSTAGRAM

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Episode 114:
Decolonizing Relationships: BIPOC Perspectives with Dr. Badiee, PolyTherapist

In this episode of the Relationship Diversity Podcast, I have a profound conversation with Dr. Badiee, a polytherapist and professor of psychology at California State University. 

We discuss the complexities faced by BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, People of Color) individuals in polyamorous and non-monogamous relationships within the context of white supremacy. Dr. Badiee shares her personal and professional journey, emphasizing the need to center BIPOC voices in polyamorous discourse. The conversation covers the importance of critical self-reflection, decolonizing relationships, and increasing representation in academic literature. 

Dr. Badiee reveals insights from her recent research on polyamorous BIPOC communities and highlights the rich contributions these communities bring to the understanding of love and relationships.

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00:00 Understanding the Challenges of BIPOC in Non-Monogamous Relationships

00:42 Introduction to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

01:43 Meet Dr. Badiee: A Pioneer in Polyamorous Therapy

05:33 Dr. Badiee's Personal Journey and Professional Focus

07:14 The Intersection of Race, Culture, and Polyamory

08:48 The Importance of Community in Polyamorous BIPOC Experiences

19:44 Dr. Badiee's Research and Contributions to Polyamory Literature

30:37 Final Thoughts and Future Visions for Diverse Relationships

33:32 Conclusion and How to Connect with Dr. Badiee

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Ep. 113: 
Polyamory on Purpose: 4 Pillars to Thrive in Your Relationships with Chaneé Jackson-Kendall

In this episode of the Relationship Diversity Podcast, I welcome Chaneé Jackson Kendall, a polyamorous educator and activist. We discuss Chaneé's journey into polyamory, her work in polyamorous education and activism, and her concept of 'intentional polyamory.' The conversation delves into Chaneé's four pillars of intentional polyamory - self-work, relational culture, information sharing, and community. Chaneé shares her insights on how polyamorous people can thrive in their relationships by intentionally deprogramming harmful beliefs and structures. The episode also emphasizes the importance of supportive communities and continuous personal growth. Additional topics include the impact of cultural heritage on relationship structures and the importance of visibility and inclusivity in the polyamorous community.

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 Linktree| Intentional Polyamory Cohort| Book A Coaching| Schedule a Fit Call

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A new paradigm of conscious, intentional and diverse relationships.

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Episode 112: 
Relationship Diversity: A Crash Course

In this episode, I celebrate my 2nd anniversary and the return of the Relationship Diversity Podcast with a special crash course on relationship diversity. I dive into the various relationship structures including soloamory, monogamy, open relationships, and polyamory, emphasizing the importance of knowing oneself and creating unique, conscious relationships that evolve over time. I highlight the value of going beyond societal programming and encourage open, compassionate communication. Throughout, I provide insights on the transformative power of self-awareness and the benefits of creating personalized relationship frameworks based on individual needs and desires.

00:00 Welcome to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

00:50 Exciting Return and Upcoming Interviews

02:44 Introduction to Relationship Diversity

05:29 Understanding Conscious Relationships

07:44 Exploring Basic Relationship Structures

09:28 The Importance of Labels and Timing

12:39 Diverse Relationship Structures in Practice

15:59 Reimagining Relationships and Self-Discovery

18:48 Conclusion and Further Resources

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Listen to the full episodes of this mashup:

Ep. 001: What is Relationship Diversity? Could It Be the Answer to Fulfilling Intimate Relationships?

Ep. 002: Exploring Diverse Relationship Structures

Ep. 004: Letting Go of Relationship Expectations to Find the Gold

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Episode 111: 
Self-Care as a From of Self-Advocacy

In this episode I discuss the essential practice of self-care, emphasizing its role as a form of self-advocacy. I share my personal journey of integrating a daily self-care practice, advocating its importance for maintaining balance and well-being. I offer practical suggestions for incorporating simple self-care rituals into daily life and discuss how self-care can extend to advocating within relationships and the wider community. 

This episode encourages listeners to reimagine self-care not just as a personal practice, but as a foundational step towards fostering more intentional and conscious relationships.

00:00 The Importance of Self Care

00:17 Welcome to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

01:08 Redefining Self-Care

03:00 Self-Care as Self-Advocacy

03:24 A Busy Summer and the Need for Self-Care

04:20 Lessons from Brett Chamberlain

05:40 Practical Self-Care Tips

08:50 Advocating for Yourself in Relationships

11:13 Taking a Break for Self-Care

13:11 Closing Thoughts and Staying Connected

Episode 20: Self-Care is NOT a Luxury!

