When you're caught up on looks and it's all you see or care about, you'll miss the substance it requires to have a healthy relationship. I don't care what anyone says, it's the mindset of immature individuals who are led by what they see, feel, want, and desire.

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How you think will directly affect how you feel and act. Many people may not act out, but they're still affected by how they think. There are others who will act out for the same reason, their mindsets. Unhealed hearts and minds alters lives. How you think will affect your relationships and other facets of your life. Change is up to you and only you! All things and every situation are only as bad as you think they are and make them.

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Either way is evidence of the lack of self-love and inner peace. If you're a person with low or no standards it will show in your choices, decisions, what you allow, and what you accept. Love isn't love when it's forced, abusive, disrespectful, shameful, etc. It's not love when it's based on superficial things. When standards are low or nonexistent it will show. All you want is the person's love, but love isn't what you're getting.

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Many people are in this situation. They want what they want and at the same time, they're ignoring the truth that's in their faces. You can believe whatever you want, it will not change the truth! It's not love just because you want it to be. Accept the truth!

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You can make all the excuses you want, it won't change how they feel about you. They don't really want the relationship, you just have to accept it and move on. They're showing you the truth, you just don't want to believe it or accept. Denying the truth leaves you feeling hurt. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.

Some people have no self respect or shame! They share all of their business on social media. They flaunt and boast about their relationships and then they end up breaking up. Ohce they break up they broadcast that too, during which they talk about the other person. Next thing you know they're boo'ed up again with the very person they talked about like a dog. No shame! It really makes a person look bad and it clearly shows there's some maturing that needs to take place. Stop focusing so hard on your significant other and take a good hard look at yourself. This type of person will always find his or herself in an unhealthy relationship because of their unhealthy mindset. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.

People do crazy things in the name of love, when it's not love at all. Love doesn't lead you into bad situations. Unhealed hearts and mind will. It will cause people a lot of unnecessary self inflicted pain and stress. Many people can't see the truth, because they are too stuck on what they want. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.

The time you've invested is low on the scale in comparison to your mental state and peace. Love yourself and know your worth. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.

Most people think they're mature but how they think and what they allow and accept shows the truth. People go through life being comfortable where they've always been, which leads to stagnation. If you are comfortable in the way you've always been you will hinder your life and your relationships. No matter how they struggle, most people are on the same paths doing things the very same for a lifetime, and in return, getting the same or similar results in their lives. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.

Something is terribly wrong with this situation. You should never sell yourself short for no man or woman. Your significant other will treat you how they know you will allow. If you are desperate they will treat you as desperate. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationship-chronicles--4126439/support.