Relationship Revolutions Podcast

Summary

Guests, Claire and Jules discuss the concept of human design and its impact on various aspects of life, including relationships and education.

The conversation highlights the need for a more individualised approach to education and challenges the traditional system that tries to fit everyone into the same mold.

The speakers also explore the correlation between human design and conditions like ADHD and autism, emphasising the importance of understanding and embracing individual differences.

Claire and Jules discuss human design and its application in relationships. They explore the unique energy of projectors and the challenges they face in understanding and being understood by others.

They also delve into the importance of setting boundaries and managing energy for projectors. The conversation highlights the differences in eating habits, decision-making, and learning styles between projectors and other types.

They emphasise the need to embrace individuality and live in alignment with one's design for more fulfilling relationships.

Takeaways

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Backgrounds

09:04 Understanding Burnout

15:29 Introduction to Human Design

22:07 The Impact of Human Design on Education

33:06 Correlation Between Human Design and Conditions like ADHD and Autism

35:35 Human Design and Relationships

46:29 Understanding Projector Energy47:21Codependency and Boundaries

48:01 Energy Management for Projectors

49:16 Intuition and Energy Absorption

50:18 Different Approaches to Eating and Routine

50:58 Adapting to Different Environments

51:37 Understanding Different Perspectives

52:42 Learning and Environment

53:20 Defined Centers and Decision-Making

54:20 Human Design and Relationships

55:21 Conditioning and Open Mindset

56:12 Navigating Challenges in Relationships

58:11 Embracing Individuality and Setting Boundaries

59:57 Shining Your Authentic Self

01:01:01 Struggles with Setting Boundaries

01:02:47 Gender and Human Design

01:03:35 Living in Alignment with Your Design

Alan is a life coach, who specialises in the area of relationships, working with divorcees and singles who have come out of a long term relationship, and would like to move forward in to a healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Claire & Jules

www.spaceandfreedom.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/claire-morton-holistic-life-and-business-performance-strategist-507a5b67/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/jules-k-20639617/

This episode, the tables get turned, The host Alan Watts becomes the guest with the return of Anthony Astbury of the "Whole Man Academy" returning to ask the questions.

You'll get to hear more of the man that is "The Love Engineer" and also what is behind the podcast.

The journey into becoming a coach, and digging into being dad, step-dad, husband and business.

Relationship Revolutions is presented & hosted by Alan Watts - The Love Engineer.

Alan is a relationship & dating coach, working with divorcees and singles who have come out of a long term relationship, and would like to move forward in to a healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Alan also works with couples in crisis to turn their relationship around and bring deeper connection, more passion, understanding and intimacy.

To learn more about Anthony Astbury, checkout episode 2 of this podcast. Here https://open.spotify.com/episode/0bPZN8MOdHci8mmtzatkos?si=hPTn5iQqSlWobWc2Hx7EhA

Zuzana Mukumayi is Life and Accountability coach for business owners and freelancers with feet in different countries. Zuzana believes, that not only you don't have to choose between healthy habits, amazing relationships, fulfilling work or great health, but that you deserve it all.

Zuzana is there to help you to achieve your dreams by getting stuff done while feeling confident, happy and focused. Zuzana has had her feet in different countries and continents for over 15 years and she lives in Zambia with her husband and son.

When not coaching her clients, she writes, reads, admires flowers and experiments on becoming her best possible self.

Website:  www.zuzanamukumayi.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zuzana_lifecoach/

Relationship Revolutions is presented & hosted by Alan Watts - The Love Engineer.

Alan is a relationship & dating coach, working with divorcees and singles who have come out of a long term relationship, and would like to move forward in to a healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Alan also works with couples in crisis to turn their relationship around and bring deeper connection, more passion, understanding and intimacy.

Alan can be found on all FB, Instagram, Ticktok and linked in. Links can be found on his link tree

Or email directly to [email protected]

This weeks guest is Lisa Harper from Findyourtribe.club

Lisa is a digital entrepreuner. She has created a business that provides multiple streams of income by sharing products and services she loved.

She has a passion for coaching and mentoring individuals, more often who have lost their purpose, to create a new way of thinking, helping them opening up all possibilities, through their commitment to grow.

Relationship Revolutions is presented & hosted by Alan Watts - The Love Engineer.

