Relax with Meditation

 Ninety percent of all women have their feelings and thoughts within a circle with one center. Ninety percent of all men have their feelings and thoughts within an ellipse with two centers—one center is to the feelings, and one center is for the thoughts. The men discriminate between feelings and thoughts and not so much the females. Women have connected many words with strong feelings, and men do not know this. 
For instance, a man is hurting his darling with some meaningless words. For him, it has been a joke, and for her it was awful. Such misinterpretations are very common between a couple.
An example: A husband read the news about Thailand with a violent demonstration and some death toll. His comment: ‘These idiots… first, they smile, and then they are beating each other to death.’ His wife thinks, How rude my husband is. He loves that these peaceful, kindly, and smiling people died.
In a new love relationship, any communication can lead to a dispute. Be careful if you speak. Through our feelings to our darling, we often misinterpret what our lover has said. 

The best communication rule is to be in body contact with each other (for instance, holding the hands) and always looking in the eyes if we are talking. We only say the essential, so there’s a smaller risk of a misinterpretation. We can be together and enjoy each other in silence.  And please avoid speaking in the car when your spouse is driving, because you can’t see your partner in your eyes and you don’t have body contact with your partner.
The next communication problem is that women want different things than men.

For instance: A quote from the book  “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.”
A man should tell a woman:
Tell me more…Yes, it is so hard (compassion).I will go with you together through it. (Women need a partner) 
A woman should tell a man:
Can you help me? (Men want to be the problem solver)Yes, you are so smart. (Men want to be smart)Let’s get naked


My Video: Why does communication fail between woman and man? https://youtu.be/TmWRdD8a-a0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-does-communication-fail-between-woman-and-man.mp3

 

(Universal Wisdom Inspired by Billy Graham)
Society tells us: “Go to school, get a job, retire safely.”But security doesn’t come from a paycheck—that’s not the Divine Plan.
1. Chase Purpose. - Not MoneyYou weren’t born to look for a job—you were born to fulfill a sacred assignment.
“Seek first the kingdom of God (or Higher Purpose), and all you need will follow.”
Temporary pursuits (careers, wealth) leave us restless. Eternal callings bring fulfillment.
2. Divine Provision Over Human DependenceIf God sustains the birds and the wild, why doubt your own needs will be met?
This isn’t about avoiding work—it’s about working as worship, not slavery.
Work is the channel; God/Source is the supply.
3. From Survival to SignificanceWhen you align labor with purpose:
Work stops being a burden and becomes a blessing.
You wake up to make a difference, not just a living.
Money-focused work breeds frustration. Purpose-driven work creates joy.
4. Faith Over FearI’ve faced bankruptcy three times—yet grace always opened new doors.
Modern society trusts paychecks more than Providence. No wonder stress reigns.
Lose a job? God prepares something greater.
5. The Invitation“Seek the Sacred first. All else follows.”
You were designed to create, build, and produce—not just consume.
Today, ask:
Am I working for survival… or for my soul’s mission?
My Video: Lost in Life? Rediscover Your Divine Purpose https://youtu.be/Y1mkT-19hHQMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Lost-in-Life-Rediscover-Your-Divine-Purpose.mp3

 Adapt to the situation instead of to follow blinds rules.
Don’t be a philosopher surrender to the rules of the market/society. -  Osho
Because you can’t teach the people to follow your rules. 
See these so NOBLE moralities/rules/principles from Countries which are making one war after the next or have been destroyed and are ruled from their enemies… 
Do you really think that these principles are working everywhere/every time?
These positive rules are working SOMETIMES.  
For instance, When I was 10 years ago in Brasilia, in the night, I was attacked on the beach from 5 young guys same size/strength like me with a pistol… 
Do good; - be kind to everybody…?
Do you think that these principles would have worked out? 
What I should do in this situation?
I threw myself to the ground and were kicking with my feet and boxing with my hands… Moral Apostle: “Oh, How cruel are you, how can you hurt these guys?” 
Then Devi Kali was coming to me entered my body and transformed me into a fighting machine… 
Moral Apostle: “How awful, Kali is evil, there doesn’t exist a form of God…!! That is nonsense… !!”
Within 10 seconds, I jumped up, kicked away the pistol and attacked the next guy to the same time I was screaming… The guys ran for their life, I behind them ready to kill them….
Moral Apostle: “How Cruel? How could you do so … ?” I am ready to do it again!!!! 
If you understand this story, 
1.) life is not peaceful, 3.) we have to fight, 2.) we have also to use every emotion to get things done… 3.) wars are necessary to erase the wicked people and the negative suppressed feelings of the society.
You can transform somebody to be a better guy when you scare him/her. 
In Myanmar 20 years ago, you could put your money purse on the street and nobody would steal it and there had been no drug addicted person…. Because the communist government killed every criminal and Junkie.
Don’t spoil the people with your kindness and loveliness. - Sri Aurobindo
Look around you and see how the kids got spoiled through their lovely parents… So that the kids, (later adults) can not stick to any rule. These kids are dishonest, weak or live in Tamas… 
Nice behaviors can make people bad…
Adapt to the situation, even it is so difficult. 
And to think when you have done it good for other people that the people will remember that will rarely happen.
Ungrateful is the world reward. (Bible)  
You do good to other people because you want to serve God. And God will reward that. To be good can be also to punish people until they don’t do the crime again!!!

