Relationships and Relatable Life Chronicles

Millions of people spend thier lives causing self-inflicted pain. They're wasting their time trying to hurt the person/people who hurt them (the get back), or they're projecting their pain on others, because they've been hurt. Pent up pain leads to dysfunctional lives. Trying to get back at someone or holding in the pain, ends up causing you to fall in the pit you dug for someone else. When you hold in old pain you develop inner issues that you allow to dictate your life, because of the mindset that comes from it. It's mental anguish, and sadly, many people are living life with pent up inner issues that's affecting how they think, feel, and act. We see it everyday! Most people choose to remain the same instead of changing to become better, how you live becomes self-inflicted.

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If you go through life with the same negative mindset you will eventually be the cause of your own demise. People are causing their own mental warfare outside of the spiritual warfare we're always fighting. Meaning, people are putting on themselves more than they can bear. Most people can't handle the issues they already have, but what they do is go through life compiling other drama on what they already have, it ends up leading to destruction (self-initiated).

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An addiction can be food, drugs, alcohol, sex, gambling, and you name it. It doesn't matter what it is if you give power to it that addiction will be what is most important to you. You can love a person all you can, but they will always love their addiction more than they love you. A person don't change until they choose change for his or herself.

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Many people are not getting what they want from their relationships. However, what you get is what you have allowed and accepted. You won't find love, peace, and happiness with anyone if you don't have it within yourself first. Too many people settle.

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Unfortunately for many the love they think is real is only perceptions. Many people would settle for an imitation versus the real thing. It's because most people don't really know what love is and if you don't know what it isn't, you don't know what it is.

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Don't touch anyone if they don't give you consent to touch them. If a person haven't chose to deal with their unresolved inner issues, they shouldn't project your mess into the lives of others. Too many people are sexually harassing or sexually assaulting others. These types of people know they're wrong, but many people will do it for as long as they can get away with it. Don't let them make you their victim. Don't feel you have to be silenced by a dirty rotten scoundrel. When you say or do nothing it empowers them to keep doing what they've been doing.

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Give your significant other the attention they need or they may end up getting it somewhere else. That shouldn't be your concern. Your concern should be at all times, doing the right thing for your significant. Don't open the door to unnecessary problems. Stop getting into relationships acting like you don't have to work to keep it growing. If you don't you will have to deal with the consequences.

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Please leave married people or those in relationships alone. Love yourself enough to not put yourself through unecessary headache and/or heartache. If they cheat on who they are with to be with you, I promise you, they'll cheat on you too. You're NOT that special! You'll find yourself in an unhappy place. You want to be treated like the spouse when you're not. You chose your role!

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Some of the people you think are the most happiest are the most unhappiest. Real love and real relationships are almost obsolete these days. When you find a person you love and who really loves you, don't mess it up for nothing or no one, because you may never find it again.

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Most people want to blame the temptation. They feel it was too much for them to withstand. I'm here to tell you that it's a lie and a trick of the enemy. Temptation is never the problem. The problem is you and your unwillingness to withstand it. Temptations will come and it will go. Succumbing to any temptation is a personal choice. You'll never be able to withstand if you are so willing to fall for it. The greatest and best relationship is with God. Once you develop and grow that relationship you'll realize it's not the temptation in front of you, it's you, period! You will go after and follow who you truly serve!

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