Even you think bad about me… Still, I like to motivate you to become an egoist… Be open to that!
1. How can you love others if you don’t love yourself?
2. If we don’t value ourselves, how can we value other people?  3. If we don’t appreciate ourselves, how can we appreciate other people?
4. If we don’t compliment ourselves how can we compliment other people?
5. If we are not honest with ourselves, how can we honest with other people?
6. If we don’t adore ourselves, how can we adore other people?
7. If we are not kind to ourselves, how can we be kind to other people?
8. When we do not appreciate and thankful for what we have accomplished in our life, how can we appreciate and thankful to other people?
9. When we can’t forgive ourselves for our failures, mistakes, how can we forgive other people?
10. If we see ourselves as negative or as a failure… then we will see also the other people negative!
11. If we see ourselves as successful, then we can also appreciate other people's success.  
12. When you don’t do what you like, how can you appreciate when people do what they like?
13. When we are jealous about things that other people do, why we don’t do them by ourselves?
14. When we don’t tolerate ourselves, what we are, then we never tolerate and accept other people! Because every person has to fit in our template or Jail… How is it if we break out of our Jail, that we have constructed by ourselves?
15. When we allow ourselves only to think positive, how can we accept other people's negativity, or even speak to them? After the law of polarity, if there is something negative then there must be the same amount something positive… regardless of what we think we are cached in the prison of polarity… There is only one solution: to accept and welcome everything and then the thinking will stop… The problem is judging… 

What is bad to think first on ourselves? 
My Video: The Art to be an egoist! https://youtu.be/QFLpWRBaH9oMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/The-Art-to-be-an-egoist.mp3

 

How can intelligent, educated people fervently believe demonstrable falsehoods simply because a leader—a known liar, cheat, and failed opportunist—declares them? We all recognize the type: the charismatic demagogue who sells dreams but delivers only betrayal.
Common sense ceases to function when it’s not applied. Yet so many suspend critical thinking to embrace blatant nonsense. Why?
The Cult of the Chronic LiarBlind faith in pathological dishonesty isn’t just irrational—it’s tribal.
People don’t follow such leaders despite the lies but because of them. The lies are loyalty tests.
To question the leader is to betray the tribe. This is how cults operate—whether political or religious.
The High Cost of Independent ThoughtI’ve paid for my skepticism:
Spiritual groups (like Osho’s) were accused of “brainwashing,” yet they encouraged more critical thinking than mainstream society. The irony? It’s the masses who are truly brainwashed.
Politics everywhere is a rigged duopoly:
Germany’s CDU/SPD, America’s Democrats/Republicans, Britain’s Labour/Tories—all serve the same masters: wealth and war.
Every new U.S. president starts 2 wars on average; every system funnels money upward while pretending to debate “left vs. right.”
Why Don’t "Smart" People See This?Cowardice
Most fear isolation more than deception. It’s safer to chant slogans than to stand alone.
Comfort in Illusion
Believing “your side” is virtuous—despite identical outcomes—is easier than admitting the game is fixed.
Manufactured Division
The elite want us fighting over pronouns or tax cuts while they loot the treasury.
Democracy? Or Theater of Compliance?We call this system “democracy,” but it’s really a rotation of masks on the same face. The majority choose their own oppressors because:
Critical thinking is punished (bullying, ostracism).
Conformity is rewarded (social approval, false belonging).
The curse of awareness is loneliness. But the alternative—complicity in collective delusion—is far worse.


My Video:  What is happening  https://youtu.be/Qv0K8gaYrGIMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/What-is-happening.mp3

