Relax with Meditation

 As a man, I describe that men are different… And women misinterpret us… 
 1.)  A man is rather more mind orientated and a women more heart orientated…   Problem-solving makes him feel good! Logic makes him feel good! Being mind-oriented makes him want to fix. It's just how he relates to the world.
A man can not fix the emotions of his spouse. The emotions of females are even scary for men.  
Solution: feel your emotions, let your feelings come and go; without disturbing your partner with your feelings. 
Nobody can understand with the mind emotions nor can you explain why you have at this moment this feeling… In any case who cares. Feel your emotions and let them go. Many men may not understand the strong emotional reaction of their spouse. Still, he wants to help. To the same time, he can not help… That makes him feel overwhelmed…
Women should not explain why they feel so, just say it is enough if you are close to me and be silent…   until the emotions are over. 


2.) Men pull away from women in a close relationship because they like to be independent and autonomous. They need their space to define themselves. Women pull away because they feel negative emotions, got hurt….  And when the man pulls away, they think that they have done something wrong… 
The Females needs intimacy, and if the man pulls away they feel hurt… And they can’t understand that men don’t need so much intimacy … 
Let the man separates for a while so that he can recover and feel love again… Many men hate when women always act like a sling plant… they need their space!
3.) Men like to provide to make women happy …
And he likes to give without to get pressed or to fulfill her desires. 
And the women like to organize and don’t want to give the room for free giving … 
For instance, my father liked to give as a surprise something, and my mother wanted rather more that he is delivering exactly what she wants…
Give more space to the man; otherwise, he doesn’t like to be the provider anymore or to function for his spouse! 
Remember, a man feels competent by doing. A woman feels loved by being taken care of.
If you want your relationship run smoother, give up some control and let a man start doing things for you. Everyone will be much happier as a result.
My Video: How to deal with men in relationships? https://youtu.be/ew6LxVTLJp0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-deal-with-men-in-relationships.mp3

 

No one can be good for long if goodness is not in demand.
Don't be afraid of death so much as an inadequate life.
Because things are the way they are, things will not stay the way they are.
Grub first, then ethics.
He who laughs has not yet heard the bad news.
War is like love; it always finds a way.
People remain what they are even if their faces fall apart.
Why be a man when you can be a success?
Everyone chases after happiness, not noticing that happiness is right at their heels.
What's breaking into a bank compared with founding a bank?
The law was made for one thing alone, for the exploitation of those who don't understand it, or are prevented by naked misery from obeying it.
Whenever there are great virtues, it's a sure sign something's wrong.
Intelligence is not to make no mistakes, but quickly to see how to make them good.
To live means to finesse the processes to which one is subjugated.
From the cradle to the coffin underwear comes first.
People are too durable, that's their main trouble. They can do too much to themselves, they last too long.
Poverty makes you wise but it's a curse.Poverty makes you sad as well as wise.
Unhappy the land that is in need of heroes.
The finest plans have always been spoiled by the littleness of them that should carry them out. Even emperors can't do it all by themselves.
There are many elements to a campaign. Leadership is number one. Everything else is number two.
The world of knowledge takes a crazy turn when teachers themselves are taught to learn.
Don't tell me peace has broken out.

 Imagine you are a baby and your mother force you not to cry.Do you think that this will work?
Imagine you do positive thinking and force yourself to be positive… Do you think that this will work? 
And both is the same!
Express your negative emotions, don’t suppress them! The Feelings are creating thoughts. It is only a one-way road, science proofed! Thoughts can’t create emotions!
There exist no great Actor or Singer who doesn’t express their feelings on the stage totally!What is then bad on emotions? 
People who never have studied psychology have created positive thinking… 
The side effects of positive thinking are devastating diseases… and that is good for the doctors…  
And always, in the end, it proves that Freud, Jung, Adler, and Reich had been right…
We have to remove our negative suppressed feelings and traumas to change ourselves. 
Otherwise our traumas, suppressed feelings will sabotage our success or outcome…
What is inside is outside, every obstacle that we face outside is created through our psychology and that have proved at least Freud, Jung, Adler, and Reich … 
And there is no way around it… 
Freud had used Hypnosis, and still, it is not good enough? 
The today Hypnosis is done with positive thinking and NLP… And so the Hypnosis is not efficient anymore! How stupid because the Positive thinkers have done so!!!! 
For instance, if I make a Hypnosis Mp3 and hear it every night before I sleep for at least 30 days. I can change a lot with releasing of my negative suppressed feelings… even I am not aware of it!… 
And then I attract the things that I need without forcing anything… 
Life is simple, or we make it difficult! 
For instance, I was in the Male Menopause and had huge sexual problems; I didn’t like to have sex… 
What to do? 
Hypnosis. Here is a part of my Hypnosis script (I am a certified Hypnotist)
Relax and relax more and more.
Remember and feel that you have failed in the bed. Remember these devastating moments and let them go.You have 1 minute time.
Remember and feel your fears of being together with an unknown woman in the bed… And let them go.You have 1 minute.
Think of any moralities that prevent you from having sex with any women. And let them go.You have 1 minute.
Forget all of your bad experience in the bed together with a woman.
Relax and relax more. Notice how relaxed you are right now.
Remember the beautiful moments when you had sex with so different women, and you had no problem. 
Remember for 2 minutes those moments.……
It goes on and on, and I address later all of my sexual problems…
Life is simple or we make it difficult!
I hope this will help You!!! 

