Relax with Meditation

 

What is the most important goal I wish to accomplish?
Think about it seriously. Is it positive, constructive, and creative? 
Chasing goals that are not meaningful is a waste of time. Instead, focus on enjoying your life and accepting the things you believe need to change. Look for the good in everything.
In your mind, imagine that you have already accomplished your goal. Feel what it is like to have it.
How will it change your lifestyle?
Project it. Visualize having it right now in your current reality, not in a distant reality.
Go into meditation. Within your imagination, create a short scene where you have now achieved what you want.
Use your senses and feel what it is like to have accomplished it. 
Start taking meaningful steps to achieve your goal. Take small, manageable steps toward your objective.
Always remember why you want to accomplish your goal so that you remain motivated.
Have patience; don’t rush. The more you force something, the harder it becomes to achieve.
The more relaxed you are while working toward your goal, the easier it will be!
You need to be relaxed to be creative.
Often, we must change our path, or we may fail because we haven’t learned the necessary things to achieve our dreams.
Keep going, regardless of what happens.


My Video: Ask Yourself https://youtu.be/CEdTF6AUMbMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Ask-Yourself.mp3

 Our passions are connected with our sexuality …So older we grow and specific after the male or female menopause a big part of our passions disappear… and so our sexuality.

Our religious Leaders/ Saints, Gurus who are old saying that passions are evil… Because they are jealous. How much sexuality remains after 60 years? Not much!!!!
And the youngsters think that they have to scarify their passions, love, and sexuality for Religion!!!
But why has God given us our passions and sexuality?
Because we should deny or abuse them?
Our passions and our passionate love can work for us … 
We can kill with a knife, or we can cut vegetables … it depends what we make with the knife and so with our passions!
The greatest art, the greatest love, the most significant inventions, the greatest human beings were born out of passions.
Still, also the worst acts like killing, tortures happened out of passions. 
If we have passions, we can utilize them. 
And what is bad on sex? That the old guys are jealous! 
Why should we care for the jealousy of other people… That is their problem…Maybe, these old guys were scared to live their sexuality, and now it is too late! 
In ancient time lived the king Jada Bharata in India.He denied all of his passions and was always calm and controlled. He never was indulged in any emotional encounter… So that his citizen admired him as a Saint.
When the time for dying came, the king renounced the world and went in the jungle to prepare his death… He meditated and doing spiritual exercises the entire day. He ate what he could find in the jungle without harming any being. One day, a deer came to drink water nearby where the royal sage was meditating. At the same moment, a lion roared at a little distance off. The deer was so terrified that she, without satisfying her thirst, made a big jump to cross the river. The deer was pregnant, and suddenly gave birth to a little fawn, and immediately after she fell dead.
The king rescued the fawn and nurtured the fawn… After some time he got involved and in love with the fawn. Day and night, he cared for the fawn and forgot his worship to God…Then he died, and his last thought was on the fawn… So that he became a deer his next life… 
The whole story shows us that we should live our passions when we are young. Suppression of our passions and sexuality never works out. When we live our passions and sexuality, we find peace in our lives and can think happily on God. 
  
My Video: Be Passionate or die! https://youtu.be/LUFDUWaiubYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Be-Passionate-or-die.mp3

 I have seen a movie clip about that, and it was not true.The author thinks that we take drugs because we don’t live in a perfect world.First, we live in a perfect world!Second, we are not white mice! The white mice will choose drugs when being alone, too fewer exercises, bad food …
For instance, in Krabi/Thailand, 1.) one of the most beautiful places in the world, 2.) with excellent food, 3.) great selection of spas and recreation, 4.) even with a good variety of beautiful sexy girls, Ladyboys and all of these to a low price… Still, you see the tourists taking all kind of drugs and that quite a lot… 
What are the real causes of addiction:
1.) Suppressed negative feelings and traumas2.) Fear3.) To have problems4.) Depression/Frustration5.) Anger 6.) Sadness7.) Unhappiness8.) Not enough sex or not to share your sex with a sex-partner. 9.) No sense in living, a mission is missing.
Only if we eliminate the cause of addiction, we can get rid of an addiction.
Most of all addicted people are just only changing their addiction instead to get rid of the addiction! And that is science proofed. 
You can’t really improve anything when you don’t change the cause or reason through that the problem is caused!!!
For instance: If somebody is overweighted, he should ask why he overeats, exercises too less or lives an unhealthy lifestyle! Next step change your life that you don’t need to live an unhealthy lifestyle.Last step: Live a healthy lifestyle.


