Relationship Talk with Freda

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You are not what they rejected.

You are not the relationship that ended.

You are not the job you didn’t get.

You are not the invitation you didn’t receive.

You are not the person who walked away.

You are not somebody else’s opinion of you.

You are who God says you are.

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It’s my mother’s birthday and I’d love to share eleven lessons I’ve learned simply by watching her live! They have been a blessing to me and I think they will bless you too! Listen and let me know which one spoke to you the most.

If you find yourself in a season where emotions feel intense or pressure feels high, pause and return to truth.

You are not behind.

You are not forgotten.

And you are not required to settle in order to be loved well.

What God has for you will not require fear to sustain it.

It will carry peace.

I had the most wonderful time recording this episode with my husband, Bishop Wale Ajayi, in celebration of our 17th wedding anniversary and the release of my new book, The Inside Job: Real Men and Emotional Intelligence.

We had an absolute blast sharing lessons we’ve learned over the years about marriage, communication, emotional intelligence, and building a Christ-centered relationship. This conversation is filled with practical wisdom, personal stories, and insights that I believe will encourage and strengthen your own relationships.

I thoroughly enjoyed recording this episode, and I hope you enjoy listening to it just as much.

Welcome, Relationship Talk with Freda family, to a first on our show—my husband as a guest! Hopefully, this will be the first of many conversations together.

Thank you for listening, and may you be blessed by this episode.

When People begin to measure themselves by attention, by who is showing interest, by who is staying, and by who is not yet present, slowly their emotional stability becomes tied to external validation.

But Ephesians 1:6 reminds us that we are accepted in the Beloved, which means acceptance is already established in Christ, not something you are trying to earn through relationships.

And when that truth is not settled, relationships begin to carry emotional weight they were never designed to carry.

Thank you so much for joining me today on the podcast. I trust this episode has encouraged, challenged, and equipped you in your walk with Christ.

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Thank you again for listening. Until next time, stay encouraged, keep growing in grace, and remember that God is for you.

What a wonderful Question & Answer session we had on Relationship Talk with Freda this past week. So many thoughtful and insightful questions were asked.

One of the most interesting questions was:

“Should I go back after a breakup?”

I shared two possible scenarios and perspectives around that question, and the conversation was truly enlightening. It is definitely an episode worth listening to.

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Blessings!

You are not behind in life.

It may feel that way when you see others reaching milestones, relationships, weddings, or career success while you are still waiting. But comparison distorts reality.

God does not write every story the same way, and purpose is not a competition.

In this episode, we discuss comparison, trusting God’s timing, and embracing your current season without fear or anxiety.

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Thank you for listening and sharing this podcast. God bless you.

People start rushing into relationships not because they are ready, but because they are tired of feeling like they are “waiting too long.” They start settling, not because they want less, but because fear becomes louder than wisdom.

But God does not lead people through fear.

Sometimes what felt like a loss was actually God’s protection, redirection, and an opportunity for growth. Healing may not feel easy, but not every ending is bad. Here are 10 reasons the breakup was not so bad.

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https://selar.com/breakupwellbyfredaidahosaajayi

Breakups can be one of the most challenging experiences in life, filled with emotional turmoil and uncertainty. However, when approached with grace and dignity, they can also become a profound opportunity for personal growth and healing

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Thanks for listening, till next time remember love grows best when it flows from wholeness in Christ.

Grace and peace to you.