 Nearly 40 years ago, my friend and I were climbing in the Italian Dolomite… The Eldorado for mountain climbing and skying… 
It is so awesome and exciting to climb the vertical rock walls with a fixed steal robe… 
We climbed through the cave tunnels, constructed in WWI to kill the enemies… my grandfather was one of them… 
And then we climbed the Cristallo Cortina, slept on 3400m in an icy hut, and drinking tea… 
In the morning, we like to climb down….The first snow was coming down…
It was very slippery, slowly we climbed down… Suddenly the weather changed, and it was snowing like crazy… For that, the Dolomite is famous, that from a blue sky, the weather can change to snowing within 15 minutes…
Still, we kept climbing … the massive rock wall was very steep and also the track … we had to go along this wall, the path was 50cm wide, and you could look directly down 500m, one small step wrong … your life is over…
And then an avalanche dropped down, the path was destroyed, and we are desperate…. My Grandfather, a great mountain climber, died through that! 
We were pressing our body against the rock, not to get hit by an avalanche… It was terrible…
My friend said we have only one chance to climb immediately up to the hut… That means 3 hours up… We returned and tried our best to go up as fast as possible without risking to slip down ….
After 2 hours, I got the infamous mountain sickness … I didn’t mention anything, and I was climbing in a total trance, one step after the next… I knew I had the power to overcome everything… Don’t care, just go… Even I was getting so dizzy that I puke, my heart was pounding like crazy…
The last 500m was the worst … My friend saw me and said stop, you have to go down immediately… Never, I can’t … we reached the hut, and I cried… and could not stop crying, it was too much… Quite a lot of mountaineers were sitting in front of the door, and I was crying, and it was so humiliating… They didn’t care, many accidents happened … 
2days ago, we had celebrated our 2.5-hour climb of the big 1000m wall, it was a record… even done by people from a flat area…  now I was crying and mountain sick…
The defeat can come every moment in our life without any warning… Be prepared, and bragging makes everything worse!


My Video: Episode 6, remain humble https://youtu.be/i0J0uGRgEfoMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Episode-6-remain-humble.mp3

 The 3 most important thing for a long-lasting marriage is:
Money: If an overspender is together with a saver…. The marriage is finished… 
Communication: For every intimacy relationship we need to address honestly our problems and to look honestly for a solution… Every couple needs to speak openly overall kind of relationship problems… Otherwise it will not last…
SexIf sex is not working out then one partner starts to cheat…This means both have to fulfill the sexual desires of each other…
What else?
If you are together with a spouse that doesn’t like the parents …If your boyfriend or girlfriend doesn’t have a lovely relationship with his mother or her father … You will get the same… This means, check whether your boyfriend or girlfriend has a lovely relationship to his mother or her father… If yes, you will get the same if you act accordingly … Look. That they love and respect their parents! After the 75 years research of Harvard University, people with a loving relationship are the happiest, have the best health, and most extended longevity.

Intimacy means you should be vulnerable.  Both should be honest, share their positive as negative emotions. Otherwise, you don’t have an intimacy relationship…
Without total honesty no relationship will work out long-term. 
Both should be loyal in every aspect.
Trust: So more, you trust each other, so better is the relationship.
A couple who can’t enjoy silence can’t enjoy their time!
Forgiveness is a must… If you recognize that your partner doesn’t forgive you and even is blackmailing you with a bad consciousness, separate… With B. S people we don’t want to be together!

A female has to respect his boyfriend and will never expose him in front of other people… Otherwise let her go because every person needs that!
Selfish love doesn’t work out… You don’t want to be together with somebody who is egocentric, like most of all artists… At the end of the day, if you don’t fulfill every desire they treat you badly…. 
You deserve more….
People who love to take selfies everywhere are unable to love! They look for attention, let these creepy guys go… 
Party girls and Gold diggers can’t match a good relationship… For sex they might be good because they remain what they are and will not change to a loyal, trustworthy person! 

My Video: What is the must for a spouse…https://youtu.be/1IO0-A5BlhQ.My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/What-is-the-must-for-a-spouse…..mp3

 