My Video: What causes Addiction? https://youtu.be/bXvhkMpxe4kMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-causes-Addiction.mp3

 Looks very controversial but it works…
A female computer scientist analyzed online dating at OkCupid from 10 Millions of daters.
She analyzed all of the successful dating conversations between 2013 and 2018: 
1.) 61% of conversations take place between an older man and a younger woman, and in almost half of them, the age gap is at least five years older. 
2.) The older-woman-younger-man combo is significantly rarer (appearing in less than one-third of all conversations), and in only 12% of these is the woman at least five years older.
3.) Men start 80% of conversations on OkCupid, and they tend to message younger women. The older men get the women, so younger the women are 
4.) Women, on the other hand, message and respond most often to men about their own age. Once they reach 35, women actually respond more often to younger guys. But because men are usually the conversation starters, the older-man-younger-woman paradigm prevails.


5.)But when women message men, they’re actually more likely to get a response from younger men than they are from older ones. A 40-year-old woman will have better luck messaging a 25-year-old man (60% reply rate)   than a 55-year-old one (36% reply rate), according to the data. And a 30-year-old man is more likely to respond to a message from a 50-year-old woman than to a message from any other age group. When women make the first move, the age gap dating norm is reversed.
For instance: Trevor, a 28-year-old mathematician,  “Well to be honest,” said Trevor, “I usually go for older women. They have more interesting jobs and hobbies, and their profiles are just better… no stupid selfie-only profiles.”
For instance me. I had a tough life and very strenuous study with awful health problems. Until 25 years I was a virgin… 
And the dating with women didn’t work out.
So I have made the group Sexual Awareness in the Bhagwan/Osho scene… And then I was together with a 50 years old teacher who had already 4 kids in the same age as me… So what, she wanted sex like crazy, and I was capable ..,, And the relationship was very relaxed or the most relaxed relationship I ever had with a woman… 
There are a lot of those 50-year-old women who really clean up with the 20-year-old dudes. To be fair, very few 50-year-old women (fewer than 1%) actually message men this young, but when they do, they kill it.  In an interview, Cindy Gallop, the 57-year-old founder of MakeLoveNotPorn.com who openly champions the benefits of women dating younger men. 

My Video: Older women should date younger men! https://youtu.be/QJg89MdItxkMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Older-women-should-date-younger-men.mp3

 

The Struggle of Unopened DoorsWe often knock on doors that refuse to open.We push, strive, and insist we know where we need to be.But when opportunities slip away, prayers seem unanswered, or life takes unexpected turns, frustration creeps in. Doubt whispers, "Is God even listening?"
Truth: God is not ignoring you. He is protecting you.
Why God Says "Wait" or "No"Imagine a baby reaching for a flame or a sharp knife. A loving parent intervenes—even as the child protests, unaware of the danger avoided.
So it is with God.We think we know what’s best, but He sees what we cannot:
Which doors lead to blessings.
Which paths end in destruction.If a door remains closed, there is a reason.
The Purpose of Divine DelaysProtection
What we think we want could harm us.
Preparation
God’s "not yet" means "You’re not ready yet."
Something Greater
His plans exceed our limited vision (Isaiah 55:9).
Example:Recall a time when life veered "off course"—only to later reveal a better path you’d never have chosen.
Discerning God’s DoorsNot every open door is from Him. Some are:
Tests of faith.
Traps disguised as opportunities.
Lessons in patience.
God’s doors come with:✔ Peace, not confusion.✔ Alignment with His Word, not compromise.✔ Growth, not destruction.
Ask before stepping forward:"Lord, is this from You?" —Then wait for His answer.
The Power of WaitingWe idolize speed, but God operates beyond time.
His delays are not denials.
Waiting is preparation.
Use the pause to:
Grow closer to Him.
Strengthen your faith.
Avoid battles you’re not meant to fight.
Promise:When God opens the right door, no one can shut it (Revelation 3:8).
A Call to TrustWill you surrender your timeline, your will, your expectations?His timing is perfect.His plans are good.His love is certain.
"Be still, and know that I am God." (Psalm 46:10)


My Video: God Is in Control https://youtu.be/hr-VDbyoI3gMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/God-Is-in-Control.mp3

 I have seen a short video about that. -The women said it is enough to do everything at best and contribute to the world, to make the world better…
This is not enough!
Imagine you are in a football team and your team like to visit a cave close to your area…After you enter the cave, it starts to rain, and you cannot go out anymore. The cave is flooded, and you try to find a dry place. You wait 14 days until you get rescued… 
What to do in the meantime????
Meditation!!!
I want to remember at these amazing Cave rescue in Chiang Rai/Thailand on the 11July 2018.

