What if the reason your love life, fulfillment, or success hasn’t fully clicked yet has nothing to do with “them” and everything to do with you?

Whether it’s relationships, business, or life itself, most of us are searching outward for alignment, validation, and connection.

But here’s the truth I learned as a professional matchmaker: nothing will truly align until you do.

In this episode, I’m showing you the one action you need to take before anyone or anything can truly align, whether romantic or life in general.

This conversation goes beyond romance, because I break down the three principles that determine what you attract in love, business, and life.

You’ll learn:

What self-love is,

How it affects everything you do,

How to truly love yourself,

How your energy silently dictates your results,

How to build the foundation of your confidence,

And how to raise the standard for how people treat you.

You’ll also learn my brain-based Tune-In Process, a simple four-step method to quiet your inner critic, shift your energy, and take aligned action in under two minutes.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, unfulfilled, or like you’re settling for “good enough,” make sure you listen till the end of this video.

This episode of the Relaunch To A Rich Life podcast will show you how to activate the most important relationship of all, which is loving yourself.

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Ready to take this work deeper?

Download Hilary’s free 7-day “Relaunch: Date Yourself” challenge and start building alignment from the inside out @ >> relaunchdateyourself.com

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If this episode lit something inside you, that quiet knowing that you’re meant for more, then I want to personally invite you into the most powerful room of the year.

ReLaunch To A Rich Life LIVE is a transformative, neuroscience-backed 3-day experience happening September 17–19, 2026 in Scottsdale, Arizona. It’s designed for women who are done playing small and ready to step into clarity, confidence, and next-level success, not just in business, but in health, wealth, relationships, and life.

This isn’t another event, it’s a quantum upgrade into the life you’re meant to live. Join women who are ready to rewire their identity, elevate their frequency, and claim a Rich Life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.

Learn more and join us in September: relaunchtoarichlife.com

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Connect with Hilary:

Website: https://www.therelaunch.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilarydecesare/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheReLaunchCo

Interested in being a guest on the ReLaunch Podcast or booking Hilary as a guest? Email us at [email protected]

Find Us on Your Favorite Podcast App – https://the-silver-lined-relaunch.captivate.fm/listen

Nicole F. Smith is a leadership expert, certified emotional intelligence coach, and three-time author with over 30 years of experience helping leaders grow personally and professionally. She is the founder of JMS Creative Leadership Solutions and the creator of the EQ Impact Framework.

In today’s episode of the Relaunch to a Rich Life Podcast, Nicole joins me to break down emotional intelligence and why it’s the defining skill of modern leadership. She shares a moment when she lost emotional control and how that experience changed how she leads, coaches, and teaches others.

We dive into the difference between reacting and responding, how to control yourself at the breaking point, and how to reclaim control in emotionally charged situations.

Nicole explains the importance of EQ versus IQ, how to measure EQ in yourself and in others, and how to use empathy, communication, and self-awareness to build trust, engagement, and retention.

The conversation also explores women in leadership, how being told to “stay humble” holds women back, and how to transform how others experience you as a leader.

Join us as we discuss EQ in leadership, how to navigate triggers at home and at work, how to measure EQ, how to lead yourself before leading others, and how to stay calm and in control no matter the situation.

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If this episode lit something inside you, that quiet knowing that you’re meant for more, then I want to personally invite you into the most powerful room of the year.

ReLaunch To A Rich Life LIVE is a transformative, neuroscience-backed 3-day experience happening September 17-19, 2026 in Scottsdale, Arizona. It’s designed for women who are done playing small and ready to step into clarity, confidence, and next-level success, not just in business, but in health, wealth, relationships, and life.

This isn’t another event, it’s a quantum upgrade into the life you’re meant to live. Join women who are ready to rewire their identity, elevate their frequency, and claim a Rich Life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.

Learn more and join us in September: relaunchtoarichlife.com

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Nicole F. Smith’s website: https://thenicolesmith.com/

Nicole F. Smith’s social media:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nicole.f.smith/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicolesmithatjms/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stories/thenicolefsmith/

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Connect with Hilary:

Website: https://www.therelaunch.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilarydecesare/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheReLaunchCo

Interested in being a guest on the ReLaunch Podcast or booking Hilary as a guest? Email us at [email protected]

Find Us on Your Favorite Podcast App – https://the-silver-lined-relaunch.captivate.fm/listen

Ally Machate is the CEO and founder of The Writer’s Ally, a former Simon & Schuster acquiring editor, and a publishing expert with over 25 years of experience helping entrepreneurs, speakers, and experts write and publish market-ready books that open doors, build authority, and drive revenue.