Episode 104: Advocacy and Support for Non-Monogamy with Brett Chamberlin

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Episode 110:

Is There a RIGHT Way to do Non-Monogamy? with Emma and Finn from Normalizing Non-Monogamy

In this episode, I have an enlightening conversation with my friends, Emma and Fin, the hosts of the Normalizing Non-Monogamy podcast. 

They discuss the endless possibilities of relationship structures, their personal journey into non-monogamy, and the lessons they've learned from interviewing hundreds of people over the years. 

The episode emphasizes the importance of living an authentic life, the power of community support, and the fact that there is no 'right' way to do relationships. The conversation addresses the challenges and rewards of non-monogamy and provides insights into building and maintaining various types of relationships. Additionally, they explore the origins and growth of their community and the value of in-person and online connections.

01:49 Meet Emma and Finn from Normalizing Non-Monogamy

02:39 Emma and Finn's Relationship Journey

06:30 Exploring Non-Monogamy: Early Experiences

13:37 Challenges and Growth in Non-Monogamy

19:54 The Inspiration Behind the Podcast

23:19 Takeaways from Hundreds of Conversations

28:54 Navigating Autonomy in Long-Term Relationships

29:52 Exploring Solo Polyamory

30:19 Challenging Relationship Norms

33:06 The Importance of Community

34:56 Building and Growing a Supportive Community

38:18 In-Person Retreats and Events

43:04 Workshop: Is There a Right Way to Do Non-Monogamy?

50:20 Embracing the Messiness of Relationships

52:29 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Website | Podcast | Community

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Episode 109:
The Mono/Poly Relationship: Challenges and Solutions with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff

In this episode I speak with my friend, renowned researcher and coach Dr. Elisabeth Sheff returns to discuss the mono-poly relationship dynamic. We explore the challenges, misconceptions, and potential strategies for making such relationships work, emphasizing the importance of meeting partners' needs, effective communication, and mutual understanding. Dr. Sheff shares insights from her research and personal experiences, offering guidance for those navigating relationships where one partner desires monogamy and the other seeks polyamory. 

We also discuss the emotional and social hurdles often faced by couples in these dynamics and the significance of seeking support and continued re-evaluation in relationships.

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Website | Instagram | LinkedIn | Waitlist for Eli’s Mono/Poly Course

Episode 42: Conversations with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff about the Evolution of Diverse Relationships and The Bonding Project

Mono in a Poly World: What to Do When Your Partner Is Polyamorous and You Aren't by Tazmyn Ozga

00:00 Introduction to Relationship Compromises

00:45 Welcome to the Relationship Diversity Podcast

01:47 Introducing Dr. Elisabeth Sheff

05:15 Personal Journey into Polyamory

07:12 Challenges and Realizations in Polyamory

13:56 Understanding the Mono-Poly Dynamic

25:48 Understanding Monogamous and Polyamorous Wiring

28:40 Navigating the Mono-Poly Relationship Dynamic

31:47 Debunking Myths and Addressing Shame

34:48 Finding Balance and Compromise

45:58 Resources and Support for Mono-Poly Relationships

50:53 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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Episode 109.5:

Is Polyamory an Identity or a Lifestyle Choice? With Rich and Siobhan of The Poly (Pod) Cast

In this episode of the Relationship Diversity Podcast, I have an inspiring conversation with Rich and Siobhan, the hosts of The Poly (Pod) Cast, to talk about some big discussions present in non-monogamous communities. 

We discuss the significant topic of whether non-monogamy and polyamory are lifestyle choices or identities and tackle common myths and judgments surrounding polyamorous relationships. 

Rich and Siobhan share their personal journey from monogamy to polyamory, highlight challenges they’ve faced and provide insights on handling societal misconceptions. 

Rich and Siobhan aim to normalize diverse relationship structures and dismantle the stigma around polyamory and bisexuality.

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Website | Instagram | TikTok | YouTube | Podcast

Email Rich and Siobhan: [email protected]

00:00 Debunking Non-Monogamy Myths

01:28 Meet Rich and Siobhan from the Polly Podcast

02:40 The Journey to Non-Monogamy

04:19 Navigating the Transition

06:47 The Emotional Impact of Coming Out

08:22 Exploring Identity and Choice

14:06 Personal Growth Through Non-Monogamy

25:14 Debunking Common Myths and Judgments

29:06 Navigating Monogamous Mindsets

32:12 The End Goal of Non-Monogamous Dating

34:43 Handling Judgments and Microaggressions

40:19 Hypersexualization and Stereotypes

45:17 Re-Education and Normalization

51:08 Promoting Relationship Diversity

51:50 About The Polly Podcast

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