My Video: Adapt to the situation https://youtu.be/5VTxLe5NVu0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Adapt-to-the-situation.mp3

 A new research done by the Mayo Clinic gives evidence:
Poor Diet and Lack of exercise impact how quickly we age… 
The study starts with our cell grow…
Our Cell grow will diminish under too much stress or damage through: 
1.) chemicals in our food, 2.) medicaments, 3.) vaccinations, or 4.) Junk food.
When the cells grow stops our cells try their best to recover and to repair themselves.
If this is not possible the cells will die or will stay in a dormant state, called senescence. These senescence cells will no longer divide into new cells, their function will deteriorate. And this will lead to age-related diseases and premature aging.
The Mayo Clinic gave either the mice a healthy diet or a fast food diet.The mice on a fast food diet gained 300% more fat mass and senescence cells than the other mice within 4 months.
What happens when half of the mice were given an exercise wheel of both groups  with a healthy and unhealthy diet.
The fast food mice could recover with exercise wheel, lost a big portion of their fat and were protected against the accumulation of senescent cells.   
The healthy diet mice benefited also from the exercise wheel…

For people who don’t like body exercise:
If you understand even a mouse is smarter than you when given her an exercise wheel she will exercise. 
Because she knows how body exercise will:
1.) contribute to better health, 2.) longevity, 3.) more energy,4.) better sex,5.) better physical,6.) and to feel and think better.
We should change our attitude from to should to live a healthy lifestyle to a must to live a healthy lifestyle!!!!
When I was a kid I saw our neighbors running every day regardless of what weather … And then I saw my father suffering from many diseases …. I thought I don’t want to end like him!!!
There is no choice!!!!  
My Video: Is your lifestyle aging you? https://youtu.be/aJwTgf1Nfr0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Is-your-lifestyle-aging-you.mp3

 When I remembered one of the greatest Marketing experts in the world, Joel Bauer -Joel Bauer’s strategy is to build up an intimacy with his auditorium… He disclosures his worst moments, his recent done mistakes …   
And it works!
Everywhere, we see sitting couples without sharing their intimacy, with covering up their vulnerability and TO BE COOL!
This never works!
For what we are together when we don’t want to share our feelings or our vulnerability?The reason is we don’t like to get hurt. And at the same time, we are longing for intimacy.
Love and romance songs/movies are selling well. 
Love without sharing our vulnerability and emotions will never work!
When we see the interviews from the new movie “A star is born”, featured Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper we experience so much intimacy with this team… Just through sharing with honesty how they have done this movie.
And this intimacy happens rarely.
For what is good our shows and bragging? 
When Lady Gaga was asked about the movie she praised the team how awesome have been the team and how exciting it was. Instead to brag like Donald Trump how great she has done… She said how much she had learned, what honor and how precious it was to be a member of that team. 
With bragging, we lose so much to disclosure ourselves.  With playing cool we lose the contact with our environment.
Feelings sell and data tells.
This is a very old strategy of the best salespeople in the world. 
We are feeling beings that can think.
We can connect deeply only with our feelings.
How have you build up your friendships? 
How would it be to share your feelings today with one unknown person and with one well-known person?
Just be as honest like Lady Gaga in her interviews, don’t hold back. 
And then miracles will happen… 
My Video: Why Intimacy? https://youtu.be/7uZG-lYZJFAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Why-Intimacy.mp3

 

Finally, there is a remedy, even invented 100 years ago…
Called Phages bacterial treatment
What is Phage Therapy?Phages, formally known as bacteriophages, are viruses that solely kill and selectively target bacteria. They are the most common biological entities in nature and have been shown to effectively fight and destroy multi-drug resistant bacteria. Namely, when all antibiotics fail, phages still succeed in killing the bacteria and may save a life from an infection.
The phage virus needs a host where it can spread its eggs. The host is that specific bacteria that you want to kill. The phage virus injects its eggs inside that bacteria. The eggs grow to that phage virus and kill the bacteria… Thousands of new phage viruses search for the correct bacteria …  Imagine that… After a short time, all the bacteria are killed. 
The problem is to find the correct phage virus to kill that specific bacteria or even the Superbug. And that can be done because you find the phage virus everywhere… At least in garbage places or water filtering systems.  
The main concern for all of us now is the alarming rate of increasing 'superbugs' that are resistant to most — if not all — antibiotics, as well as the impact they will have on human health and the longevity of life. These issues, combined with a lack of regulation to approve the process of phage therapy for anything less than an absolute, no-alternative emergency, pose a serious concern for us. We hope that through our work here at PATH, we can make this treatment more widely available to save lives where no other treatments could.