My question is Why?
Regardless of what we are doing, we need a spiritual place inside of ourselves that is outside of our situation. 
Because we never, never can find lasting peace in our worldly doing.
The world is for accomplishment and not designed for peace.
Even the greatest worldly love is very unharmonious.
We can only find Peace In Mind inside of our True Self or in God, or in Meditation!!!
The greatest gift is to be connected with God and to surrender our lives to God.
The next best is to find peace in mind through meditation.
If you chase only worldly things, you are an inferior being…
Because you never will have a spiritual place where you can find peace in mind.
In Scotland was the famous spiritual community FINDHORN founded from previous officers… 
Sounds weird…?
Because during WWII these officers found peace in mind on the battlefield!They saw the Light of God in their most dangerous situations! And after WWII they founded Findhorn!! 

You can even be very successful like Dr. Patrick Liew and believe in God as a Chinese. That is not a contradiction!!!
And that proves Dr. Patrick Liew. Today Dr. Patrick Liew’s agenda is to help other people in emergencies, in poverties and to become rich and successful.
If you develop faith in God, you are one of the wealthiest Person in the Galaxy… And you will find peace in God like the founders of Findhorn. Without deep faith in God, we can only find peace in mind with meditation… 
I embrace God and meditate! Both are better! 

 
My Video: How to find Peace in your mind? https://youtu.be/AdMrJU37ja8My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-find-Peace-in-your-mind.mp3

 And that again and again and again….
Regardless of how often we get hurt…
At the end of the day, we fulfill with love our heart desires ….
It doesn’t make sense to read and see a love story or to hear love songs;- if we use them as surrogate compensation for our loveless life.
And that I see everywhere.
When I was a disciple of Bhagwan, we were encouraged to live the love, to open our heart and to love;- instead of to live partnerships.
Because God is Love and Love is God!
When we are in Love, we open up our heart not only for our darling also for God.
In love, we are closer to God… 
I was an atheist coming out of a traditional atheist family, and I was never baptized in any Religion…
Today, God is my focus, because of my deep tantric Love to a Girl.
We both made Tantra and opened so to the divine or for me to God…
I never have thought that….
And after this dramatic love story, I had many other love stories, and even again the same happened to another darling of me… 
She loved me and then her heart opened, and she got connected to God…
Should I stop love women, even at my age (60)? Or is not my love to God enough?
Or should I be serious and don’t be in that madness of Love?
Is not this madness of love the best purifier of our soul?
In love, all of our hidden demons are coming up, and we get such a hard time.
Our lover doesn’t hurt us, the unhealed emotional wounds of our childhood are hurting us. 
When we feel our unhealed emotional wounds our emotional wounds will heal.
What is bad with falling in love?
That we are too cowardly and too comfortable!!


My Video: Don’t be afraid to fall in love https://youtu.be/d-t2fqHtIBoMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Don’t-be-afraid-to-fall-in-love.mp3

 

History repeats itself, first as tragedy, second as farce.
The only antidote to mental suffering is physical pain.
Social progress can be measured by the social position of the female sex.
Workers of the world unite; you have nothing to lose but your chains.
The production of too many useful things results in too many useless people.
The rich will do anything for the poor but get off their backs. 
If anything is certain, it is that I myself am not a Marxist. 
The theory of Communism may be summed up in one sentence: Abolish all private property.
Anyone who knows anything of history knows that great social changes are impossible without feminine upheaval. Social progress can be measured exactly by the social position of the fair sex, the ugly ones included.
The ruling ideas of each age have ever been the ideas of its ruling class.
Revolutions are the locomotives of history.
Democracy is the road to socialism.
Capital is reckless of the health or length of life of the laborer, unless under compulsion from society.
Landlords, like all other men, love to reap where they never sowed.
Medicine heals doubts as well as diseases.