My Video: You can’t force it! https://youtu.be/1zDVtmTDyMwMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/You-can’t-force-it.mp3

 When you do not like your work, make two lists. One list should be of what you like about your work, and the other list should be what you do not want. Also, think about what you can afford while working at this job. 
Choose one or two tasks you do not want and focus on how to make them good and fun in the next months. 
Check the reason why you do not like these tasks. If your idea or attitude is wrong, then change them. Maybe you see these tasks from a mistaken viewpoint. Ask friends to help you to improve your opinion about these tasks to become happy through these tasks. 
Check your mindset about these tasks until you are happy and fulfilled through these tasks, and you have accomplished your goal. See the good in everything, or do you prefer to suffer? One boss said to me, ‘What you cannot or do not like, you have to do this to become better.’ He said, ‘I know you have problems with phoning that you’ll need to call me about, so I give you my extension when I am not at my desk.’  Unfortunately, I had two chiefs, and the other manager made the same. So then I had to make for them the phone calls and even had to decide for them. I learned a lot.

We have our happiness in our hands!
If we have boring work to do, we can do a meditation out of them or just relax. Stressful jobs are challenging us to remain relaxed and focused.
We can solve problems with colleagues if we change the way we talk to and approach them. There are many books for dealing with difficult people. We can learn so much and even have fun trying out the different strategies to deal with difficult people.
Stupid people cultivate their weakness, sorrow, and ego, while wise people eliminate their weakness, pain, and ego.
Even if I am qualified, I should be able to make any type of work without any complaints. Life shows us again and again how fast we can slip down and have to start again with a simple task to make money.
I remember my time at the ashram. Nobody liked to wash the dishes after midnight. Imagine pots and dishes from over twenty thousand people. Nevertheless, we always had a group of people for this task. One time, it had been three professors, one doctor, and me. The group chose me as the supervisor; this meant I had more to do than the others did. Imagine a room, 300 square foot, filled with pots and dishes. We did this chore without hesitation or complaint. For everyone, it was just very natural to do this chore.

My Video: How to make your work fun? https://youtu.be/CzYpspYnM3IMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-make-your-work-fun.mp3

 

Learning vs. Acquisition: 
What Matters More? 
1. Learning (Conscious Knowledge):
Rules, grammar, and vocabulary studied deliberately.
Example: Memorizing verb conjugations from a textbook.
2. Acquisition (Subconscious Knowledge):
Internalized language you use without thinking (like your native tongue).
Example: Speaking fluently in conversations.
Science says: Focus on acquisition—it’s how we naturally master languages.
How Acquisition WorksComes from understanding messages in context.
Requires comprehensible input (language slightly above your level but mostly understandable).
Why Apps Often Fail?Most apps teach through:
Repetition without real-world application.
Translation-based drills (inefficient).
Better alternatives:
Online teachers who speak only the target language (no translation).
Tools like Pimsleur that prompt direct responses in the language.
The Baby Method: Learn Like a Native SpeakerChildren acquire language by:
Listening to slow, clear speech paired with visual context (e.g., pointing to an apple while saying "apple").
Focusing on meaning—not grammar rules.
Absorbing stories and real-world interactions.
Key Insight:
Grammar is acquired subconsciously through exposure, not memorization.
Example: You learned English grammar by reading books, not studying textbooks.
Grammar: Stop "Learning" ItProblem: Explicit grammar study doesn’t lead to fluency.
Students forget rules when speaking.
Mistakes persist because the brain prioritizes meaning over correctness.
Solution:
Get comprehensible input (95% understandable content).
Grammar sticks automatically when you focus on messages, not rules.
Vocabulary: Ditch FlashcardsWords are acquired:
Incidentally: Through reading/listening to engaging content.
Incrementally: By inferring meaning from context.
Example:
Read a sentence with 1–2 unknown words.
Guess the meaning from context or ask for clarification.
Result: Vocabulary enters your subconscious effortlessly.
Actionable Steps to FluencyPrioritize input over output: Listen/read before speaking.
Choose compelling content (interesting podcasts, books, shows).
Seek "i+1" input (slightly challenging but mostly comprehensible).
Avoid translation—think directly in the target language.
Embrace mistakes—they’re part of acquisition.
Key TakeawaysAcquisition > Learning: Fluency comes from understanding, not memorization.
Babies are the model: Focus on meaning, not rules.
Input matters most: Engage with content you mostly understand.
Patience pays off: Grammar and vocabulary emerge naturally.
Final Tip: Spend 80% of your time on comprehensible input (reading/listening) and 20% on speaking/writing.
Why This WorksBacked by Stephen Krashen’s Input Hypothesis (language acquisition theory).
Mimics how humans naturally learn first languages.
Proven by polyglots and immersion-based programs.