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 And that we can read in the religious/mystical scriptures.
Maybe we need the world as a distraction?
No mystic could me explain why sex is not necessary, even we enjoy it…
And then comes their answer: Don’t enjoy worldly pleasures. 
So what, should we suffer when we have sex? 
I think we suffer when we have sex. At the same time, we enjoy it.  
Why should we not enjoy our sorrow?
Life is sorrow (Buddha) Amen…
Life is sorrow was the  Christian trueness until the fall of Constantinople. 
Still, it is true for all the other Religions.
Can we only experience bliss, divine love, God, Satchidananda, Samadhi, Satori when we renounce worldly pleasures?
This formula has never worked out … 
Regardless where I look the people love to suffer and look for reasons to suffer. The Religions deliver that suffering and the people want more… 
If we suffer, we experience our deep feelings. If we don’t have deeper emotions for a long time we long for sorrow…
The Religions give people a reason to suffer when they neglect worldly pleasures. 
And so the sorrow is meaningful instead to suffer just for some worldly pleasures.  
In any case, we have to suffer … 
The world and our worldly desires help us to discover the divine or our true self. 
If we see the world as an expression of the creator, then the world becomes meaningful.
What is inside is outside. What we see outside is always inside even more it starts inside.
How can we purify us if we don’t know what is inside of ourselves when we suppress our worldly desires/feelings/lust?


The world is a reflection of us and helps us to purify us from our negativity.

We can enter the spiritual realm when we:
1.) Deep relax.
2.) Have faith in God or our spiritual teacher.
3.) Make the right spiritual exercises at best and not just so….
4.) Go in the flow through body exercises.
5.) Total exhaust our body through sport, dancing, or spiritual exercises. 
6.) Try our best to get rid of our negative suppressed emotions and thoughts.

And this has nothing do do with “the world is a distraction”…
The spiritual realm is for everybody open!

My Video: The world is a distraction https://youtu.be/To783OX7xMAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/The-world-is-a-distraction.mp3

 This question should ask everybody themselves? 
1.) Can we socialize with Facebook?2.) Do we like to argue about specific questions?3.) Do we want to get approved?4.) Do we want to show how great we are doing and let out the rest?5.) Do we like to get entertained?6.) Do we use Facebook for distraction?7.) Do we want to find out what others are doing? 8.) Do we like to remain in contact without speaking and seeing the person?9.) Do we like to build up a huge network that never works when we need it? 10.) Do we like to get instant feedback for some pictures, notes, and messages? 11.) Do we like to get news?
We can use Facebook for ourselves when we need fast an answer.That we share our feelings, concerns, and opinions.
We can post a change of our status to have 
1.) a new our Job, 2.) to be engaged, 3.) married, 4.) separated, 5.) a friend died,6.) or to get a child. 
We get this message out and after a short time, it is forgotten. 
Still, we can get something meaningful out of it. When our FB friends reply we feel understood, feel to be on the same page. 
And this might be true for a single moment, afterward everybody is going on in his life.What was for us so important is forgotten fast. We really should connect physical with real friends and don’t think that posting on Facebook is enough. Isolation is the disease today and with Facebook, we can get much easier isolated.  
When I had trouble with my publisher, I could use my Facebook to blackmail my publisher to get what he promised to give me…
I could get a foreword for one of my books from an awesome famous person…
I could help to organize support for the earthquake in Nepal…
I got some inspirations.
I learned something.
We can use Facebook for our advance. 
   My Video: For what is Facebook? https://youtu.be/kHN7HjwoCb8My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/For-what-is-Facebook.mp3

 