(Based on Chris Lonsdale’s TEDx Talk)
Debunking 2 MythsYou don’t need "talent."
Immersion abroad isn’t required.
"A drowning man can’t learn to swim." Forced immersion without support causes stress, not fluency.
The 5 Principles of Rapid Language AcquisitionRelevance is Key
Focus on content that matters to you (e.g., job, hobbies, survival phrases).
Example: A chef prioritizes kitchen vocabulary over sports terms.
Use It Immediately.
Communicate from Day 1, like a child.
Tool analogy: You master a hammer by hammering, not studying manuals.
Comprehension Before Perfection
Understand messages first → subconscious acquisition follows.
"Comprehensible input" (listening/reading slightly above your level) is the engine.
Physiological Training
Language is muscle memory. Train your mouth/ears to recognize and produce sounds.
Example: Mimic native speakers’ facial movements to nail pronunciation.
Psych State Matters
Learn best when happy, curious, and tolerant of ambiguity.
Rule: Embrace not understanding every word. Focus on what you do grasp.
The 7 Actions to Fluency in 6 Months1. Brain SoakingListen to the language constantly (even passively).
Absorb rhythms, patterns, and repeated phrases.
2. Meaning FirstDecipher messages through context, tone, and body language (like babies do).
3. Mix & CreateCombine known words creatively (*10 verbs + 10 nouns = 1,000+ phrases*).
Example: Baby Okay "Me bath now" → communicates clearly despite "bad" grammar.
4. Master the CoreHigh-frequency words deliver 85% coverage (1,000 words) in most languages.
Week 1: Survival phrases ("What’s this?", "Repeat please").
Week 2: Pronouns + basics ("you," "give," "hot").
Week 4: "Glue" words ("but," "though").
5. Find a "Language Parent"A supportive speaker who:
Understands you without correcting mistakes.
Models correct language naturally.
Avoid: Critical spouses/teachers.
6. Copy the FaceObserve and mimic native speakers’ mouth/tongue movements to perfect sounds.
7. Direct ConnectionLink words to mental images/senses—not translations.
Example: "Fire" → smell smoke, hear crackling, see flames.
Ditch flashcards; build visceral associations.
Key TakeawaysPrioritize comprehension over grammar rules.
Speak immediately—perfection comes later.
Learn like a child: Playful, curious, and unafraid of mistakes.
Quality > quantity: 1,000 relevant words beat 5,000 random ones.
Final Tip: Spend 30+ minutes daily on comprehensible input (e.g., YouTube videos, simple books) + 15 minutes speaking.
Why This WorksBacked by language acquisition research (e.g., Stephen Krashen’s theories).
Mimics how humans learn first languages naturally.
Used by polyglots and military rapid-language programs.

My Video:  How to Learn Any Language in Six Months https://youtu.be/m_hgFPBnDFEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/How-to-Learn-Any-Language-in-Six-Months.mp3

 Fear is essential! 
Try out to go beyond your imaginations, rules, moralities and try out something entirely new.
Jimmy Rogers, the legendary hedge fund manager has done this again and again… Still, he was the most successful hedge fund manager… Maybe that is why!
We have imprisoned ourselves by our assumption, moralities… and can’t get what we want… 
Even we don’t know what we want…  
Life is too short to wait for that magic moment that everything will change in our favor…
But what is in our favor?
To get rich and successful and to function like a clock or better like the Movie “Clockwork Orange” (Stanley Kubrick) One of the greatest movies!
In this movie, they press the people to fit in the society for every price! 
But we don’t need that, we have done it already by ourselves and locked ourselves in a prison and threw away the key…
But where is the key… 
In a madhouse?  
I read now the roman “Veronika decides to die!” By the famous author Paulo Coelho
Veronika has only a few days to live after her suicide attempt … and she is in a madhouse… 
She discovers her genius talent as a pianist…
She goes beyond her sexual imaginations …
She tries out again and again what she never has tried out before…
And then she started to enjoy her life!!!!