My Video: How to REALLY Learn Languages https://youtu.be/R_w4YfMkCPgMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/How-to-REALLY-Learn-Languages.mp3

 We want love, and we go to the wrong people and suffer. Or we choose the wrong moment and get a slap in our face…. 
Why do we act in such a stupid way? I have seen many times, when I was not open for a new love story I became the target of girls… And the same I have done by myself… 
So cooler I am so more attractive? Seems so? 
Maybe we need this slap in our face? If we run behind women/men, they run away, because they recognize our intention… If we need their love, how can these people produce this love?
On the other hand, we want much more than love… our body wants sex, our emotions intimacy…  If we need love, we should give us first love…. If we love ourselves, we are attractive to the others… 
The same story is when we are attracted to people, who don’t care for us. - We try to get attention from them or even to make many things for them to be attractive by them. 
It is different if we are desperate and people like to help us because they have compassion for us. 
Maybe, quite a lot of people loves/likes us, and we ignore them even they are doing a lot for us… Why are they not attractive to us? Why do we run after people to get rejected who don’t care for us…? 
Life is too short to waste a single second with anyone who doesn’t appreciate or value us. The second best strategy that brings us great suffering is that we want everybody loves us.Maybe this is still alive from our babyhood… 
A healthy baby knows already to which people it should go to get love and attention, the other people it will omit. 
Different people like different people, it is impossible to be loved by everybody. My previous Guru Bhagwan said, for every friend I make, I get a new enemy - after the law of polarity. 
The wisdom of Buddha is, to be friendly and kind to everybody without having any relationship.  Because a relationship is sorrow (Buddha). 
If we selflessly love and serve everybody, we are beyond worldly matters… and even we get beaten up, we create out of every arrow a bunch of roses (Buddha). When we get a slap in our right side of our face, we should turn our face and beg for the next slap on our left side face… (Jesus). 
Great quotes by the Religions to exploit the people!!! Life is different!First, Love yourself.  You are the most import person in your life!

My Video: Why suffer when We want love? https://youtu.be/RmnOlz6e7UAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-suffer-when-We-want-love.mp3

 Why is it so important to be prepared and to live in the here and now? And this is even true for an army….
“No plan of operations extends with certainty beyond the first encounter with the enemy's main strength"  Quote from the greatest Army strategist: Graf Moltke. 
If we are not prepared for new situations, we can fail. For instance an examination, a speech over an unknown subject for an auditorium… 
When we are well prepared to face that situation, we often fail. Because we want to apply all that we have prepared for.  Instead to look at what is needed to do. 
For instance, if we listen to discussions, we realize that very often the people do not listen but speak… and the results are lousy… 
We should act according to the situation and not as we want… 
And this is true for every area of our life.
This means that we are well prepared, and when we in the situation, we forget every plan and do what the best is. 
The situation is bigger than our preparation because there are so many components that we can’t calculate. 
And this is the meaning of the quote “No plan of operations extends with certainty beyond the first encounter with the enemy's main strength" from the genie Graf Moltke. 
Without preparation, we can’t get the outcome. It is too time-consuming to speak about details in a subject, where the people have too less knowledge. 
Everybody should be prepared, or we can’t go into details.
It looks like common sense and common sense is not common practice.  
My Video: Preparation is a must but adapt to the situation. https://youtu.be/CW2n5_FRSm4My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Preparation-is-a-must-but-adapt-to-the-situation..mp3