My Video:  Karl Marx quotes https://youtu.be/7zgSAMfKP1cMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Karl-Marx-quotes.mp3

 Everybody, be it your sweet girlfriend, boyfriend, cat or dog want to control you… 
We all want more power…
Even we like to live in a monastery peacefully there are always people who want to overpower us and to mislead us…
The only solution looks like to live alone and close the door of negative influence…
This is not working because we still need some help, food, shelter…
Somebody should take power and serve the people instead to exploit the people… 
Then this power struggle would have a happy end.
My strategies to get rid of the power struggle and bring your power back are:(All of my Strategies should be only applied when they are noncriminal, legitimate and ethical)
1.) Go out of this terrible situation… Better alone than together with somebody who wants to control you!
2.) Be like the “The Godfather” (Novel written by Mario Puzo). When it gets seriously be cool. The best fighters are always calm and fearless!!!Say what you desire, regardless if the other guy doesn’t like that…Don’t say anything more, don’t discuss …. (that makes you weak) Don’t become personal.And then act without mercy to get your power back… This works because you didn’t disclosure your strategies to get what you want. 
3.) Learn JudoBe weak.Wait that the other person is attacking you. Use the power of the attacker and lead his/her power to bring him/her so to fall… 
For instance: Your parents abuse you. You agree that you are the worst child… You ask your parents why they have educated you to be the worst child. Bad parents raising up bad children!!! Because the kids adapt to the parent's behavior and education. 
4.) Learn Aikido…Wait that the other person is attacking you.Follow the other guy in every movement (you agree to everything)…And then change the direction of his/her movement and get him down… (change the direction and overpower him/her)
For instance:Your chief is attacking you that you have failed, that you are so bad… You agree to everything (calm him down). You tell him next time you will make it better (change the direction).You tell him that you had the problems: That you misunderstood him (communication failure), that the resources were missing…




My Video: Life is a power struggle https://youtu.be/EspLz4fnB-MMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Life-is-a-power-struggle.mp3

1.) Unprocessed raw food is usually the best. Because it lifts up your body and spirit.
If you don’t believe that, just eat only for one day raw:  fruits, salad or vegetables. Don’t eat any seeds, kernels.
You will recognize how light your body feels and meditation is so much better. The feelings will be more intense, and the spiritual energy is going natural upwards.
Besides that, fermented vegetables should eat everybody.  Because we need Probiotic in our food. 
We don’t need so much protein, - Baby milk has only 1.5% protein and in Tomatoes are 3% protein, in Bananas are more than 10% protein. Animal proteins should be avoided.
But not everybody can eat only raw, because everybody is different.  
 2.) The next best is vegetarian food without industrially processed food, cheese, eggs. 
How to become a vegan? 
You have enough time to become better and better. Never set yourself under pressure with a better diet if you don’t have to. 
Fighting for a healthier lifestyle is creating so much tension inside of your body/mind that the change will harm more than to benefit your body.
Change in Baby-steps and accept your failures. 
Look for a group with the same goals.
What is the worst food?
1.) White sugar and all kind of artificial sugar. White Sugar is a nightmare for the body, it is even worse than smoking, and promotes cancer and diabetes. Instead, sweeten your dishes with honey, brown sugar, coconut sugar, Xylitol or maple-syrup. 2.) Avoid preservatives and pesticides; they are at most in meat and fish products.3.) Alcohol, like wine, beer. With liquor, you lose too much energy; you can’t focus …. 4.) White flour is garbage!! - No Nutrition! White flour keeps your energy in your digestion system. The body is dealing with white flour like with white sugar. It promotes diabetes.5.) Margarine and industrially processed oil are so worse; they clog the veins, make you fat and promote diabetes.  6.) All kind of fried food.7.) Meat, fish.8.) Dairy products. Asian people (not like Indo) can’t digest cow milk, because they don’t have the genes to digest cow milk. Only Kefir or Yogurt can be eaten from people who are used on cow milk. Through the Probiotic in Kefir and Yogurt, the animal protein doesn’t harm anymore. 
My Video: What food is spiritual acceptable?   https://youtu.be/GWWIKRKOIXMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-food-is-spiritual-acceptable.mp3