Alan is a relationship & dating coach, working with divorcees and singles who have come out of a long term relationship, and would like to move forward in to a healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Alan also works with couples in crisis to turn their relationship around and bring deeper connection, more passion, understanding and intimacy.

Alan can be found on all FB, Instagram, Ticktok and linked in.

Or email directly to [email protected]

Lisa can be found at www.findyourtribe.club

Linked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisaharperfindyourtribeclub/

Relationship Revolutions is presented & hosted by Alan Watts - The Love Engineer.

Alan is a relationship & dating coach, working with divorcees and singles who have come out of a long term relationship, and would like to move forward in to a healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Alan also works with couples in crisis to turn their relationship around and bring deeper connection, more passion, understanding and intimacy.

Alan can be found on all FB, Instagram, Ticktok and linked in.

Or email directly to [email protected]

Guest details: -

Belinda works with women aged 35 to 45 who are high minded, forward thinkers, stressed with work, exhausted and seeking change.

22 years ago she left my high-powered career in criminal justice to achieve an authentically happy and balanced life.

Belinda re-trained in Coaching, NLP, CBT, Psychology, Energy Work and completed Mastery University with Tony Robbins.

Now an empowerment coach, therapist and author specialising in feminine empowerment. 

Belinda's passion is personal development and supporting women to overcome the blocks that stop them from stepping into and embracing their own unique feminine power to experience true happiness and life long balance. 

Belinda live in Ibiza with my husband, dog and cats. She love the outdoors, nature, the sea, 

biking and reading.

Belinda's books -

Pregnant Punk at 14, Empowered at 50 

and

The Feminine Codes: your essential guide to unlocking your inner power 

are available on Amazon.

Find her on social media - Belinda M Clarke

or at FeminineEmpowermentAcademy.com

This episode digs into the complexities of Neuro

-Divergent dating, with my guest Mallorie Rogers.

Mallorie Rodgers, MA, LPC is a therapist based in Dallas/Fort Worth, Texas who has dedicated her career to supporting inclusivity and holistic, effective care. Mallorie specialises in neurodiversity affirming services for individuals aged 12 and above. Mallorie has a special passion for working with high achievers and perfectionists, individuals who often grapple with unique challenges related to anxiety, self-worth and relationship challenges. 

 Relationship Revolutions is presented & hosted by Alan Watts - The Love Engineer.

Alan is a relationship & dating coach, working with divorcees and singles who have come out of a long term relationship, and would like to move forward in to a healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Alan also works with couples in crisis to turn their relationship around and bring deeper connection, more passion, understanding and intimacy.

Alan can be found on all FB, Instagram, Ticktok and linked in. Links to socials etc www.linktr.ee/Loveengineer

Or email directly to [email protected]

email: [email protected]

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This weeks guest is Dave Holloway, Dave is a breathworker, firewalker and emotional intelligence guide.

Relationship Revolutions is presented & hosted by Alan Watts - The Love Engineer.

Alan is a relationship & dating coach, working with divorcees and singles who have come out of a long term relationship, and would like to move forward in to a healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Alan also works with couples in crisis to turn their relationship around and bring deeper connection, more passion, understanding and intimacy.

Alan can be found on all FB, Instagram, Ticktok and linked in.

Or email directly to [email protected]

Dave's introduction to emotional intelligence came in 2016 when he attended a three-day Emotional Mastery Retreat delivered by Sanjay Shah in Kenilworth in the UK.

Since attending that event, Dave has continued to work with Sanjay and now co-delivers the event and also coaches and trains for Sanjay in his emotional intelligence teachings and techniques.

His work with Sanjay led Dave to explore firewalking and breathwork and their connection with emotional intelligence.

Dave is now a certified master firewalk instructor and, through his onebreath website, offers guided meditations and breathworks.

Links:

https://onebreath.uk/

https://www.facebook.com/onebreathuk

https://www.instagram.com/onebreathuk/

Blending families where children are concerned can bring extra challenges to building a relationship & creating a home.

This weeks guest is Brittney Philips the blended family coach.

Relationship Revolutions is presented & hosted by Alan Watts - The Love Engineer.

Alan is a relationship & dating coach, working with divorcees and singles who have come out of a long term relationship, and would like to move forward in to a healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Alan also works with couples in crisis to turn their relationship around and bring deeper connection, more passion, understanding and intimacy.