 Or what makes diseases disappear?As a logical thinking person I have learned before I can solve any problem I need to know: 
1.) The “Why?”  2.) Or what has caused that problem?
Makes sense?! For Western Medicine, this approach is not true!!!!Western Medicine is fighting the symptoms instead to find out the reason for those diseases.
What you fight you will empower!
Today we know that all the Cancer treatments are less successful than no treatment and not to say the patient that he has cancer.
If you convince a healthy person that he is terminal ill, then the likelihood that this person will die soon is nearly 100%... 
That have tried out already the Greeks in ancient’s time. The emperor said to the captured soldiers, within a half year we will give you poison so that you die… Within one week every soldier was dead even without providing any poison. The emperor has done this experiment 3 times, and it always worked to 100%.  
Fear is the best poison!!!! 
If you address the causes of the diseases, then you heal the diseases…
If you find out for instance through shift work, you got ill…(Shift work is one of the worst that you can do to your body….)Change the work to regular work, and you get cured.
The problem is to find the causes of diseases, and that is many times very difficult!
And even it is mostly a combination for instance of an unhealthy Lifestyle and suppressed negative feelings.


Chronicle diseases are caused by:
1.) Suppression of feelings, traumas, fear, anger, 2.) Unhealthy Food,- Junk food, meat, industrially processed food, dairy products.3.) Too much Stress.4.) Too less Sleep, for instance not to sleep at night with shift work. 5.) A lack of Physical Activity6.) Gut Health. Leaky Gut will destroy your whole body!!!! The Gut needs probiotic every day and gets damaged through Gluten and acid food like meat… 7.) Infections.8.) Environmental Toxins.9.) Too less Sunlight.10.) Side-effects of Medicaments
70% of the chronicle diseases are caused by the wrong food!
Thomas Edison said:The doctor of the future will no longer treat the human frame with drugs, but rather will cure and prevent disease with nutrition.
Even I got all of these correct, with Qigong and Acupressure I got my health.
My Video: What causes chronicle diseases? https://youtu.be/R_w6mSxYLwYMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-causes-chronicle-diseases.mp3

 We read in the newspaper or on the internet much news about science, what they have found out and after some time, it is proven that the publication was wrong. Do you know that a new science publication after three to five years is outdated or ninety percent false?
A long time ago, people thought the earth was a disk, but that has been proven wrong by scientists. Scientists have also verified that a bumblebee cannot fly. In Robert M. Pirsig’s bestselling book, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, he explained how short living is today a science publication, so that we can’t trust anymore what scientists are publishing.
Previously, we believed in Religion and today in science.  So we all need something that we can believe in. Our minds want for everything to be one hundred percent proven, and even if we have evidence, after some time the doubts come again. The main problem is that we are so over intellectual that we need verification for everything and we can’t trust anymore our heart. So we got the proofs from science, and then we had our faith in something that was real for us and not in the illusionary world of Religion.
Science became more and more unreliable. In the last twenty years, science proved that the religion scripture became true in very obscure facts like everything is God = Energy; levitation, telepathy, thoughts reading, miracle healing, living without oxygen under the soil for one year, materializing from things (telekinesis) through other spiritual people. And so the history of the Bible with Jesus got proof. The genesis of mankind is the weak point of all religion.
Religion became less reliable because religious leaders had manipulated Religion to misuse their power. If we see for instance the many wars between Protestant bishops and Catholic bishops or in India between different Hindu sects or in Tibet between different Buddhist sects… If you look at the hundreds of different versions of the Bible and compare them with the original Jewish versions, then you know how the Christians are manipulating their scriptures. The worst example is when the Christians burned women as witches and killed millions of innocent women and this in the name of God or love… Who can believe then in God anymore?
It is also true that Christians had abused science as evil and suppressed it in the Middle Ages.
In the 20th century, science became arrogant and omnipotent. What Western science could not understand could not be true; this is similar to Religious thinking. Western medical science proved for instance that Chinese healing is not working. What was the reason? This was very simple jealousy. Beware of this thinking by our self.
I used to work as an engineer on a science project. I was very disappointed because I saw how superficial and imprecise my colleagues were. It was more critical for them to publish results than to have precise work. Also, I could see their results in connection with their sponsors. In other words, the sponsors were dictating the results of the science. And it only got worse. I wasn’t surprised when five years passed, and that science had failed. If we are open to new things, even without proof, we have much more opportunities in life.

My Video: Science - A Belief Or A Fact? https://youtu.be/kpHjJiUb79cMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Science--A-Belief-Or-A-Fact.mp3