Today, Ally joins me to break down what most people get wrong about writing a book and how to use a book strategically to grow your business instead of derailing it.

We explore why most authors sell fewer than 200 copies, why selling books should not be your primary goal, and how to turn your book into one of the most powerful tools for attracting clients, speaking opportunities, and high-ticket offers.

We dive into the biggest myths around traditional publishing vs. self-publishing, the real truth behind bestseller lists and book awards, and the importance of timing when writing a book.

Ally shares how to avoid damaging your credibility, brand, and long-term success with AI-written books, and how to position your message so your book supports who you want to be known as, now and in the future.

Join us today as we dive into writing the right book, building authority without burnout, using publishing as a business growth tool, avoiding common credibility-killing mistakes, and creating a book that truly supports your next relaunch.

Ally Machate's Social Media:

Get Ally's FREE evergreen training: "Don't Write the Wrong Book!" a 25-minute webinar - offers.thewritersally.com/relaunchpodcast

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allymachate/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allysonemachate/

Website: https://thewritersally.com/

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/allysonemachate/

Connect with Hilary:

Website: https://www.therelaunch.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilarydecesare/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheReLaunchCo

Interested in being a guest on the ReLaunch Podcast or booking Hilary as a guest? Email us at [email protected]

Find Us on Your Favorite Podcast App – https://the-silver-lined-relaunch.captivate.fm/listen

Featuring Debra Morrison, Marley Jaxx, Christy Whitman, Bianca D’Alessio and Tina Sue Moser

Debra Morrison is a Financial & Leadership Coach, and 3x best-selling author with over 42 years of experience empowering women to achieve financial freedom and build intentional wealth.

Marley Jaxx is an award-winning filmmaker, the founder and CEO of Jaxx Productions, and a business strategist who helps women amplify their influence on the global stage.

Christy Whitman is a Law of Attraction expert and the bestselling author of The Art of Having It All, whose work has helped millions align their beliefs with success.

Bianca D’Alessio is the #1 Real Estate Broker in New York, and the CEO and founder of The Masters Division, a top-performing real estate leader.

Tina Sue Moser is a business thought leader and strategist who helps high-performing women scale with clarity and sustainability.

Today we talk about a force that’s more powerful than strategy and how women with ambition can use this force to shape their long-term success, wealth, and influence.

These great women share how to surround yourself with the right relationships, access, and environments that shape your future and accelerate your rise.

We also discuss how to support the next generation, create access for suppressed women, and lead in a meaningful way.

Join us today as we explore relationship building, accessing elite environments, making generational impact, and the factors you must leverage to build success that lasts.

Debra Morrison's Social Media:

https://www.facebook.com/debralmorrisondotcom/

https://www.instagram.com/debralmorrison/

Marley Jaxx's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/marleyjaxx/

Christy Whitman's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/christywhitman1/?hl=en

Bianca D’Alessio's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/biancadalessio/

Tina Sue Moser's Social Media:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/tina-sue-moser-540379a

Connect with Hilary:

Website: https://www.therelaunch.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilarydecesare/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheReLaunchCo

Interested in being a guest on the ReLaunch Podcast or booking Hilary as a guest? Email us at [email protected]

Find Us on Your Favorite Podcast App – https://the-silver-lined-relaunch.captivate.fm/listen

Learn more about the next ReLaunch To A Rich Life Live event September 17, 18 & 19 in Scottsdale Arizona next year.

https://www.relaunchtoarichlife.com

Featuring Debra Morrison, Marley Jaxx, Christy Whitman, Bianca D’Alessio and Tina Sue Moser Debra Morrison is a Financial & Leadership Coach, and 3x best-selling author with over 42 years of experience empowering women to achieve financial freedom and build intentional wealth.

Marley Jaxx is an award-winning filmmaker, the founder and CEO of Jaxx Productions, and a business strategist who helps women amplify their influence on the global stage.

Christy Whitman is a Law of Attraction expert and the bestselling author of The Art of Having It All, whose work has helped millions align their beliefs with success. Bianca D’Alessio is the #1 Real Estate Broker in New York, and the CEO and founder of The Masters Division, a top-performing real estate leader.

Tina Sue Moser is a business thought leader and strategist who helps high-performing women scale with clarity and sustainability. Today, these five successful women sat down with me to explore what success looks like behind the scenes, and why so few women (just 1.9%) ever reach the highest levels of success.

They reveal exactly what stops most women-owned businesses from reaching seven figure success. We dive deep into the moment that forced these great women to relaunch their lives and businesses, the identities they had to shed, and the beliefs that had to be destroyed before they could grow.