We stop our thinking on the border of our morality…
Morality doesn't understand life... because it is a shortcut to rationalize…
What is beyond our self-imposed rules? 
I got as an Atheist from Bhagwan the spiritual name Ghanshyam. The Meaning is: “This is a name for God and to be unconditionally is an answer of God.”
So what, I experienced as an Atheist through a deep love with my darling God. We both applied the wild sexual Tantra and through that our heart opened to God…For sure, making love in the right way is the path to God… (Read, “The conference of the birds” by the greatest Sufi Atar) Where is love there is God!
I was abused for my wrong writing by my parents as dyslexia and stutterer … I could/can not learn German grammar… And I could not be creative…
Nearly all of my German girlfriend hindered me to speak out what I was thinking. When I forced them to stop their bad behavior and separated I became a creative writer and my stuttering stopped !!! 
Don’t let other people stop you, just leave them alone;- I do always so!!!
I was abused by my father (he was a great musician) for my inability to make music… Guess, I learned to make music on the Sitar, Keyboard, Tabla and singing! 
I suffered from incurable diseases and no doctor could heal them, even our so “great doctors”  killed me (clinical dead) two times … 
Today I am totally healthy because I cured my diseases by myself self and I don’t trust doctors!
A Sufi can keep every rule and break every rule…
Because every rule is a veil in front of God … We should go beyond our rules to discover God.
When a Phoenix dies he burns himself and a new Phoenix is born.
The old Phoenix has to die… until we burn our old ego with all of these rules, assumptions nothing new can happen to us!
So you don’t need to make suicide to discover what is beyond your imagination…
Life can be amazing so why not try out something entirely new? 

My Video: Hey babe, take a walk on the wild side… https://youtu.be/cJeOfBX0InkMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Hey-babe-take-a-walk-on-the-wild-side….mp3

Then miracles will happen. 
Why?  
If we know, what we are making wrong, only then we can change. This makes sense,… Mostly of all people think that they know themselves. 
Oscar Wild said I am by myself the greatest mystery… 
Actually, we don’t even know our self…  
And if we make mistakes then we blemish the other people…. 
In relationships, other people see us much better, than we see ourselves… Because we are blind by our mistakes, short longings, bad habits and …
I had a girlfriend in Munich and I was living in Bremen (800km distance). On a beautiful day in Munich, I visited her. Before that, I recognize that mainly all Munich citizens had been in a bad mood, because of the Foehn wind (the Foehn is changing the people's moods when they live in such area). 
I arrived and she was nagging on me like crazy, I could not bear that and escaped to the English Garden… After some time I realized, she was the embodiment of my inner child, that was nagging like her… 
I came back to her, and without saying anything; she said, that she had been stroked from a cognition, that she was treating me badly because of her bad mood… 
The Sufis are saying, that the spouse is a reflection of ourselves; so all that we see on bad habits, mistakes that we have also somehow inside of us…. 
The Saint Krishnamurty said, you are the world, what you see that you are. 
or Goethe said, your own sins you find first on other…  And it is really magic, if we recognize in the right moment our mistake then the outcome will change…. 
Self-knowledge is the first step for improvement….
My Video: Learn to criticize yourself! https://youtu.be/pLPlsI0df9wMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/Learn-to-criticize-yourself.mp3

 The very best learning course is Pimsleur (you get the CDs cheap from eBay, otherwise the app is expensive). Because you start to speak and memorize like a baby. All the other language courses like to copy the methods of Pimsleur but they are so lousy copies… And you need Flashcards that can speak like Flashcards deluxe (Android) to learn and memorize the pronunciation…

7 actions for rapid language acquisition 

Action #1  Listen a lot.  Called brain soaking… just hear very much from the language, if you don’t understand it doesn’t matter.
You are listening to the rhythms, to the patterns that repeat…
Action #2
Focus on getting the meaning First (before the words) use Body language.
From body language, you can understand a lot without hearing… 
Action #3
Start mixing it doesn’t have been perfect.Get creative, start mixing,… it just has to work.
If you have 10 verbs 10 nouns 10 adjectives, you can make 1000 possible phrases.
In English 1000 words give you 85% of the meaning, 3000 words give you 98% that you use in daily conversation.
Week 1 The toolbox in your new language
What is this?How do you say?I don’t understand.Repeat that, please.What does that mean?
Week 2-3
Pronouns, common verbs, adjectivesYou That MeGive Hot 
By week3 you should be saying things like:Simple pronouns, nouns, verbs
Week 4 
Glue words
But, and, even though, therefore, although
 
Action #5You get somebody interested in you as a person that is just like a parent for language, so that it is safe to speak, to make mistakes, so this person helps you to understand the message.
For instance: HelloTalk, HiNative,  Chat, Speak Learn Foreign language

