Relationships and Relatable Life Chronicles

All I'm going to write is this; according to the Bible it's not possible. When we die we're no longer connected to loved ones, that part of our life is over. We don't return. The dead doesn't know what the living is doing. We hold those we've lost near and dear in our hearts and minds, but the actual connection has been severed. It's no coming back. It people could come back all of us would have seen someone we've lost. When you see spirits they aren't ghost, they're entities of some kind trying to trick you.

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Giving up your power is not the proper way to love. Many people think it's how you're supposed ot love. It is not! When people give up their power they also lose control. If you give it up it will always be taken. Any person who wants your power and control is an unhealthy individual. I've always told you that people treat you how you have taught them to treat you and/or how you have allowed and accepted. You can love without allowing yourself to be powerless and controlled.

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When I say skin, in this episode I'm referring to you as a whole/overall. When you can't love the skin you're in it means you don't love yourself. It will affect you and your relationships. A person who doesn't love his or herself will always have issues they drag everywhere they go,

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What you have or who you are may get them but it won't keep them. They may stay with you but at the same time is far from you in their hearts and minds. Many people have love and relationships all messed up. People lack the knowledge and/or understanding of what love is, because they don't love self.

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A horrible thing I listened to recently (not sure how old it is), a 911 call where a 12 year old called to said he killed a 9 year old and he did it because he felt like killing. The kid said he didn't want to be on this earth anymore. He told 911 to kill him or lock him up for life. This child has clearly gone through something unbearable. Another thing that could be happening is like many people, he have messed with the darkside. People have no clue the things they do, say, entertain, etc., open portals to the darkside. Most people are experiencing it, but because people aren't in tune with their bodies they're unaware. Demons don't discriminate. Kids are doing a lot of killing lately, especially killing their parents. So much is going on in the world, but no matter WHAT it is, the condition of a person's mindset determines what they think, how they feel, and what they do. If the mindset isn't healthy people are more easily influenced because of the power they give to their thoughts. If you entertain negative thoughts, you give power to them. Every suicidal person has a lot of unresolved inside, and unlike the average person, they choose to give up on their lives. When a person has suicidal thoughts they no doubt have battled the thoughts for a while. Some people have battled the thoughts all of their lives. It's because people aren't healing, but what they are doing is piling up a bunch of other stuff (from other people and life) onto their own unresolved, and it becomes too much pressure for them to handle. If people continue to allow those thoughts to come without taking action to get past that way of thinking, they'll continue to give power to those negative thoughts until they act on them. People with negative mindsets always get into relationships or situations that cause them more burdens, pain, and suffering. The torment is real! The way forward isn't choosing death it is choosing life by becoming the best you can be by making a choice to become better. You can't become better by holding on to bad people, memories, thoughts, feelings and other things. You can't become better by giving power to others, especially those who have hurt you!

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Who loves you or how much they love you, doesn't matter at all if you don't love yourself. Most times the very person you think loves you is the one who's hurting you the most. Why? It's because they don't love self. They too don't understand what love is or isn't. I've said it before, it's like the blind leading the blind! You can't love him or her in the right way, if you don't love yourself. He or she can't love you in the right way if they don't love his or herself. Sadly, most times it's dysfunctional people who are in relationships together. That's why most people are in relationships settling for less than they deserve, because they don't understand their worth.

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A significant other can definitely bring drama into your life, but even then, if you allow and accept it, you end up playing yourself! People do to you what you give them power to do! Stop blaming others for playing you, when truth is you played yourself.

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Many people fail to think of the ramifications/consequences of who they've chosen. Most times individiuals know upfront who they're getting with, yet they choose to continue. People are quick to get into relationships blindly, only to suffer because of their choices. You're not getting younger. It's time people do better! Too many people are going through life the same way and getting the same results. Nothing changes until you decide to change your mindset. Learn to love yourself. When you do it's quaranteed you will no longer allow and accept any ole thing or just any person in your life just to be in a relationship. Most people are quick to want someone to love them or to love someone, only to never find the love their seeking. You'll never find love until you first love yourself!

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You can never be the best you can be by remaining the same! When you know that you have issues but refuse to work on them, your life will consist of traveling the same road. You will continue to live a cycle. You will continue to blame and complain because of your place of comfort. Most people don't understand until they choose to deal with what's inside, and is causing dysfunction in their lives (regardless of what it is), they'll continue to have that void inside. Mindsets are formed from experiences but most people allow the negativity to dictate their lives. All the trauma and other bad experiences is what people hold on to, which is leading them to go through life unfulfilled and unhappy. No matter the accomplishments or the lack thereof, they're never satisfied. No matter the relationships, the possessions, money, success, people, etc., none of it will satisfied a person who is unhappy inside. Until people learn to love self, the void will remain!

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Really think about it before you decide to allow someone to come into your home. Many people have found out the hard way that it was a bad idea. People will smile in your face while wanting to take your place. They'll smile in your face the whole time knowing they want your man or woman, and not only that sometimes they're already with them. It's not always about someone trying to be with your significant other. Sometimes they want what you have, despite what it may be. Bottom line is many people you bring into your home have foul agendas. Be smart. Think wisely!

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