They explain how to overcome burnout and the pressure of building success intentionally. Join us today to learn what keeps women stuck below 7-Figures, and discover how to simplify your growth, redefine success on your own terms, and build a business that supports the life you want to live.

Debra Morrison's Social Media:

https://www.facebook.com/debralmorrisondotcom/

https://www.instagram.com/debralmorrison/

Marley Jaxx's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/marleyjaxx/

Christy Whitman's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/christywhitman1/?hl=en

Bianca D’Alessio's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/biancadalessio/

Tina Sue Moser's Social Media:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/tina-sue-moser-540379a

Connect with Hilary:

Website: https://www.therelaunch.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilarydecesare/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheReLaunchCo

Interested in being a guest on the ReLaunch Podcast or booking Hilary as a guest? Email us at [email protected]

Find Us on Your Favorite Podcast App – https://the-silver-lined-relaunch.captivate.fm/listen

Allison Walsh is a behavioral health executive, speaker, author, and founder of Allison Walsh Consulting. By age 30, she became a Vice President at Advanced Recovery Systems, a company she helped build from the ground up. Her work has been featured in Forbes, Harvard Business Review, Entrepreneur, Fortune, and NASDAQ, and she has raised millions of dollars for important causes.

In today’s episode, Allison joins us to share the pivotal relaunches that shaped her life, helped her build high-growth companies, and show how other women can achieve outstanding success.

We dive into the hidden cost of success, imposter syndrome, and the identity shifts that come with rapid career growth. Allison opens up about how she helped build major companies while navigating self-doubt and being the only woman in the room.

The conversation also explores practical guidance for parents navigating youth mental health. Allison shares how to start hard conversations with compassion and how to prepare resources before a crisis hits.

Allison also breaks down how to stop canceling on yourself, how to take action before feeling “ready”, and how women can build confidence, clarity, and momentum without burning out.

Join us today as we talk about redefining success for women, navigating motherhood and leadership, advocating for mental health, and creating a life that aligns with who you are now, not who you used to be.

Allison Walsh's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/allisonwalsh/?hl=en

https://www.facebook.com/AllisonWalshConsulting/

Connect with Hilary:

Website: https://www.therelaunch.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilarydecesare/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheReLaunchCo

Interested in being a guest on the ReLaunch Podcast or booking Hilary as a guest? Email us at [email protected]

Find Us on Your Favorite Podcast App – https://the-silver-lined-relaunch.captivate.fm/listen

We all reach moments when we know something has to change, but we don’t know what comes next.

You feel it at the end of the year, when you’re tired of repeating the same patterns.

That’s why today I’m reflecting on 2025, the last four years, 300 episodes, and what it really takes to keep going when things aren’t perfect.

I’m sharing how I started this podcast, why it has continued to evolve, and how I’ve retained my identity and growth.

I’m also revealing why so many women stay stuck even when they’re doing “all the right things,” and what I’ve learned about relaunching your life from the inside out.

This episode is about who you are choosing to become.

You’ll gain clarity on what’s been holding you back, the types of motivation that don’t work, and how to relaunch your life into greater success in 2026.

If you don’t want to carry the same patterns, doubts, or frustrations into another year, listen to this conversation now.

So join me today in celebrating episode 300 and learn how to step into the version of you who is ready for her rich life in 2026.

Connect with Hilary:

Website: https://www.therelaunch.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilarydecesare/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheReLaunchCo

Interested in being a guest on the ReLaunch Podcast or booking Hilary as a guest? Email us at [email protected]

Find Us on Your Favorite Podcast App – https://the-silver-lined-relaunch.captivate.fm/listen

Wendy Aimee Porter is a visionary entrepreneur, global speaker, and the founder behind Crown for Success and Boss Ladies Mindset, two powerhouse brands that have reached over 1.5 million women around the world. Wendy now also leads the explosive Top 100 Women in Power initiative.

In today’s episode of Relaunch To a Rich Life, Wendy opens up about her life-altering journey from corporate life to global impact.

Wendy reveals the steps she took to go from spending 18 years in a 6-figure career to building a side hustle that surpassed her corporate income in just eight months. We also talk about what stepping into visibility actually feels like when you’ve spent years hiding your voice or sabotaging your own success, and how to reclaim your power.

We dive deep into the emotional cost of reinvention, the freedom that comes with it, and how to gain the inner strength it takes to let go of old versions of yourself. Wendy then shares how to find the courage to keep scaling when fear tries to pull you down.