How should the Language parent teach you a new language?
Try to understand what you are saying.Do not correct mistakes.Confirms understanding by using the correct language.Use words the learner knows.  Spouses are not very good at this…
Action #6
Copy the face
You have to get the right muscle to work so that you can sound in a way that other people understand you…

Action #7
Direct connect
Instead of repeating a word,  connect the word with an image for instance fire: you can see it, feel it smell it, hear it
My Video: How to learn a language in 6 months? https://youtu.be/6D-2V67L7t0My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-learn-a-language-in-6-months.mp3

 
Tinnitus—internal high-frequency sounds—can stem from neck tension. When neck muscles or shoulders compress arteries leading to your inner ear, it may trigger or worsen ringing. Test if it’s neck-related:
Stretch your neck. If the sound changes, your tinnitus is likely linked to tension.
Notice if symptoms fade when relaxed or in certain positions.
Alone when you repeat again and again, every day many times these Affirmations: Every day, my tinnitus is getting less and less.Every day, I ignore my Tinnitus more and more.Then the tinnitus is getting less. 
Don’t worry but accept your tinnitus, otherwise the tinnitus will get worse. 
6-Step Routine (Do 2x Daily)1. Earlobe Stress Point (1 min per side)Locate the depression directly behind your earlobe, near the jaw joint.
Open your mouth slightly; press the point with gentle circular motions.
2. "Hidden Cave" Pressure Point (1–2 min)Move two thumb-widths behind your earlobe to find a tender depression.
Press firmly with both thumbs and massage in slow circles.
3. Outer Ear Massage (1–2 min)Fold your ear forward. Press index and middle fingers against the back of your ear.
Slide fingers up and down, creating friction against the ear canal.
Release and observe the quietness that follows.
4. Neck Activation (8 reps)Rub downward from skull to shoulders with both hands.
Tap firmly along the same path until your neck feels warm.
5. Kidney/Lower Back Stimulation (8 reps)Vigorously rub and tap your lower back (over the kidneys) until the area is hot.
Purpose: Energizes circulation from lower back to head.
6. Neck Muscle ReleaseRotate head 45° right; massage the left front neck muscles (rub, tap).
Rotate head 45° left; repeat on the right front neck muscles.

Do Hypnotherapy For Treating Tinnitus - every day for 30 days.  For instance: Youtube:  Treating Tinnitus - Hypnotherapy, Suzanne Robichaud

My Video:  Best Relief for Neck-Related Tinnitus  https://youtu.be/VWM5EVltgwMMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast4/Best-Relief-for-Neck-Related-Tinnitus.mp3

 Imagine you want to serve the women…
All women love intercourse because we are biologically programmed to make kids.
When I was starting with dating, I attended the very best Tantra/sex groups with the best Therapists in the world… Because I wanted to learn to love women… And then I wanted to become the best lover in the world… 
For sure, I had the fortune to learn the best Tantra and Tao-love techniques … 
And, do you think if you have this attitude to love and serve women at best, that you will attract women? 
But, still, you have to open your heart and to be relaxed …. And for that is meditation… For every date, I was exercising my body and meditating at least 1 hour… 
I was imaging and feeling my fears of rejecting and failing… To get even more relaxed!
You can’t win a battle if you don’t be prepared for the worst. 
Did I got rejected, did I failed? 
Who cares… If you learn something, you win. 
Ask why she doesn’t like you, what you have done wrong! 
Most of the time, when I failed I had targeted the wrong women or at the wrong time… When I urgently wanted a girl, I always got rejected… Only when I was relaxed, I was successful.
Because I can’t serve a girl well when I need her! And the girl will recognize that… 
Approach women when you want to serve women. 
The women want a leader with confidence, a great lover, a guy that can seduce well… 
Be a man… The biological system of females is programmed to get a strong male for getting strong, healthy babies… 
The females long unconscious for a baby, and for that they need a man and not a weakling, softy, coward, … The women want to experience passionate love and a guy with purpose and a goal in his life!  Still, you need to be sensitive… The Tao says a man should be as strong as a woodcutter and sensible like a baby…  


My Video: How to seduce, part 7? https://youtu.be/qVxgFnswQjUMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.B/How-to-seduce-part-7.mp3