By Ken Honda, the money guru from Japan…
Ken Honda believes that we should appreciate money more and discuss it more positively as “happy money” that we have received.
When we judge money negatively, we tend to attract less of it.
I participated in his program and donated happy money to the healer Williams Nonog, and somehow I was able to generate more happy money in the stock market.
I also began to support my gambling-addicted girlfriend, and as a result, I started worrying less about money. Even better, I found myself making more happy money on the stock market again.
It’s truly magical! The more money I contributed, the more I was able to make!
Ask yourself:
Is your money happy?
What negative beliefs about money did you internalize as a child?
What experiences of happy money do you remember receiving from your parents or grandparents when you were young?
The problem is that there’s so much happy money in our lives that we often fail to appreciate it because we are overwhelmed by the stress of trying to have enough money.
What great experiences have you gained by spending your happy money on adventures and travel?
The difference between Europe/North America and Japan is that the Japanese can easily discuss how much money they make or spend—and how much they have.
In the USA and Europe, it’s often taboo to talk about our finances. While I think it’s okay to some extent—because it can lead to jealousy and attract dishonest individuals—it still causes us to miss out on open conversations about money.
In Japan, people are less attached to money than in the Western world. In the West, we often equate money with personal value.
So, does having more money mean we are better people? Is a good character connected to wealth?
As a child, I was repulsed by the idea that a person could only be considered good if they were wealthy.
If a couple can’t discuss how much money they have or earn, it’s often too late to prevent major financial problems. Couples should talk about money issues before larger problems arise.
Our emotions are tied to money, making it difficult to find solutions to our financial problems. We can’t make money in the stock market if we are greedy or anxious.
If you can’t save money, you will never feel like you have enough!
I was able to save happy money even during my worst times, and I have been bankrupt three times. For me, being bankrupt is no longer scary.
Relax about money and stop worrying…
This means you don’t need to spend or save excessively. You should aim to save at least 10% of your income each month.
If we are financially successful but our relationships fall apart and our health declines, what kind of wealth is that?
We should live a happy life, and if we sacrifice our happiness, health, and relationships for money, what kind of person does that make us? 
A good life is about how well we feel about ourselves!
How much money is enough? Do I really need that better car to be happy? 
It will never work out if we depend on luxury and material possessions for our happiness. We can lead a happy life even when we are poor.
I lived for over 20 years below the social minimum, and I was happy and fulfilled.
How much do we contribute to making the world a better place? Do we serve others?
If we do, we will attract more money.
How about invisible assets, like love, friendships, generosity, happiness, and kindness? Don’t these invisible assets contribute much more to a fulfilled life than luxury or visible assets?
My Video:  I AM WEALTHY https://youtu.be/--b5ZPiXcxUMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/I-AM-WEALTHY.mp3

 Life has neither a meaning nor no meaning (Osho).
If we see our life…
We get born into a family that we didn’t choose and get educated through them, that we didn’t like and learned a skill to make money… 
And then our sexual desires awake and we want: 
1.) To enjoy our sexuality with a deep love, -maybe our happiest moments in life.2.) We marry and get kids, have to earn enough money and suffer through that.4.) Most of the people get a job that they don’t like and even earn too less money.3.) After the kids are grown up and leave us we suffer through aging, diseases, loneliness, and too less money.
Krishna said worldly happiness is in the beginning Paradise and then Hell … I agree.Krishna said religious happiness (Satchitananda) is in the beginning Hell and then Paradise. I totally disagree… 
Hazard Inayat Khan said: When the inner path doesn’t lead to more happiness, you have done it wrong or you have chosen the wrong path!
We all have a biological clock ticking inside of us that is determining our psycho and life.If we distract from our biological mission, (sex, worldly love, kids …) we have to suffer.After we pass by, we can’t live our worldly desires. We become spirits who can just watch and never participate in the world again. 
The philosophy, religion, and spirituality have tried to give our life a focus, purpose, mission or meaning.
Most of the philosophers have failed in their own life. Even they have given us a good direction, they could not live it by themselves… Their philosophy is only partially working. Because everybody is different and need to go his/her own path.
Even we give our life a mission, to become that expert, star, … It is not enough. For instance, most of these great stars were drug addicted, took suicide, died early on cancer and heart attack.  The great experts suffer so much because:
1.) They never have enough success, money, attention, fame…2.) They are too focused on their goals.3.) They don’t care about their health, fitness, families, kids, friends, and religion.
I think, a philosophy regardless how good can’t give our life a fulfilling meaning.We need a connection to God or to our spirituality that gives us happiness.
Goethe: The true happiness is the inner happiness that is independent of worldly matters.   The Religions were created to market God/Moksha/Paradise/Enlightenment to exploit the people. 
The good spiritual paths (Sufis, Taoists, Yogis, Free Mansions…) were created to give our life a meaning. 
We find through the inner path: 1.) the peace of mind, 2.) to enjoy bliss, 3.) and spiritual happiness without chasing worldly matters. 
We don’t need:1.) to prove anything, 2.) to accomplish anything, 3.) and to get attention/ love from anybody… 
We learn to have compassion and love for others without to get love from them. 
With the focus to serve God and humanity, we get what we want. 
We can’t find lasting happiness/love through the worldly matters because worldly matters increase our Ego. And Ego is sorrow. 
Selfishness will lead to more sorrow. And it is true that we need also to live our selfish desires. We have to balance our spiritual path with our worldly desires.

Can we change our spiritual path?
Pir Vilayat Inayat Khan said change your spiritual masters so often as it is necessary. Everybody is different and not everything is fitting to us at every moment in our life. 
  My Video: The Meaning of Life https://youtu.be/6r8zoEJNb78My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/The-Meaning-of-Life.mp3