Wendy explains how she created viral brands, what “going big” really requires, and the daily practice that helped her stay grounded while growing a brand that reaches millions.

Join us today whether you’re leaving corporate, starting a business, or stepping into your next chapter to learn about confidence, visibility, creativity, how to reclaim your power, and what it takes to build a life of freedom, purpose, and power.

Wendy Aimee Porter's Social Media:

https://www.facebook.com/wendy.grovesporter/

https://www.instagram.com/girlbossempires/

Connect with Hilary:

Website: https://www.therelaunch.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilarydecesare/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheReLaunchCo

Interested in being a guest on the ReLaunch Podcast or booking Hilary as a guest? Email us at [email protected]

Find Us on Your Favorite Podcast App – https://the-silver-lined-relaunch.captivate.fm/listen

In today’s special episode of Relaunch To a Rich Life, we’re counting down the top 10 podcast episodes of 2025. These are the conversations our listeners replayed, shared, and said helped them make real changes in their lives, and they are also designed to help you relaunch your life in 2026.

This episode brings together the most impactful voices of the year, including Renata Sguario, Sarah Potekhen, Emily Ford, Jonelle Graziosi, Sara Jane Ho, Chef Michelle Sohan, Marie Diamond, Lenka Latonska, Valerie Jones, and a rare double conversation with Simon Sinek and Seth Godin.

You’ll gain clarity on what’s holding you back, inspiration to move forward with confidence, and insight into how to make meaningful change in your life in the coming year.

Join us as we revisit the moments that shaped this year, reconnect with the ideas that sparked breakthroughs, and set the foundation for your next relaunch and your richest life yet.

Renata Sguario's Social Media:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/renata-sguario-b91b661/

https://www.maxme.com.au/

Sarah Potekhen's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/energizeyourbliss/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarahpotekhen/

Emily Ford's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/itsemily/

https://www.facebook.com/itsemilymethod/

https://meetemilyford.com/my-story/

https://www.youtube.com/c/ITSEMILYFORD

Jonelle Graziosi's Social Media:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonelle-graziosi-61a30326

Sara Jane Ho's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/sarajaneho/?hl=en

Michelle Sohan's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/weddingsbytreatz/?hl=en

https://www.facebook.com/michelle.sohan/

Marie Diamond's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/mariediamondofficial/

https://www.mariediamond.com/

https://www.facebook.com/mariediamondfans

https://www.youtube.com/@mariediamondofficial

Lenka Lutonska's Social Media:

https://www.facebook.com/Lutonska/

https://www.instagram.com/lenkalutonska/

Valerie Jones's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/thevaleriejones/?hl=en

Seth Godin's Links:

https://www.instagram.com/sethgodin/

https://web.facebook.com/sethgodin/

Simon Sinek's Links:

https://www.instagram.com/simonsinek/

https://web.facebook.com/simonsinek/

Connect with Hilary:

Website: https://www.therelaunch.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilarydecesare/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheReLaunchCo

Interested in being a guest on the ReLaunch Podcast or booking Hilary as a guest? Email us at [email protected]

Find Us on Your Favorite Podcast App – https://the-silver-lined-relaunch.captivate.fm/listen

Caitlin Sarian, the ‘Cybersecurity Girl’, built one of the fastest growing digital safety communities on the internet. After nearly a decade in corporate cybersecurity at places like EY, global law firms, and TikTok, she walked away from everything familiar and has built brands that have impacted over 2 million people worldwide.

Today, Caitlin joins me to talk about the emotional and practical sides of staying safe online. She shares why many smart people still fall for online scams and the 4 major mistakes you need to avoid to make sure you don’t lose all your money online.

We dive into mistakes most people make with passwords, why public Wi-Fi can put your private life at risk, and the major red flag almost everyone overlooks before clicking a link. Caitlin also breaks down the simple habits that will instantly make you safer online.

The conversation also goes into identity, confidence, and being visible in today’s world. Caitlin talks about the shift that helped her step into who she really is and what it means to trust yourself again after years of chasing people’s expectations.

Join us today as we talk about online safety, the psychology behind scams, exposure to social media, self-trust, and what you must do to be secure in your digital and private life.

Caitlin Sarian's Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/cybersecuritygirl/

Connect with Hilary:

Website: https://www.therelaunch.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hilarydecesare/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheReLaunchCo

Interested in being a guest on the ReLaunch Podcast or booking Hilary as a guest? Email us at [email protected]

Find Us on Your Favorite Podcast App – https://the-silver-lined-relaunch.captivate.fm/listen