Alan's socials, website, quizzes etc can call be found on his link tree

About Brittney :- Brittney is a mom of 4 in a 'yours, mine, and ours' family dynamic and a certified coach and teacher. She has personal experience in blending her own family and spent many years learning strategies in the 'school of hard knocks'.

Her approach is centered around empowering women to strengthen themselves, which ultimately influences and benefits the whole family.

https://www.blendingbravely.com

https://www.instagram.com/itsmebrittneyp/

https://www.tiktok.com/@itsmebrittneyp

Marie Miller is a ThetaHealing Certificate of Science. She is passionate about teaching and doing one on one sessions. She also has been seeing ghosts since a NDE under the age of three and has been a tarot and rune reader for over 25 years.

She specialises in helping people release their ex's and call in their soulmate.  More recently she has discovered a knack for healing pets and loves doing pet sessions.

She also does kink education with her partner under the banner of Transformational Kink.

Relationship Revolutions is presented & hosted by Alan Watts - The Love Engineer.

Alan is a relationship & dating coach, working with divorcees and singles who have come out of a long term relationship, and would like to move forward in to a healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Alan also works with couples in crisis to turn their relationship around and bring deeper connection, more passion, understanding and intimacy.

Alan can be found on all FB, Instagram, Ticktok and linked in.

Or email directly to [email protected]

This episode focuses on how these aspects can impact relationships positively or negatively. Marie shares her personal journey, starting with childhood inclinations towards kinkiness and some unique fantasies involving characters like Shredder from Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.

Marie's exploration into BDSM began at 18 when she frequented goth clubs and witnessed stage shows involving flogging and electro play. A pivotal moment occurred when a friend pulled her on stage and guided her through the intricacies of flogging. This experience sparked Marie's interest, leading her to embrace BDSM as a regular activity on Friday nights.

Marie delves into her preference for electro play, describing how she incorporated metal and ribbons into her goth club costumes to enhance the experience. She highlights the alternative pleasure of achieving orgasm with clothes on and without traditional sexual touch, creating a secret and exciting aspect of her life.

Overall, the episode explores Marie's journey into the kink scene, her experiences with electro play, and the unique pleasures and dynamics within the BDSM community. Alan and Marie provide insights into approaching these aspects within relationships and address common misconceptions.

In this episode, with guest Andy Coley, who is an NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) trainer, shares their journey from a challenging period in their life to becoming an expert in NLP.

Relationship Revolutions is presented & hosted by Alan Watts - The Love Engineer.

Alan is a relationship & dating coach, working with divorcees and singles who have come out of a long term relationship, and would like to move forward in to a healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Alan also works with couples in crisis to turn their relationship around and bring deeper connection, more passion, understanding and intimacy.

Alan can be found on all FB, Instagram, Ticktok and linked in.

Or email directly to [email protected]

Andy explains that NLP is the study of how the mind processes information, forms individual perceptions of the world, and expresses these through language, behaviors, and body language. They emphasise that NLP delves into the patterns and programs individuals develop in their lives, some of which are beneficial while others may be hindering.

Andy shares recounts their personal experience, describing a difficult period in their mid-30s after a failed marriage, significant weight gain, and emotional distress.

NLP played a crucial role in their self-discovery and transformation during this challenging time. They highlight the support of a friend who was an NLP master practitioner and coach, guiding them through reclaiming their identity and overcoming the negative narratives they had internalised.

The guest reflects on societal expectations, particularly regarding failure and divorce, and how these influenced their own perceptions. Andy & Alan discuss the societal pressure men face to remain in unhealthy relationships due to traditional roles as the "captain of the ship."

The conversation touches upon the transformative power of NLP, its impact on self-awareness, and the guest's transition from a career in web development to helping individuals reprogram themselves through NLP.

Alan and Andy also briefly discuss the concept that divorce, though initially perceived as a failure, can be a gift and a catalyst for personal growth. The guest shares insights into challenging societal norms and expectations around relationships, particularly for men.

Overall, the podcast segment highlights the Andy's personal journey with NLP, its profound impact on their life, and the broader societal perspectives on relationships and personal growth.

Andy Coley CTC Ltd
International NLP Trainer,

TEDx Speaker of the Year & Coach

07595 916617

Watch my TEDx talk at https://www.ted.com/talks/andy_coley_the_home_in_your_heart_making_home_the_strength_you_need

[email protected]

www.andycoley.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/andycoley/