If you have to be controlling, possessive, and obsessive it's REALLY not the way to love AND it's a turn off. Stop pointing the finger of blame and see you have more fingers pointing back at yourself. You have more pointing back at you for a reason, which is because you are your biggest problem.

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If your significant other try to manipulate you after they've been found cheating, don't fall for it! Love yourself and know your worth! You don't have to fall for the foolishness they try to bring.

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I'm ONLY talking about being with lazy people with no ambition or goals, those who have nothing! I'm talking about people who ONLY care about what you have to offer. If they loved you so much they would care enough to bring something to the relationship other than their hands out to take from you! Those with nothing and are not trying to do anything to get something will ultimately become your burden. What made you laugh surely will make you cry! Stop giving everything to someone who's giving nothing to you other than headache and heartache!

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It doesn't matter the race, the person, the skin color, etc if you don't have yourself together all of your drama you will take into your relationship/s. You will also allow and accept the drama from those you are in relationships with. Until a person deals with their inner issues, which are those things affecting their mindsets; those issues they won't face, don't face, or they try to hide; they'll never truly be able to love self and will always have problems when it comes to loving someone else.

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Who are you kidding? Even if they told you those words you still wouldn't want to go and many still won't go. If you have to hear those words before you understand the situation you're in, it's of freewill. People show you the truth; if you don't or won't accept it, you're in your own way, you're holding yourself back, and you're keeping yourself in an unhappy place. People treat you exactly how you allow!

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If someone leaves you for another person they weren't stolen, they walked away of freewill. They aren't the housewrecker/homewrecker. If you want to classify someone as either or it should be your significant other, because they're the one who brought the drama to the relationship. Stop self destructing over someone who walked away. Love yourself and let them walk!

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Many people are in these types of relationships by choice. It's what people willfully allow in their lives. They allow self to be driven to the edge. They think what they allow themselves to go through is the proper way to love, but the truth is they obviously don't know what love is. You deserve better than what you're allowing in your life.

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Many people settle for this way of life. They think by giving passes to their significant others it will make them remain in the relationship. Letting a person do whatever they choose to do to you will NOT cause them to love you more or want to be with you. Too many people become angry, sad, unhappy, revengeful, etc in their unhappy relationships. They get to points of wanting to commit or commintting senseless acts. They get to points of breakdown, depression, sadness, etc. No man or woman is worth it. If you're with someone who's making your life miserable, you're in your own way! You deserve better!

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People who are stuck on needing closure are individuals who are still stuck on the other individual. I truly believe closure is an excuse. People break up, die, walk away without an explanation, etc, but regardless the situation or the person; life goes on.

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A person may try to convince you by words they want to be with you, but their actions tells you something else. If they really want you there will be no doubt in your mind. If you have to guess and play their games, they don't want you! Wake up! If they want you they won't only talk the talk they will walk the walk! People treat you how you let them treat you!

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